Since I was about 13 years old, I have been struggling with extreme discomfort and sexual intimacy because of my labia. It would get stuck between my legs and rub against clothing, causing pinching and pain. Id adjust myself in public constantly, as if I had a wedgie that would never go away. I couldn't wear jeans, bikinis, or any right clothing as it would irritate my vulva and also create a visual bulge. I declined any sexual encounters for YEARS.... because I avoided the judgement and embarrassment. Once I was sexually active, I didn't allow anyone to touch me down there. They weren't allowed to look, I would position myself in specific ways, cover myself, and always have the lights either dim or off. It interfered with penetration, and I always had to "spread" my lips apart just to have entry. When it would get rugged or pulled, goodness it hurt so badly. I am SO happy that I was able to have this procedure done. I am still early in my recovery, but I can already tell that I will be much more comfortable in my own skin. As much as aesthetic's were a part of my self-esteem issues, the majority of my decision came from my physical discomfort. Knowing that this will no longer affect my every day life puts me at ease. I can also finally embrace my femininity, and not deny myself of pleasure or self-love.
For this surgery, I went to a urogynecologist in Newport Beach, CA. Thank you to my surgeon, MATTHEW H. CLARK for being so amazing. I was awake for the labiaplasty, and went with local anesthesia. I had never had surgery before, so I was extremely nervous about EVERYTHING. I struggle with anxiety, and I was vocal about this on the day of my procedure. My doctor was very kind and caring, and comforted me well. He assured me I would be alright and gave me some anxiety medication so I could relax. I consider myself a bit of a p*ssy when it comes to pain tolerance, however this ENTIRE PROCEDURE was absolutely painless! He numbed me very well before the local anesthetic was inserted, and I didn't even realize I was being poked. Pain after that first day had only been mild. I had severe swelling unfortunately, but even then I did not feel much pain. I was only taking 600mg Ibuprofen, and I'd say the pain level was a consistent 2/10. Peeing is very uncomfortable, and will continue to be for the next week to come, at the least. So prepare yourself ladies! I used a standard squirt bottle to gently rinse myself after. Air dry, or gently pat with tissue. Again, I would like to say a thank you to my wonderful surgeon for being as knowledgeable, understanding, and patient as he was! I truly felt like I was in great hands, and my feeling has proven to be true. I was leery of going to anyone but a plastic surgeon, but quite honestly, he seemed much more attuned to the area of concern as a gynecologist. Glad I went with him. I recommend him to anyone in the area! Price was low, and comes with great skill, and lovely care. $2999 was my total. I cannot WAIT to see how it looks in a few weeks!! Will update soon!! :)
Updated on 18 Apr 2020:
Feeling a bit of pain near the clitoral hood. The area is still inflamed and very sensitive when touched/rubbed against clothing. I still have a slight hematoma I believe. Bleeding small quantities from the dark spot and swelling is still present
Updated on 18 Apr 2020:
Updated on 22 Apr 2020:
Me before. discomfort, redundant folds, and labial hypertrophy.
Updated on 22 Apr 2020:
Looking much better!! I think this is a good estimation of the final result. It is STILL swollen, I can feel the stitches deep down are not yet dissolved. So it will look EVEN BETTER in a couple weeks! I’m experiencing a bit of discomfort still near my clitoral hood and on the sides where my precipice was reduced. Hoping it subsides sooner than later!