heavy lids made me look tired
My courage came from many of the people that shared their stories here, and from many of the wonderful MD's that gave their opinions and shared their expertise with us. THANK YOU to each and every one of you. I am in my mid 50's. I am a week and a half post op on my face lift, neck, Bleph and ptosis. Although I still have a lot of bruising and some swelling, I am very happy with the results. I know, from all the research I have done, that swelling can take up to 3 or more months to totally subside, so I do have realistic expectations. It's also good if you can get the procedure done away from home so you can recouperate in a nice atmosphere. I had my surgery done in Lakeland, FL When it comes to surgery, I am the biggest chicken, but I was totally knocked out and don't remember ANYTHING, so I was so proud of myself after the procedure. I had pain for about 2 days, but after 2 days, the pain was tolerable. I sleep at an approx 45 degree angle, and I put cold compresses on the operative sites frequently throughout the day. At night, I wear a support which goes around my chin, cheeks and holds in place at the top of my head. This will be worn for 2 weeks. The 2nd week just at night. I do wear the support occasionally in the day time as it helps with the uncomfortable feeling I still have around the ears and upper neck area. For me personally, I would not venture out in public unless I had my sunglasses and head/neck covering on. If I'm covered up, you cannot see the bruising which is on the way to subsiding right now, but without a scarf, you would see red/blue/black around my neck jowels, eyes and ears. I did my research of the surgeon I used, and am VERY HAPPY with his qualifications, his personality, and most importantly, the before and after pictures of his patients, and talking to his patients, so I had full confidence in my doctor. That is very important. I'm on the road to recovery now, and really looking forward to the subsidence of all the swelling. Before you do any cosmetic procedure, do your homework and don't rush into anything. Also, it is very important to have REASONABLE expectations post op, so if you have issues, discuss them with your doctor, but wait at least six months before you make final judgement. Updated on Apr 9, 2010: Almost 3 weeks post op and I'm starting to heal well, and bruises are ALMOST gone. Just very faint at present. I am DILIGENTLY using Witch Hazel soaked compresses which is bringing out the bruising and aids with the healing. The ridges on the sides of my cheek are almost gone. The hardness on my cheeks, neck and back of my ears is softening up. Scarring is healing up really nicely. I am slowly starting to see some really nice results, even in the 3 weeks since the surgery. I also had an eyebrow lift, and that area is still somewhat numb, but the feeling is all coming back gradually. The feeling in my ears is almost complete. Just the lobes have no feeling, but I can feel the feeling slowly coming back there. One thing I have noticed is that my taste buds are really explosive. It's kind of neat. Anything I eat, my taste buds immediately spark fireworks LOL. It's kind of funny. So far, I'm VERY HAPPY with the results and the healing process. I'll give another update in a couple of weeks. Updated on Apr 15, 2010: 3 weeks and two days after surgery. All the bruising is gone. I still have some hardness on the side of my cheeks, neck, upper eye lids. I can feel everything slowly softening up, and I really like what I see. My ears are still tingly and a bit numb on the ear lobes now. Right after surgery, I could not feel my ears at all. The scaring around the front and back of my ears has healed up nicely and is not visible at all. The ridges originally appearing on the side of my cheeks are disappearing and moving down towards the chin line which is still a bit hard and numb. Scaring on my upper eye lids is still visible when I close my eyes. If my eyes are open, you can barely see the scars. The scar on under my chin is visible, but fading. I am still wearing the chin strap at night, and it feels really good to wear it. I am still sleeping in an upright position, but I think it would be ok to sleep on my back. I see the doctor again at the end of the month and I'll post another update then. Updated on Apr 23, 2010: Almost 4 weeks post op and ALL bruising is totally gone. I still have SLIGHT hardness and numbness from the surgery in front of, and behind the ears, chin and upper eyelids, but I can definately feel that slowly disappearing, as well as the swelling which is almost nonexistent, but not totally gone. I still have slight visible scarring on the upper eyelids, and the under the chin. The scars in front of, and behind the ears have healed very well. I still see a few bumps on the side of my cheeks, but those bumps and lumps seem to move around from day to day, but they are disappearing more and more. I go for another post op check up with my surgeon on Monday April 26, which will be 4 weeks post op. Updated on Jun 13, 2010: Three and a half month update - Under my chin is softening up but still quite hard. The back and front of my