Patty K. Young, MD

The Best Plastic Surgeon

"Dr. Young was my third consultation, and as the saying goes, the third time’s the charm. From the very beginning, Dr. Young and her staff truly listened to my concerns and patiently answered all the questions I brought to my consultation. Once they got my procedure approved through my insurance, I had additional questions. When I called the office, they immediately accommodated me with another consultation where Dr. Young addressed everything in detail.

I had my procedure on 11/13/2024, and Dr. Young did an exceptional job. Her follow-up care has been outstanding, and her bedside manner is one of the best I’ve ever experienced. She genuinely cares about her patients, and it’s easy to see why she’s considered one of the top plastic surgeons in Texas. My results exceeded my expectations, and I couldn’t be happier that she was my surgeon.

The office staff is equally amazing. They respond to emails promptly and even completed my Leave of Absence paperwork before I finished my portion. I highly recommend Dr. Young and her team to anyone. She is simply the BEST. Thank you, Dr. Young, for all that you do!"

It took three years to decide, and I'm happy I had the surgery. I'm also glad I chose Dr. Young. She explained the process thoroughly. She is very patient and very kind. I never felt rushed, not before or after my procedure. She answers all my questions. I went to see one other Dr. for a consultation.
As a black woman, I was very concerned with scaring, but Dr. Young did an excellent job on my incision. My surgery was long but uncomplicated. I woke up smiling and happy. Dr. Young has a beautiful bedside manner.
My pros are I love my flat tummy and how my clothes fit me. I can't wait to wear a two-piece bikini again. My cons are I probably started doing too much too soon, which is why there are some raised areas on my incision. I caught an infection, and the medical-grade silicone strips came off too soon, which, I believe, is why areas on my incision are not as flat as I want. I am using store-bought silicone strips, which I hope will continue to flatten those raised areas. Lastly, I'm not sure I had the best compression garments for my procedure. I was given a binder but had to ask for a compression top for the lypo I had in my upper abdomen and near my bra line.
As wonderful as I feel, there are some points everyone should know where I think our doctors don't provide enough detail. 1) There is a difference between the upper and lower abdomen. Drs charge for both, but when talking about a TT, they only refer to the lower abdomen. You should be clear about this if you want that super flat look. 2) The time to heal is longer than six weeks. If you can, get help. Don't let guilt make you rush the healing process. This is especially true of us mothers and full-time employees. 3) The more time you can take to heal, the better chance you have that your scarring will be minimal. My surgery was in October, and I still have pain from my lipo and TT w/muscle repair. 4) I still need to wear my binder. It's hard to sleep comfortably without it, and during the day, even short periods without one leave me feeling very sore. 5) Sitting straight for too long and driving are hard on me, especially without my binder. I still have to rise from a seated position gingerly. 6) I still have a lot of abdominal tension, but I learned that the position of the umbilicus and how tightly you are sewn affect this as the skin is still stretching. 7) All the above have limited my ability to work out. It's closer to 12 weeks, and I still feel I can't do a whole workout comfortably. 8) Tummy tucks sever the nerves in your abdomen. You may never regain your entire range of feeling. It could take up to 3 years for your nerve receptors to reconnect. But after three years they tend to be set.
I'll post pictures later

Dr. Young performed my breast implant exchange, tummy tuck and liposuction! My results are absolutely amazing and way better than I expected! Dr. Young was very caring and patient throughout the process from my initial appointment to my follow ups. She listened attentively to my goals and concerns and offered reasonable solutions that were right for me even discussing how she would take special care to minimize the appearance of my scars. I couldn't be happier with my results overall and am much happier with what I see in the mirror! I feel more confident than I have in years! If you're looking for a Plastic Surgeon who will tailor your surgery to your individual body and your lifestyle, you should schedule a consultation with Dr. Young! She really cares!

Dr Young is a wonderful, caring, genuine doctor.
She made my breast reduction a good experience.
My mom loves her and says more doctors should take a page out of her book.
Thanks so very much,
Barbara

It’s “easy” to do your job when things go as planned however a routine tummy tuck with lipo was everything BUT that with me lol. Surgery was a success but I developed post op problems which led to an infection which led to hospital stays and three months of hell. However, Dr.Young was my saving grace because she was not only awesome at healing my body, her voice (lol) and kind reassurance helped heal my spirit. Her staff was always available as well, to answer questions, refill meds or just to listen as I cried. So when picking a physician , don’t go for one that has a perfect record, look for one that knows what to do when they don’t because like in life... nothing ever goes as planned! P.S. I look awesome lol

I am 35 years old and had lost a good amount of weight on my own, and had sagging skin and breasts and I found Dr. Young online. I am so glad I did because from the first consultation, through the surgery and after, she and her staff have been phenomenal. They are always available to answer questions and are always friendly and patient. Dr. Young is so down to earth and nice, she feels like a friend you have known for years. She explains the surgical process in great detail and there are no surprises. She does an AMAZING job and I could not be happier with my tummy tuck, arm lift and breast lift. She has changed my life and I would strongly recommend Dr. Young for any cosmetic procedure you are considering

Dr. Young is amazing- from the first visit to the last. Her office staff was always kind and personable. I never felt pressured for more work then I wanted and felt safe to feel beautiful without being plastic

Dr Young and her team were exceptional. Not only did she reduce my cup size from F to C, but she also relieved my neck and back pain, and for sure boosted my confidence. She's definitely a perfectionist, they look amazing. Prior to surgery, I was nervous, and she relieved my anxiety by saying a small phrase, "I prayed for you this morning". Her faith and experience gained me a new and healthy look! Thanks Dr Young!

Before kids, I was totally happy with my body. I loved how I looked in clothes. After two c-sections and breastfeeding two kids for one-year each, I found myself not wanting to look in the mirror anymore. My scar was thick, I had a smidge of extra skin that hung over that ugly scar, my breasts laid almost flat against my body...it just wasn't good. After asking my friends who had gotten procedures about which doctor they used (and also looking at the final product), the name that kept coming up was Patty Young. She is highly respected by her peers, highly regarded by her patients, and her experience is unmatched. Well, I am still in the healing stages nine days out, but I have to tell you, I feel better about myself now than I did pre-pregnancy. She revised my scar and took some skin off to get rid of that hideous "skin shelf". She lifted my breasts, put in implants, and matched the nipples. I have to admit, it looks flawless. Many people have jobs that help other people, but I just have to think that there aren't too many people who give back self-esteem on a daily basis. Thank you for that, Dr. Young.

I started this journey of transforming and taking control of my body, back on New Year's Day 2011... my resolution was to lose all the weight that had crept on throughout the years. I was 28 years old at the time, had my routine physical to discover that my blood pressure and cholesterol were normal, but on the high end of normal, that alarmed me. I was only 28, knowing that I didn't like what I saw in the mirror and the size 14-16 pants I put on everyday, but it didn't occur to me that I would need to be taking measures to watch my blood pressure and cholesterol. Talk about a wake up call! So on New Years Day 2011, I stepped on the scale, at 214 pounds, and drove myself down the next day to Weight Watchers. Thus started my weight loss journey... and the blood, sweat and tears, that got me to 137 pounds that I am today (give or take a few throughout a month, ;0))

My name is Jennifer, I am 5' 8" and 32 years old. I have never had children, nor do my husband and I plan to have biological children in our future. We say we are the best auntie and uncle ever! I met my husband through friends of the family 9 years ago, had a crush on him the moment I met him, and we were friends for 7 years, until it turned into something more. We dated for 3 months and were married by elopement, that was over 2 years ago.

