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71 Years and Counting -- This Neck is Not Going to Get Any Better - I Want a Change! Asheville, NC

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I didn't realize that I started looking at options...

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rednaxelaennyl
WORTH IT$10,100
I didn't realize that I started looking at options three years ago. It was probably after having a blepharoplasty from my ophthalmologist - my lids were so bad that it affected my vision. After that, I felt great. I no longer saw a tired person in the mirror. That changed my outlook on PS. However, the thought of have a facelift scared the .... out of me. So, I have read, researched and realized that it will make me feel so much better going into the next couple decades (I plan to live to be at least 100 :-) I have decided to go with Dr. Harley, because of the reviews and photos. I live in Oregon, so I will have to stay about 8 days - my best friend who is also an RN will come for the first few days. Now I have to decide whether to save up or take it out of my not so large retirement fund and get taxed up the yin yang. Suze Orman would say "NO, you can't afford it." I so appreciate all of the before and afters. Just got finished taking mine and deleted half of them, because they were so bad. So, thanks for your chutzpah! Ok, I guess this is really making a commitment. Here are the before photos -- Yikes!

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David H. Harley, MD

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December 17, 2015
I am going to need support along the way and I welcome comments and your experience!
December 18, 2015
I will be glad to hold your hand the entire journey. When is your date? You should start collecting your items to take with you since you will be out of town for this procedure. I bought a great wedge for a pillow and a neck travel pillow. It has worked wonders to keep me upright and keep my ears off the pillow. You will be surprised how weird your ears will feel! Sleeping upright is important for the swelling. I also got these cooling pads they are thin and have a gel inside and they only last 20 minutes max so if you fall asleep when using it you can't get freezer burn. I have to look at the name brand and when I know it I will write you again. Check with your doctor first cause some say to ice some say not to ice. It is the surgeons preference. Mine said not to use Arnica but I slathered myself in it and took the tabs and I know I had minimal bruising. I am not the best patient for sure. Button up pjs and shirts I found were a must. Putting things over my head was impossible. You have some time but it is never to early to shop to get ready.
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December 18, 2015
Thank you Cat Lover - I haven't set a date, but am really wanting to get it done, do I think it will be done than later. I will stay in touch and really appreciate your offer to give support.
December 18, 2015
So excited for you. The heck with Suze O. You might not live to enjoy retirement so enjoy your life today. Just kidding I should not give bad financial advise! But if I had known how much I would love this new face I would have definitely taken out my retirement money and done it 10 years ago! Just my story and I am sticking to it! keep us posted. Based on the reviews on here you made a good choice in PS!
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December 19, 2015
I appreciate your comment about the money and another comment someone wrote about the 0 interest credit card for 18 months. I am going to do it and not going to wait very long. I will keep you posted and will read your advice carefully. I'm going to be a model patient - don't want to mess anything up!
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December 18, 2015
Good luck with your search for the right doctor. You are already lovely and it will be so worth it to feel more confidence with your new look. I love your cute bangs and wish I could get mine to swoop out like that. By the way, what are you doing taking pics at 2:15 am!?!?! :)
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December 18, 2015
P.S. On the financing, what I did was get a new 18 month no interest credit card. They gave me a refund of $250 so I considered that a discount from the doctor's price. Then I took the total cost and divided it by 18 to figure out what I needed to pay monthly to have it completely paid for by the end of the no interest period. Of course this may not work for everyone and you really get screwed on interest if you don't pay it off by the end of the no interest period. Just throwing it out there as an option in case it helps you or anyone.
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December 19, 2015
Hi 12344... thank you...don't feel too lovely, but am hopeful that Dr. Harley can change that. I thought the bangs and my hair was looking weird, but hey after 2 am? I'm a night owl, so that time is not unusual.
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January 7, 2016
Hi again! Well I tried the 0% and I got two of them, but the balances are really low. However the will help. And I have CareCredit, which Dr. Harley's office allows 6 months at 0% interest. So, I'm going to make this work And after the work is done, I'll have no trouble getting hired - they won't be seeing an old lady - ha!
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December 18, 2015
I had the lower lift with Dr. Harley, you've probably read my review. I love what he did. He is a great choice! I traveled from 8 hours away but I see lots of people are doing farther even. It's worth it! Shelley
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December 19, 2015
Hi Shelley - Thanks for writing. I just clicked on your name, but only found the juvederm review - sorry to hear about your experience. Happy that the lower lift worked out, though. I'll be coming from Oregon - one woman came from London, so I can't complain. Barb
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December 19, 2015
Hi, yes, I'm going to see if I can get that fixed. My review for Dr. Harley is on his website or one of them that has a lot of reviews on it. It's date is around August 2013.
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December 19, 2015
I'll check it out....happy holidays!
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January 7, 2016
Hi Jessie - I never could find you on Dr. Harley's site unless you're in the video. He doesn't have a photo gallery or I didn't find one. Fairly sure I'll do the bags under my eyes....is there a lot of bruising with that?
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January 7, 2016
Sorry - just realized your name is Shelley - I knew that!
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December 19, 2015
You hardly look 71!! OH you are going to be so darn cute once you see Dr. Harley! I have him in my sites also so I thank you in advance for posting your journey! Hey listen the way I feel about this....just going to keep my older car for another year, that more then makes up for the reasonably priced self esteem maker that Dr. Harley can give!! We deserve it!!!! Best of wishes to you!! I didn't see when you are scheduled for? Cheers! KAT
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December 19, 2015
Thank you so much for your kind words. I'm not scheduled yet, but it will not be long. Once I decide I want to do something, I move pretty fast. And some of the comments have really helped. I know about Dr. Harley - his results are amazing. I haven't seen one that has been disappointing. So Oregon to SC - ok, so it will be! Good luck Kat...keep me posted on your process also. Barb
UPDATED FROM rednaxelaennyl

more befores - not at 2:30 am

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rednaxelaennyl
Wanted you to see what I usually look like when I haven't been streaming or reading reviews on this site.

