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Neck, Jowls, Bags - Yuck! Who is That Woman in my Bathroom Mirror. Asheville, NC

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I just want my outside to match how I feel, which...

txann
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I just want my outside to match how I feel, which is so much better than that miserable looking woman who lives in my bathroom. She has just got to go! I have saved for this procedure for more than five years and finally found our wonderful Dr Harley. I've had numerous consultations with plastic surgeons from different areas. To say the least I am cautious to a fault but have finally found THE ONE. Thank you to all those who have gone before me and now it will soon be my turn. To make it even more exciting I have found a buddy with whom to share this journey on THE DAY. Her procedure is after mine on the same day and as she puts it it's kind of funny to think that Dr Harley will be performing his magic on a Brit who lives in the U.S. and his second patient will be a Georgia gal who lives in the UK. I talked with pinkieleeoo, bless her for allowing me to call her. It certainly helps to know you can chat with someone else who is in the same "club".

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February 19, 2016
I can't wait for us to meet face to face! We should plan a meetup on the day before our surgeries and another afterwards. Perhaps the after on the day our stitches come out. Looking forward to it.
February 19, 2016
Sounds like a great idea. I'll contact my sweet driver gal and find out what time we are leaving to drive up. Do you know what time you'll be in Asheville? You can email me.
February 19, 2016
I will email you, I owe you one anyway. :-)
March 13, 2016
McK, we must plan to get together on the return trip too like you said.
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February 20, 2016
Ya I luv those pictures Ann I can't believe you did not want to post these, these are great looking pics of you, Definitely do not look your age, Ann I am so excited for you girl when Dr. H performs his magic on us there is no stopping us, I am so glad I get the chance to talk with you about this and we have become friends
March 2, 2016
Pink, I guess you are counting the days. I'm dying to hear how your planning is going. Thinking of you all the time.
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March 2, 2016
I am so excited for all of you! Tex - can't believe you have to wait til April - I don't know how you're dealing with that! BTW, I probably mentioned that you will not believe the difference it makes to have the lower eyebags removed. That has really opened my face up. I did have to get these special eyedrops after about a week. I didn't actually feel like my eyes were dry but I was closing One eye to read. I'm going to see my ophthalmologist Just to make sure everything's OK.
March 3, 2016
Hi Red , what special eyedrops? Are they over the counter? Ann
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March 11, 2016
There called Symantec and they are available of the counter and so is the ointment.
March 13, 2016
Red, thanks for the info on the eye stuff. I will get it.
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February 25, 2016
Hi Ann how are you I am sure you are counting down as I am, I try not to think about it every day makes the time go by faster. We will have to have a conversation soon, maybe tomorrow I can touch base with you, take care
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February 26, 2016
I just saw your photos and review -- somehow I'm not getting all of the new feeds and keep missing people I know! I am so excited for you. Dr. Harley will not let you down. That is so cool that you two Brits will be together in this! And Linda to boot!
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February 26, 2016
We'll a Brit and a half....you girls stay out of the pubs. Not good for the skin!
February 26, 2016
Hi red, I guess I missed something important about keeping your neck on pillows doing it wrong or something. Would you explain this for me. Lord knows I don't want to develop this horrible neck again, lol!
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March 2, 2016
Oh I just saw this question about pillows. Basically you have to keep your head and shoulders out of 45° angle. I don't know that I ever accomplish 45, although I imagine the TLC people did. I used two pillows and my travel pillow, which I have become very attached to-sort of like Linus's blanket. As you probably know, you have to sleep on your back for about 4 to 5 weeks. So I use the travel pillow, which has memory foam and Is kind of a two tiered thing. At first I hated it and thought I had made a big mistake. I don't have a long neck and the smaller tiered memory foam came up to my chin. Now that's what I love about it. And it doesn't allow me to easily turn over on my side. So if I'm tempted, I have to think about it and then I remember in the middle of my sleep so I can't do that. And after spending all of this money time and emotional investment, there's no way I want to screw this up. If you want a photo of the travel pillow PM me your email address and I'll send it to you. Course I know we're all different so you might get it and I hate it.
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May 29, 2016
Red, I was just re-reading these posts and wanted to ask you about the memory foam neck pillow. I have to neck pillows I bought to use in airplane. I tried using here at home and they seem to make me hot. What's your experience with yours? My husband doesn't believe in sleeping with AC below 78, so just wondering if a neck pillow will work for me.
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May 29, 2016
Well - I live in Oregon so I haven't had that problem. I don't use it anymore because my regular memory foam pillow seems to work well now. But I think any memory foam can be on the warm side.