Being from a Christian home, I was reared that charm is deceiving and beauty is fleeting, but that a woman who loves and fears the Lord is to be praised. My family did a wonderful job encouraging good self confidence in other areas of our lives, love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness and self control, but it was not always expressed, the importance of taking care of yourself on the outside. So, as I continued to grow and mature, the way I ate and my sedentary lifestyle, caused weight to gain quite quickly. I didn't really care too much about that because I was told that a man falls in love with your heart, and as a single gal that hits all the romantic points in our hearts... "if I could only find someone that will love me for me!" This is extremely true, and should be expected... but one thing I learned that resonated with me was I had this guy friend that was a personal trainer. While we were have a very deep and meaningful conversation he said, "Men don't fall in love with your heart on first glance... they see a woman and say, whoa that's good... get to know her and that is how they fall in love with your heart!" That really struck and stuck with me, "men don't fall in love with your heart on first glance." So, to attract the type of man that I am attracted to, I needed to take care of me first, inside and out!

It wasn't easy, as I know many of you women can attest too... baby weight, surgeries, menstrual cycles, more babies, and good old fashioned not-watching-what-goes-in-our-mouths... leads to this journey we have all come from or going through right now. I have read dozens of reviews since a friend of mine that had a tummy tuck a year ago referred me to get plugged into this community, and I am so proud of each and every one of you. I tell all my friends and family, that a commitment to weight loss, eating right, changing your lifestyle, starts with you and you have to do it for you! Keep up the great work ladies, y'all deserve this!

Okay, so about my procedure... in telling you my back story, my husband is my biggest fan and supporter! He has seen me when I was 77 pounds heavier (while we were still friends) and knew my heart then, but fell in love with my commitment to taking charge of my body, when he saw the pounds coming off, and the more active I became. I have seen personal trainers, done various diets and workout routines (I am a P90X graduate and fiend, LOVE IT) to try and erase all the damage I have done to my body. I went from Weight Watchers, which taught me portion control, to a strict Paleo diet. Eating clean is VERY important to me and my family! I workout 5-6 days a week, one hour at a time, cardio to full body weight training. I say all this, to lead to, nothing I did would get the bulge from my belly. No number of crunches to miles run would allow me to really see what is/was going on behind these three rolls of skin. I was frustrated, to say the least, I called my personal trainer friends, asking for help, they had nothing... finally one of them told me that the skin can only come back so far, especially in a weight loss like you have had... though my journey had consisted of diet and exercise, losing the average 1-2 pounds a week, and weight training all the while, that didn't matter... unfortunately the damage was done... He then told me to go see a plastic surgeon about possible remedies.

I have had experience with Plastic Surgeons in the past, about 12 years ago I had a breast reduction, and to this day it is the best decision I have ever made... I would do it again in a heart beat! Going from stuffing myself into a DD cup, because I didn't want to order a special sized bra, to a very curvy and comfortable C cup... so happy! This gave me proportion at a time in my life when I was very self conscious of my body.

Living in Dallas/Ft Worth area, this is the mecca for Plastic Surgeons, I am sure there are other cities that boast of such, but I would say DFW is up there! ;0) My husband and I scheduled my first consult with a well renowned surgeon in downtown Dallas, he was very nice. Looked at my body and gave me his prognosis. He said that he could fix the damage, that what he was looking at could not be remedied by diet and exercise. I would need a full tummy tuck and flank liposuction to take care of the fat deposits in the love handles. We went through the rest of the consultation got the amount it would cost us and kindly went home to figure out our next course of action. I was sticker shocked to say the least, I mean I knew what PS surgeries cost, having had a 16,000.00 surgery several years ago, but blessed enough that my insurance picked up all but my deductible of 1000.00. Here, my husband and I having only been married, less than one year at the time, saving for our first home together and now this... I was having the inner turmoil, you know the one, the one that says, "Is this really necessary?" "You are just being selfish!" "There are soooo many more things you can be doing with that kind of money." Just when I was in about to say, this isn't going to happen, my Love grabs my hand and says, "let me do this for you, you have worked so hard to accomplish 95% of your goal... the time, energy and commitment, I want to give you the last 5%! If you want this, I want it for you!" Yup, that is right ladies, I found a good one!
So, we went home, made the commitment that a home is first priority, we budgeted and saved (did I mention that I am a housewife, my husband is our breadwinner, so we live on one income)... built and moved into our new home on December of 2013, and set up saving for my tummy tuck.

I had a second consultation with another surgeon a few months ago, I had been praying and I really wanted a female surgeon. I had a female do my breast reduction and just felt more at peace with that, so I met with Dr. Young in Plano. From the moment of calling to book the consultation, to stepping foot in her office I have felt so comfortable. Beverly, her assistant, is so sweet, she herself had a tummy tuck a couple years ago by Dr. Young and she showed me her incision line. Throughout the whole appointment we connected! She was so thorough, I never felt rushed or silly for the questions and concerns I had. It was at that appointment, I set my tummy tuck, and after her prognosis, flank and bra back liposuction, for December 18, 2014. It will have been a LONG six months from my consult to surgery, but it will be well worth it! I am literally counting the days!! **find the doctor you are comfortable with, they are the ones that you are entrusting your final results too!**

What has been awesome, is that I have a real support system... my family, even though they don't understand per say, support me and are excited for me. Two of my good friends have had tummy tucks and I have been able to ask loads of questions and get their personal feedback. Having been introduced to this website is a God send. I hope to chronicle my journey from lumps and bumps to the flat side as well has half the ladies on this blog.

My goal is to follow my surgeon's instructions, as if they are law. Too not be a hero, my husband says he is going to take care of me and I am going to allow him to do so. My mom is flying in from MI to help me for the first few days, I am so blessed by this kind gesture. It always feels good to have your "mommy" there when you aren't feeling well! I am a pretty holistic person, so I plan to fill my prescriptions (instructions as if they are law, lol!) but my hope is to get off them as soon as possible and use supplements in place of chemicals to treat what may rise. Eat several small meals a day, my friends both said they LOVED applesauce while they were mending the first few weeks, protein shakes, soups (made ahead and frozen to watch sodium content and control what ingredients I am putting into my newly transformed body!)

I hope I keep realistic expectations... this body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, and one day it will fade away... but in this life, I want to experience looking in the mirror and being encouraged by what I see after an intense workout, I don't want to be scared to have 3-5 pounds extra one week and know that could make or break me getting into a couple pairs of my jeans. My expectation is that I will have a different tummy than the one I see everyday, and it will continue to motivate me to keep this body heathy, fit and strong!

Thank you for taking the time to read my posts, I feel honored to be a part of this community and cannot wait to read all the success stories!

I will post some tummy photos, argh, later on tonight... for now, here is some befores and afters with my weight loss journey!

Many blessings! Peace, Love and Happiness
Jennifer

Updated on 24 Sep 2014:
85 days!!! Everyday closer to completion of a nigh 3 year journey of transformation! I will update pictures hopefully tonight, so that y'all have a look at my before tummy tuck and lipo and know what I am "working" with now... no more rolls, that is all I really care about, no more rolls! Come on December 18!!

