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68yrs Old - Am I Being Vain in Wanting a Tummy Tuck? Adelaide, AU

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2 years post

A New Life Has Started

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It is now 2 years since my last surgery, the Gynecomastia (man-boob removal) and I couldn't be happier.
My PS wanted to do a couple of minor revisions to correct some loose skin that had developed post-surgery, but at 70 years old, I decided that I could live with these 'imperfections'.
I now have the confidence to actually take off my shirt at the beach, (never done this before) and have actually taken up snorkelling!!
My weight has only increased between 3 to 4 pounds and I think this is added muscle since I am doing so much extra activity these days.
I still read 'my Girls' updated reviews and hope you all continue to enjoy your new lives, it really is inspiring to follow your journeys.
Holiday travels continue and after the Indian Ocean Cruise to South Africa we both vowed to go back, it is that amazing. This was followed by a 2 week Cruise to Papua New Guinea and the Solomon Islands. This was an area that my wife's Father fought during his time in the Australian Air Force taking part in famous Battles such as Milne Bay and Guadalcanal against the Japanese Forces. It was good to see and appreciate the importance of these conflicts.
My Daughter needed 4 extra days Cruising to qualify for the next level in the Loyalty programme, so in 5 weeks, we are all off to Noumea and Fiji Islands for 10 days. In October this year, my wife and I are going back to Southern Africa and in particular, the Kruger National Park to explore the Game Reserve. Lastly, in May 2018 we are all Cruising to Hawaii visiting all the major islands. This 35 day trip will celebrate my Daughter's 40th Birthday, I wonder who will be paying for that!
On the home front, I am back working at my Daughter's House where I only have two more rooms to paint and then start on the renovations. I completed removing the tiling on the front porch and re-laying new tiles and hanging a new screen door. A new front entrance door is next. Then I will start gutting and renovating the Laundry and then the main bathroom followed by the main bedroom en-suite. The list may get shorter after that lot.
As you can see, the activity has increased dramatically and would have been impossible before I started this marathon to personal improvement. I could not have started this life project without my 'Harem' of Realself Girls who have supported me along the way. I will be forever grateful to you all.
Learn to love life.

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Dr. Darren Molony. I am impressed with his confidence of what he can do for me and my expected outcomes. It will be a Fleur-de-Lis Abdominoplasty with a separate 'boob job' later on. His PA is amazing, and is so supportive and enthusiastic. The surgery is planned for 18th Sept. 2014. Post Operative communication has been brilliant. Nursing Staff were ringing him at home at 10-30pm, and he welcomed that. Change the rating from not sure, to Definitely WORTH IT!!!! Part2 surgery is scheduled for March 5th, 2015 for a bilateral gynecomastia, umbilicus rectification and torso skin rectification. This Gynecomastia procedure surpassed my wildest dreams and I am so happy. A Post Operative Seroma is a lingering side effect still receiving treatment by my PS for which I am so grateful. Dr Molony has been so confident and reassuring throughout my whole journey and would recommend him 'in a blink'.

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April 11, 2017
I have just read your entire story sir and it's amazing. I've just started on my journey, had bilateral gynecomastia surgery 2 weeks ago and have a fleur-de-lys style TT on 19th June.
I'm a bit concerned about the TT recovery, but your transformation looks phenomenal, so that's all i'm trying to think about right now.
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April 12, 2017
Hi, look forward to the big day with excitement, it really isn't that bad.
I presume you are not a geriatric like me, so many of the 'hiccups' may not eventuate. My life has changed so much, (for the better), that I wonder why I waited so long to make the change. Keep up your fluid intake during recovery as it is easy to become dehydrated. Forget the first week post-op as it is uncomfortable, but after that, it is all uphill each day.
I wish you all the best, stay positive and learn to love the 'new you'.
April 12, 2017
Many thanks, I was 33 in January, so I'd like to think I'm somewhat in my prime...
My chest op is healing really nicely so hopefully that is a sign for the next one!
Thanks again.
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July 25, 2017
Hi imath how are you it been long time... Just posted my 3 year update hope things are going well for you.
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July 26, 2017
Hello Sexy, glad to hear that everything is still going well for you. I too loved South Africa. I still admire you amazing journey. Keep Enjoying Life.
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1 year post

Typo

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The result of my Part 2 Chest surgery should have read 110%.

