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Almost 3 months still don't feel good!

Hello everyone! I'm a 40 year old mother of 3...

Hello everyone! I'm a 40 year old mother of 3 (plus 1 step-kid). I had my first daughter at 20, second at 21. I had no clue what I was doing and gained way too much weight...72lbs with the first kid! I had my third child by 25. I dieted and exercised and have lost all my weight from the kids, but have stretch marks and loose skin that just will not go away (no matter how many crunches I do). I am barely a 36B cup and hardly expanded in the breast area while I was pregnant, in fact, I think I'm even smaller than prior to having kids. I have no volume or fullness on the upper pole and they kind of changed in shape. Last year I remarried to a wonderful man that is currently deployed to Afghanistan. For my 40th bday he decided that it was time for me to feel good about me. Happy wife = Happy home!! Gotta love that man!! I am excited yet nervous. My surgery date is October 25th. I am going in for a TT with no muscle repair and a BA. Am worried about the tummy more than the BA...am on here for support so I don't drive my friends, hubby and co-workers nuts!!

Ok, been on here allot lately and it seems that...

Ok, been on here allot lately and it seems that allot of women have complications. Some of them scare the bleep out of me! Is this the norm? I'm starting to worry if I'm making the right choice on the TT portion. Worried about DVT, infection, etc.. I'm not staying overnight as it is an outpatient only facility. I'm not questioning the BA as I really would like some cleavage. My surgeon picked out 450 mp+ saline. Little worried this might be a bit too big, but I am pretty darn flat. I call my breasts the Valley of Death cuz nothing grows there. lol A nice full C cup or a small D cup is what I'm aiming for.

I have also read reviews that the lipo hurts quite a bit and I know that he'll be sucking a couple Dr. Pepper cans worth on my flanks. lol I'm 40, 5'3" tall and weigh in about 126. Have a muscular wide build. Thin from the side view, not so much from the front. Got the muffin top going on girls! Seems like it just started in my late 30's and keeps on building. I eat clean besides maybe a few too many carbs (love my breads) and love my Dr. Pepper. Officially about 2 weeks out on having one. Feeling like I'm having withdrawals. lol Go to the gym 4 times a week or do cardio. Can't seem to drop back down to 120 for the past couple years. Ugh!! Anyway, would like to hear some positive motivational experiences about the TT portions. Anybody help out on that?

Also, I haven't bought anything at all in prep for it. I'm about 62 days out (who's counting right?)...seems like allot of women on here buy so much stuff!! Is it all really necessary?

Just got a call from the PS office. My bloodtests...

Just got a call from the PS office. My bloodtests are good to go. Just waiting on my mammogram on September 11th. Hoping it's clear too. Starting to seem a little more real to me now. Also got them to order me an anti-anxiety for that morning. The car ride there ought to be interesting! Told my friend that's taking me no utube allowed! lol

56 days to go! Not that I'm counting down the days...

56 days to go! Not that I'm counting down the days or weeks or anything. Just realized that finally after 19 years of being totally embarassed I will once again feel good about myself! I am soooooooooooooooooooooooooo ready for this!

Has anyone looked into wearing a "trendy top"...

Has anyone looked into wearing a "trendy top" under their binder? I heard the binders were itchy..saw these half tank top thingys at Wal-Mart.

49 days to go! Ugh....I'm nervous already!!...

49 days to go! Ugh....I'm nervous already!! Haven't bought one single supply either. Debating on 400cc or 450 cc still. Hmmmmmmm decisions, decisions. Ok so how far in advance is everyone taking the Arnica/Bro meds? Also, is anyone taking anxiety meds a little before so you can sleep? I know me......not going to sleep a wink!

Another week down! Wooohooo!! Hoping everyone is...

Another week down! Wooohooo!! Hoping everyone is healing nicely. After seeing so many great results, I'm ready to get my game on!! It's been 19 long years of stretch marks and extra skin!! Too many years of hiding myself. Hoping I still feel this way until the surgery.

Are there any tv dinner's out there that are low...

Are there any tv dinner's out there that are low in sodium? After day 4 of post-op I will be flying solo during the days. Just wanting something easy to eat, but not high in sodium.....

Just curious if anyone out there has had a TT with...