Updated on 25 Sep 2014:
Hello RS Friends,

After looking at dozens of reviews over the past few weeks, I noticed that the surgeon/surgery fees disclosed here are all over the place... I have seen from $4900.00-12,000.00 for a tummy tuck- and whatever add ons from there.
I feel that maybe a better explanation of my cost with Dr. Patty may help someone else looking to get a tummy tuck and wanting to know what to budget and be ready for financially.

With saying this, I realize the cost depends upon doctor, location, procedure, etc. but I will give the break down of the cost of my procedure- I am having a full tummy tuck with liposuction of my flanks and bra back. I live in Ft Worth and my surgeon is in Dallas. I will be staying one night at the hospital in a private room, with an adjoining bed for my sweet hubby to be there with me. You will see my quote includes, surgeon fees, hospital costs and anesthesiologist fees and for how many hours of his/her service. My Love and I are paying cash for this surgery, so we were given a discount off of the surgeons fees... essentially they discounted 5%, what they are normally charged for credit card processing or financing from their bank/processor. No additional discounts given from hospital or anesthesiologist as they already price cosmetic surgery at a significant discount, to make it feasible for you and I to afford their services. My pre-labs and binder are included in the surgeons fees, as well as up to 1 year of post op visits, if need be, at no additional cost to me. Since my surgery is not until Dec 18, I have not filled any prescriptions, so I do not know the cost to me on these yet, as we are responsible for filling and paying for them separate. I have seen some ladies post that they usually run around $150-200.00, once I have specifics for my situations I will share with y'all!

Also, I pay all three entities separately, surgeon, hospital and anesthesiologist.
Okay so here goes,

Dr. Patty's Fees:
Full Tummy Tuck (with fascia repair on abs, including obliques) $5,000.00
Liposuction (flank and bra back) $3000.00
**discount for paying cash** -$400.00
Total: $7,600.00

Hospital Fees:
Tummy Tuck: $1,650.00
Liposuction: $665.00
**overnight stay- private room** $300.00
Total hospital stay: $2615.00

Anesthesiologist Fees:
Tummy Tuck: 4 hours $1280.00
Liposuction: 3 hours $780.00
($500.00 for the first hour, and $260.00 for each additional hour)
Total Anesthesiologist cost: $2060.00

For a grand total of $12,275.00 for my transformation!

I chose to disclose this information, because I know what it is like to save and budget for something you want so desperately, I thought it only fair to share my cost so that y'all are more prepared when you go to see your own surgeon. Knowledge is power, and I like to be prepared and in the know! Please if anyone has any questions, you can message me or make comments below... Hope this helps and gives confidence in your personal approach of this adventure! Keep smiling- we are one day closer to the flat side!!

Updated on 26 Sep 2014:
The hubby helped me take these photos last night... cannot wait to take the afters, these befores are what they are... soon to be naught but a memory!

Updated on 29 Sep 2014:
Now that I am 80 days away, getting more and more real each passing day, I wanted to express genuine gratitude for all the wonderful ladies I have already come in contact with. Your encouragement and enthusiasm, keeps me smiling and that excited butterfly turning in my tummy! Thank you, and I pray that peace, strength and love continue to follow you everyday of your lives! Cannot wait to see all your after photos, y'all deserve this!! Keep smiling, lots of love and hugs!

Jennifer

Updated on 30 Sep 2014:
I just made my hospital down payment... this is really happening! Only 79 days to go! Started making my checklists of things I want t have on hand and meals I want to have prepared and frozen, namely soups! Cannot wait for December 18!

Updated on 2 Oct 2014:
As you have read in my earlier posts, I lost 77 pounds and have LOVED the way I feel, my energy, stamina and overall health vastly improved with the weight loss! One thing I found vital, during the weight loss journey, and now to maintain and strengthen is working out. I know we all feel that way... it is important, but other things seem to get in our way! I just want to encourage you to look for resources to help motivate you and keep you accountable before, during and after this TT transformation. I do not belong to a gym, I have some equipment here at my home, but what I find extremely useful and accountable is participating with workout challenges that are presented online, via blogs and social media (Facebook is AWESOME, I am in two challenges right now- one that I renew every month since it started in June and the other encourages you both physically and spiritually- meditating on God's word as well as taking care of the temple of the Holy Spirit).

We all know how busy life can be, how demands on our time, energy and emotions can derail us from the well meaning intention of taking care of ourselves. Between carpools, school lunches, meetings, dead lines, soccer practice and bath times, we are lucky if we can remember what happened in the day let alone getting on the treadmill that is staring at us everyday. Let me encourage you, DO IT FOR YOU! You are important too, we are all on RS to be a part of a community that understands the struggles and victories. Too glean from each other, to be accountable to friends that share in the common goal of feeling and looking better, more confident. I read all the time posts of women that want to lose, tone or strengthen before their tummy tucks, and what an amazing goal... the hardest part of any workout Is Putting On Your Tennis Shoes... the motivation behind it. You deserve this transformation, you deserve to take care of yourself, you are worth it! Keep moving and keep smiling, if you would like any additional information about the blogs and challenges I use in my day to day, please message of comment me! The heart of my testimony in weight loss success is to be an encouragement and "bestie" to those around me that want to get started, keep accountable or finish that last hurdle... we are almost there ladies, 77 more days until I am on the flat side!

You all encourage and motivate me, I hope to give some back to you!! Be blessed, we are more than conquerors through Him that Loves us!

Updated on 3 Oct 2014:
Hello Friends,
I had to share, today I am making my first batch of soup to have both for supper tonight, but to also freeze for when I am recovering and My Love is taking care of me and things around our home! I am wanting to make my own soups to limit the amount of sodium and the quality of ingredients that goes into them. If anyone would like the recipe for my Split Pea Soup with turkey ham and turmeric please message me! 76 more days! Keep smiling Lovlies!

Updated on 9 Oct 2014:
Today marks 70 days until I am on the flat side! I am feeling especially thankful for having been led to this website. I have met, through cyber space :0), so many beautiful women. All of you have stories, from overcoming obesity, to baring children, to severe surgeries that have left you uncomfortable in your own skin. We all have a story, the scars, stretch marks and saggy skin is just the unfortunate evidence left behind in the beauty of what our bodies are capable of. From the woman that lost 100+ pounds, to the mother of triplets, or 10+ pound babies... we have all earned our stripes, now it is our turn to let the beauty and strength that brought us through each of these situations, to show on the outside. I am so incredibly humbled by the responses and replies that you have shared, your own stories. As much as I am excited to have my personal journey to the flat side, I can genuinely say... I am so excited for each and everyone of yours! Keep smiling, you are worth it! Hugs from TX.

Updated on 11 Oct 2014:
I have read several reviews on Tummy Tucks... it seems to me that many of you prefer to sleep in recliners during the first few weeks of recovery. Presently, I am not planning to rent or purchase a recliner... my husband and I have a leather sofa with a chaise lounge at one end, we have a "captain's" chair with ottoman, and/or my bed that I am planning utilize to the best comfortable local while mending. All these furniture pieces are low lying as we have a pretty modern/contemporary style.

I am curious to hear some replies if y'all think it foolish for me to not have a recliner... and if so, why? Would y'all be so kind as to provide feedback below on best practices for sleeping arrangements... I don't want to buy anything more than is necessary, but I don't want to hamper the healing process because of fatigue and lack of comfort?!? Does that make sense??

