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Six week follow up! Birmingham, AL

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I got the confirmation from my insurance company...

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I got the confirmation from my insurance company in May and chose July so I could take the month of August to heal. I am excited and nervous. I went for my pre-op appt yesterday. Had a ton of questions to ask thanks to lurking around here for the last two months...lol.

I am 48 and since the birth of my last child at 41, I knew it was something I really wanted to do. Like everyone else, I have felt defined by the girls since I was in my teens. Well, often anyway. They have been 'tons' of fun, but the older I get the more difficult they are to carry around. At a 36G I am so tired of carting them around, NEVER findings clothes that fit, and longing to take a deep breath all the way to the bottom of my lungs. I have been purchasing really good (aka expensive) bras for a long time. It will be nice to just buy 'off the rack'...haha.

Reading here has been very helpful. Thanks to everyone that posts here about their experiences. I told my PS about this website and he said he would have to look it up!
He's really very nice and puts me at ease. He will take me down to a very full C he says. My frame is small, but I am so worried I will look down and see a pouchy belly when they are not in the way!

Hope to post here regularly. I have the entire month of August to heal and be bored. I can't wait!

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George R. Duquette, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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My coworkers who are 'in the know' say to me "how...

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My coworkers who are 'in the know' say to me "how will we get along without you for an entire month!". Its another distraction and worry for me. Not that they can't get along, they CAN!

Surgery is a WEEK FROM MONDAY! Don't even know where to start with getting things together around here. I went to Costco tody and got some things I thought might be easy to fix for the family to feed themselves. Will probably have to go back as they will eat all of it this week. Hubby is taking the week of surgery off to help. Trying to be unworried. Is that a word?

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July 21, 2012

Welcome, in this case, unworry is totally a word! Hubby will be a lot of help at home. That way you have nothing to do for an entire week but heal! You could always make up some casseroles ahead of time and throw them in the freezer so that honey buns can just pull them out as needed.

The belly seems to be an issue with a lot of us, but I just reminded myself that it has always been there, it was just my huge bazongas that were hiding it, and it certainly didn't make me look thinner. As I'm sure you've heard, but have a hard time believing, everone will think you've lost weight after the surgery!

Good luck next week! Will be anxious to hear about your progress!
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So I told my 7 year old daughter yesterday about...

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So I told my 7 year old daughter yesterday about the surgery and what a look of horror and confusion on her sweet face! She has long considered them HERS since I nursed her until th age of three. No really! She has asked me several times about the milk in them. I have tried to explain that is no longer there, but it's just confusing I guess. So now she asks me a gazillion questions all day. I am afraid to show her some pics from here, but it may help. Or scare the bejeezus out of her. Any ideas or experience out there?

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July 21, 2012
Hi BamaMama! Had my last (of 2) kids at 40 (I'm now 55) and was, until 24 hrs. ago, also a 36G, so welcome! Lots of GREAT women on here and lots of invaluable experience on which to draw and as much support as you can stand. This place and these women are the ONLY reason I didn't chicken-out of this surgery as I did in 1999. Hope you are around a lot leading up to, and after, your surgery!
July 22, 2012
Hi BamaMama from your neighbor in Georgia. Minday will be 6 weeks for me. This site has been a Godsend of information and it has also provided me with more than a laugh or two. The ladies here are wonderful. I can not tell you how many hours I spent here during my first two weeks post op. Best wishes to you in your journey. You will be so happy you did this!
July 22, 2012
Silly iPad ....that should read Monday will be 6 weeks!
July 22, 2012
Welcome! It's hard to be "unworried". Just don't let anything stop you from doing what you've wanted for so long. As you can read from most of our pre-op reviews, we all have tiny freak-outs. It's normal!

If you do have a belly after your BR, you'll be more comfortable to exercise more! Imagine all the ways you can move and new things you can do without those breasts weighing you down! So exciting!
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July 22, 2012
I told my kids a week ago and my 11 yr old son was fine with it and went back to playing outside, but my 9 yr old daughter is the one that was worried and is asking all of the questions. I am not showing her any "after" photos because I think it will be too scary for her right now. She is sensitive anyways so I don't want to traumatize her with graphic pics. Each child is different. Just go with your gut feeling by knowing what your daughter can emotionally handle. Good luck!!
July 22, 2012
Thanks Starlite. I will decide as the week goes on I guess. Funny how kids are so different. At 11 I would thnk your son would be completely embarrassed to even think his mom has breasts! Lol.