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"51" Yrs Young Had "1" "9 Pound 4oz" Baby - Suffering with Much Needed Breast Lifts. - Brooklyn, NY

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I have previously written but that's okay ! Lol !...

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EllenMarie2121
WORTH IT$8,400
I have previously written but that's okay ! Lol ! I will again ! - Hmmm; I have lots to say ; I've NEVER "let out" how I feel ~ ONLY to my "go to" - my BFF (my mom); Please bare with me; This is quite embarrassing "Yikes"! - I've been reading MANY stories & Thank U ALL for sharing .. I am "51" yrs YOUNG ; Lol ! But I am MISERABLE BEYOND WORDS ; Even looking at my sagging ugly "2 girls" my breasts. I ONLY take off my bra to shower ; My life has suffered dramatically (DON'T EVEN WANT TO START A RELATIONSHIP) BC I KNOW that once a man , takes "1" look - OMG ! So I don't date ! They were BEAUTIFUL until I had my "9 pd. 4 oz." baby boy. Since they have DEFLATED ; I've been LIVING in my bras. (I buy only the best looking bras) No one could EVER TELL how they ACTUALLY REALLY look ! It's gotten SOO bad ; & has a major effect on my VERY LOW (but secretive) self esteem . I Thank you ALL FOR ALLOWING ME TO SHARE MY STORY . Need to find a GREAT KIND Dr. (Wow ! Bc this is something I have suffered in silence with for WAY TOO LONG).... I apologize but I've NEVER taken ANY pictures of them .... But I WILL ....

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Ary Krau, MD, FACS

Ary Krau, MD, FACS

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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April 30, 2015
Thanks for sharing your story. I hope you find whatever support you need here at RealSelf and I'm so glad you've found us. How can we help?
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April 30, 2015
Yes - and sadly to say; I've kept "this" hidden - "Suffering tremendously in silence" ; FOREVER .... Until NOW. Idk if you're able to see my pics - My 1st time EVER ;Talking about this very SENSITIVE subject - NO LESS taking photos !! I'm NEED of a breast lift . And I am SO GLAD as well , feeling a bit relieved to have FINALLY "Let the cat outta the bag" MUCH SUPPORT NEEDED ! - Very fortunate to find "RealSelf" & Ive read hundreds before "stepping forward" . Wanting "pretty perky girls" like I had BEFORE pre pregnancy. Throughout my marriage ; I NEVER took off my bra . My (soon to be EX) husband KNEW how sensitive I was - Still he'd say Things knowing how & where "it hurt the most"... After FINALLY LEAVING ; "2 1/2 yrs ago"; I'm so THRILLED - on divorcing him ! And having my girls "re-done" ; I do deserve to have TRUE SELF HAPPINESS WITHIN ... SOOO READY FOR A BRAND NEW FRESH START !
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December 2, 2017
Wowwwww !!! So much has happened since I last wrote back in 2015 !!! And I think God that it’s all been great !!! God truly blessed me with a phenomenal sweet kind and a loving man who loves my girls as they are but he knows how unhappy I am with them . And he is supporting me and every way and will be right by my side. We have been together over a year now and yes I have found my soulmate !
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December 2, 2017
I know some of the girls on RealSelf have flown down to Miami to have the procedure and have stayed down with another nurse ??? Per say ? Hmmm .... I am two hours from Dr. Krau - Maybe a little less .... Is it true that I will be going back down to Miami for a post op ?! Am I going to have drain put in ? See? I need these questions answered and I never get a direct answer but I will ask the doctor I am a question person ! Hahahahaaaa !!! 1000,000%
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May 5, 2015
You'll find a great doctor !!
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May 5, 2015
You are beautiful and your boobies are beautiful pre surgery just as they will be post surgery. I'm so saddened to hear you have suffered such emotional distress because of this, work towards getting the surgery as it sounds like you will never love them the way they are but also work towards loving yourself. I have been where you are hated my breasts hated myself my body would have done anything to 'fix' them even if it meant risking my life I think I would have gambled it. I used to say I just wanted to cut 'them off' felt completly disconnected to my breasts, real hate. I no longer hate them, i can now have this surgery as I know I deserve to have perky boobies. So do you! I can do it level headed and not from a place of pain. I would recommend a book that helped me a lot Susan Jeffers feel the feel and do it any way. And also Louise hays you can heal your life. Sounds like you are making the right steps to take control of your life :) and is always good to have those ideas reaffirmed! Congratulations on your journey and be kind to yourself. Big love x
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May 8, 2015
Awe; Thank you SOO very much for understanding and "feeling me"! lol !! Your motivation has really inspired me - " Soo very Grateful" !! Can't WAIT TO SEE YOUR "BRAN NEW ASS KICKIN GIRLS" !!!!! YESSSSS !!! You are an AMAZING PERSON WHO DESERVES IT ALL !!!!
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December 2, 2017
I hope that you are still on RealSelf or at least keeping in touch , coming on every now and then to see how everyone is doing !!! I am so curious to whatever had went down with you !!!!! I am so hoping to hear from you and I hope you see my message ! God Bless & praying that you are the happiest you’ve ever been all good things baby we pray for a good things and only want the best for ourselves and our loved ones !!!!! ;))))
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December 3, 2017
Awwwweeee ! House very sweet of you to say this and I am hoping after two years that you are still on real self because I am halfway there I am hoping and praying that I get my brand new girls and thank you again I wish you all the health happiness luck and love in the world sweetheart !
August 6, 2016
If you don't want surgery look up Blums, Patchogue, NY just purchased new Wachola bra, great uplift !!!
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December 2, 2017
I want a exceptional phenomenal BL/BA PS down here in South Florida . If the doctor was unbelievably exceptional I would have the procedure done in NYC !!! :)))))))
August 6, 2016
Try Adam Schaffner in NYC. The Best reviews.
UPDATED FROM EllenMarie2121
2 years pre

