I have just turned 30 and I am ready to work on my...
I have just turned 30 and I am ready to work on my body! I am hoping to get a BBL and a tummy tuck. I have seen great results from Dr Yily based on her website. I am a little apprehensive because there is a lack of darker skinned clientele. Has anyone with darker skin had any surgery with her? If so was the scarring pronounced? How much did the procedures cost?
Greetings ladies! I have great news to report... I...
14 Mar 2013
11 months pre
Greetings ladies! I have great news to report... I got an email from Dra. Yily's office!!! In the original email I sent to her I attached the same pictures I have posted here on realself. In that email I requested a quote for a BBL, and TT. After Dra Yily assed my photo I was given a quote as follows: "The price for fat grafting to buttock, BBL, liposuction of abdomen, armpit, back, flanks, waist is 3,200$USD." This price is great, butit will not be my final estimate. (I am hoping to also get a BL, TT and lipo to the thighs.) She sent me a extensive email that includes every detail of the date scheduling, pre-op tests, meds, payment, surgery process, aftercare, recovery house options and methods to keep in contact with her. I am very impressed! I will be calling her office as soon as I can. I had originally bought an international calling card in preparation of contacting her, but I am out of town right now, and I left it at home. My coworker says I can use her cell later today once we are finished working. SOOOOOO EXCITED!!! I will keep y'all posted...
Sorry for all the typos...I'm not much of a...
14 Mar 2013
11 months pre
Sorry for all the typos...I'm not much of a blogger. I just want to have an active journaled account of my story and the evolution of events in this process. So I called Dr. Yily's office and spoke to Yira Perez. The phone call didn't go as well as I would have liked it to. First off, I had to contend with a failing connection, but it seemed to me that she wasn't understanding everything I was saying to her anyway. I had to repeat myself many times. All I gathered from the conversation was to continue to email Dr. Yily in order to finalize my appointment. This is no critique on her staff's customer service however, I'm just typically an apprehensive individual. You know what? I refuse to allow myself to be negative this time. It is a major decision to have plastic surgery and even grander to decide to have it abroad. I am going to go with Le Flow! There are 3 other surgeons in Santo Domingo that I have been debating on, (Dr. Contreras, Dr. Hernandez, and Dr. Checo.) Its just that Yily has captivated me the most with her results and with the real life reviews I have found online. Hummppf... (heavy sigh), I will re-email her again and try to stay in clear communication with her and her staff. Hopefully, God willing, I will get the surgery day I am looking for and it will be smooth sailing from here...
Hey team Yily! So I been doing the math and...
15 Mar 2013
11 months pre
Hey team Yily! So I been doing the math and thinking over the scars and recovery... I think I might nix the BL. My daughter's father (baby daddy) spoke with me about how he supports whatever decision I make, but that he would advise not to go overboard. I answered him with a quick, "mind yo own G@# D$%& business," type reply at first. But he does bring up a good point. (*Side note drama: He and I are really tight friends, we're sure we love each other, but its complicated right now with the long distance.) As excited as I am, and how confident I am in Yily's skill level, I really don't want to push it.
I chose May 28th as my SX date, however it won't be confirmed until I send my deposit. Deposit will be sent out after pay day on March 21st. I haven't spoke to Yily yet, so my is solely in the Lord that I am sending my hard earned money to the right place. Luck for me I can transfer my money through my online banking no charge! I have been obsessing over the before and after photos from all the Yily dolls post on this site. Its like gather intell before a strike, I gotta know what the hell is going on! Every word has been invaluable. They have calmed my fears, answered my unspoken questions, and lightened the load of pressure I feel about making a wise informed decision. Thank you to all of the brave ladies who have come before me! Real bitches, get tummy tuck stitches!!!
I just re-read what I wrote above... I profusely...
15 Mar 2013
11 months pre
I just re-read what I wrote above... I profusely apologize for the those damn typos. Again, not a blogger and I get way too excited blabbing on to proof read. Once you hit submit there is no editing so urrything is on and popping. I will definitely make a mental note to pay better attention to what I am saying so ya'll don't go cross eyed trying to figure out what the hell I was saying! GN ladies...
So I have been reviewing plane ticket prices. I...
