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Finally Made the Decision to Join the "Harley Honeys"! - Asheville, NC

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First of all, I have to say how very much I...

Pawleygirl
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First of all, I have to say how very much I appreciate all of the reviews and pictures here on RealSelf from all of the lovely ladies that have shared their experiences. I have been surfing this site for about 2 years now, and have learned so much about what to expect. I am 55 years old, and the realization that gravity was winning became very apparent when I saw a picture of myself taken on vacation last year. I was actually surprised to see how I looked; a cross between very tired and angry. I guess that's why everyone was always asking me if I was ok. That's when I knew it was time to start seriously looking into trying to make me look on the outside match more with how I feel on the inside. Seeing all of the wonderful reviews of Dr. Harley, I finally got the courage to call and schedule a consultation. It took about 5 weeks to get my appointment. I live about 2 hours away from his office; the appointment date was March 23, 2016, so I had that time during my drive to think about "what am I doing?". When I got to meet Dr. Harley, he immediately put my mind at ease. He made recommendations on what I needed as well as what I don't need yet, so I knew that he had my best interest at heart and not the money. So, I went ahead and scheduled my surgery. It will be on May 18, 2016 at 6:15 a.m. (BTW, Juanita is as sweet as all of you ladies have said)! As the date is getting closer, my nerves are starting to kick in. I'm a little scared; but at the same time, I am so ready for this. I'm tired of hiding from the cameras and want to feel like myself again. I'm going to get a neck lift and filler in the corners of my mouth because of the turn down that makes me look like I'm frowning all the time. I'm going to try to download some pics to show what I'm talking about (never done it before!). Thanks again for all of the honesty and encouragement from all of the "Harley Honeys"! I'll keep you posted on my journey....

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May 11, 2016
Congratulations! I had the same problem with my face and I am the same age as you. With the saggy skin around my jowls and the corners of my lips turned downward, I always looked miserable or angry/perturbed. Which is not how I felt. I had my surgery with Dr Harley last Wed. It is Day 7 post surgery for me. My jowls are gone and he even turned up the corners of my mouth up a little so I look a little happy (he asked if I wanted that and I said, YES!). I still have alot of swelling but it's mostly just something I notice. Others are not staring at me so I don't think they see anything odd. My smile has been a bit lopsided this week because one cheek is more swelled than the other but this will even out. I even think that today I'm starting to get more feeling back in my cheeks. This will continue for sure in the next week or so. Then my smile will be completely even again. I am glad I did this and can't wait for all the swelling to go down so that I can get the complete picture of the results. Good luck to you! You will feel no pain, I'm sure and you won't even be "present" for the surgery. It is seamless. Also, I only took the pain pills 1 day. I didn't need anything else, at all.
May 12, 2016
Lionwoman, I am so happy to hear that you're doing well! It is so encouraging to hear that in a week from now, I won't have this permanent frown and Bassett hound face!! I have been stressing about the pain and about being awake during the procedure so I'm glad to hear that I won't be aware of it happening and that the pain isn't bad. The countdown is on! I'm ready to head to Asheville!
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May 12, 2016

Hooray for you! Thank you for starting your story. Here's a list of pre- and post-op tips for you. I hope your process is smooth and that you looooove your results.

