Confessions of a Lurker - Fort Lauderdale, FL
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I was not planning to share my story, but i found...
- 18 Oct 2012
i was not planning to share my story, but i found everyone else's so inspirational that i decided to throw mine into the mix as well. i'm 5'3.5 (that half inch is very important), 128 lbs (my steady weight was 138 pre-surgery but i've had a few issues with my appetite and lost weight in the exact place i wanted to keep it once again - my breast friends).
anywho, my surgery was on september 19th, 2012. i had consultants from 3 physicians and they all seemed about the same so i went with one from a large practice fairly close to my home. honestly, it was the rep who sold me - the same physician had performed her surgery & she did a show and tell w/details on her surgery, recovery and everything. i scheduled my procedure about 10 days after my consultation. i've been thinking about either a tummy tuck or lipo for a few years. i lost about 45 lbs...i swear 10 of them came from my breast friends but nothing from my stomach, love handles or inner thighs. i'm pretty active and have been for years - weight training, spinning, yoga, pilates, cardio...i have a treadmill at home. but even with a trainer kicking my butt & doing 2 a days (hiit cardio & long sessions after weight training), the gut still plagued me.
all of the consultants i had gave me the same report - lipo would do nothing for my abdomen because i only had fat pockets on the sides and the rest was loose skin.
my recovery was uneventful...except for the vomiting (life altering expulsions that scared my animals), loss of appetite and probably doing too much. i live alone & boarded my dogs for 3 days and was back to their schedule on the saturday after my procedure. luckily, they smelled illness upon me and took mercy on me so i wouldn't have to walk them as much or as far...all this for some kisses & allowing them in my bed again.
i had my 1 month post-op visit today and have been cleared to exercise. i'm concerned that i still have no appetite and feel a little weak occasionally (i know this is because i'm not eating enough).
advice i wish i'd heeded:
1 - ixnay on the altsay (just say no to sodium)...i'm very swollen & i think this may be part of the cause
2 - no bending over...hard to do when you have to scoop after 2 little dogs
i will provide additional pic's after my swelling subsides. the only other issue i have is the scar/incision. i know it will fade and recede, but damn that thing is a scary beast. and i am itching like crazy. i've taken benadryl a few times and used cortisone. oops, i forgot - while i was on pain med's i had the craziest dreams...i was tending to my garden (just watering) and that nite i dreamed a giant mosquito sprayed me in the face with something toxic. a night or so later, i dreamed i looked out my bedroom window and frankenstein was walking by very very slowly.
the next phase for me is maintenance - returning to my workouts, tending to my scar (my doctor recommended biocorneum but i forgot to get it from the pharmacy today)...i am going to try the palmers oil and burts bees belly creme. i also purchased a gelzone wrap (it's silicone and supposed to help with scars...and also a compression garment). i received it a few days ago and love it as compared to the old antiquated CG.
October 20th, 2012 i had my 1st session of...
- 20 Oct 2012
i had my 1st session of lymphatic massage. they call it lipo-ex and said it could help with other things as well (i.e. the thighs) but i tried mesotherapy on my stomach a few years ago before i had the loose skin and it did NOTHING for me. that was a $2000 or so mistake so i am very leery of topical treatments.
the tech warned me that the treatment may hurt, but it only felt uncomfortable in one spot (my right side where the incision is a bit high was a little tender. other than that, it was easy breezy.
I had my 2nd session of lymphatic massage today....
- 28 Oct 2012
i also asked her about the wrinkle in time (that's attached to a little bit of left over fat/chubb) on my right side. she said it's dog ears and that's pretty common with tummy tucks and there's no way to predict them. she also said what i referred to as the chubb on my right side is only a little fat but mostly skin...damn you 48. i love being my age, but apparently the bit of remaining elasticity of my skin does not share the love. can't we all just get along?
anywho, that the hell are dog ears ( already browsed some pic's, which completely freaking horrified me)? why do they call them that? and how long do i have to wait to get it fixed....i'm a little discouraged because this will interfere with my plans to skip down the beach in belly baring bikinis this winter, but i'm still happy that i did it - the sad face all that skin & chubb made before is gone.
Methinks i'm a slow healer. when i took these...
- 5 Nov 2012
anyway, i am still happy i did this - even though i was planning to not ever have anything else done again. not that the pain was so bad...more like not being able to do my thing (sorry, i'm spoiled. my motto is 'whateva, i'll do what i want!' and yes, i did poach the line from a cartoon commercial).
the bit of flabby i have above the dog ear is a pain in the petuttie, but since it's going to be repaired, i plan to have it removed if i can't work it off in spinning over the next couple months. also, a couple things ladies considering a TT should consider are age & skin elasticity. my 48 year old (and fabulous) self forgot all about those things.