16 Mar 2013
11 months pre
So I have been reviewing plane ticket prices. I don't anticipate purchasing them until I can confirm that I can have the May 28th sx date. But jetBlue has been the most affordable. Even though I live in MD, I will fly out of NY because there were way more non-stop flights to pick through. I have also been looking into buying an extra faja for the trip. I have read several blogs about how drastically the body drops in size as the drains and messages reduce the swelling. Some women say not to buy it, because you never know what size you need. Others have said that they were so upset that they didn't pack a back up one. Reason being that Yily's supply ran out in the size they needed because of the influx of surgeries. I mean what do you expect? Most, (even larger women) are placed in a Medium after surgery and need a Xsmall after the swelling goes down. I figure if I buy a small I can get it taken in if necessary. I like http://www.caribbeanshape.com/. Another is; http://www.annmichellstore.com/detail/index.cfm?nPID=3468. Their selections were diverse and affordable in my opinion. Again I don't plan on spending any money until I get the sx date confirmation, but y'all know we women can never be too prepared! I'm going to try and get the RX Yily recommended from my primary care physician.
Things to add to my shopping list before my trip:
(All of these things I got from other blog spots! I would have to spend a small fortune to buy all of this stuff but I thought it might be helpful for everyone if I just listed everything I have compiled from all of my info gathering. Do your research to find what is right for you.)
Feminine wipes and Baby wipes
Diurex (Water pills)
Mederma/ Bio Oil
Vitamins (vitamin C, iron)
Backless Shower shoes/ Flip Flops
Gold Bond Anti-itch cream or Benadryl cream (or tablet for anti itching and sleep)
Stool softener (A must I heard, nothing to harsh though. Flax seed oil works for me!)
A reputable firming lotion ("LIFECELL ALL-IN-ONE ANTI-AGING CREAM" seems to be number one on the internet) Pricey but supposedly good!
Tylenol pm and Tylenol Extra strength
Dermoplast (Spray on pain relief)
Hibiclens (I heard it can be very harsh! Beware!)
Boppy Pillow (A must to protect that butt)
Toilet seat "Soft seat" cover (For your home toilet)
Maxi pads w/o wings (for garment, to prevent irritation burns) Tampons for menstral cycle
Bromalien (Pinaple extract pills to reduce swelling)
Arnica tablets (Combats inflammation and pain)
Foam board back and abdomen (Crutial for swelling)
"Wife beater tees" to wear under the garment
Silicone Scar vanishing sheets/ Strips Example of what these can do for you: http://www.rejuveness.com/Before-and-After-Straight-Line-Scar-Pictures-c143.html
Phew!!!! That's ALOT!!!!! Happy shopping Yily Sisters!
Good morning Yily mamas! Blogging todayt to...
20 Mar 2013
11 months pre
Good morning Yily mamas! Blogging todayt to de-stress... I am so excited and ready for the transformation that I want to undergo with Dr Yily. Granted I do have my moment where I'm completely bugging out that I am even considering flying to a foreign country to get plastic surgery! On the most part, however I feel confident and at peace with my decision, (I'm a woman, we need mood swing options! Lol!) Speaking about being a woman, I have read a lot of blogs on here from women bashing their bodies, feeling disgusted, and flat out crying for an excuse to be a sex bomb big booty cha cha girl. It made me sit and consider my own truths about the matter. Will someone read my blog and think of my body as ugly? Or that I am "fake" looking after I am done. Though most of my reactions have been ones of awe and love, I am not going to lie and say that I haven't had the same thoughts cross through my mind about other pictures. At this moment I am taking the opportunity to really examine body fascination. We all want something different, but really the same thing. Beauty. I look at my self everyday nude. Not just like normal shower stuff, or critically or even the occasional booty tooshed-out hot show off cell pic! (Ya'll all know we know how to fake a hot looking super model shot!) Now I'm pulling in my waist in and plumping up my butt wondering what Dr Yily will mold me into. I can put as many wish pics as I please and the reality remains the same, my outcome is in the hands of the Lord through Dr. Yily. Once I do this surgery, I will forever be altered... Deep stuff... On to the original reason I hopped on to blog. I realized yesterday that I never mentioned my body dimensions. I have found it so helpful when comparing a Yily doll's results to potentially what is a realistic result for me. Here they are: (Hope it helps!)
Bust: 38DD (Could be DDD, I need to be remeasured)
What I would like to be:
According to http://www.glamourunderground.com/389/ideal-female-body-measurements/ you can calculate the ideal female body "hourglass" figure. I have attached a piece of the article below:
"An Obvious Waist – A a pear or, ideally an hourglass body shape with a waist to hip ratio of between 0.68 and 0.72
You can easily calculate your body shape using this body type calculator.You can calculate your waist to hip ratio by dividing your waist measurement by your hip measurement, or by using this calculator. (Note: For both of these calculations, measure the smallest part of your midsection as your ‘waist’ and the largest area around your bottom as your ‘hips’). If your waist to hip ratio is over 0.72, you need to decrease the size of your waist or increase the size of your hips. And if your waist to hip ratio is under 0.68, the reverse is true."