Just curious if anyone out there has had a TT with just skin removal? Doc said I didn't need muscle tightening which is somewhat astonishing as I have had 3 kids....all over 8 and 9 lbs. Not to mention I gained 72lbs with the first. I am pretty flat, except for skin flap on the lower portion. Anyone in same boat? Wouldn't surprise me if in surgery he decided I needed it.

Just reading on here how everyone seems to be...

Just reading on here how everyone seems to be staying overnight or even more after a MM. Mine didn't offer that option. Just a night in a hotel close by. Getting down to less than a month and I find myself being on an emotional roller coaster ride. Last time I was on a ride, I hurled. lol I suppose this is a normal to be going through all this!

Ok girls.........so I was questioning the size of...

Ok girls.........so I was questioning the size of implants last week. Went in for one last try-on today. 400 cc felt great, however, I am going under the muscle. I put the 450's on it felt huge. How can just one shot glass of water make that much of a difference. It's got to be in my head or something. I had two nurses there show me their's........one had 550, but was 5'9" tall and looked great, the other was shorter than me, maybe 5"1 and had 460 and to be honest, hers looked small. Amazing how darn confusing this can be. I'm supposed to let my surgeon take the lead of course, but he said I could go with either. Hmmmmmm....this trip was supposed to help. Darn blast it!!

Yesterday I had to push back my surgery date to...

Yesterday I had to push back my surgery date to November 12th. No big deal to me as long as it happens! Anyway, I'm going to the in-laws for Thanksgiving and am praying that I don't have drains in.....how long did everyone have their's in? Nothing like killing the turkey mood at the table with a nice drain in. lol

Got my mam results.....good to go! Whew! Now I...

Got my mam results.....good to go! Whew! Now I guess I should start buying supplies. Who has the best list on here? I'm still questioning the size of my implants, but I'm sticking with what the doc reccomends. Trying to tone up as good as I can prior to surgery. Starting to get nervous at times, don't know how I'm going to be on surgery day. A mess, I'm sure!! Words of wisdom from post-op patients would be great!

Ok, I finally got a few things. Will get the rest...

Ok, I finally got a few things. Will get the rest a few days beforehand. Am seriously not dreading the augmentation (looking forward to the new expansion) but the tummy tuck is what is freaking me out. Every time I'm in the shower, I just keep picturing a scapel and it puncturing my skin. Yikes!! Hand me an anxiety med will ya? When people say this is an emotional roller coaster, they weren't kidding. I'm not even to the surgery date yet!

Ok so I'm down to two weeks. Weird cuz now I'm...

Ok so I'm down to two weeks. Weird cuz now I'm feeling calm. Maybe because I just am at that time point? Maybe just because I want it done and over with so I can be fabulous! ha ha ha Am trying to approach this with a little humor. I'm sure I'll be shaking like a chihuahua when it comes to that day. Amazing how much of my time this journey has consumed!! Being a single mother of 3 for 9 years I never imagined I would be in a position to get this done. Thanks to the most caring husband I have now. Anyway, onto today's daily double: What is the best way to carry around those pesky looking drains, especially while showering?

One week to go and I'm still not sure of the size...

One week to go and I'm still not sure of the size of my breast implants. I think I'm going too large. One part of me would like nice cleavage and the other part of me says I'm a sporty gal. Been battling size and the feelings of guilt. That money could have paid off my car, or bought a camper, etc......I feel like I'm about a roller coaster from ............

Panic attack is hitting. Why did I schedule this...

Panic attack is hitting. Why did I schedule this while my husband is deployed? My Mom and Dad have already passed from cancer and my rock is in Afghanistan fighting a war. Got the MIL coming down, but honestly I just want my husband here to tell me it's going to be ok or hold my hand (or hair while I hurl). I guess this is one of the valleys I have hit on this ride. Last week I was fine. Then I get mad at myself because I'm whining about a surgery that I have chose to do. Darn this is wearing me out. I guess I'm just plain down scared.

Well I took one of my best buds in for a BA today...

