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Help, my TT is Tomorrow and I'm Scared! - Virgin Islands

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Spent: $3,500 in Virgin Islands

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Updated 29 Jan 2011

Posted 21 Nov 2010

In less then 24 hours I will be recovering from the procedure I have wanted for years. I have saved for it and changed my mind at least three times. I have been 250 lbs plus two seperate times and have the stretch marks and flabby belly to prove it... But I am so nervous; nervous about the hospital, the procedure, the recovery and the final outcome!

I am having my tubes tied and a hernia repaired along with my TT, so I have no idea what to expect. I am 32 years old with three kids (14, 11 and 5). I have struggled with my weight and self esteem for years, I eat well and exercise daily (or try) and still am not happy with my stomach. I am a firefighter and fear that my recovery will be hinder my job performance (I am taking 4 weeks off). My husband and my co-workers think I am nuts and tell me daily "you look fine for having three kids".

I have read the pros and cons and most of the posts about everyone's experiences and I am still on edge.

Any advice including things I should buy would be appreciated.. :)



Updated on 29 Jan 2011:
Well it has been 2 months since my procedure and I have never felt better! My scare is still pink, I am hoping that will diminish soon. I still have a little tightness but overall I feel like a new woman. I am going to resume weightlifting this week and more intense cardio.

This is one of the best things I have ever done for myself!

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Angiemcc (Community Manager) 22 Nov 2010

"You look fine for having three kids" isn't exactly what we want to hear, is it? Your nervousness is totally normal. And it's fine and good to read about everyone else's experiences, but when it's really YOU going through it, it's different.

Have you sifted through our tummy tuck forums at all? Kimmers wrote a great post called Tummy Tuck Survival Guide that you should check out.

Thinking of you today! Please let us know how it went and how you're feeling/healing.

Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 22 Nov 2010

This is a great thing you are doing for yourself..and well deserved.  You need to be happy with your body and only what you think matters. 

It is a long recovery so that is wonderful you have a month off.  Although it will take longer than a month to totally heal you will just need to see how you feel at that time.  Everyone is different in the healing process but you do have a physical job.  Maybe prepare yourself for some light duty for a while. 

I am thinking about you and hope to hear from you soon with an update on your progress.  You will do wonderful and also have a great support group out here on RealSelf.
Ortizlj38 23 Nov 2010
"You look for having kids" why do people say that? Good for you for making the choice to do something for yourself. I have a very physical job, also so you may need to be on light duty for a while. I'm 7 weeks post-op and still cannot lift too heavy take it easy and listen to your body.

Have a speedy recovery! Yeah for You!
Firewoman 23 Nov 2010
Please tell me it gets a lot easier by seven weeks ;)
Ortizlj38 24 Nov 2010
It does get better.. I am feeling more like myself each day. You need be sure that you rest and don't over do it. Your body has been through some serious trauma and needs time to recover. I took two weeks off work and when I returned I sat at a desk, (boring)for the next two weeks. Now, I am moving around and back to my normal job duties minus lifting heavy objects. I am jogging three times a week, but only for one mile because I don't want to strain my abs. I have to remind myself that my stomach looks healed on the outside but it is still healing on the inside. My only fear is seroma but my Dr says that I am healing just fine.

Follow your doctor's instructions and let yourself heal. You will be much happier if you do.

Keep us posted.
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 23 Nov 2010
You will be ok. It gets better and better each week but this is a long recovery that can't be rushed. Just stay positive and keep checking in with all of us on the site for support.
Firewoman 24 Nov 2010
Post op day 3-
Well I slept last night! It's getting a little easier but I still feel helpless. I have a doctors appointment today to finally see whats under the bandages, I can't wait. The worst part right now is the back pain from being bent over. I will post pictures soon,
Unconditional Mom 24 Nov 2010
Wow. $3500 for a tummy tuck in the Virgin Islands. If I knew then what I know know, I would go there and tack on a vacation to recover all for the same price I paid in the San Francisco Bay Area. You look great before, excited to see your after.

A firefighter? Even a greater accomplishment. You TT pales in comparison!
Firewoman 25 Nov 2010
I saw my stomach for the first time yesterday and I am in love! I know I am still a long way away from total recovery but it seems worth it. AND I stopped smoking I have some urges but hope they will completely disappear soon. I slept well last night considering I had to stay in the same spot all night but this procedure is definitly worth it!
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 25 Nov 2010

Glad to hear you are doing so well.  I also remember that first look of my tummy and was so excited.  I am happy that you like your results and glad you came through just fine.

