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5'5 3/4, 133.2 lbs, 450cc's Mod Plus Mentor Unders 34A- Bay Area, Yee! CA
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My story is similar to many of the women here on RS.
I'm tackling a few things: I've grown insecure about my breast shape and size, and I'm blossoming into a man with all the hairs on my chest.
Before I had my son, I was a struggling 34B, but I was genuinely OK with that. After I finished breast feeding him, I'm now a not as confident A cup. I'd love to have my pre-breasts back but given that I'm going to spend a lot of money on a BA, I'm getting my moneys worth - Small D cup.
Next, I'd like to tackle all the hair on my chest (and chin for that matter) with electrolysis. I grew so much hair when I was pregnant with my son. The dr. said that my hair growth most likely stemmed from testosterone in my body during pregnancy and suggested that it may go away afterwards. One year later - the man in me is strong! The hair is fierce.
The aforementioned have really given my confidence a couple of blows. I'm actually embarrassed that I'm struggling in accepting my new body. I've always thought it to be wrong to pursue cosmetic procedures..and here I am.
I'm excited about having larger/fuller breasts. I'm anxious about the recovery process and telling my ANTI COSMETIC SURGERY family about my augmentation (after I get it). #whatevas
Thus far, I've had 2 consultations. An in person consultation with Dr. Kim in Beverly Hills, an online consultation with Dr. Ortega from Spectrum Aesthetics in Miami, and my 3rd consultation will be in person with Dr. Behmand in the Bay Area later this week.
Consultation 1:
Thus far, Dr. Kim is in the lead. His prices are crazy expensive but his results are freakin worth it. He exceptionally documents his work on YouTube as well as on his web page. He knows what he's doing and more than a lot of Dr's I've researched - seems transparent. I was quoted 10,250 for silicone gel implants with a lift in one my left. If I decide to not get a lift, then it'll be 1K less. I'm still trying to decide. Dr. Kim suggested MOD+ profile implants as high profile could look "gappy" on me.
Consultation 2: Dr. Ortega with Spectrum Aesthetics
This was an online consultation. I'm attracted to their prices (3500 for silicone implants) and for Dr. Ortega's work documented on the website. I was advised that if I pursue high profile silicone implants of 400ccs or greater, I wouldn't need a lift. I'm not sure high profile is what I want though. Meh.. I want to look more natural and I'm wondering if that profile will look natural on me. I'll reach out to him again to inquire on mod+ profile. Actually, I should add, I'm not communicating directly with Dr. Ortega but rather his coordinator. She's sort of like a liaison between the patient and Dr. O. Spectrum A. is totally affordable and legit BUT a lot is compromised as there's really no patient Dr. relationship and they are so busy. I'm a paranoid human being, I need my Dr. available all the time. I won't get that with Spectrum. So they are sort of on the bottom of my list...for now.
3rd Consultation:
Dr. Behman in Walnut Creek, CA. He's fairly close to me and would be the best option geographically. His documented work on his website is impressive. I just wish I could see more photos. I'll update ya'll after meeting with him. He's also the only physician I'm seeing in which the consultation isn't free.
Bottom line - I'm getting my new bweasts...yes..bweasts in September. Just narrowing down my options.
I'm tackling a few things: I've grown insecure about my breast shape and size, and I'm blossoming into a man with all the hairs on my chest.
Before I had my son, I was a struggling 34B, but I was genuinely OK with that. After I finished breast feeding him, I'm now a not as confident A cup. I'd love to have my pre-breasts back but given that I'm going to spend a lot of money on a BA, I'm getting my moneys worth - Small D cup.
Next, I'd like to tackle all the hair on my chest (and chin for that matter) with electrolysis. I grew so much hair when I was pregnant with my son. The dr. said that my hair growth most likely stemmed from testosterone in my body during pregnancy and suggested that it may go away afterwards. One year later - the man in me is strong! The hair is fierce.
The aforementioned have really given my confidence a couple of blows. I'm actually embarrassed that I'm struggling in accepting my new body. I've always thought it to be wrong to pursue cosmetic procedures..and here I am.