Well I took one of my best buds in for a BA today with the same surgeon I'm using on Monday. Her results were fabulous!! So I am no longer doubting my size of implant and I know now what to expect when it comes to the pain of a BA, just in the world of the unknown with the TT. Did get to try on my lovely CG...and can say it's not as bad as what I was expecting! It has two zippers up the sides and a crotch that velcros so you can easily unattach it to use the restroom. They pin up the drains onto this little hook at the top. Seems pretty well thought through. Ok so now I have to make it through the weekend without panick attacks. Can it be done? lol

So it's my last working day. Surgery is Monday...

So it's my last working day. Surgery is Monday morning at 7:00 a.m. Slept like absolute pooh last night, even had a cry fit at 3 a.m. thinking the worst if something happened to me. I've got 3 wonderful kids that depend on me for love, support and more love. Life has been adventure with them that's for sure. Got to thinking that I have a favorite quote that I do not seem to be following; "Do not fear death, fear the unlived life" so I'm going to put on my big girl panties and look at this as another chapter in my book of life. I would like to say thanks to all the ladies on here for the wonderful suggestions, the humor and the journals of what you have went through!! This site has prepared me for what to expect, so thank you RealSelf! Will post with my updates as soon as I can. My computer at home is on the fritz a bit, so it might take me awhile. Happy Healing Ladies! See you on the flat side. :)

I made it ladies! Had a full TT and BA today. ...

I made it ladies! Had a full TT and BA today. Surprisingly the BA is by far the worst part of my mommy makeover!! A man surely must have invented the binder though. That thing is tight. ha ha I went back for surgery at 11:00 a.m. and left at 4:45 p.m. I was really nauseated, but it was due to no foods and meds combo. Ate some fresh pineapple, cantaloupe and a fourth of a grilled cheese. Feeling so much better now. I am going to stay on top of meds for sure! The binder is so tight, it was causing my upper back and neck to pinch. That was the 2nd worst part of this. We put some gauze under the binder edges and I feel so much better. Can't feel my tummy tuck much except when I get up to use the restroom. I had mentor moderate profile plus 450's put in filled to 500 and had 330 cc's of fat sucked off my flanks. Death to the love handles. lol Am surprised I am so awake. Been milking my drains...my right one so far is at 36 cc's and the left so far at 85 cc's. The right drain is to my upper abs, the left to my lower. Had allot more loose skin there. I am at home resting in the recliner watching tv and figuring up when to milk and take meds for the night. Will post some pics tomorrow. I am thinking I'll end up a really full 36C when everything settles or possibly a small D. Oh the hubs will be happy! lol I am going to crash for a bit, will post pics tomorrow. Thank you for all the kind words and support. You all are a great bunch of ladies.

Post op day 2. Woke up hurting pretty bad in the...

Post op day 2. Woke up hurting pretty bad in the breasts. I cannot believe how bad that binder feels. Did anyone else have that problem? I am using my legs allot to get me up to the rest room. Having no bowel problems so far. Am definitely more swollen today though. Drainage is slowing down a bit. Never thought a bag of Birdseye peas would be my friend, but they are today. lol Got an appointment at 1 today. Hoping it looks good! Not sleeping but just off and on. Just want the binder off. Don't know how some gals go for weeks with it on. Getting caught up on HGTV...love that channel!! My hubby called me this morning from Afghanistan. Just hearing his voice makes me feel better! Will post more pics when I am up to taking some.

IWent to my post-op appointment today. Everything...

IWent to my post-op appointment today. Everything is looking good, but I have to wear the darn pesky binder for a week. The breasts are riding too high. It by far is the worst thing about my surgery so far. It is so tight and is putting so much pressure on my armpits. I'm up and moving around some. Can even go to the restroom on my own. lol Got a lovely bouquet of flowers from the Hubs. He is the best. Couldn't have done this without the support of my mother-in-law and my best bud Misty. Thank you for all the supportive comments on here girls!! Hope everyone is doing great!!

Post-op day 3. Wondering if I should try and...

Post-op day 3. Wondering if I should try and shower? I got the go ahead, but how hard is it to get back in the CG? Any suggestions??? My computer is acting up and I can't post on anyone's profiles. How is everyone else doing out there???

I woke up earlier tonight just sobbing......

I woke up earlier tonight just sobbing....combination of a horrible dream mixed with binder pain. Myy CG is tight, but it's the darn binder that is still bugging me. I put gauze under my armpits, but what else has anyone done to make it better?? I have to wear it til next Monday for sure.

