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I've never been happy with my prematurely sagging...

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MissIndigo
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I've never been happy with my prematurely sagging breasts and they have always been a private but constant source of embarrassment and discomfort for me. Social situations where less clothes are expected; trips the the beach, the swimming pool, wearing certain clothes- (dresses are a problem) and not to mention encounters with the opposite sex render me self-conscious and awkward.

I have been wrestling with this self loathing for nearly a decade, and I have considered having this operation for years but things have gotten in the way (namely college, university, and work) but it was only this year that I decided that I wanted it to happen.

I have told very few people (parents and close friends) and telling them was not easy- especially my mother. In the end I had to *show* her what I looked like under my bra and even she had no idea they were as droopy as they were. (A tad embarrassing for me to do.)


She has been invaluable to me in her support (I'm also going to be paying her back untill I'm 30!) and I am eternally grateful to her in the journey ahead.

My operation is set for the 19th of December (Remember- New Boobs are for life, not just for Christmas) and I can't believe how fast time has gone, and how much waiting I have left! I know I need to make the most of this time as I'm going to be pretty incapacitated afterwards (and yes I'm staying at my beloved mothers and shes looking after me.)

So as a newbie on this site if anyone has any pre-op tips or things I need to buy beforehand let me know. The fear hasn't kicked in yet- I'm sure I have that to come...

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December 7, 2012
I have a similar story to yours.....I remember even as a teen my boobs were never perky. I am now at a place in my life where I can afford it, and I also have an incredibly supportive husband. Long story short, my surgery is tomorrow at 0830, with a hospital report time of 0630. Surprisingly, I am very relaxed, which was certainly not the case even last week. I wish you the best of luck on your journey!
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December 7, 2012
Thanks for the comment-Good luck today! Let us know how it goes x
December 7, 2012
Hi, thanks for sharing your story! I am so similar to you, 27 and from Birmingham as well! Can I ask you which surgeon you're going with and how much it's costing? I've got a consultation with Mr Titley at Little Aston next Friday and I can't wait! Same as you, I've hated by boobs ever since I was a teenager and I figure that I might as well do something about them! Are you just having an uplift, or an uplift with implants? Good luck!
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December 7, 2012
Is that Birmingham UK? I'm actually from Cardiff in South Wales but I'm having the operation with Dr Seno with the Hospital Group. I'm having a breast uplift without implants- and all the operations cost the same; in total £5,195 (eeek!) My consultation was quite straightforward- let me know how it goes x
December 8, 2012
Yeah, Birmingham UK. I actually went to Cardiff for Uni, small world! What's making you come all the way to Birmingham for the surgery if you don't mind me asking? I hope it all goes well for you x
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December 8, 2012
Well they have clinics all over the country- and one in Cardiff but their private hospital is just outside of Birmingham- they do all their ops there. Just 11 days to go now- trying to get everything done beforehand so I can just relax. Have you had your consultation yet or is that next week? x
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11 days pre

The only thing off putting about having this...

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MissIndigo
The only thing off putting about having this operation is not the potential pain, discomfort and weeks of recovery but the probability that I won't be able to breastfeed. I've always wanted children someday and I've always wanted to breastfeed them as the benefits are so numerous there's too many to mention. (Not to mention the mother/child bonding.)

I wanted to hear from anyone who had a breastlift BEFORE having children and what their experience of it was- It differs from person to person of course but I'm curious to know whether any milk is produced at all- or it does but not enough. Don't spare the gory details!

