This is my 1st post. I am new to the website. I have not yet scheduled any procedures but have been to 2 Docs for consultation. I am wanting a face lift, upper and lower eye lids, breast lift and tummy tuck. This will take 2 surgeries. I really want to look as young as I feel.(I'm 54) ...but how do you justify spending almost 50K on yourself like this?. I could do a lot of traveling on 50K. I could really help my kids out with 50K. Do I want to be the lady that had the facelift? I don't even want my own kids to know I had any procedures done. I really wish I could go away for 2 weeks by myself so not even my husband would see me after the facelift. Please let me know how you justify the cost and all the self absorption tapes that play in your head. Thanks