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25 Year Old - UK trim method
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Hello, this is my first post. Had my consultation...
annap89May 1, 2015
WORTH IT$2,950
Hello, this is my first post. Had my consultation yesterday and I am unbelievably excited about booking in for my procedure!
I first noticed that I was "different" down there when I was approximately 9 years old. Since then I have been conscious of it "hanging down" and keep having to tuck it away. Every time I became intimate with a guy I would cringe inwardly, where I would always try and cover up and make sure the lights were off! As I've grown up, and been with my wonderful boyfriend for 3 years it has bothered me less. I've gradually managed to open up and not hide myself down there. I figured, if he doesn't mind, why should I? However in the recent months I have started running, I have taken part in numerous runs and a half marathon. But I can't tell you how much my inner labia rubs on the tight clothing! It has got so bad that I'm having to cream up and use talc everyday and even have it in my bag. I feel so unfeminine having to make an excuse everywhere I go to go to the toilet to cream my hanging vagina lips!! We went on a bike ride 2 weeks ago, it was a beautiful sunny day with our children. We rode to a local ford where the children could have a paddle and we had a mini picnic. I was almost in tears with the pain I was in. I went into a bush and straightened myself out and my labia were actually stuck to my knickers due to soreness! I hadn't mentioned my problems to my boyfriend until this day. It felt like the last straw. Riding home I told him I was going to the doctors as I was getting really sore down below with the activities I have been doing. He is very laid back and calm about everything and just said ok don't worry we will get you sorted. Since then we have had discussions about me having a labiaplasty. I found this hard as I have never even mentioned my concerns! He told me that from his point of view, he doesn't mind, he said he had never even noticed even when we were first together and never actually stopped and thought, oh she's got big labia! This put me at great ease and made me feel much better. He also said its totally up to me what I do, as long as I am sure. He said if it makes you feel better in more ways than one then go for it! I presume he means the discomfort I am experiencing, and he has probably noticed that i insist the lights are off for sex! I am currently studying to be a student nurse, therefore ineligible for any finance and I do not have savings. He has said he will apply for finance so we can pay for this for me. After our bike ride, during the evening we went to have sex, but I couldn't as it felt like I had been burned down there! That was the last straw for me. I just rolled over and cried. I don't want to feel like that anymore, I can't wait to have sex with the lights on! And feel like I can show him all of me and be happy about it. (He's seen me before but still!) I can't wait to feel pretty down there, and not have something in the way. Since my labia has become sore I can always feel it, it makes me feel like there is something in my knickers that shouldn't be there! I'm hoping to have my procedure on the 24th June. As long as the dates around then are still available once we have the funds to book it. I'm literally counting the days! Feeling to scared to post a picture at the moment. Maybe nearer the time!
I first noticed that I was "different" down there when I was approximately 9 years old. Since then I have been conscious of it "hanging down" and keep having to tuck it away. Every time I became intimate with a guy I would cringe inwardly, where I would always try and cover up and make sure the lights were off! As I've grown up, and been with my wonderful boyfriend for 3 years it has bothered me less. I've gradually managed to open up and not hide myself down there. I figured, if he doesn't mind, why should I? However in the recent months I have started running, I have taken part in numerous runs and a half marathon. But I can't tell you how much my inner labia rubs on the tight clothing! It has got so bad that I'm having to cream up and use talc everyday and even have it in my bag. I feel so unfeminine having to make an excuse everywhere I go to go to the toilet to cream my hanging vagina lips!! We went on a bike ride 2 weeks ago, it was a beautiful sunny day with our children. We rode to a local ford where the children could have a paddle and we had a mini picnic. I was almost in tears with the pain I was in. I went into a bush and straightened myself out and my labia were actually stuck to my knickers due to soreness! I hadn't mentioned my problems to my boyfriend until this day. It felt like the last straw. Riding home I told him I was going to the doctors as I was getting really sore down below with the activities I have been doing. He is very laid back and calm about everything and just said ok don't worry we will get you sorted. Since then we have had discussions about me having a labiaplasty. I found this hard as I have never even mentioned my concerns! He told me that from his point of view, he doesn't mind, he said he had never even noticed even when we were first together and never actually stopped and thought, oh she's got big labia! This put me at great ease and made me feel much better. He also said its totally up to me what I do, as long as I am sure. He said if it makes you feel better in more ways than one then go for it! I presume he means the discomfort I am experiencing, and he has probably noticed that i insist the lights are off for sex! I am currently studying to be a student nurse, therefore ineligible for any finance and I do not have savings. He has said he will apply for finance so we can pay for this for me. After our bike ride, during the evening we went to have sex, but I couldn't as it felt like I had been burned down there! That was the last straw for me. I just rolled over and cried. I don't want to feel like that anymore, I can't wait to have sex with the lights on! And feel like I can show him all of me and be happy about it. (He's seen me before but still!) I can't wait to feel pretty down there, and not have something in the way. Since my labia has become sore I can always feel it, it makes me feel like there is something in my knickers that shouldn't be there! I'm hoping to have my procedure on the 24th June. As long as the dates around then are still available once we have the funds to book it. I'm literally counting the days! Feeling to scared to post a picture at the moment. Maybe nearer the time!
