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Tummy Tuck 11/16/10 - Jacksonville, FL

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I was 132lbs when I was 17yrs old. I got pregnant...

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Mandy4
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I was 132lbs when I was 17yrs old. I got pregnant a weighed 158lbs just before delivery. I lost back to 145lbs and had just one stretch mark. When he was two we decided to have another baby. That resulted in twins. I was 163lbs prior to delivery with them. My belly was covered with stretch marks after the twins. I had to have an emergency c-section. I got to 201lbs when the twins where three years old. I decided I needed to change. I was in an emotionally abusive marriage and probably a little depressed. I am an emotional eater. So divorce and dieting is what I needed. I started losing weight which was very easy. I lost 40lbs in just three months. I guess it was stress. Then I got accepted into the nursing program. I continued to loose weight I got down to 142lbs but still had the nasty skin that hangs over my scar. I kept the weight off for about 4 years. I was very happy and moved on with my life. Then I got pregnant again. I gained more weight with him then with the twins. I was 173lbs when I delivered via c-section. I lost 14lbs right after delivery. But put it back on and then some. I weighted 185lb when I decided I wanted to lose weight and have a tummy tuck. I now weigh 162-165 depending on the day. It is so hard now trying to lose weight now. I wanted to be 145lbs before my tummy tuck. That is not going to happen. I just paid for my tummy tuck Friday.

I had my first consultation in Feb. I hadn’t done any research at that time. I absolutely loved the doctor. I was there for like 2 hours talking to him and his assistant and looking at before and after pictures. I didn’t even want to go see anyone else. I couldn’t sleep I was so excited and nervous at the same time. My biggest fear is leaving my children motherless for something that isn’t necessary. But I am going to do it. Then I ran across this website. I took everyone’s advice on here and went to two other PS for consultations. I liked them as well but not as much as the first PS. They were not as expensive as the first PS. I scheduled another consultation with the first PS because I had questions after doing some research. He says I will be able to wear a string bikini if I want after the tummy tuck. I just hope he is as good as he sounds. I told him he makes a good salesman. I paid my deposit and scheduled by surgery. I was hoping I would get motivated to lose more weight after paying that money but I am still having trouble. My biggest area is my butt now. I swear in quadrupled when I was pregnant. LOL. I saw a lady at his office last week. She was 3 weeks post op she looked great in her jeans. She has lost 10lbs since her surgery. She said the pain wasn’t as bad as she expected. She would do it again. I can’t wait!

I have to be at the surgery center @6am on 11/16/10. I will be staying at a hotel for 2 nights because I live 2 hours from his office. He wants me to be close in case I need anything. I was going to have to hire a RN but my boyfriend is a paramedic so my PS agreed to let him take care of me which saved $800.00. He said I will have a pain pump, phenergan, and dilaudid suppositories and PO meds. I don’t like to take pain medication. But I’m sure I will need it. I will have a foley catheter and IV fluids the first night at the hotel. I will go in the next morning for a post op appointment. I will have a walker to go home with. I am going to be off of work for 4weeks since I’m a RN my job requires a lot of heavy lifting. I am not as nervous as I used to be I am at peace with my decision to do this and the MD I choose. I can’t wait. I am a little worried because I do not exercise I don’t have time. I have lots of help my boyfriend is taking off a 1 ½ weeks to take care of me. My 10 yrs old and 8 yr old twins are a big help. They can’t wait to take care of me. My mom will also be helping out. What advice do you guys have for supplies I should get and need? What should I wear to the surgery center?

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October 18, 2010
Congratulations! Isn't it exciting? I am 1 week post-op today and I had some of the same feelings as you about leaving my kids motherless. I felt I was being selfish. I am so glad it's behind me now. It's great that you get a walker to go home with. You will need it. My back bothers me more than anything else. I have been sleeping in a recliner that has a remote. What a life saver. I have tried to sleep in the bed, but just can't seem to get as comfortable. Let me know if you have any questions and GOOD LUCK!
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October 18, 2010
Congrats on making the decision, I'm 4 days post op & so glad I did it! I agree with thankyoulord - my back is the most bothersome at this point.
One tip: I started drinking Milk of Magnesia the night before & straight through to keep my insides flowing.
Otherwise, make sure you have a couple of good books, get some dinners pre-made in the freezer & take all the help you can get!
Ask any questions!
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October 19, 2010

Good for you. I know it can be scary, but try to keep repeating the mantra, "I deserve this." We'd love to see before and after photos, too.