Ok so I'm looking for some goals..........like...

Ok so I'm looking for some goals..........like when I can wear a normal bra, a pair of jeans, etc....How long has it taken most of you to get back to a halfway normal body? The breast pain subsided...man that was one heck of a realistic dream I had....guess you were right Jen!!

Is it normal for your breasts to swell up at the...

is it normal for your breasts to swell up at the end of the during or during the night? Mine are huge tonight. No way I can keep that bra strap on even with pain meds. I am not sure if they are dropping and fluffing or if they are just swelling up. I can't even begin to snap all the closures on my bra. I think I need to go up a size. I have also not had a bm yet. I have been taking MOM caplets, but they just aren't working. Time to get a laxative? Gosh...I really don't want to, but something has got to give.

Oh thank you Mr. Phillips Milk of Mag Inventor. I...

Oh thank you Mr. Phillips Milk of Mag Inventor. I salute you!! Just had to throw that out there. Still swollen, but not as bad. Looking forward to being about a month out. Missing my husband so bad. This has been one heckuva week. Shout out to my g/f Misty...thanks for all the help!! :)

Anyone have suggestions for sleep? It seems since...

Anyone have suggestions for sleep? It seems since my surgery I have not had a full night's sleep. I'm on PO day 6 now. I'm pretty much off my drugs except for a muscle relaxant twice a day. It is now almost 1 a.m. and guess who is wide awake...ugh!! I am also hitting that emotional point in my journey I guess...my MIL is leaving tomorrow and I'm truly going to miss her. I will be on my own as of Tuesday when my oldest daughter leaves also. My hubby is in Afghanistan and his unit has lost allot of soldiers this week. I just want him home and I want to be feeling good again.. At what point in time has everyone hit a turning point?

I'm on Post Op Day 6... On drain right.... (named...

I'm on Post Op Day 6... On drain right.... (named Tuck) I have only had a few drops for the past couple days. On left drain...(named Suck) I have only had 18cc each past couple days. Wondering how common it is to have both pulled at 7 days??? I have a post-op appointment tomorrow afternoon. Is it too soon to have both out as I don't feel like being an ompa lumpa like Blonde here on the site. Also, as my implants drop, my nipples are continually standing attention. Can someone please tell them that they can be on parade rest? lol

Went to post-op check up today. Might have a...

Went to post-op check up today. Might have a possible case of skin necrosis. I had a small vertical incision along with my horizontal incision and apparently where the T section is, my skin is not getting enough blood supply. Go back in a week to see if it has gotten better or have to get it debrided. I am totally freaked the fock out now. Went from being so happy to this. I cannot fathom the thought of changing wound dressings daily. Really starting to wonder if this was worth it. FML.....................someone hand me a tissue.

Ok, guess I'm at the point of why did I do this to...

Ok, guess I'm at the point of why did I do this to myself.....Why have I put my body and soul through such a demanding experience? So I'd feel better in a swimsuit or naked with my husband? Why couldn't I have loved my body the way it was?. I go back to the doc next Friday to see about the necrosis. I am scared that I will have to go through treatment on it. I was just hoping that I'd heal just fine and go on with life after surgery. Guess this might not be the case. Might have to learn the term patience when it comes to healing...as long as I heal in the long run that's all that matters! Have lots to be thankful for.....Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

Had my first good cry this morning. Have had one...

Had my first good cry this morning. Have had one good night's sleep in the past 12 days. Both my breasts and my tummy were so sensitive last night. I just could not get comfortable. Ok, so when do the muscles loosen up in the breasts? Mine are still riding pretty darn high. I'd be perfectly happy with my stomach if I didn't have that patch of necrosis. However, last night seems like my upper abs are now getting feeling back and weren't happy with me. Go to my appointment on Friday and am so scared it's going to hurt when they clean it out. Not to mention the weeks of packing it til it heals. Oh this is so not how I wanted things to go. Ugh!! I keep trying to look at it in the long haul, but right now it's hard to do.

Just wanted to first say thanks to you ladies for...

