Yes, it is absolutely okay to change your aligner one night earlier as long as you have worn it enough hours for the time you had to and as long as you don't make it to a habit of changing others earlier every time.
It is difficult to say anything without seeing your case. it is my request to upload pics so i can guide u better. if one can use standard debonding protocol with polishing thn no chances of any kind of damage to tooth surface.