October 20, 2010

Hi Mandy,  You will do wonderful an will be very happy that you did this for yourself.  That is wonderful you have such good help for after..you will need it.   Keep your chin up and stay with all of us on this site and we will help you through.   Sounds like you have been through a lot so you definitely deserve this!   The weight thing is really tough; I battled it myself for many years.  As we get older and after having children every thing slows down in our bodies, droops, sags and gives us fits.  It is like fighting an up hill battle most days.  I wouldn't worry so much about the weight right now.  Once all of the tummy skin is removed and it is flat you will feel like a million bucks.  Are you doing before and after pictures? 
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October 20, 2010
Thanks for your support. I will post before and after pictures. I really don't like the thought of everyone seeing my nasty belly. But I am very appreciative of seeing others before and after photos. So I will return the favor and hopefully it helps others.
October 21, 2010

Only do what you are comfortable with :) 
UPDATED FROM Mandy4

I got my call from the surgery center today!...

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I got my call from the surgery center today! I'm so excited and so nervous! I still can't believe I am really getting to do this. I bought a multi-vitamin,vitamin C, and stool softners. Got down to 159.4 lbs. Still hoping to be 145 before Nov. 16th.

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October 26, 2010
Good Luck, you deserve this. I too felt the same way, my girls are grown, but I didn't want to leave them motherless, and my grandchildren without a grandma, but so glad that I did this and feel so much better. I was worried about what to wear also to the hospital. I wore some really big sweat pants and a baggie t-shirt with a zip up hoodie. And slip on tennis shoes. It was easier coming home that way, too. I was kind of worried about putting panties back on but they actually seem to help keep the drains from moving around and hurting. Grannie panties are perfect for this. Anyway, you will feel so much better after the surgery is over and you look like a million bucks. Good Luck and God Bless You.
October 27, 2010

The count down is on...how fun!
October 27, 2010
Thank you for sharing your story! I, too, am trying to lose weight before my TT. It's hard, but it will be so worth it! Please keep us posted on how you're doing! Congratulations on making positive changes in your life. It's inspiring! :)
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October 29, 2010
I enjoyed reading your story. I wish you the best of luck on your surgery and I am so excited for you. You truly deserve this and I look forward to reading more. I know its hard to think about posting pictures. I posted pics of myself and when I see them I cringe. This website it here to help us and others going through the same. Good Luck!
UPDATED FROM Mandy4

I tried a protien shake today. It was nasty....

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I tried a protien shake today. It was nasty. Pre-op on Monday. Excited and can't wait. I am a little disappointed that I am not 145lbs like I wanted to be before my tummy tuck. But there is nothing I can do about that. Talked to my PS and he said I will lose 6-10lbs just from the surgery. He said just to maintain. 158-162lbs at the moment. I will post before pics 11/15/10.

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November 7, 2010

Hi Mandy,

Sounds like you need a recipe for a good protein shake...LOL  I have a couple if you are interested.  I drink these all the time on the run and they are really good.  Just let me know and I would be happy to send your way. 

Your day is almost here and how exciting!  Don't worry about not hitting your weight loss goal right now.  After your tummy is done and you are cleared to go back to the gym it will all fall into place.  Once you have the flat tummy it will really fire you up and you will feel great.  For months I was totally fixed on the scale number and when I finally realized that was not the final product I settled down.  Base it on the entire package.  BMI, muscle tone, measurements, clothes size etc.  I had a totally unrealistic number in my head when I started this process and a trainer actually laughed at me.   There is nothing sexier on a woman's body than lean sculpted muscle and curves! 

I have read about several women on the site trying the PX90 and they love it. 

I will be thinking about you on the 15th and excited to read your update and see your pics.

Hang in there girl! And if you would like the recipes just let me know.
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November 8, 2010
Thanks so much for your support. I am interested in your receipes. I will at least try them. I hate that I am so picky. I don't eat jello, pudding, or anythink with that texture. I do like milk shakes and ice cream. LOL.
November 9, 2010

I will send you the recipes!
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November 9, 2010
Good Luck