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December 30, 2015
Well - I sent in the intake form and photos today. Looking forward to having phone consult and getting some possible dates for the surgery.
January 4, 2016
Keep us posted. I keep thinking about you and hope you are well!
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January 4, 2016
Just heard from Juanita at Dr Harley's office. Have a phone consult set up for tomorrow. Are you still happy you did it? Nervous, but excited.
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January 6, 2016
You are going to look 20 years younger once you have your neck lift procedure. You don't look your age now. Can't wait to see! Good luck
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January 6, 2016
Thank you !!!
February 21, 2016
Wow you dont look your age
December 22, 2017
Good for you! I had a face lift when I was 50 and loved it. Would love to have another now at 67. I am going theu some of the same appreciations as you were. I do recommend not taking anything out of retirement. Have you heard of Care Credit? You might want to just ck it out. Whatever decision you make will be the right one for you. I wish you all the success and happiness this procedure can bring. :)
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I have a date scheduled!!! It six weeks to the day...

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rednaxelaennyl
Yesterday I had the phone consult with Dr. Harley and today spoke with Juanita and scheduled the surgery for Feb 17th! Dr. Harley as everyone has described him so far. I've been a nurse since I was 22, so I've met lots and lots of doctors along the way. I found him to be without arrogance and willing to answer any question - and I am sure he answers the same questions over and over. It has been an interesting process on who to tell and who not to tell. I chose to tell my brother today when we talked. This was a big step. Our relationship has grown over the last 10 years during the period when I was traveling back and for the to see my parents before they died. And I thought if I want to continue to deepen the relationship, I need to be honest. I feel better having done that. Six weeks is not that long....it will be here before I know it. And I have been building an art studio in my backyard and it should be finished by then. New beginnings - yes!

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January 6, 2016
Wonderful! So excited for you.
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January 6, 2016
Hi Vee -- Thank you - we'll have to compare notes. I see you are scheduled for March in Costa Rica. What a beautiful place to recover. Let's stay in touch. BTW, you are already beautiful - so you'll be gorgeous.
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January 6, 2016
Oh, you're too sweet red. Thank you. We all look better with a little makeup and a smile, don't we? I am totally looking forward to being in Costa Rica for my recovery. I briefly thought of having Dr. Harley do my surgery. He does beautiful work and his patients recover so quickly! You and I seem to be aging similarly (good skin with few wrinkles just those damn marionette lines!...plus I have awful jowls...how did you avoid those???), so I am looking forward to seeing your results. You look amazing right now so I know you are going to have fantastic results!
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January 6, 2016
I'm just starting to get the jowls - but due weight up and down, got the turkey wattle. The marionette started about five years ago. I don't like the idea of fillers, so I haven't done that. Can't wait to see both of us!
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January 7, 2016
Soooo I am jealous!! :) I'm glad you liked Dr. Harley!! What kind of pre-op testing is required if any? Have you decided how long you are going to stay in the area? It's a 9 hour drive for me so I guess if I decided to go this way I will fly. Thanks for the update!!
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January 7, 2016
Hi Kat....I just got the pre-op instructions and it doesn't include doing any testing. I think that is probably because he doesn't use general anesthesia. He meets with you the day before. During that meeting we'll also decide if I'm going to do my lower eyes - bags that have come up this year and if I'm going to do a peel.
...So I've scheduled to be there from the 15-27 - that includes flying time. I'm looking at it like a vacation in Asheville - can't wait to see the Arts District. Maybe I'll wear a burka.

I'm coming from Toledo, OR - where are you?
January 26, 2016
Love the burka idea!
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January 26, 2016
Ha! Are you still scared at the thought of doing it? Me too, but the thought of not doing it is worse.
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January 12, 2016
That is great you are going to have the surgery, I wish mine was closer but I am not even going to see him until Feb 2, I am so looking forward to this,by the way you look great for 71 I am sure you will look awesome after the surgery

Linda
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January 12, 2016
Thanks Linda! I guess phone consultations are faster...can't wait to compare notes!
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January 12, 2016
Me either, I live in Atlanta so I really wanted to see him in person first that is why I had to wait awhile to get appt. I will keep you posted good luck can't wait to see your pictures after your done
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January 12, 2016
Same here Linda - are you going to post some before's?
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January 12, 2016
Let me know how your phone consult goes....
January 26, 2016
Your neck is no where as bad as mine. I want to have my neck & lower face done but I am really scared. Have no idea what this will cost, either. Good luck & report back ASAP.
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February 5, 2016
Dr Harley charges 6400 for lower face and neck. This includes tightening muscles, which is reason for chin incision.
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February 5, 2016
Does that mean the plasma band ? You very lucky to have been able to get in with him so quick .Hes now booked up through March just for a phone consultation. You don't look your age now ! Can't wait to see you after !
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February 5, 2016
Yes - couldn't remember the term.

Thanks - I feel like. I'm aging by the moment - started Retin-A -'I due to dryness skeet you first start using it, wrinkles can appear worse. Really hoping the peel helps!
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February 5, 2016
The waiting is hard. Once I decided, just wanted to do it. I think he it's worth the wait, though. Let me know how the consult goes in March.
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February 9, 2016
Can't wait to hear about it, and see the results! Best of luck to you!