Speaking to Dr. Patty, she never said anything about needing to get special furniture for the healing process... only that if I tell her what side I sleep on she will remove the drain from that side so that I can sleep in a semi fetal position to maximize my comfort. Did any of you get that same "answer" to the best sleeping practices/arrangements question?

Thank you in advance for any advice and counsel y'all provide... just one of a million thoughts and questions that swirl in this mind! Y'all are the best, be blessed... Hugs!

Updated on 11 Oct 2014:
Only 67 more days 'til I join y'all on the "flat side!!" Can hardly wait!

Updated on 13 Oct 2014:
Yesterday was a fun day... a surprise day with the Hubby, who decided to spoil me a bit, took me out shopping to get some of clothing items needed for after TT... we went to Old Navy and Victoria Secret... I was able to get a front zip closure sports bra ($10.00 coupons, gotta love them!!), a couple of small maternity style winter dresses on clearance (10-15.00 each) at Old Navy- my friend said that these were helpful with giving room in the tummy area for the binder and drains. Some pajama bottoms and loungewear for being home and staying cozy in front of the fire. It felt nice to see a small stockpile of needed items, more confirmation that this is actually happening!! I got butterflies with excitement over the thought of what these items really meant. I felt so blessed to have all the support and love from My Husband in doing this procedure, he even threw in a couple of body mist sprays of my favorite VS scents, "to help make you feel pretty when you don't feel the best!" Yup, he makes it easy to love him... so blessed!

A few more clothing items to pick up, like soft t-shirts/tank tops to wear under the CG... no slip socks or slippers... and a pair of slip on shoes, don't want to have to bend over and try to tie my shoes, that wouldn't be too fun! Have my online cart filled with supplements and teas, using vitacost.com, great pricing!!

I decided that I will be using Pure Trim for my protein shakes in the morning. After doing some research and having them send me a detailed ingredient list of what makes up their shakes, I was very impressed. I think this will be an easy breakfast for my hubby or myself to get together, and it keeps me on point for our diet lifestyle.

So all in all, a great start... now just 66 more days to be prepared, spirit, soul and body! Lots of Love and Happy Healing!! xoxo

Updated on 13 Oct 2014:
Thought I would share some silly, fun pictures from this weekend... My Love and I went to a Haunted House in Ft Worth, called The Cutting Edge. My first time ever going to doing anything like that... We met these two girls and our party went from two to four... It was a riot! Soaked from suds up to your ears as you leave the house... It was worth it!

Updated on 22 Oct 2014:
I am so excited to be heading to MI, my whole family lives there and it has been quite a blessing to see them so much this year. This is my second trip home, the first was in July for my grandparents' 60th Wedding Anniversary... Nathan and I surprised them as we are the only grandchildren that live out of state... it was such an honor to celebrate this momentous occasion with them! Now, I just get to go by myself, first trip alone without Nathan, boo hoo, but I am going to enjoy spending quality time with old friends.

I say all this to pose a question... have you ever felt like you wish you had your surgery already?!? I know the ladies out there that are fortunate to be on the flat side already are loving showing off the results, especially to people they haven't seen in awhile!! ;0) My point is, I stop and think, man wouldn't it had been cool to have my tummy tuck for this visit, my family already knows about my 77 pound weight loss, they have seen me since.... but to just be there, confident in the finished product of what I strove so long and hard for! It makes me smile and chagrin at the same time... now, it won't stop me from having a wonderful time and enjoying every moment with the people I love dearly... just one of those thoughts that popped into my head yesterday as I was getting some things prepared to pack. Have you ever felt this way??

57 days cannot come soon enough! Until then I rest in the peace that passes all understanding, and blessed with today because this is the day that The Lord has made, I will rejoice and be glad in it! Keep smiling Lovelies, and those of you still waiting for the "flat side"... soon and very soon! Those of you healing, I pray rest and quick healing over your bodies! Lots of love and hugs! Jennifer

Updated on 22 Oct 2014:
On "Preparing for my Tummy Tuck" news, I ordered my Pure Trim (puretrim.com) shakes (2 boxes- 1 chocolate and 1 strawberry, w/ shipping came to $71.75 for 20 shakes) makes for easy breakfasts while I am healing and My Love has to run out the door for work. These shakes are great that you don't have to add anything other than water... they are whole food nutrition. Thank you Sheeney7 for introducing the product to me on your review, after doing further research (having them send me the full nutritional ingredient list) I found this to be the best meal replacement/protein and nutrient rice shakes! Looking forward to tasting them!
I also placed my vitacost.com order ($56.54)... GREAT savings there ladies, and if you spend over $50.00, free shipping!

This order was for all my supplements:

Dandelion Root Tea ($3.57 a box)
Smooth Move Tea ($3.57 a box)
Smooth Move Laxative ($10.49)
Turmeric, Bromelain, Curicumin- for liver detox, swelling and bruising- 90 capsules ($23.77)
Arnica Montana- 250 tablets- for pain ($5.79)
Epic Bars- Paleo friendly Protein bars ($2.89 each)

As promised I want to be as transparent on cost when it comes to my tummy tuck realities, beyond just the procedure itself. I am trying to be as frugal as possible, but also not compromise our healthy lifestyle... hope you find this review helpful as you are budgeting for your tummy tuck procedure.

Happy Wednesday and Happy Healing!
Jennifer

Updated on 26 Oct 2014:
Whether you are waiting for your transformation date, just had your surgery, or weeks/months post op... here is just a piece of inspiration to keep us all on track... be encouraged! Be blessed! One day closer...

Updated on 29 Oct 2014:
I recieved my order from Pure Trim, this just got real! I mean these are the shakes that I am going to have for breakfast during recovery. That. Is. Too. Exciting.

If anyone wants more info on Pure Trim's nutritional content and ingredients please message me! I am not a sales person for them, I just found them from another RS tummy tucker, Sheeney7. I called them and got all the info, mailed, that helped convince me they are the best shakes for my needs.

Until December 18, one day closer!

Updated on 29 Oct 2014:
Just a head's up for all my RS friends, I will be leaving for my visit to MI, in 2 days. Probably won't be on this wonderful site much during that time... if y'all don't hear from me, it is not that I don't care, I do very much! I pray the healing touch of our gracious Heavenly Father will mend your bodies quickly, you will be strong and healthy. You will be so encouraged by your results, and you will be at peace going into surgery! I pray that friends and family will be positive and supportive... that you will have nothing but love and peace surrounding each of you. When I am back from my trip, it will be only 35 days until my journey to the flat side! Wow, how exciting to think about! Be blessed my fellow TT, until we meet again! Lots of LOVE and HUGS!! Jennifer

Updated on 13 Nov 2014:
Hello all my RealSelf friends... I am home! Home, Sweet Home! Loved my time with my family and friends in MI, left just in time for them to the get the snow, and me to leave it behind. Back in Fort Worth, where to be honest, it isn't much warmer, lol! But, all in all, nothing a nice fire in the fireplace a cup of tea and My Love cuddling on the couch can't fix!

I hope that all you lovelies that are healing, or just got out of surgery are doing well, feeling strong each passing day and loving your transformations! Cannot wait to catch up, read and viewing all the reviews. Those of us still waiting for our turn, keep patient, stay positive and we are one day closer!

