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63.5 Years Old and Sagging! - Asheville, NC
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I am retired and have decided after much soul...
WORTH IT
I am retired and have decided after much soul searching, researching and review of this site, that it's time (really past time) to do something about the aging saggy skin I have developed on my face, eyelids and neck over the past several years. So, today I'm seeing Dr David H Harley at Biltmore Plastic Surgery, 1249 Hendersonville, NC
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UPDATED FROM Nananna
17 days pre
Anyone Else Awaiting Biltmore Lift or Mini-Lift
Hello all, I'm counting the days until my surgery, got 19 days to go! I'm really excited but the time seems to be passing so slowly! I've already gotten all the supplies needed. Packed a bag to take with me on the day of surgery. Prepared the clothing and sleepwear I will need. Trying to stay busy cleaning closets and drawers, anything to keep my mind busy. I know there must be others out there in my situation. If so, I would love to hear from you and know how your passing the time. Best wishes to each of you on this wonderful and exciting adventure..
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February 4, 2015
Hi - I am going to be having a facelift soon and am considering Dr. Harley. Can you elaborate on why you chose him, assuming that is who you are going to be working with? What procedures are you planning to have?
February 4, 2015
Jecpin, I am having "The Biltmore Lift", Upper eyelids, Lip Augmentation, and Juvaderm injections. The Biltmore Lift consist of the lower face and neck. I have seen some of Dr Harley's patients and have seen their results. His work is absolutely beautiful! He is exceptionally talented, has excellent credentials and has the eye of an artist. He is gentle, kind, warm and caring as is his staff as well. I would not trust anyone else with this surgery. If you are considering a procedure I urge you to schedule a consultation visit with Dr Harley and you will see for yourself that you will be treated as if you are the only patient they have. All your questions and concerns will be thoroughly answered. I just can't recommend Dr Harley and his staff highly enough. You just have to experience it for yourself. My surgery is scheduled for February 19, 2015. I would like to stay in touch with you as your journey unfolds.
February 4, 2015
Thank you, Nananna, for responding! - I am most interested in following your procedure and results. Have you seen Dr. Harley's patients in person or just photos? I've seen the photos and videos that are available online. Did you meet with any other PSs in the area? Are you going to do the procedures in his office under local anesthesia? (I am not sure this will work out for me, as I am way too squeamish to be awake while someone is cutting my face!)...
February 5, 2015
I've seen some of Dr Harley's patients in person as well as what is posted on-line and before and after photos.. I have a totally different procedure done by another PS near by. His work was impeccable, no problem there but his bedside manner was not compatible with my personality. My procedures will all be done at one time in the office under local anesthesia. I grantee you that Dr Harley will not allow you to be in pain! Plus the savings is tremendous by doing it in the office. When are you planning to have you work done? If it is after the 19th of this month I will let you know (very honestly) if I experience any pain during the procedures I'm having done (and that's quite a lot). I don't think you would be awake enough to even realize what is going on.
February 5, 2015
I won't be able to do anything before March or April, as I am out of the country at the moment - doing some long-distance research. My concern about the local anesthesia is not about pain (for which I have a high tolerance) but about the "ick" factor. I am, unfortunately, horribly squeamish and fear my blood pressure will plummet if I can sense any tugging, smell anything (I heard that sometimes the skin is cauterized), or in any way am aware of what is going on. Sad, I know, because in every other way this method would seem preferable. I'm planning on a facelift and maybe eyelids too...
February 5, 2015
I completely understand! I hope we can stay in touch throughout my adventure and your as well! I'm sure Dr Harley will understand your need for IV Sedation.. Good Luck and Best Wishes to you. Please let me know how you proceed with your plans for FL.
February 5, 2015
I will be eagerly awaiting your postings and wish you all the best with your transformation!
February 9, 2015
I've set up my consultation for the end of March. Can't wait to see how your procedures go!!!
February 9, 2015
Great! I just know you will be impressed with Dr Harley and staff.
I will be posting pix pre and post. Stay in touch please.
February 8, 2015
Thank you so much for your well wishes I really appreciate it. I hope you will consider a consult with Dr Harley as I am sure you will be very impressed.
February 10, 2015
Good luck to you! Looking forward to following your progress!
February 13, 2015
I am 63 and tired of looking older than dirt so I've been pouring through this site for several months in search of the right PS. I've come to the conclusion that Dr. Harley and I may be the perfect match. My two sisters are quite impressed with him as well so who knows, maybe we can get a volume discount. :) I hope to book a consult with Dr. Harley when my work projects are done at the end of April. In the meantime, I'll be anxiously awaiting your upcoming surgery and will be looking forward to your after pics. I'm very excited for you!
February 13, 2015
Thank you so much for your well wishes. I just know that you and your Sisters will love Dr Harley and team! They are the best!
I will be posting everyday (I hope). I know he will take good care of me!
Please stay in touch. I love hearing from you.
