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Recovery ups and downs to successful face and neck lift
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Today I plopped down the deposit and committed to...
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Today I plopped down the deposit and committed to a date. I feel like I have done my homework. I have consulted with 5 plastic surgeons and went with the one that made me feel the most secure. Three of the five were good, but I had to make the decision to go with the physician that seemed to fit with my personality and goal. You can never ever be completely sure, but you finally have to make an educated guess. I have had breast augmentation, tummy tuck and some laser work, so I am fully prepared for what comes next. There will be 2 months of second guessing, feeling self absorbed, self involved as well as the waking up in a cold sweat wondering what I have done? Will I wake up from the anesthesia? Will I be scarred for life? I guess it just comes down to how important it is to me. My husband thinks I am a little crazy. He asked me, do you think you will feel different about yourself? That is a good question. I think I will feel more at peace and more confident. I have a long 2 months to go! The plan is a lower face lift, neck lift, and possibly upper eyes. I have to get the okay from my eye doctor since I have chronic dry eye. Even if she says go for it, I am not positive that I will. I will have to think a little more on that one.
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December 17, 2015
Your surgery is scheduled the day before mine. I also have chronic dry eye. My surgeon said it wouldn't be a problem but I made an appointment with my eye Doctor 2 days before my pre op testing. I will be having a Macs lift with fat graft and lower eyes if my eye dr. says it's ok. Wishing you the very best.
January 24, 2016
Hi there. I, too had laser resurfacing. Fully ablative CO2. The most aggressive laser treatment. I was down for two weeks. I recently had a lower/neck fl. You are stunning. Please try not to be nervous or scared. It is a normal feeling, but you will be fine. You did a lot of research, and it comes down to a great PS, someone who you trust. I was out of commision for a few weeks, but no big deal. So excited for you! Your granddaughter is a doll. Good luck, prayers your way. :)
February 7, 2016
Have you had your surgery yet? I also live in Atlanta and I am scheduled for March 17 with Dr. Harley in Ashville NC for a neck and lower face lift I do not want to do my eyes
UPDATED FROM SunandMoon
2 months pre
What not to do when planning a face lift./ Bleph Decision
I have confided in a few people about my up coming face and neck lift. Now I knew that it was better not to discuss with most people unless I wanted to hear:
1. You don't need it.
2. Why do you think you need it?
Then there is the look of:
1. You have a screw loose.
2. There is nothing wrong with your face now.
3. Vanity is thy name.
So far only one person ( my hair stylist) has been actually happy for me. I decided not to tell anyone until I put the $$$ down and penciled in a date. And so far I have only told 4 people. I am not telling anyone else. I am happy with my decision and while I am not completely sure why other people want to rain on my parade, I am not giving them a chance.
I have decided to hold off on the upper bleph. I saw my eye doc and then I also saw an ocular plastic surgeon. I have decided that since I have the complication of chronic dry eye, I would want to use the ocular surgeon. I am sure my PS would do a fantastic job, that is not it. I just think once you throw in a complication you are better off going with a specialist. I would either have to have the Bleph 4 weeks before the facelift or wait a couple months after. I decided to wait. Maybe once I see the face lift I will feel it is enough. Having two separate surgeries significantly increases the cost as well.
1. You don't need it.
2. Why do you think you need it?
Then there is the look of:
1. You have a screw loose.
2. There is nothing wrong with your face now.
3. Vanity is thy name.
So far only one person ( my hair stylist) has been actually happy for me. I decided not to tell anyone until I put the $$$ down and penciled in a date. And so far I have only told 4 people. I am not telling anyone else. I am happy with my decision and while I am not completely sure why other people want to rain on my parade, I am not giving them a chance.
I have decided to hold off on the upper bleph. I saw my eye doc and then I also saw an ocular plastic surgeon. I have decided that since I have the complication of chronic dry eye, I would want to use the ocular surgeon. I am sure my PS would do a fantastic job, that is not it. I just think once you throw in a complication you are better off going with a specialist. I would either have to have the Bleph 4 weeks before the facelift or wait a couple months after. I decided to wait. Maybe once I see the face lift I will feel it is enough. Having two separate surgeries significantly increases the cost as well.
