Privacy is important to me; my aged mother is the only individual, apart from my doting hubby and the medical staff at SpaMedica who have been made aware of my mini facelift. However, I have done extensive reading, both before and after my surgery and, having discovered the trauma experienced by victims of unscrupulous businesses employing unqualified and/or under qualified doctors, I feel compelled to share my personal experience.
My strongest advice to others seeking cosmetic surgery is this: RESEARCH, research and then, research some more. I chose Dr. Stephen Mulholland, initially, because of his solid medical background (qualifications in head and neck oncology, surgical innovations etc.), his frequent and very impressive media appearances, his consultancies and his appearances as an expert witness in medical malpractice suits. My initial session with him sealed the deal.
Dr. Mulholland is a consummate professional. He is confident, candid and forthright. He questioned me about my expectations, described what he was capable of achieving then spent the remainder of our lengthy consultation outlining all of the risks, complications, symptoms etc. both physical and emotional, involved with cosmetic surgery. This was followed up with a 20+ page information packet explaining every imaginable facet of pre and post operative surgery and much more. I was fully prepared; there were no surprises!
Most of Dr. Mulholland’s nursing staff have been with him in excess of 10 years, understandably helping to foster the teamwork that gives such significant results. Sharon A., my post-op R.N. performed my follow-up care, such as drain and suture removals. Her warmth, sincerity and empathy were characteristics that can’t be faked. She was also extremely competent and made it clear that she could be contacted at any time, in the event that I had concerns that needed to be discussed.
My face and neck lift was performed at SpaMedica, under local anaesthesia. Suffice to say that the surgery was done under hospital quality conditions, with highly trained RNs in attendance and was much less painful than anticipated.
The 4 hour, 250- mile round trip for the surgery and follow-ups was taxing but, believe me, I’d be found standing on the side of the road with my thumb out before I’d take my face to anybody but Dr. Stephen Mulholland. A reporter for the Globe and Mail, Canada's largest-circulation, national newspaper, stated that if she needed cosmetic surgery, she’d “sure haul my saggy arse to the likes of Dr. Mulholland or someone as well-trained as he is”. I’m in complete agreement. My ‘saggy arse’ can be covered up but my face is out there for the world to see and I’m very happy that I entrusted it to the right doctor.
Because of anonymity issues, I was reluctant to post any photos but I would like other ‘RealSelf’ readers to observe what a proper incision around the ear should look like. Only 16 days post-op and, already, the stitching is pretty much invisible! Please ignore the tiny earlobe wrinkles; you’re looking at 70-year-old ears.
I would love to post photos of the difference between the wattles that were threatening to reach my collarbone versus the new, Audrey Hepburn-esque chinline sculpted by the magician, Stephen Mulholland. Can’t do it! I know, I know, I have lost 80 plus pounds in the last year and a half (smaller potions, healthy choices, in case you are interested), which should grant me leniency from those who equate cosmetic surgery with vanity. But....
My fifty-year-old daughter is beautiful, by any standard, and looks young for her age. Her mother now looks pretty much the same age. Dr. Mulholland, I thank you.
Updated on 10 Oct 2014:
Hubby insists that I’m unrecognizable in the attached pix so I feel brave enough to send them. The change in my neck and chin is so satisfying that I can’t resist sharing! I’m hoping that another woman my age might see what’s possible and decide to take the plunge.
My 80 plus pound plus weight loss did not bring the joy that I had anticipated; when I looked in the mirror, all I saw were hanging jowls and a flabby, sloppy chin. Rather than looking younger, I looked like an old lady with a slim body. Nowadays, (although I’m only 2 weeks post-op today), I never pass a mirror that I don’t like. What bliss! My life has taken a 180 degree turn for the better.
Updated on 11 Oct 2014:
Hello all. Today, I discovered the snipping tool! It’s a dandy little gizmo on the Window’s Home Premium operating system that allows one to outline and then save a portion of a photo rather than having to use a more revealing square or rectangular segment. This has made it much easier for me to attach small views of my renewed bits without having my entire face out there in the ether. Hooray!