My original is .795
My wish measurement puts me at .69. I think that will work for me. The next question is figuring out how many cc's of fat to have injected into each buttock for the optimum look. Truthfully I feel comfortable trusting Dr Yily's judgement, but airing on the side of caution I think I will investigate that too. I also want to remember to discuss stretch mark... But that will be for a later entry. Tah-tah sisters, I gotta go file my late ass taxes before the IRS shows up at my house!
Wow. I have been on such a whirlwind... I was...
29 Mar 2013
11 months pre
Wow. I have been on such a whirlwind... I was prepared to send away my deposit to Yily and I had my finances fall apart for a minute. Bills, bills, bills. But everything happens for a reason. The delay has given me a moment to regroup and read more amazing blogs like FoundUmissnewbooty. She's not a Yily girl but her story is even more amazing than her new look. I've read about cellulitis infections, blood transfusions (mzjuicyfruit87). I don't take the seriousness of having this surgery for granted, I just have been so high on the excitement of getting it done and being the me I want to be I need the reality check. One girl is getting emergency insurance incase something goes wrong. Its an extra $250. So worth it. I am going to look into it through the DR Embassy. (http://santodomingo.usembassy.gov/medical_assistance-e.html)
So I have bought many of the items on my post sx...
31 Mar 2013
11 months pre
So I have bought many of the items on my post sx must have list:
1 Fajas Colombianas post surgery post partum on Powernet firm control - Beige - Medium [ASIN: B009AH6HNI]/ $78.90
1 Total Compression Body Shaper Vedette 705/ $28.24
1 Lady Elegance P EZ Female Urinal/ $5.50
1 3D Shaper, All Over Body Firming and Tightening Cream from Expederm - natural skin care & cosmetic/ $33.22
1 Medtech Laboratories Dermoplast - 2.75oz/ $2.91
1 Hibiclens antimicrobial and antiseptic skin cleanser liquid - 8 oz/ $9.29
1 Lipo Express.com Abdominal Board 3005/ $31 ($20+$11 shipping)
1 Hanes Men's 6 Pack Tank/ $14
1 Squeem Magical Lingerie Shapewear, Firm Compression, Vest/ $74.72
1 Pair of Vitalsox Patented Recovery Graduated Compression Socks/ $25.02
*****Wish List cont.***** (Opps I had a few more...
31 Mar 2013
11 months pre
*****Wish List cont.***** (Opps I had a few more items to add)
1 http://medicointernational.com/SC-810 Sculptures Liposuction Foam Sheets/ $58.00
1 Rejuveness Scar Treatment Kit/ $135.00
1 Boppy Nursing Pillow with Slipcover/ $39.98
1 Sunbeam 731-500 Heating Pad with UltraHeatTechnology/ $12.99
I bought most of these items on Amazon.com unless I listed the website that I purchased the items from separately. I plan on buying the rest of the things I need from Walmart, GNC or Vitamin Shoppe. Ugh! The price of beauty...
Soooo... Guess what happened to me. I got played...
Soooo... Guess what happened to me. I got played by my mama! I love her to death, Lawd knows I's do but she palyed me none the less. So I received my last bonus check that I had been waiting for, in the amount of $1500. This check put me at the total $5000+ I needed to get my sx, my plane tickets and pay for the stay at the RH. Well after almost a week of over enthusiastic hugs, unexpected calls, compliments, and random ass kissing, my mom tells me that she needs exactly $1500, (on the day I received my ck mind you), to use as a down pmt on her new Cadilac and that she already wrote them a bad check to pay for it. There goes my sx... She says she will pay me back but I know she won't. It's like a knife to the gut... I love my mom but she played me hard. Anyone listening who has ever been in my predicament, knows what it is like to have the rug pulled from underneath you. Ladies please help me with your prayers that I will get more money so that I can give myself this dream make over. They give you life then they take your money... smh... Until I can come up with some more money from now to May 13th, my sx is off... Damn...
Oh, on a lighter note. I lost a little weight in...
Oh, on a lighter note. I lost a little weight in inches. My new measurements are:
Not much but I'm not complaining!
God is so good! I am slowly starting to collect...
11 Apr 2013
10 months pre
God is so good! I am slowly starting to collect money from nowhere. The day after my last post I got a check in the mail for $540 from left over grant money, then I received a commission check for $550 today from my employer! I still may need to reschedule the sx but I have my game face back on cause mama is gonna get her new booty! ;D
Sorry I have been gone for so long... I have had...
