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I've decided YES! But parts of me says that I'm...
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I've decided YES! But parts of me says that I'm being vain and I should be happy with my natural look. .. But of course having no breast does not make me happy. My husband and I have been going at it back and forth but finally he has agreed to stand behind me 100%.
He says he's afraid I will become a life long patient. Me too, and that's why I'm quite hesitant. But when I look at myself in the mirror, I don't feel like a woman. I feel down because the breast I once had deflated after nursing my 2 kids for about a year and a half each.
I've grown obsessed with searching the web for breast augmentations and learned so much that I kind of scared myself.
But I want them and I know I will be happy with them.
When I was nursing, my breast filled up with so much milk and it looked amazing!
If I do end up getting them, I would want to look that way. Will post pics when I find some!
He says he's afraid I will become a life long patient. Me too, and that's why I'm quite hesitant. But when I look at myself in the mirror, I don't feel like a woman. I feel down because the breast I once had deflated after nursing my 2 kids for about a year and a half each.
I've grown obsessed with searching the web for breast augmentations and learned so much that I kind of scared myself.
But I want them and I know I will be happy with them.
When I was nursing, my breast filled up with so much milk and it looked amazing!
If I do end up getting them, I would want to look that way. Will post pics when I find some!
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When I was nursing
I liked my boobs when I was nursing because they looked sexy.
But I never was able to enjoy them because it was filled with milk.!!
I'd like my boobs to look like that again.
But I never was able to enjoy them because it was filled with milk.!!
I'd like my boobs to look like that again.
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October 15, 2013
I'm kinda on the fence about doing it as well. I have had small breast all my life so I am used to it. When I was younger it bothered me more because boys can be mean and tease you about that. BUT as I got older, I started meeting men that were more of an ass man than boob man and didn't mind small boobs. However, I'm 35 now and am still thinking about it. I have had one consultation so far and didn't feel that doctor was for me so didn't go through with it last year. I'm now looking into doctors in Baton Rouge and found two that have good reviews on here. I'm okay with what I have but would be great to have more. 34A is not much to fill clothing! I'm also nervous about having to keep getting them done every 10-15 years. You don't have to but it's recommended. I also want Silicone and I read you have to get MRIs done every so often to keep an eye on them. That's another added expense and activity if i was to keep up with that. It seems like it's worth it though apparently as I keep reading good reviews.
October 15, 2013
I keep on telling myself I am going to get them... And all of a sudden, I read a bad review and immediately change my mind. Then I look at myself in the mirror at the side view angle and convince myself again how happy I'd be with them.
You're right a 32A can't fill anything.
So here we are on the fence. I hope you and every woman that is has this challenge can get through this.
October 15, 2013
I think I saw some Youtube videos with this Dr. Kim. He seems like an excellent surgeon.
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The Reverse Psychology Techinque
If you're having trouble convincing your spouse, here 'a what I did. ..
Of course he'll say no at first because to him you are not at all the type to get a boob job.
But hey! Things change. And will he really understand? Who knows. I think all girls who lack a little rack would love some, even if they are in denial.
So anyways, I somehow convinced him to say YES. Then when we went for the consultation weeks later, he flipped out and it was the big NO again. Then when I told him I didn't care what he thought, and I was going to get them anyway, he basically stopped talking to me for the rest of the day. And we were both miserable in boobless hell.
Then the very next morning when I woke up, I told him that I decided not to get them because I cared about his feelings And didn't want him to be unhappy.
Then all of a sudden, his mood flipped to unbelievably cheery and when we went out for breakfast that morning, he told me that he was with me 100%, and he wants me to be happy.
:)
That's the reverse psychology technique.
Of course he'll say no at first because to him you are not at all the type to get a boob job.
But hey! Things change. And will he really understand? Who knows. I think all girls who lack a little rack would love some, even if they are in denial.
So anyways, I somehow convinced him to say YES. Then when we went for the consultation weeks later, he flipped out and it was the big NO again. Then when I told him I didn't care what he thought, and I was going to get them anyway, he basically stopped talking to me for the rest of the day. And we were both miserable in boobless hell.
Then the very next morning when I woke up, I told him that I decided not to get them because I cared about his feelings And didn't want him to be unhappy.
Then all of a sudden, his mood flipped to unbelievably cheery and when we went out for breakfast that morning, he told me that he was with me 100%, and he wants me to be happy.
:)
That's the reverse psychology technique.
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October 16, 2013
Im also a mother who nursed for over a year. My boobs were deflated and lost there shape. I just went from a very small B to a D and I am soooo glad I did it. My only regret is not doing it sooner!
October 16, 2013
I just barely cut off the nursing about 5 to 6 mths ago. We dealt with labor and child birth, why not do something for ourselves?! :)
October 16, 2013
My son only liked my left breast so that one was big and the right small it was embarrassing had to pad my right one, after 3.5 years of breastfeeding i said no more and its time to fix myself! I told my husband i did him a huge favor breastfeeding so much, no formula buying, no health bills, and that it was time for my reward! ;-) good luck on your journey!
October 16, 2013
Thank u. I looked at your post pics, and they look great ! I hope I turn out to be a great story too!
December 2, 2015
That is so awesome!!! Wish mine was that easy!!! My husband was stubborn as all hell!!! But alas, I won!! Hahaha
March 27, 2016
My boyfriend has never been for plastic surgery of any kind- even lip filler! But I told him I've been unhappy with my breast size since I was 12... (I'm still the same breast size and I'm almost 19 now). He knows I'm getting them, and although he would rather me be happy with what I have he is supporting my choice.
March 29, 2016
This sounds like confusion and uncertainty. Maybe you should let it rest for 6 months or a year and then come back to reconsider the issue/procedure.
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