Just wanted to first say thanks to you ladies for the kind and caring thoughts on here!! So today is my first day back at work. I'm having a heckuva time getting comfortable in an office chair. Brought a pillow with me, but it just doesn't seem to be working. I finally slept the whole night through last night. Sweet!! However, I am still in the recliner. How long has it taken everyone to get out of the darn Lazy Boy. My ass is going to be shaped like it if this keeps up. lol. Go in Friday for a checkup....wish me luck, I know I am going to have to be debrided. I hope it doesn't hurt. The breasts are starting to drop and look pretty natural. Happy with them. So one good outcome so far. Happy healing to all the wonderful ladies on here!!

Heading in for my 2nd post-op tomorrow. Cannot...

Heading in for my 2nd post-op tomorrow. Cannot seem to calm down. Am so afraid that I will have to endure some debridement along my tummy tuck incision. Hoping tit doesn't hurt!!! Other than this, I'm completely happy. I don't think I'll sleep a wink tonight knowing what is coming tomorrow.

Well I had my 2nd op. The doc wasn't sure if my...

Well I had my 2nd op. The doc wasn't sure if my skin was completely dead tissue or if it was just the top layer. So I'm waiting 2 more weeks to see if it heals. Hope it does! After reading some reviews, I'm pretty fortunate so far. Makes me appreciate my life, my family and my support group. Special thanks to Misty and my mother-in-law for helping me so darn much the first week or two. Hoping everyone has a wonderful holiday season!

Knock on wood....I am finally starting to feel...

Knock on wood....I am finally starting to feel somewhat normal. Breasts aren't as hard or tight. I still get an occassional ping of pain, but I have heard that is common. Also, the left one is being stubborn and not quite dropping like the right. Overall, happy with the transumbilical augmentation. Now my tummy tuck incision still has areas of scabs on it. Anyone have this at a month out?? One is leaking a clear fluid, not sure if I have infection or not. It's a little red, but not too bad. Go to the doc on Friday. I've still got a spot of dead skin on the incision, but it's reducing daily. Hoping that it just heals on it's own and no debridement will be needed. I will say I am actually heavier than I started by about 3lbs. Still feel bloated and swollen in the lower abs and the flanks. Not back in my normal jeans yet. Sigh. Not sure if I would do this again if I had the option. It was a rough without my husband being home to support me. I've went through times of happiness, periods of crying asking myself why I chose to do this and times of guilt associated with spending this much money on myself when I have children. However, I did what I did and am hoping that in the long run it will improve my self-image and my intimate relationship with my handsome hubby. Hope everyone has a joyous holiday season with family and friends!

Ok, so it's been awhile since my update. I just...

Ok, so it's been awhile since my update. I just have not been in the mood to be on here. Sorry ladies. I went in yesterday for my month checkup, not so great. Had 3 spots on my incision that had to be debrided. I am not blaming my surgeon at all, just these things happen. The two spots on my side had sutures that were just not letting it heal. The spot in the center of my stomach had necrosis due to it being a T incision. Doc said it would be a couple weeks on the side ones, a couple months for the middle one to heal. I have to wet/dry pack them twice a day. This sure has been an experience. I absolutely love my breast implants, but the tummy tuck has been rather a challenge. Nothing I can do but put on my girl girl spandex (lol) and do what I need to do to heal. Hope everyone has a wonderful Christmas! God bless and thank you for the support you have given me!

Hello ladies. Wish I had a merry report for you,...

Hello ladies. Wish I had a merry report for you, but seems like another complication has hit me on top of the necrosis I already had. I have 3 open wounds I have been packing religiously and now there is seroma on top of the edge of one. Last night it ruptured in my sleep. I woke up to my pants being soaked with a nasty yellow fluid. By mid morning, the swelling was there again. My open wounds are pissed off at me now. The doc said it would get worse before better. Hoping the better is around the corner. Ugh...I'm 6 weeks out and still don't feel well. Whomever came up with the term patience is a virtue should be shot!

Wasn't feeling well today. Should have known...

Wasn't feeling well today. Should have known something was up. Took out my gauze dressings for my necrosis spots and bam...a gusher! Yellow fluid everywhere. I had to get a towel to get it to stop. I can't tell you how frustrated and depressed I am. I know it could be worse, but dang blast it I'm tired of feeling like crap. Wish my husband was here, spent half the day just sobbing. Not only is my seroma draining, my emotions are drained too. If I had one piece of advice for ladies considering this, make sure you have a great support system! Love to all!