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UPDATED FROM imath
1 year post

The Finale

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Hi my friends,
Last week was my anniversary of mt TT Surgery. I missed updating on the day as the fan on my Laptop was sounding so asthmatic that I thought I would have to get a Ventolin Puffer for it. The Service Shop said only 2 days to fix it but it turned into a week. I felt so cut off from the world.
Now I have a quiet computer and with a new keyboard as well, all the keys are working again.
So what are my impressions of the last 12 months? Firstly, I re-read my review and had forgotten so much of the drama of the event, but as I have said so often, it was life changing mentally as well as physically. Outcome after 12months, TT surgery was 100% of my expectations. Part 2 Chest Surgery was at !!)% as I still can't believe how good it looks now after putting up with the embarassment throughout my childhood , teen and adult years. Simply amazing.
I am still watching my diet and my weight has increased 1kg (2.2lbs) as a result of the Cruise. I am working hard to get back to my target weight of 77-78kg. A balanced diet on a Cruise Ship is a plate in each hand. It is so easy to get used to a 5-course Breakfast, lunch and Dinner as well as morning tea, afternoon tea and Supper. I did go down to the Gym on the Ship, but only to watch others sweat.
Anyone contemplating going ahead with surgery, do it! OK, I had a few minor 'hiccups', but none of them were painful and I put them down to my age at the time, but the results have been outstanding. If you have a strong support team to help you, (Ididn't), then you will breeze through the surgery. It is still a marathon.
I have included some photos and some photos from the Cruise which was spectacular. It is only 100 days until the next Cruise of the Indian Ocean and South Africa, can't wait.

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September 22, 2015
You look fantastic!! I can't believe it has been a year already. You did so well. Enjoy yourself and LIVE LIFE to the fullest!!!
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September 23, 2015
Hi, thanks for your comment, I really don't feel like it is 12mths already, but thank my PS for his skill each day.
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September 23, 2015
My dear imath, looking great my man. Thanks for the update, great ending (ongoing ending) to an inspiring journey. & the ship looks great too. So glad to see you enjoying the new you. Safe travels on your upcoming cruise as well. May God continue to bless and keep you. Good nigh from California.....BJ
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September 23, 2015
Hi, thanks for your comment. I will still follow 'my harem' and feel pleased with the emerging results.
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October 1, 2015
Imath, you look spectacular! Thank you for all of your support. You have been very inspirational on this site and helped so many. If I ever come your way I will definitely look you up! And you do the same! Take care.
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October 2, 2015
Hi, your result has been great too. I am waiting for our Dollar to improve and then plan another USA trip. It is soo cheap for you to visit now as you get at least $1-30 to our $1.
Would love to see you and your family. Keep staying healthy and enjoy your new self.
October 2, 2015
I love love to cruise and congrats! You are not vain, good for you! No one knows how you feel until they live in your shoes! Spend your money on what makes you happy!! Live life to the fullest! God bless!
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October 5, 2015
Hi, thanks for your comment. It is called SKIing, (Spending Kids Inheritance). I am feeling so great these days and not embarrased anymore with the way I look. Friends think I must have Cancer as I am so skinny these days without having to carry all that 'blubber' around.
December 6, 2015
Loved catching up, as it's been far too long. You have a tremendous spirit and now the body to match. It's not The Finale, my friend, just the very beginning. Hugs!
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December 7, 2015
Hi, thanks for looking in. It really was a life changing 12mths and would do it all again in a blink!