Nervous but VERY Excited - Maryland
I have 4 (5full term preg) very wonderful,...
I have 4 (5full term preg) very wonderful, beautiful children, 16,14,7,5... I have been waiting 15 years for a BA, and 5 for my TT. I nursed 3 of my 4, and had an emergency c-section with my last. I have stretchmarks up past my belly button, and have some skin that hangs a little over my c-section scar, my boobs have always been small, but now they sag some too, just want to be up & a little bit bigger to fill out a shirt/dress/bathingsuit comfortably... I have been exercising and getting very frusterated, until I went to a consult and all 4 dr's said the same thing... it's not going to change :(
so... here we are and now
I am anxious every way possible, and actually wish it were sooner to get it over with.
Praying that she has a cancellation :)
My family & friends are being very supportive with the exception of my husband...Not sure I have much to say about that :)... happy it is scheduled
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I'm sorry your husband isn't being supportive. Remind him that he'll benefit from the results, too. Please keep us posted on your journey. Not much longer now!
Thanks again for the support.

however that is more a reason, in his mind anyway to stay the way I am... however I have wanted BA way before I ever met him, the TT was due to our youngest with the EMER C-section...
whatever, I have come to the conclusion that this is FOR ME... and his 'anger' stems from his fear of what is going to be later... he has heard way too many horror stories that woman leave after surgery... he doesn't get it... it's gonna be all good, and yes I have had MANY friends offer to drive me, come take care of my kids, family is around... and this website which is awesome.
Thanks again & I will
still hoping for a cancellation :)
Surgery has been moved up YAY!!! My preop is March...
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Becoming extremely nervous, considering what all...
And he is 'pmsing' again, not speaking to me not sleeping, which is stressing me out even more, although I TRY not to let it get to me and I def don't let him know it gets to me... but it doesn't help me & my nerves... wish he was more understanding, and willing to be my friend through all of this...
I do wish you luck and my thoughts will be with you this week as you heal!!! :)