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Wish I was smaller- London, Holborn
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Here are photos of me on holiday. The bikini to...
WORTH IT$5,500
Here are photos of me on holiday. The bikini to size is a 32DD. Although the 32-part was big. (a 30 would have been perfect, it somehow kind of fitted as the material was enough to cover the boobies. The other bikini I bought was bigger, so I guess it depends on the style. Normal bra size, I'm an E cup (at least that's what I've been wearing). As I said though, I soon forgot about about them and enjoyed the sunshine!! :-)
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Very happy for you ! Hoping that things continue to get better !
Thank you Tammika!
All the best to you with the healing and recovery.
All the best to you with the healing and recovery.
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Hey ladies, So today I went to see my PS for my...
Hey ladies,
So today I went to see my PS for my "6 weeks" (will be officially 6 weeks next Tuesday) post-op.
He said it was healing is well. I have full sensation on one side and part sensation on the other side. I then mentioned my concern of still being too big and having a lot of tissue on the side. I told him that I could not fit into any other bra besides my original J-cup bra. He said my breast were higher up, but could only reason out the size issue to swelling. He said I should look to the fact that they are higher up and not mind the actual bra size.
Now that puzzles me when the whole point of having this procedure was because of a large bra cup-size. I mean, that was the first question I was asked at the consultation and now being told it's the lift that counts and not the size!!??
I started to feel really upset that I couldn't even speak properly. To me he is basically saying what I thought in the first place of having had a lift instead of a proper size reduction to my breast....I wished he looked at my case on an individual basis. He said the amount he removed was roughly a standard amount of breast reduction. That was even more upsetting!
I acknowledged the fact that it was still early and would wait for another 6 weeks, but I think most surgeons hide behind the "swelling". If by then I am still wearing J-cup bras I want him to lay out my options. This is not how I wanted things to turn out. I still think the surgery would be worth it if only it was done properly.
I will update next after my 3 month post visit to see him.
Oh and by the way, the last photos I uploaded with the whit bra, that is the after reduction shot. So now hopefully you see my point when I say I'm still big.
Thanks for reading xx
So today I went to see my PS for my "6 weeks" (will be officially 6 weeks next Tuesday) post-op.
He said it was healing is well. I have full sensation on one side and part sensation on the other side. I then mentioned my concern of still being too big and having a lot of tissue on the side. I told him that I could not fit into any other bra besides my original J-cup bra. He said my breast were higher up, but could only reason out the size issue to swelling. He said I should look to the fact that they are higher up and not mind the actual bra size.
Now that puzzles me when the whole point of having this procedure was because of a large bra cup-size. I mean, that was the first question I was asked at the consultation and now being told it's the lift that counts and not the size!!??
I started to feel really upset that I couldn't even speak properly. To me he is basically saying what I thought in the first place of having had a lift instead of a proper size reduction to my breast....I wished he looked at my case on an individual basis. He said the amount he removed was roughly a standard amount of breast reduction. That was even more upsetting!
I acknowledged the fact that it was still early and would wait for another 6 weeks, but I think most surgeons hide behind the "swelling". If by then I am still wearing J-cup bras I want him to lay out my options. This is not how I wanted things to turn out. I still think the surgery would be worth it if only it was done properly.
I will update next after my 3 month post visit to see him.
Oh and by the way, the last photos I uploaded with the whit bra, that is the after reduction shot. So now hopefully you see my point when I say I'm still big.
Thanks for reading xx
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Hi Nashville8112
It is frustrating especially when one has taken that big risk to have this life-changing procedure and there is not much difference. Worse when other people don't notice the difference which just confirms it. It gets me down just thinking I still have to wear those big bras again.
It's good that your PS will not charge. I think a revision should be free altogether cause I think it is the surgeons mistake for not understanding your needs/wants in the first place. But if it had to come to that for me too, I would pay the reduced fees to get the results I was hoping for in the first place being aware the risk is greater for a revision.
Waiting another 6 weeks will be a piece of cake. I do hope it goes better the next time around.
Thanks for the words of support.
It is frustrating especially when one has taken that big risk to have this life-changing procedure and there is not much difference. Worse when other people don't notice the difference which just confirms it. It gets me down just thinking I still have to wear those big bras again.
It's good that your PS will not charge. I think a revision should be free altogether cause I think it is the surgeons mistake for not understanding your needs/wants in the first place. But if it had to come to that for me too, I would pay the reduced fees to get the results I was hoping for in the first place being aware the risk is greater for a revision.
Waiting another 6 weeks will be a piece of cake. I do hope it goes better the next time around.
Thanks for the words of support.