A few new pics. a little less swelling. minor...
- 13 Nov 2012
the issue is my right side. there's a little bit of flabby left there and some stitches that appear they may never lay flat. i think it's a dog ear. he told me today that it was to avoid making my incision line extend all the way around to my boom bomm.
my plan is to work out and try to demolish that little bit of fatty cakes with spinning and weight training. however, i forgot that i had been trying to do that for years before i had the tummy tuck. soo what's a girl to do? happy new year lipo?
the very idea of it makes me sad. i was not planning to continue my plastic surgery journey unless it was a dire necessity.
my physician recommended lipo so if i can't rid myself of the extra by january, lipo here i come.
also, i had my 1st session of spinning since before my surgery in september and it was rocking. i hate to work out (even though i make myself do it) but i LURVE spinning. hopefully, my legs will not betray me and be sore tomorrow.
stay sexy, my friends. stay sexy.
Just a few photo updates. the dog ear situation is...
- 19 Nov 2012
but no worries. i am still happy with my decision but not so happy that i have to return for another procedure (lipo) but it is what it is...and i just have to wait it out.
Still struggling with strax regarding the dog ear...
- 31 Jan 2013
meanwhile, i had consultants with doctors stratt & hochstein regarding my situation. they have separate practices. my appointments with azurin and his name begins with an s____ (escaping me at the moment).
anywho, the dr's i've seen so far think i was butchered (the incision line is way too high and i have a huge dog ear on my right side...strax is still trying to say it's not a dog ear and stated that my body was asymmetrical - more fat on the right than the left). per hochstein, i may never be able to wear a 2 piece again because of this debauchery. he didn't seem the least bit interested in taking my case but did tell me the scar on my right would have to be elongated to my back due to hamm's uncertain incision line and my own loose skin). hochstein also noted that lipo on my right side would have to be nill/minimal due to loose skin...but his prognosis was not at all optimistic.
stratt (who i saw before hochstein) seems to believe lipo would help. i asked about the skin myself (due to my age and weight loss). he thought it would be more of a concern if i wanted lipo of the inner thighs. my most immediate concern is the ridge on my side that appears to be a deformity and must be hidden with and without clothes/swimwear.
i am now almost 18 weeks post op (a little over 4 months). i have to admit i haven't been monitoring my sodium intake in food consumed outside my home - this was torture during my vacation - i could feel the salt swell afterwards.
also, i was wondering about filing a malpractice suit (though i know the physician himself does not have malpractice insurance, does this mean i cannot sue)?
soooo many questions. but i should have definitely done more research and stayed away from strax (even though their doctor gave me the same spiel as the others i saw before my procedure).
ps - i've been lazy. the holidays and a few vacations right afterwards swayed me from my normal 4 day a week workout schedule.
And so the story continues. One word of caution,...
- 17 Apr 2013
Duh. So simple, yet it sent me down a path of frustration that I would not wish on anyone. I would recommend that you work with your surgeon to create the body you desire.
I was concerned about being over sold services so when lipo & other services were mentioned to me, I shut it down really fast. I was determined to just get a tummy tuck ONLY. But, i should have listened. But shoulda woulda coulda. It's fixed & I'm recuperating. Pic's later.
Ooh and please someone recommend a binder that...
- 17 Apr 2013
1 month post dog ear revision (new pics)
- 18 May 2013
ok, here's the skinny. i actually needed an extended tummy tuck due to the flabby roll of skin on my right side. if i had done further research, i could have saved myself a lot of trouble.
anywho, the bits are gone, but i am horrified by the scar (and pain). somehow i thought the revision (aka removal of excess skin) would be a walk in the park as compared to the tummy tuck. i don't know if my bod forgot about the pain, but i still have some twinges of pain. but it's gone. i have the silhouette i wanted.
BUT the scar is horrible. it is nothing like the original tt scar. my issue post tt was swelling (and possibly sodium from too much processed food). the new scar extends to almost the center of my back...which destroys my bikini frolicking dreams (unless i get fraxel or use makeup to cover it). this is a bummer because i am a beach baby.
has anyone with dark skin tried fraxel to remedy scars? i'm waiting a week or so to spit out my last stitch before i use belly butter or the palmers cocoa butter oil to try & soothe it out.
- 18 May 2013
- 28 May 2013
timing, the rep, proximity to my home