I have included some pictures from my trip, we made the best of the opportunity... spent almost everyday with all my family and friends, now ready to relax and just enjoy my sweet hubby's presence and the joys of home!

Lots of love, 35 days until I am on the flat side, time to amp up the preparations... one day closer!

Updated on 14 Nov 2014:
I have a follow up appointment with my PS on November 21. She is needing to retake photos as it has been 6 months since my consultation. I am planning to ask even more specific questions, things I didn't know to ask before RealSelf!! I am going to list some below, if my RealSelf friends can think of any questions or comments that I may be missing or you felt important to know before your Tummy Tuck, I would greatly appreciate the feedback!

1. I want her to mark on me to actually show me the scar line, I plan to bring either bikini bottoms or my favorite panties so that she can judge accordingly. I am just trying to have purposed in my heart and mind, realistic expectations for my body.

2. What will I be having done in detail? Repairing of muscle/abs, diastsis recti, etc?
3. Will I, in her opinion, require an extended tummy tuck, where the scar comes further towards my back, as I will be having lipo of the flanks and bra back areas?
4. I have seen photos of jagged, uneven, hi/low scars, as well as still having trace visibility of the old belly button, is this something I should expect with my procedure? **again realistic expectations**
5. Drains, will they be in the pubic area or in the incision line?
6. Liposuction- where will she be removing the fat and making the tiny incisions?
7. Supplements- want to move onto natural remedies for healing as soon as possible, anything she recommends I stay away from and would suggest? Can I take supplements the night before surgery?
8. In her opinion, what is the best way to heal after a tummy tuck? What supplies should I have on hand?
9. How common are "dog ears" or other complications with someone like myself? Fair skin, non smoker, rather fit, etc.
10. What kind of suture techniques do you use?
11. Birth control- how soon should I be off of it, as I will be using Lovenox for blood thinning, and how soon can I go back on it?

So there they are, if you see that I missed any valuable questions or inquiries, please do not hesitate to provide feedback... I appreciate all the wisdom and experience this website provides, with all that have come before! Thank you in advance for your time, and I am so excited to be one day closer to the flat side!

Happy Friday,
Lots of Hugs and Love
Jennifer

Updated on 19 Nov 2014:
WOW... where is this time going?!? 29 days, less than a month now! I am so excited, but now is the crunch time! Go to see Dr. Patty this Friday, I love meeting with her and her staff... they are super friendly and always eager to answer my questions! I feel I can trust them implicitly, so thankful I shopped around until we came across her... I believe that was the direction of the Lord!

Nathan gets to go with me on Friday, I love that he is so willing and eager to do whatever it takes to make me comfortable and at peace in this situation. He is a good one!

Oh, stopped taking my birth control pills, advised to do so one month before surgery as I will have Lovenox to prevent blood clots... so hormones are starting to go a bit funny, not to mention my nutritionist and natural health practitioner put me on various supplements to get my thyroid and adrenals functioning the way they should, apparently both are sluggish, lol! So I feel my emotions all over the place at times, I have to keep myself and in check and be quick to apologize when they get the better of me! He is so patient and kind, I really don't deserve it at times, but I suppose that is true definition of Love, seeing the best in the person even when they are being not so pleasant!

Oh, and we decorated for Christmas, Nathan wanted to focus on the inside of the home so I would be able to enjoy it, as I won't be up and around much during the holiday... I know it is a bit early, but with the surgery Dec 18, we thought WHY NOT?!? I will post pics later... so pretty, if I do say so myself!! ;0)

Okay Lovlies, those of you mending, praying for you daily! Those of you waiting, we are one day closer, praying for peace and strength in this waiting period. Lots of love and hugs!

Jennifer

Updated on 19 Nov 2014:
Here are some pics...

Updated on 19 Nov 2014:
It seems that I have not been receiving emails from this website letting me know if updates to reviews or pictures... Has anyone else had that trouble? I want to support fellow RSers but it is much more daunting of a task if you don't have emails or notifications of updates that have occurred?!? Thanks friends!

Updated on 20 Nov 2014:
Four weeks or 28 days however you want to look at it, December 18 is right around the corner!

Started making and freezing some soup again this week... Last night Sausage Kale Soup from skinnytaste.com, so flavorful and healthy! My husbands favorite!

Just prepping more and more, getting things into order... Finished making some Christmas gifts for our neighbors. First set of Christmas crafts since marrying Nathan two and a half years ago! My mom would be so proud! ????

Updated on 22 Nov 2014:
I met with Dr. Patty again yesterday... Nathan was able to come along, it was his first time meeting wit her as he wasn't able to attend the June consultation. The purpose of yesterday's meeting was to retake before pictures as it will have been 6 months since I had last seen them.

It was so affirming and reassuring to meet at their office, Beverly (the assistant) is just the sweetest, she is a wealth of knowledge as she has had a tummy tuck herself by Dr Patty. They took the time to answer all my questions including the ones that I got from y'all. Nathan was very encouraged to have met with them, he was able to ask some questions of his own. So here is what is going to happen on my body.

My tummy tuck requires fascia repair (muscle repair) procedure, she asked how tight I wanted to be... I told her tight, to the point of not causing possible healing concerns, but I want to feel tight. She also illustrated on one of my old photos how low and far back the incision will go, I get to bring my bikini bottoms on surgery day to insure that she keeps it low, very excited about how low she is able to get the incision, she tightens the fascia on the thighs as well, apparently she has found this takes some of the incision strain or pressure off while healing, bonus it could cause the inner thighs to lift a bit... YAY!
Any revisions are covered for one year, that is for her fees... dog ears or minor changes can and will be done at the office, any major issues that require an anesthesiologist will be done at the hospital and may result in additional hospital and anesthesiologist fees. I will be having two drains in at the time of surgery, she is willing to remove the drain of the side I sleep on at the time of leaving the hospital... her thought is I can be comfortable to lie on my favored side in a fetal position to give my back a break. My surgeon provides a walker for the first few days to get around, so I don't have to rent or buy one. I have to stop taking my supplements 2 weeks before surgery... arnica and bromelain are excellent for post op according to Beverly. OH, one tip Beverly gave, for anyone that is concerned they may suffer or have suffered from post op constipation is to drink prune juice with melted butter... I know that may sound disgusting but she says it tastes pretty good and it works very quickly without causing strain of muscles, I am going to remember that one! Foods to keep on hand, according to Beverly, especially for the first few days is plain crackers, like saltines, APPLESAUCE- she said your body almost craves it, ginger ale and prune juice... she said think of it as you are recovering from the flu, the foods and are good to have on hand, chicken noodle soup, bananas, etc. Things that are easy on the body to digest and don't cause bloating or other issues. She suggests that you don't eat anything too salty or heavy the night before surgery, just as an added precaution for any post op/anesthesia sickness.
One thing my PS does different, and I can completely buy into, is she doesn't put a binder on her patients for the first 5 days... she knows that the binder makes her patients more comfortable and secure, but her main concern during those first few days of healing is that we don't have dying skin or other complications that a restrictive binder may cause... she wants the nerve endings, tissue and blood flow to have the best chance of reconnecting and flowing. This method has proven effective, to the tune of only 3% of her patients (past and present) have had complications, when the medical average is anywhere from 15-25%... that is peace of mind right there if you ask me!! Ask your surgeon his/her methods, it really gives you that confidence of knowing what is going on in your body! Dr. Patty will also be putting on a tape that stays on for 4-6 weeks so by the time that it is removed my scar will be nearly untraceable, both Nathan and I could hardly believe that... how awesome if that bodes true for my body!