Rest, drink your fluids, take it easy and keep us up to date as you go.
Firewoman 27 Nov 2010
Post op-day 4
Standing up and walking is much easier, and I am much more mobile. The drains are becoming annoying but I realize how important they are. My stomach is completely numb to the touch but according to what I have read this is normal.
I have decided to make a complete lifestyle change, revising my workout schedule, eating habits and kicking bad habits that I have (ie. smoking and drinking). I think this is the motivation I needed to make these changes. I live in paradise and am blessed with great health so I need to appreciate it and pass on good habits to my children..
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 27 Nov 2010

That is wonderful news!  You will feel so much better in the end making all of the changes.   It will also help your healing process. 

The drains are annoying and get old really fast.  I remember the first shower I took after my final drain came out and it was heaven. 

Yes the numbness is normal and will last for a long time.  I have talked to some women who have had this even three years after surgery.  Oh well it will be fine.

Yes you do live in paradise - we love visiting there!  I can't get enough of St. Thomas and St. Maarten.
Firewoman 27 Nov 2010
I live on St.Croix which is very different from St.Thomas and St. Marrten, if you ever need any information or are planning a trip let me know.
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 27 Nov 2010

I definitely will let you know - Thank you!  We like to try different islands each trip.
Firewoman 28 Nov 2010
Post Op-Day 6
I officially hate the drains but it serves a purpose; I can't wait till Tuesday to get them out. I am feeling a lot better but still hunched over. I am afraid to stand up straight. I am easing off the pain meds slowly. My mom has been a great help.. I CAN'T WAIT TO TAKE A REAL SHOWER! I am also afraid to get the stiches out. I am glad i didn't get lipo with my procedure, that is gonna make me work harder to achieve the best results possible.
Can anyone suggest what to use to minimize the scars (I heard vitamin e oil).
Sunshine627 28 Nov 2010
I am wondering about the same thing. I will be having a TT and BL in 31 days and I have heard that Mederam is really great. I also heard about a Silcone Belt that you can buy online that will reduce scarring. Let me know if you find something that works for you!

Will you be posting some before and after pics? Hope so...
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 28 Nov 2010

For the scar treatment try this routine...and yes I am a little obsessive about this!!

Palmer's Vitamin E Skin Therapy Oil for several weeks, then change to Mederma Cream for 12 weeks followed by Bio Oil for another several weeks.  My scar looks excellent after this routine.  Massage the scar 2-3 times a day very firmly to smooth and lessen the scar. 

Works like a charm!

Sunshine I did try the silicone for a short time and did not like it at all..
Sunshine627 28 Nov 2010
Thanks for the guidance... I will be following that routine!
Firewoman 29 Nov 2010
Kimmie, when do you start with Vitamin E oil after the scar has completely healed? And how do I post picture, maybe it's the painkillers but I can't figure it out :)
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 29 Nov 2010
Hey Girl, I started using the oil between weeks 2 and 3. Make sure the wound is healed without any openings before you do. Scabs are ok but nothing open or oozing.

For your pictures log into your account then go into your profile and you will see the "edit" tab. If you still have trouble just let me know.
Firewoman 29 Nov 2010
I think my stomach is swollen, it doesn't look as flat as the first three days, does anyone know what causes the swelling? Can I put ice on it?
@ Kimmers- Vitamin e, Mederma then Bio Oil, is there a particular order?
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 29 Nov 2010

You are in the stage I call Swell Hell.  It will come and go for weeks and you will have good days and bad days and it will get better.  The best thing to do when you swell is to sit down, relax and kick your feet up.  Also drink plenty of fluids which will really help.  You can try ice packs but make sure that you don't put them directly on the skin.  They do feel good.

Your body has been through some major tissue trauma with this surgery and everything is settling and healing from the inside out.  Unfortunately swelling is all part of the process but it will get better.  Rest as much as you are able. 

Now with the oils use them in this order:

1.  Palmers 2-3 times a day for 8 weeks

2. Mederma 3 times a day for 12 weeks.

3.  Bio Oil 2-3 times a day for 8-12 weeks.

Massage the scars very firmly because this helps to smooth them.

I am over 7 months out and I continue to use the palmers on my entire body after every shower.  I then use the Bio oil just on the scars.  It has helped tremendously and my scar looks wonderful.  It is smooth, flat and most of the redness is gone.  It just continues to get better month after month. 

Hang in there girl; the swelling will end.
Unconditional Mom 28 Dec 2010
I am having a hard time finding the Palmers. I may have to order it from Drugstore.com.

I have bio oil and have been using that until I find the Palmers.

Great prescription Kimmers, I look forward to seeing some good results.
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 29 Dec 2010

I am not sure what retailers you have in your area but I have found the Palmers at Walmart, Walgreens, Target and CVS Pharmacy.

Just go ahead and keep using the Bio Oil for a while and that will be perfectly fine.  You can switch it up in reverse order if needed.   I think what makes this work is the persistence in using the oils and massage. 
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 6 Dec 2010

How are you doing girl!!

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