Im in my 40s 5'8" and weigh 175 lbs. My body is a pear shape. When I lose weight I lose it from my chest and stomach first. It seems impossible to lose weight from my hips and thighs. Finding pants to fit is a nightmare. I wear a size med/large in shirts, but in jeans I wear a 16/18. I can never find a pair of jeans that fit correctly. When I get them to fit in the hip/thigh area......