Tummy Tuck: Stories

I'm 27 years old,I have 3 wonderful babies,and have terrible stretch marks and saggy skin in my belly,I have been thinking about this for a while and I just been trying to make a decision the final one about getting done and when? I'm currently engaged and have been with this wonderful man for 6 years,he loves me no matter what,he says I'm perfect you don't need it,and this and that,I know he just trying to be sweet,because he loves but what I don't show him discussed me,is my saggy skin,when I bend over,the strech marks turn into wrinkles and it just looks awful,I would never let him see me with no clothes on and if I do si quick before I grab a towel or turn off the lights..I'm so self conscious about it,I've tried to talk my self out it many times, telling my self well maybe this cream would work better since it cost more than the last one,I even did laser skin resurfacing and spent $2500 just to see if that was an alternate so I wouldn't have to get this extreme surgery,but the laser did nothing for me just wasted my money,so I think I'm ready for this I'm tired of having. To tuck my skiing under my under wear or jeans,no one know what we have to go through or what we feel every morning when we look at it,I hate my skin but I love my children they truly are a blessing but is time for me to feel comfortable and confident again.....here is some of my photos....