Thank you to everyone!

I think you made the best choice! I think your husband is really sweet and caring . I'm sure he loves you and not being selfish. Sometimes their are selfish husbands that encourage their wifes to getsurgery or make their wifes feel unattractive. If a loved one of mine wanted surgery I would NEVER allow it. Everyone should be happy in their own skin and not opt for surgery . I got my nose done and feel selfish for putting my family in a postion where they had to go thru my emotionail trama.

We're sad to see you go, but good for you in making the decision that's best for you! I apologize if it - at any point - seemed like I was attacking your husband. That was not my intention, I think I more so felt protective of ya and got upset seeing YOU upset, but it was wrong of me to say he was being selfish. I hope there's no hard feelings! You've been a great addition to this site and I hope things continue to go so well for you! Take care! xo

You are beautiful inside and out. I never wanted to comment on your husband, but I do not think that he was not supporting you throughout this journey. He loves you. He obviously thinks that you are the most beautiful thing in the world and I truly think he was more concerned about your health and well being. Elective surgery is still surgery and there will always be complications. Half of what I see as a nurse makes me not want to go to a hospital, let alone have surgery. I'm glad you are at peace with your decision. And I will say after these last two weeks, if I had never been in an accident, I 100% would never had surgery. While I'm happy with the results, I think we are all created perfectly in our own right. Our uniqueness is what makes each of so special.

Just for the record I never thought your husband was a bad one for not supporting you. I'm still disappointed for you though and speaking from experience....just try not to keep things bottled up ( any kind of anger or resentment toward your husband for not supporting you in this). I say this because you still want the rhinoplasty and in the future it might come pouring out of you when your marriage starts to go through a rocky road( which all marriages do) I hope for your sake you will be able to completely accept yourself in the future and come to love your nose. I can't. I've just had it with my nose and am ready to get a new one. Just like if I had problems with my teeth I would straighten them too. But I'm glad you are doing what you feel is right for this time. Hopefully this all doesn't come off in a mean way or something. That's not my intention at all! It's more just concern for you and having gone through experience with similar situations. I hope the best for you beautiful!

It is good to see you have made an educated and personal decision on this. You did your homework, had your consultations and were able to come to this decision on your own. It must be a great feeling of relief to be able to put this experience behind you and know that you have a family that cares for you very much. No worries, be happy!

I know exactly how you feel. My husband was the same in the beginning of this whole thing. He has calmed down a lot since then. He doesn't constantly try and talk me out of it anymore and has come to accept it all. Although he still really wishes I wouldn't do it, he doesn't talk about that anymore but instead keeps our conversation more positive and uplifting for me. The consult I just had was really good. My husband actually really liked him too! He loved the before and afters and loved how the PS got straight to the point. I hope the same happens for you over the next few weeks. I know exactly how you feel right now. But it did get better for me. I just stopped talking to people about it and that helped a ton too! Keep up the good researching and you will be fine.

To be honest with u, I really want to have surgery and have a better looking nose, but then I thing what if anything goes wrong and I don't like my new nose or I could use the money for something else, or what other people will say about it and then I tell my self if I don't do it I will regret it in the future, there are just so many emotions that I don't know if one day I'll go through with the rhinoplasty

Holy cow, your morphs are GORGEOUS! My jaw dropped at your frontal morph - it sounds like if your result was similar to that, you'd be very happy, and that's what matters most, but personally speaking, I think the morphed image really flatters your other features and softens you up overall (although you were always very feminine-looking). :) The surgeon is very talented in those morphs - I can't get over how wonderful they look. Also, I'm sorry that your husbands words keep bringing you down. Sometimes, the people around us think that simply because they've stopped telling us directly that they're against something that they're no longer guilting us into making the decision that they want us to make. But there are two kinds of ways that a person is not supportive: (1) they tell you outright that they don't support you, or (2) they say they do but then continue to make comments to the contrary, as if that doesn't count or something. But those little comments they continuously make - about how beautiful you are, how you're perfect the way you look now, how the money can go towards something better, etc. - wear at you more and more every day, and it isn't fair of him to put that pressure and guilt on you. It kind of sounds like what my dad was saying to me before my surgery; but once he saw the change, how I still looked like me (only better), and most importantly, how happy it made me, he completely came over to my side. I think part of the problem is that, unless you do the research and see that rhinoplasty surgeries are not as invasive and complicated as most people misconceive them to be, everyone has this idea that the surgery is going to make you come out looking like a completely different person. A lot of people are also not open to the idea of change. And sure, perhaps there are more practical things you can spend this much money on, but you only get ONE life, and you can't always spend your life doing the practical things that makes everyone else happy - when will it be YOUR turn to do something for YOU? My rhinoplasty was one of the best investments I've ever made for myself; I'd do it 100 times over, that's how happy it's made me. And I think that the chances are great for it to be just as positive of an outcome for you. It's okay for your husband to be concerned and worry about you, but part of being a team is to GENUINELY support the other person if what they're doing will make them happy, even if you don't necessarily agree with their decision. I know it's easier said than done, but I'd gently tell your husband exactly how his words are hurting you, and you appreciate his concern but if he doesn't ACTUALLY plan on saying anything supportive, then you'd rather he not say anything about it at all because this is your decision to get this done, not his, and that's all there is to it. I know you can do this!