February 23, 2015
Wow !! So thrilled when I saw your post! I will be having the Biltmore lift and upper eye lift on March 3rd. So so excited but a bit nervous! I can't wait to see more after pics of you. I am 54 and in bad need of lower lift, especially my neck! Can't wait to tell this gobbler goodbye! It has tormented me for over a year now. Anything you can share with me would be greatly appreciated!! I loved Dr Harley right from beginning as a person/doctor, but still a bit apprehensive about my result. I love details!! I wish you the best with your recovery!
February 24, 2015
Lane10, thank goodness your back! I've wanted to get in touch with you since your first post. Oh my! The waiting was so difficult. Yes, I agree, I think everyone who meets Dr Harley and staff fall in love with them. They are such wonderful people. You are a beautiful woman already! But, I'm sure Dr Harley will improve whatever small problems you may have. Your results will be perfect! I can assure you of that. Are you just having "The Biltmore Lift"? Now, with me he had a challenge! I had the Biltmore Lift, upper eye lids, lip augmentation and fillers. I am telling you the truth, I didn't feel, smell or hear anything at all! I have had NO PAIN At ALL! Some discomfort around my eye lobes but that's all that I could call anything close to pain. I have some tightness but nothing that's uncomfortable. You have nothing to fear at all. The hardest thing you have to do is to wait for your surgery date to come around. Are you going to continue to monitor this sight so we can stay in touch daily. I will gladly share all of my experiences with you very honestly. I will try to post pix every day. Please feel free to ask me any questions that you have. Glad to have you back on RS. Do you live near A'Ville or will you be traveling? Hope to hear from you again very soon. Your Friend, Nan
February 24, 2015
Oh!! So happy to hear back from you!! Sounds and looks like you are doing great. So happy for you. I am having the Biltmore lift and upper eyes. I live in Anderson, SC so we have about a 2 hour drive. We will be staying in a hotel close by for two nights. I do have a few questions if you don't mind. I decided to have my eyes done after my consultation so I really don't know what to expect with that. I have viewed a few surgeries on you tube and can't for the life of me see how anyone could keep from blinking!!! That is my fear. I know I'm not suppose to feel anything but it seems one blink would mess things up a bit! I know that sounds crazy, but I think I am a big worrier!! Seems I'm seeing every little detail and making a worry out of it!! So glad you are free of pain! What things did you make sure you had on hand for your recovery? Looking forward to sharing our journey!!
February 24, 2015
I don't think I am posting these things correctly!! This is suppose to be a second comment from my previous one. The way I am seeing it ... It looks as if this will come first. Lol! Oh well ... No big deal. I was also wondering what you did the week before as far as foods you ate, etc. Did you use the Arnica? If so, when did you start? Should I be eating blueberries, etc the week before?
February 24, 2015
Hi Nan, I have a question, does the Biltmore Lift include the mid face, lower face and neck?
I need the works! Lol
Thanks!
February 24, 2015
The Biltmore Lift addresses the jowls and neck to remove fat and tighten those areas only. A consult with Dr. Harley is the best option rather than the opinions of patients for answers to these technical questions. What one person feels is the "lower neck" etc. can vary from what it actually is. I can say that when the neck is involved it does not mean the entire neck down to your collar bone or even remotely close to that area, the scars from such a thing would defeat the purpose.
February 25, 2015
KellySPI, of course I would not want to have scars that you mention in your comments.. I was speaking to a neck/lower & mid FL.. My eyes need work too!
I so enjoy the communication with Nananna and many other ladies on this website! We are simply here to support each other and follow the journey.. It is educational for those of us, who have no knowledge of PS..may I ask, have you had a FL and what was your experience like? I am in the research phase and trying to get past the fear! Lol
February 25, 2015
I have not yet had mine :( Looking forward to it though!!! I'm nervous about it too I guess, probably more when I'm staring down an actual date. My sister had one and I cared for her for a week and she did very well. It is important to weigh all options for myself. I don't mind being awake during surgery because I'm tough that way and I like knowing what's going on but someone else may want to have general so there is no chance to remember anything. It's most important to find a surgeon who understands what you want and that can (maybe should) take more than just one consult for fence sitters. Sometimes what we want isn't realistic and can cause issues if we aren't clear with a surgeon too. After all, we aren't paying for a result when we have elective surgery, we are paying for a surgeons best effort, his experience and following care needs after. I am embracing my fear because surgeons are not Gods, they are men and women who do what I can't for myself and I'm ok with that. I hope you find a surgeon you are comfortable with and can do this for yourself. I saw good results with my sister but I am a different person with different face shape, fat content, etc. and I can't compare any result I get with hers....that is a recipe for disaster and disappointment. Good luck in your search!!!
UPDATED FROM Nananna
14 days pre
Before pictures
Here are some before pictures. I took them myself. I'm not sure that you can see the eyelids. I will post more later. No makeup!!!!!! Roseacea.
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September 3, 2015
Your skin seems very healthy and you face very symmetrical. I can't wait to see the results they should be really good. As the saying goes you have good bones. Is it expensive. Is the place were your getting this done close to your home?
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