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May 13, 2016
Good for you!!!!! I have the same neck problem but lucky for me that waddle has texture. LOL So the extra 900 is for filler? Did Dr. Harley say how much he will be using? I am considering getting some too! I love seeing everyone results!! You are in excellent hands!!
May 14, 2016
Hi Kat! Yes the 900.00 is for filler. He said I need 2 syringes...one for each corner of my mouth. I have such a strong turn down...I think it's genetic because it's always kind of been there. It's just more obvious since the jowls started creeping in a few years ago.
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May 15, 2016
Thank you!! That sounds about right!! I was thinking I might get a little bit of lip while I'm up there! Only a few more days for you!! Lucky!!
May 14, 2016
Hi Pawleygirl,,, At least you've gotten up the nerve to write a review and put a couple of pics on here,, I have my date for surgery set on June 24th.. Im on here everyday looking at necks and jaw lines ..lol .. I had a friend that had a facelift a couple of years ago and I could hardly tell she had anything done! She said she told the doctor she wanted to look "natural".. I thought "Oh no! I FOR SURE want to look like I've had a face lift done, NO natural for me!! Lol.. If I'm going to go through all this I want my jaw line and neck as tight as possible... ( by the way She was not a "Harley Honey".. ;) I'm sure some women probably tell him they would prefer not to look too windswept, but I'm going to tell him if he wants to lean in one direction or the other, I definitely want windswept.. Haha! I'll be watching for all of your updates! ~B
May 14, 2016
I'm with ya! If I'm spending this money, I want to be able to look in the mirror and be able to tell it! Maybe my friends will think I'm happy again and not frowning all the time...or at least lost a little weight! Hahaha!
May 16, 2016
Your day is almost here!!! So excited for you! I'm sure you'll look beautiful!! :)
UPDATED FROM Pawleygirl
1 day pre

Nerves are kicking in!

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Ok ladies...I'm really starting to get nervous now. I spent much of the weekend getting the things I'm supposed to have. I'll be heading to Asheville in the morning to get settled in for Wednesday morning. I hope I'm doing the right thing! Here's another before pic taken this morning..

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May 16, 2016
You are going to have an awesome outcome! Are you just doing the Biltmore lift.... lower face and neck? Just think Wednesday night you will be recovering! :)
May 16, 2016
Yep, just the neck and lower face. Also a little filler in the corners of the mouth.
I'm ready for Wednesday night for sure!
May 16, 2016
Oh you are beautiful already!! I'm sure you will be even more so after your surgery!!! I am thinking of it as a new adventure in my life!! I am so ready for it!! Will be thinking about you!! ~B
May 16, 2016
Thank you so much!!! I'll keep you posted!
May 17, 2016
Good luck! I'm so excited for you!!
May 17, 2016
Thank you!!
May 17, 2016
You are lovely & I can't wait t see your results! Sending prayers your way for peace of mind & speedy recovery!
May 17, 2016
Thank you so much for your encouraging words! They do comfort me now for sure!
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May 17, 2016
What I did was imagine living with the jowls and neck that I had. Cured me right away! I was extremely nervous when I was in the car 2 minutes away from his office. Then when I got inside and talk to Dr. Harley and downed my meds, it was smooth sailing from there. Wishing you peace and comfort during your before and afters!! Looking forward to seeing your pictures! You'll be pleased. Make sure you ice afterwards. :-)
May 17, 2016
I hope so! I'm in Asheville now just riding around killing time...I'll post pics tomorrow...thank you so much for the encouragement!
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May 17, 2016
Good Luck tomorrow! What time is your procedure? If it's early, have a banana just to have something in your stomach. I wanted the pills to take effect immediately and that's exactly what happened! ;-)
UPDATED FROM Pawleygirl
1 day pre

Made it to Asheville

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Finally got here, went and picked up my prescription from Juanita and had it filled today instead of worrying about it tomorrow; checked into my hotel, now out for an early dinner. I am sooo nervous but also very excited! Can't wait till 6am tomorrow....let's get this show on the road! See you ladies on the other side! Will update as soon as I can!!

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May 17, 2016
Good luck! So envious you will have it behind you already.
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May 17, 2016
Relax and watch some TV. You will be very pleased and happy when you are done. :-) Looking forward to your updates! :-) Good luck to you!
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May 17, 2016
Be thinking about you and can't wait to hear all about it. You'll do great, you are in good hands!
May 17, 2016
Don't worry - you'll be done before you know it. I'm looking forward to seeing your beautiful results. Sleep well and relax. You're in great hands!
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May 18, 2016
I will be thinking of you tmrw. So excited to see how happy you are going to be. Sending positive vibes your way. :-)