All in all, meeting with Dr. Patty yesterday made me so excited, I could have had the surgery right then... but alas 26 days and counting! So close and yet so far! Lol, no, I am very thankful that I have this time to get things done and enjoy Thanksgiving next week with my husband. Hope this helps any of my friends out there in RS land, y'all are always such an inspiration and encouragement to me... keep smiling Lovelies!

Jennifer

Updated on 26 Nov 2014:
I know that we all have a lot to be thankful for this season... between those of us who have had their dreams come true, whether you are recovering, showing off the transformation for the first time to family and friends you haven't seen in awhile, or getting ready to have surgery we are all blessed! Those of us that our surgeries are still a ways away, reflect on the love and support you have from the friends and family you have shared this journey with, the children you bore, the weight you lost... we all have stories of triumph, and I am thankful for RealSelf that I get to tell mine!

Happy Thanksgiving to all my RealSelf friends, I truly hope you have a blessed day with your family and friends, and know that there is a little woman in TX that is thankful for your all! Hugs!

Jennifer
ps 22 days! **insert squeal here!**

Updated on 28 Nov 2014:
Less than 3 weeks! Ahhhhhh! This is feeling more real everyday that ticks by. I am excited, so excited, but also have had those moments... You know the quick thought is "what if?!?" I tears up the other day just thinking, what if, and that left my husband without me. The man I love more than myself, that I crave to be with, made a covenant vow... It got me feeling lonely and almost panicky. As he said, sure it would be hard, extremely hard, but he knows a) that nothing is going to happen, (we have had peace in this decision for two years, peace is our gauge on a decision, because peace comes from the Lord- fear and confusion is from the enemy) other than me feeling so good and sexy about my transformation and b) if something did happen he knows he will see me again because he knows where I am going!i don't want to even think about being without My Love... So I cast my cares upon the Lord for He cares for me... God has not given us a spirit of fear, but He has given unto us a spirit of power, a spirit of Love and a sound mind! For my God makes all things come together for good for those that Love Him. As a deer pants for the water so my soul longs after you... You alone are my heart's desire and I long to worship you.
My Love and I plan to pray in the surgery room before I am wheeled back, hopefully with our PS if she is willing... Believing that the God that created me and formed me and knew me while I was still being knit together in my mothers womb, will send His angels to watch ove me and guide the hands of Dr Patty. I am preparing for this surgery, spirit, soul and body! Fear is just False Evidence Appearing Real, and I choose faith in my gracious heavenly Father! Lots of love and well wishes to all my RS friends out there! Hugs!!

Updated on 29 Nov 2014:
We are at less than 20 days, into the 'teens' cannot believe it!

Hugs and well wishes to all my RS lovelies out there!

Updated on 29 Nov 2014:
And the countdown continues... 18 days!

Hard to believe this week I will be paying off my surgeon's fees and getting my pre-op instructions. Crazy how the time does fly by! I started on Real Self back in August and started my review in September- 86 days out from surgery... now we are in the 'teens'! Amazing... come on December 18

Updated on 1 Dec 2014:
One day closer... tick tock tick tock!

Updated on 1 Dec 2014:
It was in the 80s in Fort Worth yesterday, so Nathan and I decided to take our little selves to our favorite town center in Southlake TX. Walked around, did some window shopping and getting post TT clothing ideas. Then we stopped off at this great little restaurant, Brio and had a couple appetizers... Loved the beef carpaccio! Yummers!! Trying to get some social time in, out and about time, with the hubby before the big day! We had a great time! Just thought I would share with my friends, love yall! Happy healing and peace to yall in the waiting time! Hugs!

Updated on 2 Dec 2014:
One day closer... Bought oodles of groceries to put in our stock up pile! Continuing to make and freeze soups, casseroles, and desserts! So glad my mom will be here for the first few days to make Christmas dinner for us... She is so excited to be doing it! I am feeling very blessed. I am a little nervous that I am not going to get everything accomplished that I want too... But she and Nathan keep telling me they can handle it! Okay, deep breath! It will be okay, right?!? ** feeling frantic**

Updated on 3 Dec 2014:
Today I made bone broth (bringing to the hospital), chicken soup, broccoli and feta crustless mini quiches, paleo almond joy candy (all for the freezer).... continued the deep cleaning, or as y'all have mentioned "nesting". With my Mom staying with us, I want the home comfortable for her as well, so much to do so little time. It seems like just yesterday I was thinking December 18 would never come, WOW, now the time is racing by!! This is all happening so fast and yet I feel like I am just spinning my wheels, will I accomplish everything I want to do before the big day?!? I am sure we all felt like that... called Nathan today to hear his voice of reason, I was feeling pretty frantic. He is so good, said things I needed to hear, and reassured me in others.

Tomorrow, I write the big check, Dr. Patty gets paid in full, gulp and WOOHOO at the same time. Still haven't heard from the office when and where to do my labs or any of my pre-surgery instructions... but I am sure I am just being a bit anal, I just need to breathe... lol!

Had my first TT dream, woke up chuckling and looking at my stomach... the incision line was located mid torso and the new BB was above that... Oh MY, what nerves and day long thoughts will process into dreams, huh?!?

My plan is to take measurements and weigh-in night before surgery, I will record the numbers here that way we can look back and see what changed overall. Wow, feels good to be talking about this, change- transition- transformation- Bring. It. On.!!

Well that is all for now Lovelies, happy healing to those of you post-op, those of us December TT, we are nearly there, and those still waiting... you are one day closer to the flat side!

Lots of love and hugs... oh and sweet dreams of your TT journey! **wink wink**

Updated on 4 Dec 2014:
Oh. My. Goodness. Two week mark!!

Paid off Dr Patty, $7600.00, feels good to have that part taken care of... Yesterday was very stressful thinking about writing that check, but after doing so and delivering it... It is like the weight is off and I can just enjoy the next couple weeks of prepping and anticipation!
Got my labs done today... Received the walker from PS... We are getting there ladies! Can't beleive it!
One day closer to the flat side! Xoxo

Updated on 5 Dec 2014:
Yesterday was a big day... drove an hour and 15 minutes to Plano to get my pre-labs done and met with Beverly to hand over the check (insert squeal here)... the ladies there took so much time with me. I felt at ease just asking questions and chatting as Thursdays are Dr. Patty's surgery days, they had few appointments yesterday. Both ladies have had several procedures done with Dr. Patty, but they both had TT... one thing they both reiterated over and over again is the importance of not getting constipated. The one woman said she went 12 days without a bowel movement and was in agony... so she decided to try Beverly's concoction of 6 ounces of prune juice to 1-2 pats of melted butter and drank it, she was amazed as soon as she drank it, she said almost immediately, she had relief. So those of us about to go into surgery keep that in mind! I received my walker yesterday, will use this the first 3-5 days. I won't be having a binder on for until my first post-op appointment on December 23, so Beverly suggests that I bring a pillow from home to put between my tummy and the seat belt, excellent idea! It will also absorb some of the shock of bumps, etc... just overall feel more supported.
I will be receiving a pre-op list from them here in the next few days, and my prescriptions should be sent in next week for pick up!!
Made gluten free roll dough- enough for 35 rolls and froze them, these are Nathan's favorite!
Made a new soup, beta-carotene soup (carrots, sweet potato and red lentils, recipe on rawfoodworld.com)
Todays plan for prepping... finish cleaning the baseboards. I am hosting a jewelry party this Sunday and I want the house spic n' span for the guests! The party is for a ministry that I have been a part of for years, Women At Risk, International. They are a Grand Rapids, MI, based ministry (my home town) and they sent me a box of their items here in Fort Worth... the whole premise is to shop with a purpose. Their mission is to create a center of hope around women and children that have been sold into sexual slavery throughout the world, rescuing them. They have over 9 safe houses now and these women have jobs of dignity and value, making jewelry, accessories etc. that can provide for their families. I am very excited to introduce my friends to the product, but mostly the message of hope and value that WAR brings!

