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It sounds like you are going through a very difficult time with this. Understandably so. I would suggest the following: You have had a lot of surgery over a relatively short period of time in the same region.
At this point, I would definitely allow everything to heal. I would not consider any intervention for the next several months. At that point you will need to reassess whether the final result justifies another surgical intervention (with its inherent risks and possible complications). The road you will ultimately chose (more surgery vs keeping the implant) is a decision you need to be comfortable with. Take the time to heal, and discuss the options with your surgeon when you are ready.