19 Apr 2013
10 months pre
Sorry I have been gone for so long... I have had to make a lot of changes with my sx date. I guess that's life right? My mom has had spinal surgery and is on the recovery right now. It was nothing life threatening luckily, but she will be on the mend for quite a while. I decided to ask Yily if I can move my sx date to July 8th. She hasn't hit me back yet, but I know she will. I got a promising IM from a fellow Marylander that would like to buddy up with me if I can go in June. I really want to go with her, but my money is going through some changes right now. I took my car in to get a routine oil change and to ask about a little alignment wobble I was feeling when I accelerated. I walked out of there with a repair quote for $1200! WTF!!! Jesus is literally going to have to take the wheel honey... There comes a time where as a woman you have to put your foot down and tell everybody else (and your car) that they have to wait, but how do I find the balance of taking care of my responsibilities and taking care of me? Ay yi yi!!! I got my Diurex pills and my Chux, so thats off the list. The next thing on the list will be a winning Lotto ticket so I can knock off the BS and bring on the BBL...
I have never shared any truly revealing personal...
19 Apr 2013
10 months pre
I have never shared any truly revealing personal information about myself on here, but I am urged to share a small bit of prosperous thinking. I am an open spiritualist and I have many believes about life, love, the Universal Laws and God. I do not deny what feels true in my soul. I decided to pray for inspiration to realign myself in abundance and to let go of worry. When searching for guidance I discovered some motivating spiritual knowledge on the internet. The Romans believed in a mythological Goddess named Abundantia, pronounced: "A-bunn-dan-shea" the Roman Goddess of Abundance, good fortune and success. Her name means "plenty" or "overflowing riches." She has also been called the beautiful maiden of success. I personally hold the belief of one high reigning Lord, but I am open minded enough to process the idea of deities or anointed spirits created by God with specific energies, like Angels or Saints. I discovered a prayer with the specific intent of releasing worry and asking for the flow of prosperity. I am not asking anyone to believe, but I found it positive and uplifting. This is the prayer:
"Beautiful Abundantia, I desire to be like you—carefree and filled with faith that my supply is already met in all ways. Help me replace any money worries with joy and gratitude. Help me open my arms so that Heaven may easily help me. Thank you for all of your guidance, gifts, and protection. I'm truly grateful, and I'm abundantly, joyful and fulfilled. I let go, and relax in the sure knowledge that I'm completely taken care of, immediately and in the future." I really do feel better already!
Wussup my BBL beauties! Thought I would logon and...
28 Apr 2013
10 months pre
Wussup my BBL beauties! Thought I would logon and purge some of my daily happenings... So today I got the notion to try on my highly anticipated post surgery Fajas just to see what it could do for my body pre-surgery and to test the difficulty level to put on. I lotioned and oiled to lube up the old body just in case of snaffoos, and it is a good thing I did! OH LAWDY!!! You should have seen me trying to Vogue out to put those things on! My knee and hip joints were poppn, sounded like Vietnam in my bathroom! My first faja the Total Compression Body Shaper Vedette was totally worthless! I wish I had tried in on sooner and wrote a review on Amazon. For all the trouble to put it on it gave me no support or even real compression! The second one, Fajas Colombianas post surgery post partum on Powernet firm control was worthless too! The material was way way thicker but it was too uncomfortable in the crotch area. It had NO stretch and I couldn't even fasten it closed. I looked like a damn dissected sausage gone wrong! Potentially if I had had help I might have had a better outcome. Overall I give the first one a 1 out of 10 and the second one a 2 out of 10. Maybe I will post some pics and let you all be the judges. Maybe. I don't want anyone to die from laughing so hard that you fall out your bed or computer chair and crack your coconut! I found some other Faja sites from other BBL ladies on here. Fill_me_out used one from this website: http://www.fajatepanama.com/es/linea-femenina/43-ipod-touch.html. She says she has purchased 8 in total and now I see why! I like this one myself: http://www.fajatepanama.com/es/linea-femenina/22-ipod-nano.html. When I get some more money I will buy it and try it out for you ladies to tell you what I think. Alright boos I got go to bed.Before I forget the lovely Eternalsmiles has a weightloss challenge going on and I promised to add a meal plan suggestion to inspire anyone who might want to try the modified lemonade diet I commented about on her blog. Here is the meal plan if you would like to try it: Breakfast: Post Great Grains High protein cereal w/ 2% milk. 3 hrs later Snack: Oikos Greek yogurt (any flavor, yes even an fruit flavor!) No Yopiat because it is not high enough in protein. Ignore the fat content. 3hrs later Lunch: 4-6 oz of Chicken salad over baby spinach leaves with 1/2 cup of babby carrots. You can use dressing just don't be ridiculous! No cheese! 3hrs later Snack: Fiber one protein bar or any high protein bar. Again ignore the fat content. Fat doesn't matter on this diet! 3hrs later have the modified lemonade for Dinner. PLEASE drink water throughout the day! This along with 30 minute workouts every other day is how I lost 20lbs in 30 days... Good luck babies, Mama is sleepy...