Hi Nashville8112
It is frustrating especially when one has taken that big risk to have this life-changing procedure and there is not much difference. Worse when other people don't notice the difference which just confirms it. It gets me down just thinking I still have to wear those big bras again.
It's good that your PS will not charge. I think a revision should be free altogether cause I think it is the surgeons mistake for not understanding your needs/wants in the first place. But if it had to come to that for me too, I would pay the reduced fees to get the results I was hoping for in the first place being aware the risk is greater for a revision.
Waiting another 6 weeks will be a piece of cake. I do hope it goes better the next time around.
Thanks for the words of support.
It is frustrating especially when one has taken that big risk to have this life-changing procedure and there is not much difference. Worse when other people don't notice the difference which just confirms it. It gets me down just thinking I still have to wear those big bras again.
It's good that your PS will not charge. I think a revision should be free altogether cause I think it is the surgeons mistake for not understanding your needs/wants in the first place. But if it had to come to that for me too, I would pay the reduced fees to get the results I was hoping for in the first place being aware the risk is greater for a revision.
Waiting another 6 weeks will be a piece of cake. I do hope it goes better the next time around.
Thanks for the words of support.
Hi Nashville8112
It is frustrating especially when one has taken that big risk to have this life-changing procedure and there is not much difference. Worse when other people don't notice the difference which just confirms it. It gets me down just thinking I still have to wear those big bras again.
It's good that your PS will not charge. I think a revision should be free altogether cause I think it is the surgeons mistake for not understanding your needs/wants in the first place. But if it had to come to that for me too, I would pay the reduced fees to get the results I was hoping for in the first place being aware the risk is greater for a revision.
Waiting another 6 weeks will be a piece of cake. I do hope it goes better the next time around.
Thanks for the words of support.
It is frustrating especially when one has taken that big risk to have this life-changing procedure and there is not much difference. Worse when other people don't notice the difference which just confirms it. It gets me down just thinking I still have to wear those big bras again.
It's good that your PS will not charge. I think a revision should be free altogether cause I think it is the surgeons mistake for not understanding your needs/wants in the first place. But if it had to come to that for me too, I would pay the reduced fees to get the results I was hoping for in the first place being aware the risk is greater for a revision.
Waiting another 6 weeks will be a piece of cake. I do hope it goes better the next time around.
Thanks for the words of support.
Hi Nashville8112
It is frustrating especially when one has taken that big risk to have this life-changing procedure and there is not much difference. Worse when other people don't notice the difference which just confirms it. It gets me down just thinking I still have to wear those big bras again.
It's good that your PS will not charge. I think a revision should be free altogether cause I think it is the surgeons mistake for not understanding your needs/wants in the first place. But if it had to come to that for me too, I would pay the reduced fees to get the results I was hoping for in the first place being aware the risk is greater for a revision.
Waiting another 6 weeks will be a piece of cake. I do hope it goes better the next time around.
Thanks for the words of support.
It is frustrating especially when one has taken that big risk to have this life-changing procedure and there is not much difference. Worse when other people don't notice the difference which just confirms it. It gets me down just thinking I still have to wear those big bras again.
It's good that your PS will not charge. I think a revision should be free altogether cause I think it is the surgeons mistake for not understanding your needs/wants in the first place. But if it had to come to that for me too, I would pay the reduced fees to get the results I was hoping for in the first place being aware the risk is greater for a revision.
Waiting another 6 weeks will be a piece of cake. I do hope it goes better the next time around.
Thanks for the words of support.
Majenta, I'm so sorry to hear this honey. I hope and pray everything turns out the way you want in the future. If you need to vent please don't hesitate to reach out, you will be in my thoughts:)
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I tried on a sports bra F-cup hoping maybe it...
I tried on a sports bra F-cup hoping maybe it would fit and maybe I would be wrong. No luck :( it doesn't come close to even fitting me. I was spilling out all over! Worst feeling.
More than ever now I'm looking forward to see my PS.
Will keep you posted!
More than ever now I'm looking forward to see my PS.
Will keep you posted!
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Hi Majenta, just checking up on you, wishing you the very best. Hopefully you've gotten a hold of your PS. Xx
Hi AppleWoo. Will be seeing my PS this Friday. Will keep you udated as to how it went.