Food: (you know this lady likes to talk food, lol) finishing up the bone broth. Making paleo "girl scout" thin mints- let me tell you, they taste just like the real thing!, spaghetti squash primavera (recipe on skinnytaste.com)- this freezes really well!, and some paleo "bran" muffins and protein bars. The freezer is filling up, but I know the food will go fast with Christmas coming, just trying to be as prepared as possible!

One day closer to the flat side! Ahhhhhhh!!!
xoxo
Jennifer

Updated on 6 Dec 2014:
12 days to go!

Updated on 9 Dec 2014:
Sorry that I haven't been updating the last few days, been crazy around here and my iPhone doesn't do well with posting to this site all of a sudden. Hoping and praying that everyone is healing well and those of us getting closer to the big day are feeling prepared and excited! My husband has started into counting even the half days... like only 11 1/2, only 10 1/2 more, and yesterday afternoon, only 9 1/2 more days!! He is so cute, I think he is as excited about me getting this, and he able to get it for me, as I am about having the procedure! Merry Christmas to all, lol!

He took yesterday off and we were able to spend the day together, had my last big splurge meal before my TT, we went to Central Market and had their organic beef burger with bakery bun and sweet potato fries, it was Oh. So. Tasty. but definitely glad to have the "last meal", lol, this far in advance! It allows me to focus on having this body primed for the procedure. We got most of our Christmas shopping done, that was a ton of fun. The best part of yesterday was just spending time with Nathan out and about, enjoying the Christmas spirit before I am house bound for most of it!

About September we started in redecorating our Master Bedroom, Nathan wanted to have it complete by my surgery so that I "could have an oasis to recover in"... we finally finished the last details this weekend, it looks awesome, if I do say so myself! ;-) I will upload pictures a little later.

All in all, I am ready for December 18, I feel prepared, I feel strong, and I feel spiritually prepared as well. One day closer!

Lots of love and hugs!
Jennifer

Updated on 9 Dec 2014:


Updated on 10 Dec 2014:
So last night I received an email from my PS, it had all my pre-op instructions attached... oh. my. goodness. I got so excited, I called my husband at work and said "It came, It finally came"... he started laughing and volunteered to print the instructions off and have them framed. Oh Dear, rolls eyes, excited yes, that excited, No! lol

I will list what they are prescribing and some of the interesting tips and instructions that were included. So here goes:

Antibiotic: Keflex 500mg, 1 every 6 hours until gone, beginning day after surgery
Pain Medication: Norco 10-325, 1-2 every 4 hours as needed for pain
Muscle Relaxant: Flexeril 10mg, 1 every 8 hours as needed for pain/muscle spasm
Other: Lovenox, 1 per day for 5 days, to prevent blood clots
Other: Phenergan 20mg, 1 every 4-6 hours as needed for nausea/vomiting
Other pain meds: possibly to alternate- Tramadal

One week before surgery-
-Confirm your day of surgery plans. This includes your transportation and after-care (a responsible adult for the first 24 hours, around the clock).
-Review your prescription orders and instructions
-Purchase Polysporin and 4x4 inch gauze squares.
-Purchase any extra compression garments, you may wish to purchase more than one garment for laundering purposes.
-Confirm all lab results and paperwork have been received by Dr. Patty Young, MD, if you have not already done so.
-Continue to practice healthy habits, nutrition and fitness. No strenuous exercise. No saunas, hot tubs, steam baths or mud wraps. No smoking or alcohol.
-Find you comfort zone. Locate the most comfortable place where you can gently recline and recover. You don't want to be testing locations or pillows the day of surgery. Shop for magazines, books, and other things to keep you busy and entertained in the day or two following surgery.
-Wax or shave your bikini area and legs. It may be uncomfortable to do so in the days immediately after surgery.
-Relax. Call our office with any unusual anxiety or concerns. Get plenty of rest. If you have trouble sleeping, call our office.

One Day before surgery:
-Pack your bag for the day of surgery. This should include:
All paperwork
You ID
All prescription medications
Your post-surgical compression garment
Reading glasses, if needed
Warm, clean cotton socks
Saltines or other crackers in case of nausea during your ride home
-Expect a pre-anesthesia call to review your state of health for surgery
-Confirm your route to and from surgery or the recovery center, with the responsible adult who will drive you. Also confirm plans with your 24-hour support person and make certain he or she has all of your post-operative instructions.
-Shower as directed. Use an anti-bacterial, fragrance free soap. Shampoo your hair. Do not use any hair gel or other styling products, scented skin creams, or moisturizers. Do not use any deodorant, hair spray, perfume, or cosmetics. Remove all finger nail and toe nail polish.
-Do not eat or drink anything after 12 AM. No candy, gum or mints. Anything more than a small amount of water as needed for brushing teeth or swallowing medication may result in the need to cancel surgery.
-Relax. Get plenty of rest and avoid unnecessary stress.

The Day of Surgery: (insert squeal here)
-Nothing by mouth. Anything more that a small amount of water as needed for brushing teeth or swallowing medication may result in the need to cancel surgery. This includes candy, gum and mints.
-Dress Appropriately. Do not wear cosmetics, jewelry or any kind, contact lenses, hair clips, body piercings. (if there is something you cannot remove, let the admitting nurse know right away.)
Wear comfortable, clean, loose-fitting clothing: Do not wear jeans or any tight- fitting bottom; rather have a pair of loose, drawstring sweatpants to wear home. Wear slip on, flat shoes with a slip proof sole, no heels. Wear clean cotton socks, as the operating room can feel cool. For your comfort, wear a zip or button front top. No turtlenecks.

