Mommy Makeover After 2, Only 25 Days to Go? What Did You Tell Your Kids? -Beachwood, OH

This site has been my life line. I am happily married and Mother to 2 wonderful kids, son that is 8 and daughter that is 6. My husband has been extremely supportive and has went to all of my appointments with me. It all started with me not being happy with my saggy and deflated breasts after breast feeding 2 babies. We decided if I was going to get a BA I should look into the whole Mommy Makeover. I have never had a flat stomach and have struggled with my weight as an adult, especially after having babies. I finally lost my baby weight but still have the hanging stomach and another 10 pounds to lose but just won't go away. My Dr. is well respected and has done some procedures for a couple of my friends. Call me crazy but I did not get a second opinion. I am sure I could find someone to do it for less but as you know with such an invasive surgery it's worth paying for he best. Most important I am very comfortable with him and his staff. I'm having a TT, BA, and lipo on my love handles. My husband and I decided not to tell many, but I am beginning to get really nervous that I will need more of a support system. He is taking one week off for sure and is willing to take more if needed. I guess I am nervous some will not accept it. I live in a small community where everyone pretty much knows everyone. My daughter is quite the talker and we have not come up with what to tell her or my son yet. I don't ever want her to feel as insecure as I have. Any suggestions? My surgery date is May 1st. Please help!