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  • Cost: $5,204
  • Connecticut

I am 31 and the mother of 3 wonderful children,...

I am 31 and the mother of 3 wonderful children, 14, 3 and 8 months. I nursed all of my kids, the oldest for a year and a half, the second for 2 years, and the baby I plan on doing for 1 year. Keep that in mond when I say my weight -lol. I am currently 5' 8.5" and 200 lbs.

Since my first child my stomach has never been the same. I always thought about getting a Tummy tuck, however it was always just that.... a thought. I knew I wanted more children, and it would of been a waste of money. So now I'm ready to take that step. My stomach is a mess, no make that a Hot Mess! The stretch marks, and Jello type feel aren't bathing suit material. My husband says he loves me the way I am, however this is for me! I want to be able to wear form fitting dresses, and fitted shirts w/o worrying about my stomach showing. Never mind sitting pool side, and being able to relax.

I have been researching this site for quite some time, and have gained some very valuable information. I have my consult scheduled for the end of Feb. @ Jacobi Medical Center in Ny. I was considering Tijuana, but don't think I could be away from my babies for that long.

I'm so nervous. What should I expect? What ?'s do I ask. Has anyone else done this with a baby? I'm hoping they can do TT with some lipo. I'm debating if I want a breast lift, but will inquire about that when I go. Can't wait.... the count down is on to an Improved me! I'll be taking pictures later in the week. That will be the hard part showing the world stretch marks gone wild.

I went for my consultation on Tue. 2/14/12. The...

I went for my consultation on Tue. 2/14/12. The staff, and the Dr were really nice. He said he can do tuck, and lipo of flanks and back - hour glass I'm coming back - I have to go back in a month, as the Dr. wants me to lose 15 lbs. I think I can do it, maybe with a modified Atkins diet. I am soo excited, however I'm encountering some hesitation. I keep hearing I shouldn't get it done, and that people die from going under. Is anyone else going through this. When I go back to the Dr. I will get the final cost and what's included. Will keep you guys informed.

I forgot to mention my consultation was @ Lenox...

I forgot to mention my consultation was @ Lenox Hill aka MEETH. I was able to get in to see them with in 3 weeks, and the consultaion fee was $50 as to 195 @ Jacobi.
Also I have included my Glamour shots! LOL sorry for any blurry pics.

Ok ladies I'm down to 197.3 lbs.Probably would of...

Ok ladies I'm down to 197.3 lbs.Probably would of been more if I didn't cheat all weekend - lol Looks like I may be down the 15lbs for my next appt. Thank you Atkins! Although I have to say I think this diet is harder than Child birth.

Ok ladies down to 193.8..... slowly but surely!

Ok ladies down to 193.8..... slowly but surely!

I got the Dr.'s I spoke to mixed up - I spoke to 2...

I got the Dr.'s I spoke to mixed up - I spoke to 2 @ my first consultation. My Dr.'s name is Dr. Malamet.
I'm down to 191.....
It has been so nice out here, I've been out and about. Started another job, it's per diem so not to bad. So I've been orientating - fun, fun -., on top of my full time. Anywho. I went for my consultation, and I scheduled for 05/25/13. I'm soop nervous, and excited all at once. I know it's a way off, which is why I haven't started bugging out yet - lol. The total comes to around 5204. The hospital requires me to stay over night, or at the hotel across the street with a private nurse. I'm leaning towards the hotel with private nurse. No that's what I'm going to do - hotel. This is an extra 1200, this is just an estimate, cause I haven't spoken with the hotel yet. Here's the breakdown:
TT - 800
Liposuction - minor - 500
Hospital fee - 1600
New York State Surcharge - 154.08
Anesthesia - 1200
Oh al most forgot the pictures are extra - 150.
All in all it's not bad at all, I feel comfortable with the Dr.

Uggggh! I'm getting a lil discouraged, or just...

Uggggh! I'm getting a lil discouraged, or just thinking maybe I should get a different Dr. I emailed him so ?'s and he has yet to respond. I emailed him 3/28/12!! I don't think I'm being impatient. What do you think?

Pre - op, and pictures are scheduled for 5/15, Dr....

Pre - op, and pictures are scheduled for 5/15, Dr. appt to get clearance is 5/11, and I'm down to 185 lbs. Whoot whoot! I'm going to continue to watch my intake, and try to lose some more of this weight. I want some input from all my real selfers...... debating if I should let my hubby drive back and forth from surgery, or if we should get a car service? Trust and believe I would much rather him drive, but I'm starting to think it's going to be a Holiday weekend, and we are traveling to and from Ct. What do you ladies think? How was the commute back home after surgery for you? Keep in mind I will be staying the night @ the hotel. so how did you feel PO day 1?