I'm now 2.5 months out. Went to surgeon today for...

I'm now 2.5 months out. Went to surgeon today for another followup. I still have two open wounds from necrosis. Had a stitch spit halfway out in the big wound. Gotta go next week for another ultrasound and to have my seroma on top of the wound drained. Then a month later, go back in for a revision because the big wound is going to come out with too hard of scar tissue. Questioning still if I made a wrong choice on having it done. Sometimes things just don't go the way you want them to. Talk to me in 6 months and hopefully I will be happy! On a good note, the hooters are nice! Thought I'd be a 36C, but ended up with a 36D once they fluffed! Happy healing to everyone...will report back in a month or so.

Well I'm almost 3 months out and I'm still...

Well I'm almost 3 months out and I'm still struggling to feel good. This surgery has really set me back. Still packing wounds, still have a seroma and still worn out. My hubby comes home in a little over a week from Afghanistan...I'm not healed and feel like crap. Not exactly what I expected. If I had to do it again, don't think I would do the tummy tuck part.
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Hey! How are you feeling now?
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I am soooooo sorry to heal that you aren't feeling 100% what does your doctor say?
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Oh I'm so sorry for the slow healing. Keep your head up...this too shall pass. I had the same experience a few years ago with a hernia surgery.
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To me it sounds like you need a wound vac....I am a nurse and we use it on patients with hards to heal wounds...you can go home with it as well, but need to be monitor by MD closely....I should bring that up to your PS.....
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Aww, ((((Hugs)))). You have had it really rough. But I bet in 6 months you will be glad you did it. After you have passed this awful part. Hope the revision goes smoothly and you don't have anymore complications.
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So sorry to hear that you are having a rough time, please know that it will get better and you are not alone..I'm around 16 weeks post op and still have an open wound belly button that I am packing..remember we are here for you! praying for you!
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That sounds really rough Hun. Imhope it gets easier for you soon!!!
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Prayer for you honey! I am almost the same boat with belly button it just won't heal,,but I look the way I look! I may have to get it re done again for the 2nd time and I may need a left boob revision in may as well
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Oh I am so sorry you are going through all of this!!! I wish I could do something for you!!!
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I sending u much support and the power of healing your way.....you shall be happy in 6 months
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I just read your whole story for the second time. I am so sorry you are going through this. Things will be ok. It just takes time. Hopefully in 6 months this will all be better.
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Oh my gosh Armywife!! I just read your review... :(. Please read mine, there is a light at the end of the tunnel, I promise :)! My nercrosis was large... But it really finally did heal. I can't imagine going through that alone!!! I'm so sorry.
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I say extra prayers for you every night. I pray that you start healing with the wounds and Seroma. Just because Jim is home doesn't mean that I will not be there for you. Love ya chica.
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I hope you heal ASAP and start feeling normal soon!
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I bet you are a so drained I can't even imagine!!!!! Wish there was something I could do for you....
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Oh no I am so sorry!!!! Your hubby comes home soon right??? What does ur ps say? 
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Awww, thats tough. I'm so sorry. xox
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Ugh, so sorry you had a bad day :( It must be hard being home without your husband and having to face a set back. I am thinking of you. I don't know much about what a seroma is but I am going to read up on it.
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I am so sorry what you are going through:-/ I wish there was something I could do to help you. How are you feeling emotionally? Hugs
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I am drained Bib. Hey, this darn computer is letting me post a reply. lol Just so ready for it to heal and get back to regular life. How have you been?
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I bet you are!!! I feel awful for you....... I've been okay. Trying to go within out any type of compression garment today we will see how that goes?!?!  
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Sent u a message;-)
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I think I am going to post a pic of what my opening looked like. I am 7 1/2 weeks PO and my opening started around the end of my 2 weeks. I did not have necrosis. It was about 1/2 inch deep. I had disolvable staples that did not like me and they cause openings all along my incision. I totally feel your pain emotionally. It has been hell on the mental recovery. So sorry you are having to go thru this. And patience is something no one should ever say in recovery lol. I hate that word now!
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How often do these things happen? The necrosis and the dead skin? I'm having my mm on march the 4th, this is scarring me......
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Sending you love girlie. I will kick your tail if you do not start slowing down and taking care of yourself. Let me know if you need anything.
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