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December 8, 2012
Hi there - I am exactly the same as you, disliked my breasts for aslong as I can remember, its mainly been an embarassing problem when it came to the 'opposite sex' and new relationships. I've just left a long and unhealthy relationship back in April so I thought there's no better time than now to develop the 'new me'. I have a 3 year old son, and I did breastfeed him but only for a few weeks. I had my surgery last Tuesday 27th November at King Edward VII's hospital in London. The whole procedure cost £6580, I had just the mastopexy. However a few days ago I noticed that there is a small infection, so it is vital to take antibiotics upon leaving hospital (I did and still got infection!), so I am now on stronger anti b's to clear it up quickly. Having said that, I am very pleased with the overall shape and position of my new breasts! And can't wait to be fully healed so I can start enjoying them! Recovery is a lot harder than I thought because you really must do 'nothing'. My surgeon has given me a bit of a telling off just for walking round the supermarket with my Mum. So you must take all the help you have on offer, and let your Mummy look after you. I too will be paying my Mum back until forever! I hope all goes well on the 19th!! My stitches are out on the 17th so I should finally be able to wash normally, and to start driving again. Please take it really easy! Oh and my surgeon reckons that I will still be able to breastfeed a little but you will need the assistance of 'formula milk' too, but giving your future baby the 'colustrum' which is the first bit of milk containing the most nutrients is best for a baby so even a little breastfeeding at the beginning will be so beneficial for the little one and you will bond with your baby no matter what. But less of that you've got some new boobies too enjoy first! :)
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December 8, 2012
Hi, this has really helped- its nice to hear fron someone in a similar boat so to speak. The next two weeks after the op are going to involve sitting, reading, and watching films- not looking forward to trying to sleep on my back (or are you meant to be propped up? ) thats good to hear about breast feeding- but of course that is a long way off yet! I just can't wait for the day when I'm with someone new, it gets to that stage, and I don't have to worry about him seeing my saggy boobs and feeling embaressed! Often saying 'let me keep my bra on' brings on a look of confusion, bewilderment and disappointment- like I've just broken their toy or taken their sweets.. 'But why...?' they ask. I never have a decent response lol
December 9, 2012
Sleeping propped up on some pillows is advisable. I've been using Nytol for a week after surgery to help me nod off with ease in that position as I normally sleep on my front or side. I know the feeling, I've been dodging showing my boobs to partners the whole of my adult life! They say men don't care they're just happy to have some boobies to play with but its about how the woman feels and if we're not confident then we'll never be happy, so hopefully this 'Op' will change all of that for us!
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December 9, 2012
I'll add nytol to my list of things to buy- thanks! As with guys and boobs, as much as I shouldn't let the 'media' pressure me into going under the knife- I can't help looking at the bombardment of images of women with beautiful breasts- in advertising, films, tv, magazines, you name it and think 'why can't I look like that?' despite all this I'm doing it for me- to improve my self of self esteem. I'm not aiming for perfection- just to have breasts I can be comfortable with x
December 9, 2012
I feel totally the same hun. I studied media and we covered that topic, I made a documentary on it at college too, and I even interviewed my surgeon! When you put it like that then yes it probably is images from the media, newspapers namely page 3, women in [RS bleep] (not that I watch it!)..that put us under this pressure, but actually when it comes down to the basics we are doing it for ourselves, and our own self confidence. You must be getting really excited now!! How long is your hospital stay? X
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December 9, 2012
I'm staying there for one night after the operation in the morning so its roughly going to be 2 days- then I'm staying over my parents for two weeks over Christmas and New Year (this will be the first new year where I'm not going out for about 9 years!) Put some picks up! It would be nice to see the results x
December 9, 2012
Still so scared of uploading pics of my breasts (I know I shouldn't be!) I can email you the before and after! But you have to bare in mind I'm less than 2 weeks post op so they're still bruised. Just looked at your list of things to buy, the hospital gave me AlOT of medication to take home, nearly a years supply of paracetamol, aswell as a big bottle of laxative, (you only need this when you're taking the strong painkillers because they cause constipation) but tbh I didn't feel that much pain so stopped the painkillers all together about a day after surgery, the anaesthetic will be whizzing round you for a week or so after surgery anyway so avoid painkillers unless you actually need them X I know me too its my birthday on weds, won't be doing a lot! And nothing on xmas eve or NYE either! But totally worth it! X
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December 9, 2012
Happy Birthday for Wednesday! I'll send you my email in a private message- I won't get any meds if thats the case- just the herbal stuff (arnica etc) x
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December 10, 2012
OH yes, happy early birthday!!#
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December 8, 2012
Hi MissIndigo. Welcome to the site. I'm having an ultimate breast lift the 27th, so right behind you. It'd be nice to have someone to share in the experience with. Who are you going to? As far as breast feeding I've known plenty of woman who still breast fed after some sort of breast sx. Discuss it with your PS & see what (s)he feels. Good luck with sx.
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December 8, 2012
Is an ultimate breast lift different from a normal breast lift? Lol I'm still learning all the terminology. I'm going with the hospital group- an established company in the UK. Its so nice to have a sounding board to speak to people going through the same thing- Will keep posting and I'll wish you good luck too! x
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December 8, 2012
I've just had a look at your profile- we could be booby twins! Lol
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December 8, 2012
Lol, yes we can. The Ultimate lift is a type of lift perfected by Dr. Horndeski which involves securing your breast weight on your muscle & no vertical scar. Plus I won't have to wear a bra!!!! I'm about to be perky!
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December 8, 2012
I'm having the anchor lift- my surgeon only mentioned using the anchor technique so I presume that way is more appropriate for me. I've come to terms with the idea of having scars- I've got tons of stretch marks on my hips so whats a few more going to hurt?
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December 9, 2012
Hi! I totally understand your need to have your breasts fixed. I had a reduction after my first child at the age of 23. I have gone on to have two more children and that is my only regret about having the reduction so early. I was able to give them a little best milk, but not a lot, and if only for that i wish i had waited. It's a tough decision, I totally get it.
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December 9, 2012
It is tough and I still feel guilty even though I'm single and I don't want kids for years! (it may not even happen- if thats the way it goes) I'm hoping that even if its just a little bit of milk- I can still experience it. I'm going to do it for me, regardless.
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10 days pre