Much needed Breast Lift

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May 4, 2015
It says location ; Brooklyn, New York - BUT I AM ALSO LOOKING IN BOCA RATON & FT. LAUDERDALE , FLORIDA !! But ONLY IF THE DR. SPECIALIZES IN BREAST LIFTS . And has "Top Notch" credentials & HIGHLY RECOMMENDED . ~ Can anyone help and/or share an opinion ?? This WOULD BE REALLY VERY HELPFUL in my RESEARCH ... Thank you dolls SOO MUCH !!
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June 1, 2015
Hello, I believe Dr. Krau meets your credentials, except for location, which is in Miami. I hope that isn't too far for you. In my opinion, sometimes you have to travel to find the best. Good luck with your search...
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June 1, 2015
I meant to say "meets your criteria" dang spell check!
August 5, 2016
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December 3, 2017
Look at those!! They are disgusting and not even considered a part of my body my girls and I don’t have a healthy relationship but I cover well wearing expensive push up underwire bras but the real truth is when the bra comes off my girls are still there just as you see them ... :(
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December 3, 2017
I am a 34B ; I think ! My breasts are like mush they stick out of the push-up bra I have to re-fix them as we would say so they would be proportioned nicely and I am 5’2” 115 pounds. If anyone has or had any breast lift or augmentations with Dr. Ary Krau; PLEASE reach out to me ....
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2 years pre

Doing Botox and Lip Fillers

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Was referred to Dr. Wendy Finklestein @ Spa Cosmetica in Coral Springs, Fl. - She didn't have before &rafter pics - Pretty much rushed me. "I" had to ask what type of fillers were done . She was just Alright- Know I can find a Dr. I'm HAPPIER with .

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December 2, 2017
I went to another doctor for my filler and Botox injections . It’s been almost 2 years and the pictures I’ve shown ; They really screwed up my cupids bow I made it way too far apart and my new Doctor Who did my fillers was patient and kind and explained everything in full detail, her and I sat for over an hour just talking and discussing and she explained everything from soup to nuts which I greatly appreciate it and of course needed !
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December 2, 2017
But for now I am giving it my all on my breast lift and augmentation . I have read everything and have done so much research on Dr. Ary Krau ; AND PRAYING I WON’T BE DISAPPOINTED ....