Replies (21)
May 15, 2015
That's a good price where is your doctor located?
May 15, 2015
It's £2950 and it's through the hospital group. There are clinics all over the UK. The one I am going to is Birmingham x
May 18, 2015
Eeeee so cheap mine was 3505 plus 150 consultation so unfair haha. But he was a reconstructive surgeon so may be why. Bet you're so excited aaaah cx
May 22, 2015
I've just booked mine in Plymouth and my cost is £1742. I don't understand why the price varies so much??
May 23, 2015
Good luck with your procedure. I'm booked in on 18th June so I'll let you know how I get on and hopefully put your mind at ease x
May 29, 2015
How come so cheap. Mine was 3505!? Vomit so expensive lol. Good luck in your op!
May 29, 2015
If you explain your discomfort to your obgyn they may help you. Mine is completely being covered by insurance! It's worth a try!
UPDATED FROM annap89
1 month pre
Booked in!
annap89May 15, 2015
Hello... I am officially booked in, deposit paid! 24th June! I even had a dream last night that I had my labiaplasty! I'm updating to post a "before" picture. Just a waiting game now till the big day. Might start stocking up on painkillers and ice packs ready.
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May 15, 2015
Aahhhh so exciting I love reading all these reviews. Completely understand why you want this done. I had the same problem and I use to get so so embarrassed during sex even though my boyfriend loved me how I was. I am now six weeks post op and feel so great ! Even had sex at 5 weeks post and I thought I would never see the day. Which by the way is actually better now there's less skin surrounding the area. I wish you all the best of luck and feel free to look at my photos of my journey. If you have any questions please do ask.
Ps things I reccomend post surgery
- water sprayer bottle to spray after going to the toilet
- painkillers like ibuprofen for swelling
- Ice packs ( god send )
And coconut oil to heal the scars after a the first week ! Xoxoox
May 15, 2015
Hello! I know I love reading all these stories too! I've always been self conscious of it and it's just habit now to keep myself hidden and lights off! I've had a peep through your photos. Fab result! I genuinely can't wait! I'm so excited! The only thing that worries me is that either too much skin is going to be left, or too much is taken away! Thankyou for the tips. It's good to know what's been tried and tested!! X
May 15, 2015
I can't wait to feel confident and actually feel "pretty" down there! I'm sure the confidence boost also does wonders in the bedroom! X
May 16, 2015
Yeah I know it's a hard choice ! I told my doctor I would rather have to little left than to much. Purely because I just desired that little slit look. Always hAve always will I don't know why it's just personal preference. But seeing people's result who still have labia left but are nice and shapely look great to. Just look at loads of after photos and decide what you want to get done :) it use t be habit for me to to hide mine and tuck it in god so embarrassing lol. The discomfort that came with it to. And the relief now ! Is amazing. Hope it all goes swimmingly For you zx
May 16, 2015
And yes better sex !!! I use to have a lot of skin Ariund my clit and now it's minimal so more stimulation. Use to struggle reaching orgasm before but now it's no problem haha!
May 16, 2015
I really struggle reaching orgasm due to the skin down there! Hopefully that will happen for me too then. Plus I will feel more relaxed hopefully!! X
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May 15, 2015
I think you will have beautiful results after! Your labia is just longer in that one place and I think once that's gone you will be soo much more comfortable! Good luck :)
May 15, 2015
Thankyou that's a lovely thing to say. Rather odd actually looking at a picture of myself down there! I generally don't look! Haha or the lights are off... I agree there that I have a "lump" which just needs snipping off... Hehe x
Hello :) I am so glad that you found us and decided to document your journey here, don't be shy to share photos, whenever you are ready is totally fine. Be sure to check in here as well and introduce yourself and possibly meet a recovery buddy. I am so sorry that you are experiencing such discomfort due to your labia, it's more common than you can imagine and I am glad that you reached out for help. Your boyfriend sounds wonderful, I am thrilled that you have his support through this. Which method of labiaplasty did you and your doctor decide on? Are you having a local or general anethetic? I thought you might find the following information helpful, and be sure to check out other videos available in our Video Library.
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I look forward to your updates, good luck!
I also had the trim under general. I have never heard of anyone staying the night after athis procedure, that's comforting for you. Going under can be scary, here is a video with some information about anesthesia:
I think it's great they are keeping you overnight. I would have loved that...not to scare you, but I will never forget the pain from that surgery. I felt fine after leaving the hospital, besides throwing up from the anesthetic ( I always do), my husband picked me up and I remember as I was getting into the car thinking "this is a breeze"! I got home...some time passed and the freezing wore off, and the pain set in. Be prepared when you look down below as I was terrified at what I saw, it looked as though I was mutilated. I cried so hard, and I was in so much pain. I took my pain meds and curled up in a fetal position rocking back and forth as my husband read to me trying to ease my pain. I iced the area, and wore loose clothing, and stayed off my feet. I ended up going back to work to early and tore a stitch, so you have to be very careful. Even after all the pain, I would do it again, it was totally worth it. Everybody has a different experience. Here is a link to my review, as well as some information to help you prepare:
HAVING A LABIAPLASTY SOON? HERE ARE 5 THINGS TO HELP YOU PREPARE FOR SURGERY