Trying to slow my rolls!
I know I haven't posted in a long time. Apologies go all around ladies. I've been swimming in baby father drama. The more I allow myself to reconcile the nonsense that goes on inside my mind the more I begin to understand compassionately the nonsense within him. It's just easier for me to unload my anger (turned caution) and disappointment at his actions before him then to forgive and move on with him. Fearing love is a Son Of A B#%$&!!! I am desperately trying to take my time but he is so f***ing HOT! I had me a Tyrese, "How you gonna act like that?", moment last week... That... "You know we be tearn it up, breakn stuff, that ghetto love..." Damn. (TMI). My bad. I will save the rest for the Oprah show... N-E-Way. I went on the hunt for an inexpensive slimming garment to give me comfort and control while I wait out on having my sx. I found a great faja-esque little number. Its called the Instant Confidence Self Expressions by Maidenform. I found it at Target in the lingerie section. OMG! I love it! Two thumbs way up! It was fairly easy to put on, once you twerk it out past the hips. It has great control and was super comfortable! The price was Bob Barker at only $23.99. I HIGHLY RECOMMEND!!! That's all for now. I will hit ya'll up again soon, cause as expected from my life there is more drama to report that just might delay my sx again. I know, I know nobody likes a pity-party having ass woman! But I found out I may have to have a hysterectomy. I have to go now but trust I will explain...
Final diagnosis: Endometriosis...
May 16th I went in to planned parenthood (they don't just do abortions...) to receive the Essure birth control system. When the Dr inserted the guided camera into my uterus she discovered that I had severe endometriosis tissue growing there. Endometrosis is condition where uteral lining grows inside and outside of the uterus. It is a very painful disorder that normally causes infertility. I have, as far as I can remember, always had painful menstrual cramps, but I chalked it up to that just being my lot in life. Now that I know more about this condition I realize that it was a miracle that I was able to conceive my 11 yr old daughter. There were also several pollups (small tumor like growths) that need to be biopsied. She recommended I go to my PCP. Once there my Dr. referred me to John Hopkins. My next appointment coincides with my date of surgery with Yily so I have called off the sx for now, but I asked her to keep the dwnpmt so that I can reschedule after my hysterectomy.
Holy Sha-sha I'm stressing and gaining weight!
Yeah so I'm at 162lb! now after all my hard work to get down to 153lbs! I have to admit I have been cracking out on sweets because of stress. Sugar is like my heroin!!! I ate half a pan of sweet cornbread the other day that I had made for the whole family!!! This is my vow to myself that I will give it up. I want better for myself.
If only to be full of Grace... Amazing.
I looked up the word "Grace" today. I was motivated to understand its definition after a prayer I had with God. I asked Him what I should do when it comes to my finances slipping, my hysterectomy, my mom's dependence on me, my housework, my BBL, my Baby's-Father drama and my anger and frustration towards all of it. I went downstairs and watched and old episode of the Dr. Phil show. A little girl was on with her face blurred out recalling a heartbreaking experience of sexual abuse she had lived through by her Grandfather. Her mother and father were there and they had sought the advice of Dr. Phil to help to put their marriage and family back together. I watched as this family dealt, (with what is in my opinion the worst thing that could possibly happen to your child) with rage, confusion, forgiveness, acceptance and penance as even the Grandfather admitted what he had done and took his sentence. The little girl told Dr. Phil that she didn't have anymore nightmares and forgave her Grandfather for what he had done. At first I was furious. I can't even exactly explain why. I just was. It all seemed too unreal. I was just about to open my mouth to the TV when Dr. Phil interjected, "I hope everyone could behave with as much bravery, strength and love as Grace has..." Grace is defined as: Unmerited divine assistance given to humans for their regeneration or sanctification; mercy pardon privilege charm benevolence; the quality or state of being considerate or thoughtful; balance. "Unmerited assistance for regeneration..." That was my most perfect answer. If only to be full of Grace in replacement for my frustrations and remorse. To re-fill my cup I must operate at a higher standard for myself. I am on a path to learn how to respond instead of react. To stand firm gracefully because I deserve the repercussions of that stance. I deserve to enjoy my life...
How does Wonder Woman do it?