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December 2, 2015
Lol - only my husband and my hairdresser know what I am doing (scheduled for a facelift in April)! My husband knows I am doing it for myself and is cautiously supportive. And my hairdresser has had procedures herself, so she understands. I am pretty sure I'd get exactly the same responses as you from the other people in my life! I always think that the home renovations are the best analogy: it your hardwoods were scuffed and stained, you'd get them refinished. So what's wrong with taking the same attitude to your body. Nothing! You are brave to make these changes, and you have clearly spent a great deal of time researching your options. I think it is a wonderful thing to do for yourself. And wise, too, to hold off on the bleph for now just to be sure that you have the best team in the OR for that surgery, given your medical history.
December 22, 2015
Hi I wasn't aware that if a person has chronic dry eyes have to be careful with doing upper lids. I too suffer from dry eyes.
December 22, 2015
I had people say all of the same things and I questioned myself as well. At the end of the day, this is about my wellbeing. I work hard for everything I have and no person in my family is not getting their needs met because I am paying for this surgery. I opted to have both the facelift and eyes done at the same time. I did not want to put myself through two surgeries. My surgeon is experienced with performing both the facelift any eyes together so I was comfortable with that. I do not have chronic dry eye. If I did, I might see if I am good with just the facelift. Good luck with your surgery, you will get a lot support here on RS.
January 3, 2016
I heard the same things but I do not really care if some people judge me. Personally, I think a lot of the negativity I faced was rooted in jealousy because was thin and attractive prior to surgery and I had the funds to pay for it. I had my surgery on 12/14 and I am very happy with my decision. I have had other cosmetic procedures over the years so it was not my first time. For as long as I can remember, I vowed to fight the aging process. That is just me and I will never change. Good luck with your surgery.
January 4, 2016
I didn't tell anyone about my plans for surgery except my Husband, just because I was afraid of getting these types of comments.
UPDATED FROM SunandMoon
1 month pre
Photos pre lower facelift and neck lift
About 6 weeks from surgery date. I am not nervous at all. I am highly anticipating the day...I am ready! Here are a couple photos of what I want changed; my neck and jowls are what really bug me.
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December 3, 2015
I can tell your really a pretty women who is aging like all of us. You need to do this. You will be fabulous looking. It will take you back to a youthful, rather than aging, appearance.
I don't care what anyone thinks. My brothers won't even talk to me. This is one of the
reasons. Yet, I love my family, but this was done for me. Go for it. NO doubt, from the
pictures you will look so fabulous. Pretty face I've ever seen, from what I saw. DOn't ever doubt you are doing the right thing. And you should be excited. So much better than buying a new outfit. You will look 15 years younger and smile. What a smart women you are to move forward. I don't even care what anyone says, even the hubby.
On this aspect of my life, it is our lives and we should live it fully. great news you've shared. Don't tell anyone else, they are ridiculous when they say you look great. Why?
This is all they ever say.
I don't care what anyone thinks. My brothers won't even talk to me. This is one of the
reasons. Yet, I love my family, but this was done for me. Go for it. NO doubt, from the
pictures you will look so fabulous. Pretty face I've ever seen, from what I saw. DOn't ever doubt you are doing the right thing. And you should be excited. So much better than buying a new outfit. You will look 15 years younger and smile. What a smart women you are to move forward. I don't even care what anyone says, even the hubby.
On this aspect of my life, it is our lives and we should live it fully. great news you've shared. Don't tell anyone else, they are ridiculous when they say you look great. Why?
This is all they ever say.
December 4, 2015
Holy Cow! You made me feel so good! Thank you. I am certain that this is the right path. Last year at this time I was not ready but I sure am now! I am so glad that you are happy with your decision as well.
December 3, 2015
Amazing....I'll be 3 months December 11th and not once have I ever regret one minute or allowed anyone to try and bring me down...Their jealous that its you and not them. I did'nt have my eyes done either and I prefer the more natural look...but you never can tell maybe in the future ;]... I look amazing and so do you!!!!!
People like to look at pretty things, and you will be one of those pretty people.