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36 Yr Old Mummy of 2 Bubs. Im Booked in and Ready to Go Tummy Tuck. I'm Absolutely Petrified! - Australia, AU

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I'm booked in for my tummy tuck on the 11 of...

Bec mummy of 2
$10,500
I'm booked in for my tummy tuck on the 11 of November 2013. As scared as I am I just want to feel and look normal! My stomach looks like a chewed up lollie ha ha ha and about 6 months pregnant lol. I have a horrible muscle separation that gives me a big bulge that I'm completely over. My babies were big and absolutely destroyed what was a flat skinny tummy, all worth it for my little men but I'm tired of feeling yuk.
As you can see in my pic it hangs low from being so torn and my loose skin is like a hood lol. I laugh about it cause its not worth crying about it, the positive out of this negative stomach is that it held the most precious little people in my life!

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October 28, 2013
I wish you the best of luck. Are you having your work done here in Australia
October 28, 2013
Hey jules73 yeah I am. X
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October 28, 2013
Im sure all will go well. Its worth it and your worth it..
October 28, 2013
Congrats on your upcoming surgery hon.... Just a few more days! !
October 28, 2013
I know yikes. Thanks x
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October 29, 2013
Good luck!!! Looking forward to updates.
October 29, 2013
Thanks heaps X
October 29, 2013
I recently had abdominalplasty & hernia repair with mesh 10/02/13. I had rock hard abs prior to my boys whom destoyed my muscles since they were both huge. From what I can see in your pic, yours isn't near as bad as mine WAS! I'm amazed how diiferent I already look and I'm almost 4 weeks post surgical. I'm very excited to finally b out of maternity clothing after 7 years of tummy torment! Good luck, its hard but well worth it!
October 29, 2013
Yay congrats you must feel amazing! Do you have pics I'd love to see your before and after pics. How big was your separation? I see we both have boys and obviously like me yours were born big too lol A big Congrats X
October 29, 2013
I do have before pic and hubby takes weekly pics...which I plan to share soon. 1st boy was 9.8, 2nd was 9.14 2 weeks early!! My seperation was from sternum down to pubic and about 6-8 " wide! I had plastics & general surgeon during mine since I required mesh. I previously had venteral hernia repair to try to fix, but tension was so tight it seperated...I'm a nurse and wasn't confident ANYONE would be able to fix this, especially when told by over 5 surgeons " oh wow this is the worst i've ever seen!" Translation= you won'tbe doing my surgery! Took me 3+ years to find right people, save $ and then not canceling surgery since I knew 1st week was going to be bad. I would TOTALLY do again with what I'm already seeing! Set timer 30 prior -make sure eat snack then take pain/ muscle relaxor! Drink lots of water, recliner and LISTEN to your body! Hope this helps. Go to plastics today- I'll b 4 wks wed!!! Hope this helps.
October 30, 2013
Previously you asked for pics so I just wanted to let you know I started a blog about it: whenbabiesjackyou-up.blogspot.com I just started it today and have never done a blog so it's taking me a while to put together. So far I have prior to surgery and post op week 1 on there. When boys go to bed tonight I hope to get weeks 2 & 3 done as week 4 will be tomorrow. When you see week 1 keep in mind lots of bloating, swelling and I'm trying to lose 40-50lbs so overweight in pics.
October 31, 2013
What is mesh iv never heard of that? You poor darling it sounds horrible. When I had bubs #2 I had 10 finger separation it's closed more since then thank god but still I feel very uncomfortable and struggle to breath without my belly band support on. I feel like I'm loose in the stomach if that makes any sense lol. Thanks for your advice too ill take that on board.
October 31, 2013
Iv tried finding it and can't. I copied and pasted what you wrote you sure it's correct or am I being a bird brain lol
October 31, 2013
Bec, this is the blog: http://whenbabiesjackyou-up.blogspot.com/
October 29, 2013
I underwent the same surgery last week (Tuesday 22nd October) for exact same reasons. I too got sick of being asked when I was due. So I did it. I underwent major surgery to be just left alone and to once again feel confident in being me. I'll be honest and I hope that that is what you want. So much pain. So so so much pain for the first 3 days, then it eased and I haven't had pain killers since Saturday night. I am still sleeping in an up right position with pillows under knees and I still can not stand fully up right, but I can tell you I honestly I feel it was worth it. It's hard not being there for my boys. Not being able to play with them cuddle them and chase them like they and I want. But it's going to be even better once I am better. I know that without a doubt. Make sure you have plenty of help for at least the first two weeks and you'll do great. Take loose nighties to wear in hospital and be prepared for the uncomfortableness that is the compression suit. Good luck
October 29, 2013
Did you get too stay in hospital? My sis just had here done 2 weeks ago and I pray I'm tolerant like her (probably not) I'm the sook. I have lots of help thank god cause my boys are only little so ill be needing it.
October 29, 2013
I stayed 3 nights and would have been happy to stay another. I think I would have preferred having drains removed prior to leaving hospital but my Dr insisted on leaving them in. My boys are little too (2.5 & 3.5) And they have been really good staying away from mums sore tummy. Seems by the posts, having 2 boys is a curse to the body.
October 31, 2013
Lol it must be a bit thing! Mine destroyed my tummy but well worth it for them. They owe me big time ha ha ha
October 31, 2013
Agree Bec! Told my husband we should put a puc of the "damage" in their HS yearbook....years down the road...lol!!
UPDATED FROM Bec mummy of 2
6 days pre