Hey RS. Long time no blog... Apologies all around. The love is Real I promise I have just been super distracted. Phew... Deep breathe time. So I have had some personal dilemmas I have been working through lately. First I had a follow up Gyno appointment to schedule my hysterectomy on August 29th. I completely blew it off... I know I am not proud of it. I didn't even call to reschedule or say that I wasn't coming. The truth is I am scared. I feel so uncertain if whether I am in a position in my life to decide if I will never have another child. I was prescript-ed Nuva-Ring slow release hormonal birth control to stop the heavy menstrual bleeding and cramps. It has worked like a miracle. But do I want to have a hysterectomy? I don't know. On top of that I have been out of work since the end of August. I do medical contract work and the work has been few and far between until it has been none. I drove all the way to Cincinnati OH (8 hours both ways!!!), only to be turned down. But I am not spiraling into a cyclone of misery and confusion because I know why God has made this path as it is. I have been on a spiritual journey to be authentically myself. Truthfully. I didn't really like my job, and I just about hated the job I had before that one, so logic would tell me that I must be on to something deliciously wonderful as my next venture. Actually, I love Astrology and Tarot reading. I haven't pursued a career in reading or healing out of fear of judgment from others. But the esoteric spiritual arts is the only path that feels right for me. Some paths require you to be more than you understand how to be, but they all require courage. We shall see. I still want my booty done though! I am praying to get the body I want next spring! Thanks for letting me vent y'all...
The illusive "Back Triangle Pad"
I was reading bkylnbeauty's blog and saw that she found a site that sells the infamous Triangle Back Pad. Go to www.inthepinkroom.com It's a good deal for only $14.99! Look under: [0341 Lower Back Flattening Board- Triangle]. That is all!
pic of b4 of Mzjuicy and back pad...
Repost: Mzjuicy's b4 and after!
Sorry had a rough time putting the pics in sequence!
Wish pictures B4 and After
Another wish pic... I need my new booty!
I got that itch to be a Bad Bitch ya'll!!!
I can take it! I am so ready to make my transformation! I have a pending contract that is destined to lay a whole pack of stacks if I get it. I would work from October 21st to November 29th and get $9300! That's enough to pay my bills and get my body right. I have claimed it and now it is in the Lord's hands. Here is my RS Women's spiritual proclamation:
Hear me God as your child. You have fought to get me to see myself as the beautiful universe You have created for me. I love You as I so love the world and all of myself. I thank You for Your lessons and confidence. You have guided me out of feeling ashamed of desiring what I want and offered me the challenge of going out and pulling in the feminine creative energy to manifest my passions. All of us who are on this path to create the possible have had to be brave, wise, strong and have had to protect our spirit's drive from detour-er's. We have had to be reconnected with being completely-unselfishly in love with ourselves. Insecurity has led to freedom and worry to wonderment. Everyone seeks to get it right on the first try. But we have to, no matter what comes, never extinguish the catalytic spark of our desire...
I believe in my own abundance...
I had a vision today of myself couching down on one knee. My head was down. In my vision I began to meditate on how I have worked at strengthening my self love. A place on my chest where my heart is began to glow gold. The gold spread over my entire body illuminating under my skin until it flooded through to my aura. I saw myself smiling. I came to an understanding that my joy is my treasure. I know now that I will have everything I desire. My 31st birthday will be on February 16th 2014. My promise to me is that I will be in DR the day after my 31st birthday and I will begin my 'Bad B***h' transformation. It is time!
Turmeric Paste: A natural wound healing remedy!
Thanks to RS mama Caligirl76. She mentioned an "old wives" remedy in her blog call Turmeric paste. I looked it up to see what it can do. Here's what I found specifically on scars/wounds: (http://www.healthy.net/Recipe/Health/Turmeric_The_Golden_Healer/47)
Sores/Wounds: Keep turmeric in your first aid kit! It acts quickly to help stop bleeding, plus because of its anti-bacterial quality, will help prevent infection. For cuts, pile on the turmeric, cover with gauze, and apply pressure to the area to stop the bleeding. [Also stated on the site] Apply the paste directly to the affected area, cover lightly with gauze or loose cotton clothing (that will likely be ruined with stain). This is known to help dry blisters up and to accelerate the healing process. Of course, serious wounds require immediate medical attention.
How to make Turmeric Paste:
3 Tbsp. turmeric
3 cups water
Bring turmeric and water to a boil. Let it boil until it forms a thick paste. It must boil at least 8 minutes. If necessary, add more water. Once it starts to thicken slightly, you must stir it constantly to prevent scorching. Store in a glass jar (it will stain a plastic storage container) in the fridge.
I think Yily doll Femme Faytal and I have similar body types. She sets the precedent for a realistic expectation. I feel like Sponge Bob (literally), sing "I'm ready! I'm ready!"
Sorry had trouble downloading!
I can't get the caption to save on the photo, but this is what I was trying to write...
