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46, 2 Kids, 5'9" 144 Lbs 36DD Want Breast Reduction!! - Austin, TX
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For 20 years I have struggled with the side...
MommajenniJune 5, 2014
WORTH IT$9,600
For 20 years I have struggled with the side effects of large breasts - limited athletic endeavors, chronic back, neck and shoulder pain and feeling embarrased and uncomfortable in most clothing especially bathing suits. I wear a 6 or 8 yet most clothing is too tight in the chest area. Because I am tall most friend tell me I am " in proportion" but they haven't struggled with being ogled and ashamed - my outside (too sexy) doesn't match the inside ( smart book nerd!)
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UPDATED FROM Mommajenni
16 days pre
Another consult on Tuesday
MommajenniJune 8, 2014
A few years ago I consulted with 3 local doctors about a TT BR combo - it was out of my price ($8-10k) and comfort zone with scarring. I also tried to have my insurance bc/bs cover the BR with no luck even though I had been referred by chiro, gp and ob gyn. I did 6 months of physical therapy fir my neck, back and shoulder. Finally I just gave up...so i am very curious for those if you who were successful having your insurance approve it. Will you share your process?
A few weeks ago I consulted w/ a very good local ps who suggested "lipo" as a way to reduce my breast size as well as lipo on my flanks. I had not heard of that process as a BR so I did a little research and soul searching. Finally with my husband's approval decided to go for it. I was ecstatic, scheduled the surgery for June 19, had another more detailed consult and paid in full. The doctor asked me to get a mammo. I did and dropped the X-rays at his office. He called me that afternoon and said he would not do the surgery. I was devastated .... It took so much courage to get to that point too have him change his mind was like a slap in the face. I keep going over in my mind wondering what I did wrong? Did I ask too many questions? It is very hard to not take it personally.
My husband suggested he was not the ps for me and look in Austin & SA. In my small town the ps prefer doing BA.
A few weeks ago I consulted w/ a very good local ps who suggested "lipo" as a way to reduce my breast size as well as lipo on my flanks. I had not heard of that process as a BR so I did a little research and soul searching. Finally with my husband's approval decided to go for it. I was ecstatic, scheduled the surgery for June 19, had another more detailed consult and paid in full. The doctor asked me to get a mammo. I did and dropped the X-rays at his office. He called me that afternoon and said he would not do the surgery. I was devastated .... It took so much courage to get to that point too have him change his mind was like a slap in the face. I keep going over in my mind wondering what I did wrong? Did I ask too many questions? It is very hard to not take it personally.
My husband suggested he was not the ps for me and look in Austin & SA. In my small town the ps prefer doing BA.
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June 8, 2014
Will be really interesting to see how the lipo works out, not meaning to sound rude but DD is a really small size to get reduced and I know the method would not work for larger reductions. I am a DD after my reduction!!!!
June 8, 2014
He should tell you why Mommajenni, not just leave you wondering why. Lipo is for smaller reductions, the Lollipop incision is too. Someone will approve you, keep on trying. You know what you need so don't let others opinions get in your way. Just keep moving toward your goal!
June 9, 2014
I am so sorry for what you have gone through. Did the doctor not say anything about why he will not do your BR? He didn't even tell you to see another doctor? Not to frighten you, but I would be wanting to know what, if anything, he saw in your mammogram that made him change his mind. Is it possible a breast can be too dense? I have no idea. But, I would be finding out. Can you get your mamm results from the place that did them? Also, is he going to give you your money back!? Do not give up. If you need to take a break once in a while, fine. Then, pick it up, if you still want your BR. It will all get done, right, and you'll be happy. Good luck and good graces.
June 9, 2014
Sorry I did not see your update before my previous comment. The doctor should have explained to you why he would not perform the BR/lipo. You can never ask too many questions. If it is on your mind, you have a right to ask it. When I went in for my consult, I have a page full of questions written down. My doctor promptly answered every one. If he is not willing to give you answers, I would definitely consult with another doctor. You wouldn't want a Dr. like that operating on you even if he did approve it... what happens if you have a complication post op and need him? You want someone who is attentive and caring. Keep trying until you find some answers. Wish I could be of more help.
June 9, 2014
And btw I am also a 36 DD and I am having the operation next month. To some that size may seem small, but those who think that are comparing to to bigger sizes. If you are uncomfortable and feel it is too big, don't hesitate in your decision. Good luck!
UPDATED FROM Mommajenni
15 days pre
Thank you all sweet women for your comments!
MommajenniJune 9, 2014
I do have a copy if the mammogram and the nurses there explained to me that my breasts are "more dense." I live in a small town and got the feeling my local ps was concerned that the operation might not meet my high expectations. The BR is an idea I have pondered & struggled with for 20 years. My plan was always to do it after having & breast feeding kids. Well my oldest just turned 12 so it is time! In order to be comfortable I need to ask a lot of questions about the process & results. The ps seemed impatient with my questions. It's a lot of money that could be spent on my kid's many, many needs! Yes, it was refunded. I traveling 3 hours to Austin today to consult with dr. Haydon.
On me the DDs are the huge elephant in the room. In my family and sister in laws etc, and with my friends NO One is larger than a B+ or tiny C. I look and feel huge. It is embarrassing.
On me the DDs are the huge elephant in the room. In my family and sister in laws etc, and with my friends NO One is larger than a B+ or tiny C. I look and feel huge. It is embarrassing.
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June 9, 2014
Good for you for sticking to your guns. At least the PS refunded you. And if he didn't think you were a good candidate for HIM to do it, then see ping a different PS is the SMART thing to do. I know for a fact that my PS has done ALL types of reductions and tires his best to get you where you want to be. Though they can't promise a specific cup size, they should be able to give you an idea. I went from a DDD/E down to a D (which is basically 3 cup sizes), so I can't imagine you wouldn't be able to get to at least a C. Keep searching, you WILL find a doc that is a good fit. Keep us posted. HUGS :-DSuzy
June 9, 2014
Hi. I know what it is like to be large chested and being stared at and having crude comments made about your size. I am 41, 5'2", 140 lbs - trying to lose weight - and I'm a 32 GG. I developed early and I never really paid attention to how big I was until I entered junior high and one of my guy friends made the comment that "God giveth and he kept on giving". After that, I was very careful about picking shirts that would cover me. I have an appointment to see my PS July 2, and I'm very excited. The insurance that I have now refused because they no longer cover BR surgery. I am switching to BC/BS July 1 and I'm praying that they will cover this. I suffer with chronic neck, back, and shoulder pain, as well as headaches and tingling in my left hand which I can alleviate by adjusting my bra strap. Don't lose hope, this is a wonderful site and all of us are here to support each other, through the good and the bad.
June 10, 2014
I hope you have better luck with your new insurance. I have BC/BS and they gave an approval right there during my consultation. I know every policy is different, but hopefully you will at least have better luck. I was thrilled because I had been expecting to pay for everything out of pocket.
June 10, 2014
Thanks. I hope that it doesn't come down to that for me, but if it does I will be more than happy to pay out-of-pocket for the surgery. They have a package deal that includes everything but an overnight stay for $5,650. I thought that it would be more than that. It really surprised me when she gave me that amount.
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