Separate bedrooms? :)
May 29, 2016
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February 29, 2016
Hi MMMcK, our time is getting closer. I had to laugh I spent time with my youngest son's family and showed them the pictures I had put on my review. His comment was that I never look that mad, lol! How sweet. Anyway, I told him that is just the way I see myself when I'm not in conversation with someone. I guess I'll have to add other photos. I have been following Red, and she has done so well recovering and getting on a flight so soon and traveling back to Oregon. That sounded like a grueling trip. She looks gorgeous.
UPDATED FROM txann
1 day pre

Journey begins!

txann
On the way to Asheville tomorrow and see Dr Harley on Tuesday. Here's the latest before.

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April 10, 2016
Good luck to you!!!! Your going to love it!!
April 10, 2016
All the best to you, I am also considering dr. Harley but I don't know anybody in NC so I will have to find a buddy to go with me, somebody that will also have the surgery with Dr. Harley so we can rent a house or stay in a hotel for a week and take care of each other or share a nurse. I live in NJ/NY area here the plastic surgeons are extremely expensive and you don't really know who is good, their marketing is too good sometimes. I can't wait to see your results. Good Luck to you!!
January 26, 2017
Friendly---did you ever make the trip to NC?
January 26, 2017
No, I am still doing my research.
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April 10, 2016
You got some internet service! I just know you are going to be ☺ with your results.
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April 10, 2016
Wow that went by quick. It really is life changing. Very happy for you !
April 10, 2016
Good Luck. Anxious to see your results and to hear about the stages of recuperation.
UPDATED FROM txann
9 months post

April 2016 Biltmore lift

txann
Hello everyone. I had fully expected to be back on realself in June of last year but stayed in Georgia to help with a knee replacement surgery that went wrong. It's a long story but I am now back in Florida doing doctor appointments, checkups Etc that all retirees do every year, lol!

My neck lift, upper and lower bleph were perfect and recovery was simple and uneventful. I am very happy with the final results and am now getting a prescription of Retin-A so I'll be able to take care of myself better. While I was in Georgia I didn't do anything other than apply the coconut oil at night. Daytime it was sunscreen, and wear a hat. Hardly any makeup except eye makeup. I still have to order my Jane Iredale items.

I want to thank all those before me who gave such wonderful and valuable advice which enabled me to prepare my body for recovery and healing. I did the pineapple, blueberry smoothees for two weeks before the procedures and continued for weeks after. I took the arnica pellets too. I was so surprised to have so little bruising and discoloration post op. Even Dr Harley commented to the fact

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January 23, 2017
It's good to see you. You look beautiful. A lot of us were concerned & worried for you since we hadn't heard from you in a while. I appreciate the update. So happy for you. You must be thrilled. Congrats!
January 24, 2017
Hi mssmack, thanks for your comment. I'm trying to get together pictures of how I look today, nine months later. Hard to believe it's been that long.
February 12, 2017
You 15+ years younger. You are beautiful naturally and the lift just really allows all your beauty to be seen. Thank you for sharing as you inspire us all whom are considering this dr. Be well xox
April 10, 2017
A lane, thank you for your kind words. You won't regret getting on board with Dr Harley.
April 10, 2017
jumping in to tell txann that she inspires me as i get closer to surgery and the anxiety mounts. all the good advice has been great and to see someone over 60 with such good results, big tx barbydoll
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February 13, 2017
Hi can you post the recipe or point to the post that has that info. You look great and I am now trying to get it together to do the same thing! Thanks for all of your help
April 10, 2017
Ang, so sorry I haven't got back to you I hope you have found the information here. There is so much help check out TracyAnne pinkieleeoo. When is yours coming up? Hope I'm not too late.
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February 22, 2017
I never heard about the smoothie to decrease brushing. Please help me out. My surgery is in less than a week. Pineapple blueberry?
February 25, 2017
Hi vgray2072, if you'll read my whole review somewhere in there are the details about the preparation and all you need. Briefly I bought a magic bullet and prepared smoothies made with pineapple, blueberries, spinach, bananas. Added a little of each with a dash of cinnamon, little milk, sweetener. Get arnica Montana pellets to put under your tongue, bromelain tablets. There's so much to tell you. If you can private message me I'll help all I can.
February 25, 2017
When do you begin the pineapple and blueberries, before surgery or after?
April 10, 2017
Hi Ken, A week or two before surgery is when I started the smoothees and continued for weeks afterwards. It really works. Take the arnica Montana pellets too.
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February 22, 2017
You look so much younger, I have tears in my eyes. I hope my results are as nice as yours. God Bless, you are beautiful.
April 10, 2017
Thank you so much.