The pic downloaded super small! The only clear difference is that I have "Tiger stripes" pre-op and Femme Faytal did not. :P
Yily patient therealmeiscomingsoon b4 and after! Beautiful!
Just comparing TRMCS and my b4 pics!
Dance for you... For all my BBL ladies!
Hey girls! I have been full force preparing for life with the new booty. I even found the "Dance for you..." choreography on YouTube so that I can do a strip tease reveal for my baby father. I am committing to practicing it 30 minutes a day at least twice a week. The young lady bonniemariie2012 who is teaching the steps is not a professional and you can see by the replies she gives to people's comments she is completely unapologetic about it! My advise is just take your time and hit pause to repeat and memorize. I haven't even got half of part 1 down! There are 2 videos. The first is 7 minutes long and the other is like 14 minutes. Below I have added both! Enjoy!
Brief list of Recovery houses in DR!
Hey ladies. I found a few recovery house while browsing blogs. I can't rate them but I thought it might be helpful for my sisters. ********************************************
The Real Recovery Armonia: 809-221-4453
Angela’s Recovery House
Silhouette Recovery: 829-794-9082
Healing Haven/Curacion Del Asilo: http://healinghavendr.com/room-rates.html
Gianna Colombo – Masseuse: 829-445-0205
Whoop whoomp... Didn't get the contract... :(
Oh well ladies, I didn't get the big contract I was working at. I sulked all yesterday, but I hashed it out with my besties (mom, baby father and hs best friend) and I am re-determined. It was a hell of a blow. But that is what being a champion is you keep fighting. Winners do what losers won't!!!! I'm goin get that ass!
More RH names... I don't have ratings, I have just seen them in alot of reviews. Do your research ladies!
Teléfonos: 829 5960126 Móvil : 829 556 1190
Gianna Colombo – Masseuse: 829-445-0205
Juana recovery house: 1-809-780-9635
Bambino was our cab driver
Zara was our Nurse and Massage therapist 829-690-0799
Iyanla Vanzant just changed my life!!!! She just told Terell Owens former NFL player that if money is a problem than you don't have any problems! She told him that money stands for My Own Natural Energy Yield! Mind. Blown. >>>>>> *-*
Looks like I got myself a travel buddy!
Awwww and she is so awesome! She has injected me with a new found since of ambition and determination. She's not going with Yily but we're going to plan our trips together and stay at the same RH to save some cash. Also RS beauties bklynbeauty and mamacita1875 have just crossed over to the flat side! Please send love and healing light their way as the recover.
Correction.... mamacita1987 not mamacita1875!
Sorry dolls. My bad!
Ok ladies so I'm thinking of switching Dr's...
Trust and believe I have been riding hard for Yily since pretty much day 1. But I have been teetering back on forth on Dr. Contreras. I know about all of the scandal surrounding his past and the 2 patients he lost, with that being said if you read back to the first time I started blogging he was always one of my first picks. He was actually recommended to me by one of my co-worker friends. I only didn't pursue him bc I was having a tough time finding his b4 and after pics. But I just saw PAinLa and she looks good! Does anybody out there have some b4 and after pics they can share? Please and thank you!
Uh-oh y'all I may switch all together!!! His quote: TT, BBL and Lipo $3500!!!
It is so difficult to find pictures of Dr. Contreras's work. Recently I was privileged to be invited to join his fan group on fb. I was bombarded before with so much negativity from RS member bashing Dr Contreras because of the 2 very publicized American deaths that occurred a few years back. Deaths are very serious matters, don't get me wrong, but we as hopefuls we have to face the facts that it is a risk that comes with this sx. I am still in my research phase but it has been truly educational and enlightening to really learn about his skill and what he has endured to reclaim his dignity and standing in the community. I have pasted a few pics of his work.
Sorry ladies I took down the pics...
Out of respect for the Contreras group and individual privacy I took down the pics. If you missed them let me just say that in my opinion his work out shines Yily's and that's saying alot!
A new spiritual venture...
Good morning ladies! I am going to make a call out to the Universe for assistance. I am an amateur Astrologist and I have been doing Tarot readings for my friends for over 15 years. Even though my inner circle knows of my psychic abilities I have been reluctant to share my gifts with others out of fear. I have grown so much during this journey to transformation that I want to take a chance and offer readings to anyone that is interested! I have set up a private email and I can pm it to you if you would like a reading. I promise I will give to you with my whole heart. All I need are a few pieces of information and we can go from there. May God bless each any everyone of you!
Yily or Contreras...
