Choosing a white shade that won’t blind people?

After years of dental issues I’m taking the plunge and embarking on a full mouth rehabilitation. Because I’m pale OM2 was suggested for the teeth color, but after learning this was one of the brightest shades on the spectrum I’m now worried the end result will look too intense/fake. Does OM3 tend to look a bit more natural? I want a bright smile but not a shade that screams “fake teeth.” My temporaries are neither shade so it’s hard to gage how either OM shade would look.