ears are slightly hard. The ridges on one side of my face, are softening. The upper eyes are still slightly numb but I can feel all the hardness fading slowly. On my cheeks and in front of my ears, I feel a slight tingling, which I think is related to the scar tissue healing. My main concern is under my chin. It looks like the lumps are disappearing, but I know I still have probably another month of healing. I go to the see the Dr on June 24th which will be my 3 month post op check up. I am still happy with the results and I do see the healing and swelling disipate. Updated on Jun 27, 2010: 3 month update: I'm 3 months and STILL have some hardness under chin and in front of ears, healing is still going on as well as the twinges of little tiny electric shock kind of feeling around the cheeks/ears. I am very happy with what I see. I saw my Dr on 6/24/10 and he said he was not happy with a little area under the chin and neck, and he wants to do a correction (no charge to me). I asked him if we can wait the six months as I know I'm still healing. My Dr is a perfectionist, and wants to correct the area in 3 weeks, but I will insist on waiting six months as I am quite sure that things will go into place at the six month mark. I had another 2 syringes of Restylane around my lips done too. Being as it's only lasting 2 months, I may just use up the one syringe I have left and stop doing it, as I spent $2400 in six months on Restylane for the lip area, and I think with that kind of money I could do something a bit more permanant. Updated on Oct 29, 2010: Believe it or not, I'm post op 7 months and STILL healing. Can you believe it? I am very happy with the outcome. In front of my ears on the sides of my cheeks are still a tiny bit hard and healing, as well as behind the ears and under the chin. I may have to go back for surgery for a tiny correction on the neck but we shall see what happens when I go for my Dec 2 appointment. Updated on 5 Dec 2010: Dec 5 2010 - Had a visit with my MD on 12/3/10. Unfortunately, I have to go back in for surgery for a revision on the neck/jowl area. I was hoping the problem would correct, but in just over 8 months post op, the problem did not correct. I'll be doing the correction under general anesthesia on 12/28/10 SIGH. Keep your fingers crossed that everything turns out good. Updated on 6 Dec 2010: Just corrected an error
I was SCARED TO DEATH. I researched my cosmetic surgeon for 3 yrs prior to getting this procedure done. I did NOT do the dental block. I had the nurse apply the topical numbing cream which did an excellent job. I am VERY HAPPY with the outcome and I can see I will be hooked on this. As evidence of my results, I know my surgeon is very experienced with the proper injection techniques, as everything came out just the way I wanted it to. There was no pain. Just discomfort, but bearable. I am VERY HAPPY. Updated on 8 Dec 2010: Not sure how well Restylane works. In one year, (from 12-2009 to 12-2010, I've spent $3200 for Restylane injections in small areas on my lips. Restylane looks great when I've just had the injections, but they only last less than 3 months. Updated on 8 Aug 2013: I'm still having restylane, but cannot understand why I have lumps and bumps from the shots. You see people on TV that have these shots and no signs of lumps and bumps. Very disheartening
Visited dr. raam lakhani, for the prospect of having a neck lift. He talked very calmly and assuredly of how good a candidate I was. Allowed him to go ahead with the procedure. Results were bad as they left me with a disfigured look under my chin. He said this was no big deal as it could be easily fixed with a revision. Allowed him to do the revision and that turned out badly also feeling like I looked worse than before the revision. Went to several Facial Surgeons in Tampa and finally decided on one of them to try and correct the disfigurement. After having that procedure done in Tampa I look better than before but will still need to have at least one more procedure to try and correct what was done. For what was a couple of hours of his time it has been a couple of years of my life to try and recover from what was done. Wish I had never heard of dr. raam lakhani.
on Dec7th 2010, i had extra large malar/submalar implants put in, today is the 25th of Dec, i am a male 40 yrs old in good physical condition, i had saggy eyes, and lines on my face, and my face was a little sunken in before this procedure, now my face is nice and swollen, not sure how much more my cheeks will go down from the swelling, i sure hope the ball look i have under my face will disappear, im pretty upset so far, will it get any better, because i have already considered taking them out. Thanks Ryan Updated on 26 Dec 2010: ok it's day 19 Dec 26, 2010, my cheeks look bigger than the rest of my face, i have XL malar/submalar implants, will this continue to go down in time, maybe the implants are to big, if they don't go down a lot, i will differently need to find a expert Dr, to help in the removal, and fix of my face, Updated on 27 Dec 2010: im getting these implants removed in january sometime cant wait untill im back to my old self
