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POSTED UNDER Neck Lift Reviews

71 Years and Counting -- This Neck is Not Going to Get Any Better - I Want a Change! Asheville, NC

UPDATED FROM rednaxelaennyl

One year later!

WORTH IT$10,100
I just read a review and for some reason When I clicked on update nothing happened. So I'll try again. I am still happy and satisfied with my results. Yes I wish I were 45, but at 72, I cannot complain! My jaw line has softened, which I prefer. And the marionette lines on my chin have not come back.

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David H. Harley, MD

David H. Harley, MD

Board Certified Facial Plastic Surgeon

4.9 | 338 Reviews
PROFILE

I am now on my fourth day post-op from a lower face and neck lift, removal of fat from below eyes, and a TCA 30% peel. The reason I came 3000 miles was it because of the (at the time) 92 five star reviews and one four star review on Dr. Harley. And what really pleased me was that these reviews were written by the women themselves and they had taken their own photos before and after. Because of my age I knew that I could not expect miracles, but from looking at the photos carefully I did believe that I was going to be happy with the result of the surgery. I had many questions and did tons of research about the peel and the lower eyelids. I certainly had concerns about any side effects from having the lower eyes worked on. As part of the research, I forced myself to look at surgeries gone bad or mediocre results. Several women who had surgery with Dr. Harley in the months while I was waiting wrote extensive reviews and those were extremely helpful. I also researched laser and found such mixed results that I didn't feel comfortable using that instead of the peel. In December I had a phone consultation with Dr. Harley and also spoke with Juanita several times. They have always been helpful, respectful and willing to answer any questions that I might have. Dr. Harley did not try to oversell any procedures and he was quite honest with me about expectations. He was clear that he thought I would get a good result but then I couldn't compare myself to some of the younger women who were getting the same procedures due to the lack of collagen and the laxity of the skin that goes along with aging. When I had my face-to-face consultation with Dr. Harley the day before the surgery he was willing to have my friend join us on face time. She is also a nurse and has had fillers and laser and is quite protective of me so she wanted to make sure that I had covered all my bases. I found the office setting to be warm, but also professional. Having been a health professional for all of my career, I am very sensitive to the emotional tone in an office. On the day of the surgery I arrived at 6:15 -the first person I saw was Dr. Harley. He went over each procedure that I was going to have done and also gave me the "cocktail" which was five? pills. He again asked if I had any questions or concerns and we did some before pictures. I don't really remember anything until the chemical peel, which was done last. Kelly, his nurse, holds the fan and that relieves most of the burning, although it is somewhat uncomfortable (but not as much as I expected). I returned the following day to have the bandage and drain removed. Everyone gathered around to see the results of the lower face and neck left -we were all pleased -was like a little mini celebration which was quite uplifting. I was given detailed follow-up instructions which were clear and easy to follow. Honestly, I can only say positive things about the experience of working with Dr. Harley and his team. This surgery is certainly not a walk in the park and one needs to be committed and ready to do their part in making sure there is a positive result. I know that there are surgeons in my area who might be as competent, however I could not find enough evidence to convince me to stay at home and have this done. I would be more than happy to talk with anyone who has specific questions about any of the procedures and what it was like post-op.

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I guess it did go through the first time - sorry about that!
have been watching the older gals for a bit (no offense) i am 71 this summer and still wondering if it is too late. if i am to do it i better get in line! u have inspired me along with those of us in this decade on RS. it is easy to get unrealistic expectations looking at the gals in their 40's and 50's . glad dr H reminds us. u look great and seemingly no regrets, best, barbydoll
I know it's a big decision, both physically and financially. I don't know how much of my previous reviews you read, but the lift that Dr.
Harley did also took care of the lower marionette lines and softened the upper ones. That made a huge difference for me and I also needed the facial peel after living in Miami and San Diego for so many years. Good luck with your decision.
Hi red, you truly look marvelous.
Hey Red! Great post and beautiful pics! Everything is still looking good and SO natural! That's what we all want! The surgery gave me more confidence and gave me a little extra enthusiasm for life as I'm sure it did for you! Thanks for taking time to update your review a year later...
Hi Janet! Thanks - that's exactly it!
you look wonderful.... would never ever guess you were in your seventies! you truly do look like you are in your forties! I have enjoyed reading your blogs. I just had neck lift two days ago....too swollen to tell any difference at this time.
Hi Annie - thanks and good luck with your healing! It gets better each day. And don't let the numbness scare you- it will eventually go away.
I'm not so much worried about the numbness as I am the swelling. Im 4 days post op now and my face resembles a chipmunk....lol!! Looking at your photos, you didn't look like that. I know Im still early, and am probably just nervous!! Go next week to have stitches removed so hopefully by then, it will go down.
So glad you included the smiling picture: the others are really good to see your very positive result, but that one is just gorgeous :).
Thanks Aus!
You look great!!! You are slaying it at 72, WOW!
UPDATED FROM rednaxelaennyl

It has been a year!