I'm excited about having larger/fuller breasts. I'm anxious about the recovery process and telling my ANTI COSMETIC SURGERY family about my augmentation (after I get it). #whatevas
Thus far, I've had 2 consultations. An in person consultation with Dr. Kim in Beverly Hills, an online consultation with Dr. Ortega from Spectrum Aesthetics in Miami, and my 3rd consultation will be in person with Dr. Behmand in the Bay Area later this week.
Consultation 1:
Thus far, Dr. Kim is in the lead. His prices are crazy expensive but his results are freakin worth it. He exceptionally documents his work on YouTube as well as on his web page. He knows what he's doing and more than a lot of Dr's I've researched - seems transparent. I was quoted 10,250 for silicone gel implants with a lift in one my left. If I decide to not get a lift, then it'll be 1K less. I'm still trying to decide. Dr. Kim suggested MOD+ profile implants as high profile could look "gappy" on me.
Consultation 2: Dr. Ortega with Spectrum Aesthetics
This was an online consultation. I'm attracted to their prices (3500 for silicone implants) and for Dr. Ortega's work documented on the website. I was advised that if I pursue high profile silicone implants of 400ccs or greater, I wouldn't need a lift. I'm not sure high profile is what I want though. Meh.. I want to look more natural and I'm wondering if that profile will look natural on me. I'll reach out to him again to inquire on mod+ profile. Actually, I should add, I'm not communicating directly with Dr. Ortega but rather his coordinator. She's sort of like a liaison between the patient and Dr. O. Spectrum A. is totally affordable and legit BUT a lot is compromised as there's really no patient Dr. relationship and they are so busy. I'm a paranoid human being, I need my Dr. available all the time. I won't get that with Spectrum. So they are sort of on the bottom of my list...for now.
3rd Consultation:
Dr. Behman in Walnut Creek, CA. He's fairly close to me and would be the best option geographically. His documented work on his website is impressive. I just wish I could see more photos. I'll update ya'll after meeting with him. He's also the only physician I'm seeing in which the consultation isn't free.
Bottom line - I'm getting my new bweasts...yes..bweasts in September. Just narrowing down my options.
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UPDATED FROM MommyHighness
2 months pre
3rd Consultation - PS Chosen!!
Ok. I've ruled out Spectrum Aesthetics. Their prices are attractive but I can't undergo something so life changing and endure not being able to reach my P.S during my healing process. That would simply leave me in a panic. Nothing against any of them and I don't doubt the work done there is great!
Dr. Kim was my first choice prior to meeting Dr. Behind today. Dr. Kim's work is simply AMAZING! but guess what? So is Dr. Behmand's! The pictures in Dr. B's gallery online are amazing but not as many as I wanted to see.
My consultation:
I LOVED Dr. Behmand and I will be proceeding with him. While he doesn't have as many pictures as Dr. Kim online, I was able to view additional photos of his work in the office and just WOW. He is extremely personable, patient, attentive, and willing to answer any questions. He mentioned that a lift really isn't necessary since there's such a subtle difference in the height of my breasts. So no lift for me!
The office coordinator, Ashley is absolutely sweet and also willing to address any questions I had. Prior to leaving she gave me a darling notebook that talks all about the procedure, what to expect and so on. I will be calling her first thing Monday morning to schedule an appointment in September. I really want to get the dang thing now but I want to give myself one more month to process this and slowly prep my home for my recovery.
I'll be back with my pre op appt details.
Dr. Kim was my first choice prior to meeting Dr. Behind today. Dr. Kim's work is simply AMAZING! but guess what? So is Dr. Behmand's! The pictures in Dr. B's gallery online are amazing but not as many as I wanted to see.
My consultation:
I LOVED Dr. Behmand and I will be proceeding with him. While he doesn't have as many pictures as Dr. Kim online, I was able to view additional photos of his work in the office and just WOW. He is extremely personable, patient, attentive, and willing to answer any questions. He mentioned that a lift really isn't necessary since there's such a subtle difference in the height of my breasts. So no lift for me!
