After surgery, three to six days of hospitalization is required, followed by another 7–10 days of downtime. If you travel for your surgery, you’ll need to stay near the surgical facility, for follow-up appointments with your surgeon as you heal.
You'll be given prescription pain medication, or you can take over-the-counter pain relievers to ease discomfort during the initial recovery stage. Swelling is normal, but you can ice the area to help bring the swelling down.Â
Your surgeon will remove sutures, dressings, your catheter, and stent at your post-op appointment, about a week later. Â
They’ll also give you a vaginal dilator, which resembles a dildo. Dilation is key to maintaining vaginal depth and girth. Your surgeon will provide a schedule for inserting the dilator regularly for a year. The frequency decreases over time, and you’ll receive dilators of increasing diameter.Â
A typical schedule involves inserting the dilator for 10 minutes, three times a day for the first few months and then once or twice a day through the first year. Regular dilation, or penetrative sex, will be necessary for the rest of your life.
Expect to refrain from work or strenuous activity for roughly six weeks. If sitting is uncomfortable, you can use a donut-ring pillow.Â
While you should shower daily and can douche to keep the area clean, avoid submerging in water, including swimming and bathing, for eight weeks. Some bleeding and discharge are normal in the first couple of months after surgery.Â
You can resume sexual activity after three months. The penile inversion approach doesn't create a vaginal mucosa, so because the neovagina doesn't self-lubricate, you'll need an external lubricant for dilation or penetrative sex. You may not be able to orgasm right away, but sensation should return within several months.
RealSelf Tip: There’s no guarantee you’ll be able to orgasm after transgender surgery, but “usually at least four out of five patients are having orgasms after the surgery,” says Dr. Carlos Gonzalez Legarda, a plastic surgeon in Bogotá, Colombia, in a RealSelf Q&A.