So 6 days to go (yikes)

Bec mummy of 2
So I'm on the single digits only 6 days too go. My anxiety has been high and I really need to calm down. I keep telling myself the flat tummy the flat tummy! Ha ha ha ha

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November 5, 2013
I *LOVE* what you said "the positive out of this negative stomach is that it held the most precious little people in my life". I honestly welled up *sniffles*. So true isn't it? We go through so much, our poor bodies get put through the ringer! You will do just fine hon. Yes it hurts but it's nothing you can't handle, you've had kids (which I think was way worse lol) Take your pain meds around the clock and rest and do not try to push yourself! The hardest part of this for me was/is having others d things for me. I am very independent and hard headed (don't tell hubby I said that ;) and having him take care of the kids, laundry and the house not being cleaned to my liking was the worst. Lol! Crazy huh? You'll do great hun, keep us updated! You can pm me anytime!! *hugs* xxxx
November 8, 2013
It makes me get emotional too when I think of holding my stomach and its purpose it served. It's amazing but now the saggy skin and horrible bulge needs to lol. Well iv had c-sections small pelvis couldn't deliver and thank god cause I ended up with big babies (yikes) Like you I think that part is gonna be really hard I'm a little OCD at home lol and its gonna drive me mad bit being able to do anything, thank god for the Internet ill absorb my time into that well try too. Will be staying at my parents house as my kiddies are only little just turned 1 and just turned 3 so they still need to be picked up dressed fed and the list goes on and on. Hubby being a builder works a lot (which I'm grateful for) but I do everything especially cause he's working. So my mama bear will be helping me thank god and will all junk their lol. I'm a little excited now I just keep saying over and over flat tummy, flat tummy lol X
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November 8, 2013
I have said the same thing about my belly-great job carrying two babies! Now, I'm ready to say goodbye and move on to the flat side. It's so frustrating, I can work out like crazy and still look 4 or 5 mths preggers, lol. I have great soaz (sp?) muscles, and I Swear that's from Constantly sucking my belly in!! Anyhow, I just wanted to say Good Luck on Monday. I'm glad you have help after. From what I can see of the picture, the rest of you is pretty tiny so the difference this is going to make will astound you! Keep us updated. I'm excited to follow your story. Just remember, all the hands that work on you in the hospital are doing their best to give you fantastic results. Keep reminding yourself how strong you are, and how well you healed from the c sections. You will do Great! :)
November 8, 2013
Ha ha ha that's made me giggle I too N always holding in my stomach lol I'm tired of doing it but it makes me look smaller ha ha ha. Yeah I an small never been big apart from when pregnant ill post a pic of how big my stomach gets when pregnant. Ill do a new update tonight when kiddies go to bed also with a few more before pics. 2 days too go do I cry or laugh
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November 9, 2013
Cry and laugh. It's all good! Normal to be worried and happy at the same time, lol!!
November 8, 2013
You are not alone- I am referencing my new look. I have a vision in my mind. I am sure you will start to calm down once the day arrives!
November 8, 2013
Thanks so much.
November 9, 2013
You are welcome!
UPDATED FROM Bec mummy of 2
1 day pre

Less than 24hrs per op

Bec mummy of 2
So I have less than 24hrs and the nerves are so high it's a horrible feeling. I keep telling myself over and over flat tummy, flat tummy! I'm petrified of the unknown and keep thinking I'm gonna have panic attacks from feeling tight (I know it sounds crazy I'm such a panicker). Then I get all emotional cause my babies won't be with me whilst I'm in hospital (inserts sad face)
Wow these emotions are crazy! I need to start thinking positive any positive words from you beautiful people all over the world.

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