The office coordinator, Ashley is absolutely sweet and also willing to address any questions I had. Prior to leaving she gave me a darling notebook that talks all about the procedure, what to expect and so on. I will be calling her first thing Monday morning to schedule an appointment in September. I really want to get the dang thing now but I want to give myself one more month to process this and slowly prep my home for my recovery.
I'll be back with my pre op appt details.
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July 28, 2015
You are doing a wonderful job with your research! I'm certain it will pay off in the end. You might consider joining the September 2015 breast augmentation surgery forum to see if you can find a surgery buddy. Let me know if I can link your doctor to your review for you!
July 29, 2015
Thank you Beth! Yes, can you please link him for me! Ramin Behmand, MD in Walnut Creek.
UPDATED FROM MommyHighness
2 months pre
I didn't ask for butterflys
Since picking the PS I will be moving forward with, I've grown nervous and anxious. I'm still dealing with copious amounts of guilt for wanting to change my body.
I'm also feeling a bit sad. I don't have much support around me on my decision to get a BA other than my boyfriend. I have one sis who isn't for it, but promised to support me when I go through with it. My mother and two other sisters will be furious and I plan on telling them about it after my operation.
I just wish I had more support, that's all.
I'm going to peruse the internets and start planning ahead as to what I'll need to be happy at home during my recovery. That will keep my mind occupied and less heavy.
If any of you have some tips on how to deal with the lack of support, please share them with me.
I'm also feeling a bit sad. I don't have much support around me on my decision to get a BA other than my boyfriend. I have one sis who isn't for it, but promised to support me when I go through with it. My mother and two other sisters will be furious and I plan on telling them about it after my operation.
I just wish I had more support, that's all.
I'm going to peruse the internets and start planning ahead as to what I'll need to be happy at home during my recovery. That will keep my mind occupied and less heavy.
If any of you have some tips on how to deal with the lack of support, please share them with me.
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July 28, 2015
Hi, didn't really have negativity on my side. Just a couple "but why" "you look good the way you are" .
But to be honest it's my body, my choice and my looks. If they're not going to support you then don't tell them, let them ask you afterwards when they notice. I had a bumpy road on my way to getting my BA done, and every bump my mom would say "maybe that's a sign you shouldn't get it done". But I was determined to get it done no matter the negativity. I'm almost 3weeks post op. And I LOVE my boobs I went to Victoria secret and got measured at a 32ddd I know it'll go down later but I really like how they look in my body. And let me tell you how my shopping went, I wasn't supposed to buy clothes but there was lots of v-necks and low cut shirts (that I wouldn't like to wear before) I liked so I tried on a couple and came home with bags full of outfits I'm dying to wear. lol
But to be honest it's my body, my choice and my looks. If they're not going to support you then don't tell them, let them ask you afterwards when they notice. I had a bumpy road on my way to getting my BA done, and every bump my mom would say "maybe that's a sign you shouldn't get it done". But I was determined to get it done no matter the negativity. I'm almost 3weeks post op. And I LOVE my boobs I went to Victoria secret and got measured at a 32ddd I know it'll go down later but I really like how they look in my body. And let me tell you how my shopping went, I wasn't supposed to buy clothes but there was lots of v-necks and low cut shirts (that I wouldn't like to wear before) I liked so I tried on a couple and came home with bags full of outfits I'm dying to wear. lol
July 28, 2015
My suggestion to you is that if you really want this, then get it. At the end it's you who will deal with how you feel in your body. Good luck. Keep us updated on your journey. Xx
July 28, 2015
I am so sorry you're not getting the support you need and deserve! While I have had a lot of support from various friends and family, one of the most important people does not support me. It is my mom and she just doesn't understand. She thinks I just got big fake-looking jugs, didn't research the procedure or my doctor, and that I just decided to get them on a whim.
