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Blessed to Have (Had) Dr. A on my Cancer Team - La Jolla, CA

In the big scheme of things being alive and...

In the big scheme of things being alive and healthy is the most important thing, but the thought of losing my breasts was extremely scary. Thanks to Dr. Apostolides I ended up with Picture Perfect Poster Boobs for Breast Cancer!!! My new girls are better than the old ones!


 

With my diagnosis, there was never a moment I did...

With my diagnosis, there was never a moment I did not consider reconstruction. I was a long time patient of Dr. Krant who quarterbacked my "fight" and without him and Dr. A I don't know where I would be today.

The first 3 mos were the most difficult emotionally and physically having had 3 surgeries ~ a lumpectomy, the bilateral mastectomy (the best decision I ever made) and finally replacing the expanders with silicone implants. The nipple reconstruction and fat grafting surgeries were done in 3 surgeries that occurred over the next 11 months leaving me whole again! From day of diagnosis to my final surgery the process took 14 months.

For many reasons (which I am happy to share but not sure this is the right forum), I wish I would have done the bilateral from the beginning. Having had it, I was able to avoid having radiation, which was key for me.

It's very hard to describe the sensations I experienced. Besides the obvious pain, my "girls" did not have the "peripheral vision" they used to have - they could not sense when to get out of the way. I still have a tingly feeling in my chest that can be aggravated by working out the chest or flying. Also I always sleep in a sports bra as the "girls" like to be supported.

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My Doctor: John G. Apostolides, MD

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Having been diagnosed with breast cancer in Oct '10 Dr. Apostolides saw me through my darkest days and made the process very easy when everything else was so complicated! He gave me hope and strength to fight the good fight! I could not have asked for better care ~ he is an amazing doctor and skilled surgeon!

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Wanda14136 8 Apr 2013
Also what size of implant did you go with and what profile?
Wanda14136 8 Apr 2013
I too had breast cancer and my implants I am not happy with. Yours are fantastic. Do you have to have more than one surgery with the implants. My doc says its a process. My silicone implants look like balls on my chest. Not much inframmatory fold, sitting too low, uneven and lateral movement left. Think pockets are off!
AGreatLife 11 Apr 2013
Hi Wanda! I was trying to find your profile so I could give you a better answer, but I could not find it. It is a process and not knowing exactly where you are it is hard to say what lies ahead for you, but I do NOT want you to get discouraged. You have to allow your body to heal and the blood supply to regenerate before you can continue. After I had my implants, I waited 3 months before I could have the "fat grafting & nipple recomstruction" surgery. My implants are 700cc, which sounds huge, but considering there is no breast tissue they are not that big. My "other" girls were a bit bigger than these. I realize in my last picture they look gigantic when in reality they are proportional. I do not remember which profile we went with but that is a personal decision between you and your Dr. as to what fits your body best. My Dr is amazing ... If you would like to talk by phone please send me a personal email so we can chat. But please, hold the faith and be patient and kind to yourself.
Wanda14136 12 Apr 2013
I am done everything except the implant issue. You say fat grafting? Why and where? I know my doctor doesn't do that! I am patient. I am just scared of choosing another surgeon re revisional and not be happy. When it doesn't turn out, your scared of same thing happening over and over as I am reading re lots of people re this whole boob thing! Trying to find someone who can give me good results.
Wanda14136 12 Apr 2013
Did you have alloderm or internal bra?
AGreatLife 12 Apr 2013
Seriously, the doctor makes a huge difference. Are you in San Diego? If so, you should consult with Dr. Apostolides ~ he is an amazing Doctor, with a very kind bedside manner. I have alloderm... would you rather talk by phone?
Sophiagor 11 Dec 2012
you look amazing!! congratulations to the surgery and C free! xoxoxo
limitedfemme 20 Nov 2012
Wow, totally impressed by the tattoo work!! Looks awesome!
AGreatLife 7 Aug 2012
Getting the "nips" was a nice addition - I missed them the 6 mos they were gone! I added a new picture with the areolas tattooed. I think they look amazing!

God is soooo very good! Be well and stay happy!
Tina13 28 Aug 2012
Looks great! I would love to chat with you more - about the things you say are not appropriate for the forum.. I'm currently facing a very difficult decision - whether I should get Lx + rads or unilateral Mx.. I would really love some feedback if you have a minute.. Thank you!!!
AGreatLife 28 Aug 2012

Thank you. I have more than a minute ~ this is a BIG decision....and I have some insight for you. Private message me and then I will give you my phone number.... I would love to talk with you!

msciscely 25 Jul 2012
They look great I have gotten my nipples yet but I am looking forward to them. God is sooo good!!!!
Justfixit 23 Jul 2012
congrats! I am currently going through the reconstruction process myself. You look great!
AGreatLife 7 Aug 2012
Thanks for your kind words. I read your post ~ how sad insurance would cover the proper reconstruction for you. Having a great reconstruction doctor is the answer ~ you can always come to San Diego to get the girls fixed! My doctor is amazing!! =)) I hope you get the desired result you are looking for and stay well!
AGreatLife 7 Aug 2012
~ should have read - how sad insurance would not cover ....

If you have any other questions, please do not hesitate to email me. Stay well and be happy!
KateH (Community Manager) 15 Mar 2012

Wow you look amazing, thank you for the detailed review and I am so glad that you recovered and are doing well.

 

Kate

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