I am seriously going back and forth. Yily leave a great TT scar and can sculpt like no one's business. But I have been unhappy with her BL's and belly button scars. Contreras makes natural figure 8 bodies, his BL's are amazing and his prices are great! But meds are not included and I haven't sen alot of TT scars. They are both skilled Dr's. I'm leaning toward Contreras one day and then the next I get cold feet. Idk... I'll keep y'all updated.
Boom baby! I read for my first client!
Its official! I did a reading for a real client! My first one!!! She said and I quote, "Pretty much dead on. Your very good at what you do. Thanks so much! You are very talented... I will make sure to spread the word... since I would like to utilize your gift regularly!" What what! Yaaayyy! I know this is an atmosphere to discuss sx's and that journey specifically, but at this moment this is the real story of my authentic path to becoming my true me, my "RealSelf". I am so over the moon right! (Bad astrological joke) Go me! I felt messages coming through to tell her. I have a mediumship class that I have been studying at that I have neglected to go to lately. Well I am going tonight!!! Boom Baby!
Back to discussing a**! Contreras a** actually!
Guess what I found out yesterday ladies? Dr. Contreras includes a 2 day stay at his RH in your quote aaannnnnddd you DO NOT have to bring any supplies!!! That's a $500 savings right there cause them damn supplies are heavy and expensive! You can get 10 massages for $200 and every additional day at the RH is $80 single rm and $60 double occupancy! Mama likes! I believe 3 meals a day are included too boo! Feeling blessed by the Universe!
Going through Yily withdrawls...
Damn every time I look at therealmecomingsoon's TT I start pheening for Yily! I am a two timer! I can't lie! Lawwwwddd help me figure out what I want! My mom says I should go to both. Ahhh... Ain't nobody got money for that! Hmm maybe that is not such a bad idea... I'm going to sleep on it.
I got another positive review from a reading ladies! So over joyed!...
I got a great review from my newest customer. Not everyone I have been reading has given me feedback. Here is what wonder new client replied to me after her reading: "I'm in tears u have it down to the tee it's as though you've been here my whole life! I believe your gift is real and you should follow it." Love it! I am sooo grateful!
HAPPY THANKSGIVING DOLLS!!!!
OMG! So it's after the feast I'm super fat and full... :S ooouufff... I have never felt so satisfied in my life before. Even in my desire to change my body, I understand it now as full on a improvement to a beautiful structure, not a desperate attempt to correct a malfunction! Also I have been able to understand the unexpected pitfalls in my life with much more humility and acceptance than I could before. Especially with the baby daddy! Let's call him Big Poppa D. He and I are getting along swimmingly! Its still long distance (whomp whomp) but its working. We Skype just about every night and Poppa puts in work making sure to call me on the daily. Phone sex has become a whole nother art y'all! I love the way he makes me feel so comfortable in my skin! The distance believe it or not is a good thing believe it or not. He and I are hot headed and stubborn. We are warriors of our own cause and we often in the past neglected to absorb the lessons in adversity. We met at 16 and we lovers by 17, pregnant by 18 and over completely by 20. We annihilated and alienated any precious connection we had. We lost our innocence. But we didn't lose the love. It was covered and damaged. Now instead of fighting to deny it we have fought to keep it burning and alive. Now all fantasy aside he did have 2 more children since then and a whole set of personal demons on his shoulders. But he did and I grew because of it too. What a whirlwind it has been, but all worth it! Now at 30 I want him more than I did at 16. He is sooo damn fine ladies!!! I would post his pic, but he would prolly kill me. :) j/k When we "Skype" I dress up in negligee, red lip and a thong most times. But last time all I had was a T shirt and a satin scarf around my head and after we had "extinguished" our passions we told me I was the sexiest woman in the world. (Blush) That man gets my goat...I love him! I am especially thankful for that!
Here is RS member and Dr. Contreras bbl and ba patient shillary!
Check her out y'all she keeps it real... :)
I got another positive review!
My client wrote: "This girls reading was SPOT ON!!!!! Thank you so much! It was really enlightening. Literally brought me to tears. Get your reading from her ladies!!! P.S. what you said about my mother scared me [...] Blew. My. Mind. When I read that part! Thank you!...
I know its just after Thanksgiving but I'm gaining weight!!! Aggghhhh!!!
So I was 153lbs when I started this journey and now I am 170lbs!!! I am not happy with myself right now. I feel so bloated and all my pants are so snug. I threw out or donated all of my size 14 and up clothes because I felt like if I believed in my own progress and will to lose the weight I should not allow myself to have fall back comfort clothes. That's how I had lost and failed to keep it off in the past. Don't get me wrong I love all body types and sizes but I ultimately want to end up around 150lbs post op. So Ima need to slow it down a little. Gaining weight for my bbl has been fun but I just lost 30lbs last year which inspired the ass journey in the first place!