How are you feeling now?Your surgery is quite near :)
Thank you! x
How are you feeling now?Your surgery is quite near :)
Thank you! x
I'm doing ok, thank you. I'm a little nervous, but more excited about it. I'm ready, I know that much! Please do keep me informed on how it goes, I'm really hoping and praying for the best for you ;)
Hi Majenta 123. Don't worry, you are not alone. My reduction was done in December 2011. The surgery went well with no complications. I was initially ecstatic with the results, but I still felt I was still too large. I thought I would give it time and see if the reduction in swelling would make any difference, but it did not. I had my 6 month post-op appt with my PS today and voiced my concerns. I was very hesitant to do so, since it is not in my nature, but I had to get over that and realize that this was not only a monetary investment, this was my body and my life. I would have rather risked upsetting my PS than being unhappy with my breast for the rest of my life. She was unbelievably supportive and assured me that all surgeons just want their patients to be happy.I told her the exact same thing you said "I feel like I have had a lift and not a reduction". We talked about the risks and the cost (no surgeon fee & small discount),and how the decision was ultimately up to me. I am thinking about scheduling my revision surgery in the summer, and am looking forward to having the results I initially hoped for. Remember, these are your breasts and this is your life, you have the right to voice your concerns/disappointments. I wish you lots of luck and hope everything works out how you want it.
Hi Nashville8112,
Thank you for sharing your story with me. I am so relieved that I am not alone and not overreacting. I knew I couldn't be thaaat small, but my results seem to be unsatisfactory especially when I still can't fit into any bra except my J-cup size. I was hoping to frame one and burn the rest! :-) Sharing your story gives me hope and since I will be seeing him tomorrow, I will tell him my concerns. I am aware he might say give it time, but like you, I think 6 months post-op is more than enough time for things to have settle down at least close to normal. I just hope he is as understanding as your surgeon and would not have to pay for the procedure again :-). What did the costs include? Just so that I have an idea if it turns out similar to you.
What was your initial size and what size did you go down to? I hope you do get the size you were hoping for. Good luck and please load photos of the new-new you! :-))
Thank you for the well wishes.
Will be posting how it goes tomorrow!!
x
Thank you for sharing your story with me. I am so relieved that I am not alone and not overreacting. I knew I couldn't be thaaat small, but my results seem to be unsatisfactory especially when I still can't fit into any bra except my J-cup size. I was hoping to frame one and burn the rest! :-) Sharing your story gives me hope and since I will be seeing him tomorrow, I will tell him my concerns. I am aware he might say give it time, but like you, I think 6 months post-op is more than enough time for things to have settle down at least close to normal. I just hope he is as understanding as your surgeon and would not have to pay for the procedure again :-). What did the costs include? Just so that I have an idea if it turns out similar to you.
What was your initial size and what size did you go down to? I hope you do get the size you were hoping for. Good luck and please load photos of the new-new you! :-))
Thank you for the well wishes.
Will be posting how it goes tomorrow!!
x
Hello Majenta 123,
I am sorry your appointment did not go as well as expected. I do agree with you, when you said that some of the surgeons hide behind the "swelling" explanation. My Mother and my sister have both had this procedure done and both were noticeably smaller after surgery. Even at 6 months out, my friends and co-workers have stated that they cannot tell a difference. Yes, my breasts are nice and perky now, but that is not what I asked for. My initial size was a 38 DDD and I am now a 38 D. I too, can still wear my old bras and my clothes don't fit any different. As far as the cost, my original surgery was $7,000. This time around it will be $2,000. Granted it is more than I would have liked, but I am happy my PS is willing to do and not charge her surgeon fees. I am hopeful that your PS will come around once you get past the 3 month mark. Until then, focus on healing and staying strong.
I am sorry your appointment did not go as well as expected. I do agree with you, when you said that some of the surgeons hide behind the "swelling" explanation. My Mother and my sister have both had this procedure done and both were noticeably smaller after surgery. Even at 6 months out, my friends and co-workers have stated that they cannot tell a difference. Yes, my breasts are nice and perky now, but that is not what I asked for. My initial size was a 38 DDD and I am now a 38 D. I too, can still wear my old bras and my clothes don't fit any different. As far as the cost, my original surgery was $7,000. This time around it will be $2,000. Granted it is more than I would have liked, but I am happy my PS is willing to do and not charge her surgeon fees. I am hopeful that your PS will come around once you get past the 3 month mark. Until then, focus on healing and staying strong.
I'm still a big cup size (E), but now because they are lifted I can wear most clothes. I am a size 8 so I get lots of complements that my body looks good which makes me think my boobies look in proportion now. I still wish I was a D cup at least, but I will make the most of the situation for now.
I was on a holiday in the Caribbean not to long ago and only just managed to find a bikini that fits (esp. top). It felt a bit weird at first as I have never worn one before, but I warmed to it and the whole experience in the end.
I will be making a follow up to mark 4 months post op. Only thing is finding a cream the lighten the scars even more. I'm using bio-oil at the moment. Any suggestions are welcomed :-)
Thanks Tammika and all the best to you x