Despite trying to explain all this to her she just doesn't agree with it. I'm 5 days post op and she still hasn't seen me. If she would, she would see how natural they look.
The best advice I have for lack of in person support is to utilize this forum and talk to all the women going through the same thing. Don't dwell on those who will be negative. Focus on how amazing you're going to look and feel after your procedure. Good luck with your surgery!
Despite trying to explain all this to her she just doesn't agree with it. I'm 5 days post op and she still hasn't seen me. If she would, she would see how natural they look.
The best advice I have for lack of in person support is to utilize this forum and talk to all the women going through the same thing. Don't dwell on those who will be negative. Focus on how amazing you're going to look and feel after your procedure. Good luck with your surgery!
July 28, 2015
Awe I'm so sorry for your struggles and lack of support!
I'm happy to hear your boyfriend is supportive and has loved you along this journey (:
My mom wasn't supportive and was very negative-long story short I live in az and she's in il....over the course of several months and telling her all I want is her support and if she has nothing positive to say then I won't ever talk to her about it....she finally pulled through right before my surgery and said she understands how badly I've wanted it and will support me. I know how much stress and anxiety that puts on you especially not having your own mothers approval.
I pray that over time your mom and siblings will be accepting and understanding or at least accepting of it.
I wish you the best and will definitely be following your journey. If you have any questions I'm here for you and I'm sure soon enough a lot of women will be commenting on your post saying the same thing :*
I'm happy to hear your boyfriend is supportive and has loved you along this journey (:
My mom wasn't supportive and was very negative-long story short I live in az and she's in il....over the course of several months and telling her all I want is her support and if she has nothing positive to say then I won't ever talk to her about it....she finally pulled through right before my surgery and said she understands how badly I've wanted it and will support me. I know how much stress and anxiety that puts on you especially not having your own mothers approval.
I pray that over time your mom and siblings will be accepting and understanding or at least accepting of it.
I wish you the best and will definitely be following your journey. If you have any questions I'm here for you and I'm sure soon enough a lot of women will be commenting on your post saying the same thing :*
July 28, 2015
Just remember this is for YOU no one else....well and your bf of course (;
But you know what I mean. This isn't to please anyone but you and to make you feel confident as a woman again ! As long as you feel sexy and confident again after this surgery that's all that matters(:
Don't hold back on Doing something just to please others. I know it's easier said than done especially since it's family but try not waste too much time worrying about them I'm sure they'll come around over time once they get where you're coming from.
But you know what I mean. This isn't to please anyone but you and to make you feel confident as a woman again ! As long as you feel sexy and confident again after this surgery that's all that matters(:
Don't hold back on Doing something just to please others. I know it's easier said than done especially since it's family but try not waste too much time worrying about them I'm sure they'll come around over time once they get where you're coming from.
July 28, 2015
Just know that all your RS sisters are here to support you in this exciting journey! It's a wonderful experience and I look forward to following your story!
July 29, 2015
This site is amazing and like the other ladies said a true support network. I too have mostly no support network and have told very few people. The struggle with the decision in the first place and perhaps again even after the surgery (I continue to struggle) is one I think many of us here have been through and can share with you. Just being able to read the success stories and how all of us go through many of the same ups and downs has helped me cope
While going through recovery alone. My hubby is supportive of my decision but with work etc at the moment we only get a few hours together so not the support that I would like I have! I love the results from my PS but have some real post op blues that I have been dealing with - day 7 finally starting to feel better. Just know no matter you question or how you feel or what advice you need someone here will point you in the right direction or have been through something similar! No question is a bad one. Good luck on your journey - I will wish you success and pray for reassurance :)
While going through recovery alone. My hubby is supportive of my decision but with work etc at the moment we only get a few hours together so not the support that I would like I have! I love the results from my PS but have some real post op blues that I have been dealing with - day 7 finally starting to feel better. Just know no matter you question or how you feel or what advice you need someone here will point you in the right direction or have been through something similar! No question is a bad one. Good luck on your journey - I will wish you success and pray for reassurance :)
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