Dr. Malamet can't do the surgery. Got the call...

Dr. Malamet can't do the surgery. Got the call today from Victoria. So now I have to wait for her to see who can do my surgery, and then meet with that surgeron. I'm bummed!!

Got the call.... she has a surgeon that can do it....

Got the call.... she has a surgeon that can do it. I just have to go up and meet with her, and decide. Going to try and move my picture date up. Got my excited back!!!!

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laady 28 May 2012
hey everyone i know ive been mia for a minute esp to cmans3..how was dct parakh...i actually went through another dct wolfeld in the city and he went through my insurance company for the penniculatomy which is the same thing as the tt but withouth the tightening and it was denied but then he spoke with them and it was approved last week so im soooo happy now. but he told me that if i want him to tighten it that i can pay the extra 2gs but no more then 3 while hes during the penniculatomy and tighten it to give me that hour glass shape ....i go in on thursday to sign papers for the consent and to get my surgery date so im thrilled all over again
newmesoon (RealFriend) 28 May 2012
how are you???
sexysoulsister 23 May 2012
Hi, how's it going....looking forward to your results!
Lesley5005 22 May 2012
Hey honey, just checking up on you. How is the process going? Looking fwd to hearing from you. ;)
cmans3 7 May 2012
Thank you Tmonie, and sexysoulsister!
sexysoulsister 3 May 2012
Yes congrats on the weight loss, it's hard but you're doing it! Can't wait to see the results!
Tmonie12 30 Apr 2012
Good luck with you journey!!
Denell37 28 Apr 2012
Wow ur tummy looks like my old tummy....ur goin to look amazing girl!!!
newmesoon (RealFriend) 27 Apr 2012
belinkie & foster in may and then beam, castiglione & schreiber in july IF i can wait that long!
cmans3 27 Apr 2012
hey newmesoon I'm in the Hartford area too. Who are you consulting with? Thanksuniquelyoone
uniquelynoone 26 Apr 2012
Congrats on the weight loss!
newmesoon (RealFriend) 26 Apr 2012
great job with the weight loss! i'm in ct and just starting out with consults for a tummy tuck as well. (hartford area)
cmans3 26 Apr 2012
thanks pink vegas... I'm suppose to go for pre - op on the 15th, I will def. get a better feel @ that time, and if it's a no go. I'll be going with another Dr.
pinkvegas12 27 Apr 2012
I'm in Fairfield County
pinkvegas12 21 Apr 2012
Go with your gut, your body will thank you later. If he is not giving you the attention you need now, what is going to happen after you have the procedure. How a person does anything, is how they do everything. Let me know I you need a referral.
cmans3 20 Apr 2012
See how you feel with Dr. Parakh, hopefully you feel comfortable with he/she. Keep me posted!
cmans3 18 Apr 2012
@ laady glad to see I'm not the only one. Dr. Malamet seems really nice, and knows his stuff. I'm suppose to go get my pics done next week. I'm sure you will be able to get the surgery done, as long as your losing keep us posted.
laady 18 Apr 2012
Hey well actually today I was a little upset bc I'm supposed to see him on the 24th and they just changed him sayg that he's really booked w a waiting list, and now I'm seeing dct parakh. I've never meet her before but I'm a little disappointed bc I'm comfortable w dct malamet. And I take pix next thursday also
laady 15 Apr 2012
i myself have emailed him a few times since jan, and he only responded to one of the emails. I have just came to the conclusion that they are finishing up the clinical hours in surgery and cant respond. Also they rotate every 6 months so after june he is gone and another set of dcts come into the office that are selected for the program. But im nervous but im really looking forward to doing the surgery with dct malamet my fees came out to the same thing on my mr# and ive been sucking down slim fast 2x a day, eating salad for dinner, and going to the gym twice a day
laady 15 Apr 2012
hello cmans3, i saw dct malamet back in january and he wanted me to loose 30 pounds and ive only lost 15. i see him on the 24th next tues and im praying that he schedules the surgery for me as well
SummerGirlNYC 7 Apr 2012
cmans3..sorry to hear that your doctor has not responded to your questions, have you tried to call him? That's not professional at all, as taylor said that is a lot of cash to be kicking out!!! Let us know what happened
Taylor in NH 4 Apr 2012
I think the Dr should have responded by now...or at least said "I have received your question and will be in touch just as soon as possible." This is ALOT of $$ to not feel 100% comfortable w/the Dr.
cmans3 4 Apr 2012
yeah malibusunshyne.. you made it. I'm so glad you joined. How are you feeling?
Malibusunshyne 30 Mar 2012
heyyyy luv i finally made a profile as you suggested :) My surgery is this monday April 2nd!! im so nervous yet excited!!

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