This site is so addictive! Anyway- my operation is...

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This site is so addictive! Anyway- my operation is in 10 days time and I've been reading other peoples posts/forum comments to gather a list of things I need for the big day. Here it is so far- and I'm posting this purely to gather any feedback- so if you think I've missed anything or you think I've added things I shouldn't waste my cash on let me know. I'm on my own here and you're all the help I've got; you wonderful, anonymous virtual women :-)

• Castor Oil (For medication side effects) ½ Teaspoons on an empty stomach (apparently)
• 3x post operative bra's (I was told to get one size bigger in the ribcage then I am normally, so a 36 not a 34 UK size)
• Arnica tablets
• Palmer’s Vitamin E Skin Therapy Oil/Palmers Scar Serum
• Tamanu Balm- this has been recommended by the hospital group - anyone used it?
• Silicone Gel Scar Treatment Sheets
• Vitamin E oil
• Paracetomal (Tylenol for the Americans reading)
• Ice packs (OR frozen peas if I'm feeling cheap...)
• Gauze/cotton pads
• ‘Stool softener’ Eww…
• Milk of Magnesia (don't know what this is but someone else mentioned it)
• Nytol- to help me sleep
• Button up nightie (check)
• Dry Shampoo (check)

Have I missed anything? I'm a bit of a 'planner' have you noticed? lol

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December 9, 2012
Hi miss indigo. I'm a fellow brummie! Had a breast reduction 4 weeks ago nw. I presume the procedures are similar, and if so, let me tell you I can not believe the recovery. I was out of action for around 3 days, 2 of those I was in hospital anyway. Washing your hair s. struggle as you can't ave showers, so treat your self and go to the hair dressers! Although I washed mine over the bath. I have to children 5 and just 2. So I suppose I had to just get on with things, which I think helped my recovery. I'm doing everything I did before, except boogie bouncy, my normal exercise group as that's a little sore to do!!! You will be surprised at just how quickly you do recover. I took vitamins to help recovery too. Zip up tops and vests that you can pull up over your body rather than over your head. I had mine on NHs. Good luck, and don't worry, the hardest part is the build up to the op!!
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December 9, 2012
Hi Echeal, I'm going to have a hair cut and colour the weekend before my op (which is a wednesday) and I've bought a vat of dry shampoo to keep me going for a while! I hope I recover quickly- I go indoor rock climbing with someone I work with once a week and I haven't told him about my op! Hopefully I can get back into it fairly quickly but we'll have to see. I need to buy a zip up top or two- haven't really got any. Just looked at your picks- you're looking great! x
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December 9, 2012
That looks pretty good. I started working on my list today too, though i can't finish it until after my pre-op appt. Yoga pants and button down shirts maybe?
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December 9, 2012
I'm guessing yoga pants are like granny pants? Will bring comfy clothes
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December 9, 2012
Lol well people wear them all over here in public here in the states, so i guess it depends who you ask! ;) I'm guessing probably a few pairs for after too in case of leaks, smell, etc. Ooh wait, you're just doing breasts right, not tt? NM, i was thinking tt too. Lol.
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December 9, 2012
Oh! I think yoga pants are what we call 'tracksuit bottoms' or 'tracky bottoms' lol I keep forgetting pants in America aren't underwear!
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December 10, 2012
Haha! I totally didn't even think about that! Too funny! Yep, that's what i meant! ;)
December 10, 2012
I agree this site is so addicting! My surgery is on the 20th and I couldn't be more excited. Thank you for sharing your journey so far with us :)
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December 10, 2012
Thanks that means a lot x