This is going to be brief, because I really don't have too much to add to what I've already said. I continue to be happy with my results. Given how I looked before and how I look now, I cannot complain. Do I wish I look 45? Of course! My advice to anyone in their 50s and above-if you're thinking about it do it now! And I think I look more natural now than in the first six months there was more a softening of my jaw, which I prefer.

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You DO look 45 or whatever age is younger than your niece!
Thanks Grace. How is your dad?
You look great!!! Yes I think you look 45 too! Thank you for helping us all on our journeys. Best wishes
Thank you and I'm so glad if I've been any help!
Hi Red, it's so good to see you again. You look wonderful.
Hi Ann! Been thinking about you!
Hi Red! I rarely visit here so it was a nice surprise to see your update. How is that art studio of yours working out? We were a good crew to go thru what we did together. I guess I lucked out in my timing:-)
Hi Sandy - I was checking back to see if any of my old buddies replied and here you are! The studio is great - I was just in there cleaning tonight. The trip to Paris and seeing all of the museums inspired me. I Imagine you're looking forward to the end of winter also!
jumping in for a sec; wondering how the healing is going and if u have any advice for a gal your age pondering this surgery by dr harley. my decision is getting close altho no thing til july but i need to "firm up" decision soon as this fence sitting is getting tiresome. since u are an artist i suspect u have an interesting perspective, tx barbydoll
thanks so much for the comprehensive reports. altho i have received two anti harley emails it is pretty evident that he is experienced, skilled and reasonably priced and the local TLC group is an added benefit. but i am still pondering. tx, barbydoll
UPDATED FROM rednaxelaennyl

It's been a little over six months...

Hi all. It did take a full six months for the numbness to go away - in fact, as i touch the sides of my face, there is just a trace left. I look back on the entire process and can't believe I really did it with a leg swollen twice its size from the fall. However, life is back to the new normal. My art studio is just about finished - I'm already in it and working. Ok, what is true about this 70+ woman's results six months later. Well, the swelling helped and I was sad when it went away. The good news - the serious marionette lines in the lower part of my face did not return. My neck is not perfect - but remember what it looked like before!? I am pleased. The best response I had recently was from the census taker (off year random sample). She was this "down home" farmer and after she asked my DOB, she said, "Well whatever you're doing, don't stop doing it!". Having the lower eye bags done was the best decision. Unfortunately, my Swedish upper eyes are starting to droop again ( had those done about 4? years ago) but they have a ways to go before they bother me. Kind of makes me look more like family again. Sorry Grace 60, if you're still around. I'm not submitting no smiling photo for you. I never looked good that way even when I was young. You can still see my neck and face - I just don't look like my best friend died. To all of you older women contemplating this, do it, do it do it! Oh yes, I LOVE having a jawline again.

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Beautiful!
Red! You look so very beautiful, natural and refreshed! It's impossible to believe that you're a "70+ woman", but how much of that is Dr Harley's work and how much is your incredible spirit, shining through, is impossible to say. I'm thrilled to hear that the studio is done and that you are in it, working. Thank you so much for posting an update, it made my day to see this. Sending you good thoughts and positive energy, my lovely friend!
And you made my day! You have a special place in my heart! Hope you are well and happy.
You look beautiful! Thanks for the honest assessment of your results.
Thank you!
Hey Red, so good to see you! Glad you are overall happy with your results! Dr Harley did erase many years from your neck and face and if you're like me, you're thankful for a second chance to look closer to age 50 than to age 70. When I see my face in the mirror, I am still astonished my wrinkled skin is still stretched out revealing a more glowing healthier appearance. The old lax skin on my neck isn't as tight as I was hoping for, but it looks 90% better than before the lift! I don't go around feeling self conscious and embarrassed about my face anymore! That's the results I was looking for. Stay healthy and happy!
Hi Sandy! You described exactly how I feel. Such a relief! Yes - enjoy!
So nice to see you post your update! We were quite the Real Self crew going thru our varying processes at around the same time. I feel so lucky to have had all that support.
You look positively radiant Gal! Keep us the happiness...that's a huge part of staying young..
Hugs, Sandy
oops...keep up the happiness....