As usual after my surgery, I was feeling very pleased with myself this morning and after bathing, I applied make-up and puffed up my hair which is naturally curly and doesn’t need much fussing. I put on stockings to match one of the pretty new dresses that I’ve recently made myself (7, to be specific) and after a quick spray with Estee Lauder’s ‘Youth Dew’ (aptly named, sigh of gratification here), my stepson appeared at the front door keen to show off his father-in-law’s new Mercedes. Hubby, I and our lad enjoyed a tea and treats and during the 45 minute visit, our lad did not take the slightest notice of any change in my appearance. It looks like I won’t have to worry one little bit about disapproving fingers being waggled in my face with shouts of, “You’ve had work done!” As Dr. Mulholland stated, friends and family members not in the know will simply believe that I’ve changed my hairdo or had a rest. I’ve always been convinced that people spend very little attention to the appearance of others; we are all too self-involved to see much further than our own noses. Since this was what I had hoped for, I can’t very well complain although I must confess that some small part of me had hoped for shocked exclamations from folks stumbling back from the glory of my face, clinging to furniture and one another, gasping, “Oh my God, you’re so young and beautiful! What have you done?! Teehee.
Here’s hoping that all of you other Canadians have a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday this weekend!
All the best to all,
Louisainthewoods
Updated on 13 Oct 2014:
Hello All,
Hubby and I enjoyed a visit yesterday from our youngest grandchildren, aged 6 and 3. They live about a 2 hour drive from us and, because my ‘secret surgery’ has kept me incognito for nearly a month, Granddad has made the last 2 contacts sans Grandma. I was standing at the top of the stairs to welcome them when the older boy stated, “That’s not Grandma!” The younger boy scowled at me and agreed, “It’s NOT Grandma!” (Shades of Little Red Riding Hood here.) I was a tad alarmed but recovered nicely and said, “Remember, guys that Grandma used to be fat but she’s not fat anymore!” That seemed to satisfy them but they remained cautious. Later that day, after I’d been sitting on the floor with them (Ah, the glories of a slim body vs. the old fatso me!), for an hour or so, engaged in some fun games, the younger fellow whispered to his brother, “It IS Grandma!” So, it looks as if I’ve passed the test from my most severe critics.
My stepson (that’s only a word, he’s as dear to me as my birth children), has neither commented nor seemed to notice, any change in my appearance. No doubt, he equates all improvements with my weight loss. Children notice what adults are blind to. Well, that’s my insight for the day.
All the best to you all,
louisainthewoods
Updated on 17 Nov 2014:
Hello again, comrades in facial improvements! Tomorrow will be the second month anniversary of my lower face and neck lift. Recovery is going exactly as predicted by my PS and the info from this wonderful site. Ah, Dr. Stephen Mulholland; maestro of prestidigitation. I have suffered various surgeries in my 70 years and all have left me with extended scar tissue, better known in the PS industry as ‘hypertrophic and/or keloid’ scarring. During my initial interview with Dr. Mulholland, I showed him the horrible scar that I suffered as a result of surgery at the beginning of this year. He explained that the mess was ‘hypertrophic’ and assured me that it would not be a concern. After my surgery, hubby and I marveled at the size of his itty- bitty stitches. As you see, there is no scarring on this aged neck. NO SCARRING ! Vanity? Oh, yeah! One and a half years and 85 pounds ago, I told my sisters that it was great to be invisible; nobody looks at old ladies. We didn’t need make-up, didn’t need to dress up, didn’t need to watch our weight or exercise. Ha! It’s 11.00 A.M. and I am wearing a dress, fully made up, hair done. Hubby just made me a cup of tea and is gazing at me with love in his eyes. Need I say more?
Updated on 20 Dec 2014:
Despite the attached, extreme close-ups, my scars are barely visible; jowls and turkey wattle a thing of the past! As predicted, my cheeks and chin are beginning to recover sensation and my skin is in such good shape that I’m no longer wearing makeup. This is partially due to having recently undergone the first of 5 laser treatments that Dr. Mulholland includes in his lower face lift procedure coupled with the skin care products recommended by his aesthetician. Last night, hubby informed me that my cheek was “softer than a baby’s bum”. Having this surgery was the best thing that I’ve ever done for myself.