After receiving this paperwork, it sparked a few questions that I emailed Beverly, the assistant, about... I received an answer this morning. Here they are:

One, the compression binder... I am receiving one from Dr. Patty after the 5 days, correct? So if I need to get another one, what kind of compression garment should I purchase and how do I figure the size? Spanx?
YOU MAY WANT TO GO TO SPANX AFTER YOU ARE DONE WEARING THE ABDOMINAL BINDER. JUST DEPENDS ON THE AMOUND OF SWELLING. DON’T WORRY ABOUT THAT FOR NOW.
I have read that some people were instructed not to shave or wax 48 hours before surgery because of risk of infection, is this what you would suggest I follow as well?
I ALWAYS SHAVE EVERYWHERE BUT THAT’S JUST BECAUSE IM VAIN, YOU FEEL
FREE TO DO WHATEVER YOU ARE COMFORABLE WITH. WASH YOUR BELLY BUTTON OUT GOOD:-)
Green tea, as a supplement I understand that I need to stay away from, does that also pertain to brewed green tea? I don't drink coffee only herbal, black and green teas, let me know what you suggest. NO GREEN TEA OF ANY KIND
Morning of surgery when I take a shower, I know that moisturizer and lotion are a no go, but what about conditioner in the hair after shampooing? I plan to braid my hair to keep it out of the way, just wanting to be able to put a brush through it, lol!
CONDITIONER IN YOUR HAIR IS FINE, NO HAIR SPRAY. Also, I purchased a dry shampoo for those days that you cant shower after surgery
because of the drains.
And lastly, I noticed that I was prescribed Norco, but under the other med area it also say Norco to alternate with Tramadal, though I don't see Tramadal listed as a prescription or the amount to take. Just want to make sure I am clear on everything, thank you so much! I appreciate your time and patience with me on this matter!
THE NORCO IS CONFUSING EVER SINCE IT WENT TO TRIPLICATE FORM. You will probably want to start with norco and then when you run
out go to the Tramadol. Or of Norco is to strong for you, use Tramadol instead of Norco. But don’t take both at the same time. I see
what I did , I will correct it on your post op instructions and Dr. Young will talk to you about it as well before you are released from the hospital.
We can't call Norco in anymore:-(

So there you have it, all the pre-op instructions. I am feeling prepared and confident in my decision to go with Dr. Patty, I love how quickly they respond to my questions and how real Beverly really is... she is so sincere and understands what we are feeling and going through because she has been there!

So to those of you that are post-op, positive thoughts and prayers of quick healing go out to you... those of us that are just a few days away I pray for peace and calm in our decision, I pray that the angels will watch guard over us and direct the surgeons hands! Those of you that are still waiting for your day to the flat side, I send you prayers of patience and peace, it comes and it comes fast! This has been a 2 1/2 year waiting period for me, and I can hardly believe I am 8 days away! Thinking of you and praying for y'all! Lots of love and hugs, Jennifer

Updated on 11 Dec 2014:
7 days until I am on the flat side! Oh. My. Goodness.

As of late I have read several updates that talk about post-op depression, or real low points that ladies are experiencing. I am not about to say that what women are feeling is not real or legitimate... as I have not had my surgery/healing time yet, but in preparation for this procedure I have been in the Word a lot, whether by listening to worship music or meditating on truth. May I just be an encouragement to those of you that may be struggling right now... as I may need reminders in the coming months of truth... because truth sets us free!

This Christmas season started because of a little baby named Jesus, born from a virgin- conceived by the Holy Spirit. God, the Father loves us so much that He sent the ultimate sacrifice to come as a helpless little baby, so that we could touch him. He would know the struggles and faults we experience everyday, yet He was without sin. This man grew up to be ridiculed and slandered, still He performed miracles, healed the sick, but His greatest gift was His own life. Jesus came to give us life, and life more abundantly. That every good and perfect thing comes from above. Too make us the head and not the tail, that we should go above and not beneath. Our loving Heavenly Father, the Bible says, knew you while you were still being formed in your mother's womb. Loves and cares for you so much that He ransomed us with Jesus. The fruit of the spirit is love, JOY, peace, patience, kindness, goodness and self control. The Lord never promised our days would be easy here on the earth, He just promised to never leave us nor forsake us. The name of the Lord is a strong tower, the Righteous run into it and they are safe. The joy of the Lord is our strength. He calms our Spirit and renews our strength. The Bible says, He collects all our tears in a bottle, that is how much He loves and cares for us.

I share this all today because I genuinely care and love every one of you ladies that I have had the privilege to see just a glimpse into your struggles, stories and lives.

I pray that the Lord would lift you up and carry you on Angel's wings. That when all you can do to get through the day is cry out Lord Help me, that I believe He hears our cries and delivers. I pray that the enemy that comes to steal, kill and destroy, the great deceiver, would be silenced and that the truth that sets us free would overcome us. I pray that the battlefield, our minds- especially as women- that every thought would be held captive and think on the things that are pure, noble and lovely. Jesus came to set us free from the chains of sin and death, by Jesus' stripes we are healed, by His death and resurrection we are saved... need only believe that and call on His name, for He will answer you!
I pray this all in Jesus' name, Amen.

Lots of hugs and love during this season of our lives!
Blessings,
Jennifer

Updated on 12 Dec 2014:
I received my post op instructions from my PS office. Very extensive list of instructions to follow! Need to pick up a few more things to help with recovery- baby wipes, hydrogen peroxide, gauze, medical gloves, hand sanitizer, t-shirts/tanks, and another front closure sports bra.
Food: made Paleo saltines/club crackers yesterday to take to the hospital. Picking up prune juice, pineapple juice and easy snacks for Nathan.
Tonight, we are having some friends over for supper and tomorrow I plan to finish up Christmas shopping and wrapping of gifts.
Nathan is working like a mad man trying to finish up his projects for the year. He works tomorrow and Sunday, then just Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday... then he is off with me for 11 days. My mom is finishing things up in MI, as she will be here the 20-24th... I feel very blessed to have this kind of support!
Slept last night in a propped up 'V' position, trying to get myself used to this as I am a side/tummy sleeper, it worked pretty well. Decided that I am going to do my hair in pigtail french braids for surgery, keep it out of my face and easy to sleep on. Hmm, I think that is all for now... just one day closer and the excitement continues to build!
Lots of love and hugs!
Jennifer

Updated on 12 Dec 2014:
Just got the call from the anesthesiologist office, they were confirming and collecting their payment! $2060.00 for 7 hours! Phew, two down, one to go! Hospital will be taken care of next week... Then it is on My Friends!

Updated on 13 Dec 2014:
5 more days! No stressing it nerves yet, feeling really good today! Praying for all my RS friends today! If you have any special prayer requests, please leave a comment below or message me... The Bible says where two or more and in accord there He will be in the midst... He will hear from Heaven and rescue them! I would love to believe with you! Love yall! Jennifer

Updated on 14 Dec 2014:
Started to arrange my room and organize the supplies I have gotten so far. Took some pictures! Found a great deal at Albertsons on cute little Christmas gift wrapping boxes, 2/5.00. That seems to be the perfect size for beside the bed necessities and sterile supplies! Hung up the dresses I bought from Old Navy a couple months ago and boing a clothes basket to store my comfy clothing to make it easier to access and launder for my DH!

Got all the Christmas shopping done... Now just wrapping! So thankful for that! Feeling a little out of the whole "spirit" of Christmas this year with planning and focusing on Dec 18. So today Nathan and I just stopped and reminded ourselves of the true meaning of Christmas, how blessed we are and what a GOOD God we serve! I am so incredibly thankful and humble to my husband who is so supportive and genuinely excited for me and to give this to me. He even wanted me to show him what I am packing for the hospital and the panties/bottoms I am going to wear to show Dr Patty where I would prefer the incision/scar line to sit. What. A. Guy!

We are so close, no nerves yet, but did have my second set of TT dreams, no nightmares, thank the Lord!

Well I think that is about it for today! Lots of hugs and well wishes! Happy healing!

Xoxo
Jennifer

Updated on 15 Dec 2014:
Today is a big day, Nathan is working 14 hours today, tomorrow 14 and Wednesday 12... bless his heart, but then he is off for 11 days, very thankful for that... not just for myself, but for him. Since starting with this company in April it