Thanks Ladies for a kind conversation,...now back to BBL preparations!!

Hello BBL sisters, A little about myself, I...

Hello BBL sisters,

A little about myself, I am a mother and a wife like many of you. I have two boys ages 13, 2. And I am a stay at home mom, which isn't always easy to do. What I enjoy during my free time is snowboarding, traveling, watching Korean Dramas, Yes I'm 4real!! Lol. Which is why I am taking Korean language classes. And I enjoy international cooking when in the mood.

Why I want a BBL, & eventually BA: When I was younger like in my twenties, I was very athletic and although I had a tiny frame with muscles, my butt was always on the small side, yet round. Well, after having my first child my butt grew like nobody business!! And I loved it!! But that azz didn't lazz!! to my surprised. Well NO MORE LADIES!! I'm getting my BOOTay!!

On the downer-side After having a difficult pregnancy with my 2nd child, my entire body just fell apart like a sack of potatoes, literally causing me to become depressed. Now don't get me wrong I know I need to eat healthier, and exercise if I want to have a long lasting banging body. So thats my current GOAL prior to surgery BECAUSE I DO NOT WANT A TT!! and from looking at my pics, I'm sure the doctor will suggest it, but honestly it's not that bad in person.

My Stats: 5'3" 177lbs of burger meat!
My goal is to be 138lbs before surgery date. Why so small, because unlike others I had a pouch at 127lbs. I have a natural tiny frame underneath all this blubber.

Ok, so I put down a deposit with Dr. Salama in June 2012 my original schedule was for March 22nd but I had to move it. Of course I wasn't thinking properly to to switch it with a RS member, as a result its schedule for Sept. Uugh!! But I'm hoping someone will cancel in June so I can go then. Well, my second plan is to go to Dr. Yily, so now I'm waiting for my quote, hoping for a June date 2013. But to be honest I need to see more of her booty work before I make a deposit. Right now I have only seen hips and thighs, so any Yily ladies out there, please show the booties. I would truly be grateful.

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Help me guys!! Would you use two differ doctors to...

Help me guys!! Would you use two differ doctors to get results. I want a big butt, and a nice contour. I am torn between dr salama and dr Yily. wondering if I should use both doctors? If so, should I get butt done first or Lipo first? And how long must I wait to have a 2nd round, if need be.

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Dr Yily??!... Would you use too differ doctors to...

Dr Yily??!... Would you use too differ doctors to get results. I want a big butt, and a nice contour. I am torn between dr salama and dr Yily. wondering if I should use both doctors? If so, should I get butt done first or Lipo first? And how long must I wait to have a 2nd round, if need be.

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AnyOne Getting BA in DR!? Or has had it done with bbl

AnyOne Getting BA in DR!? Or has had it done with bbl

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Those Korean dramas are pretty good. Kim Sung-Soo is my Korean baby daddy. MMMM! SO fine! lol! Does Salama do a BA and BBL at once?
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I'm getting a Bbl and BA in DR.
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Cabral IMO does the best BL in DR. I just wouldn't get any other work done by him because of his previous history. If I were you I would just stick with Salama. Yily can sculpt the hell out of a frame but I have yet to see her produce results like Salama.
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Ok, I'm sorry I haven't put up my pics, but I'm...

Ok, I'm sorry I haven't put up my pics, but I'm too ashame of my body, and I am trying to lose 35 lbs. As of now I'm still heavy 177lbs, 5'3".
Well this morning my hubby told me he put 5k in my bank account for the BBL. I am soo happy be cuz he told me he wasn't going to give me any money until I lose enough weight. And that I should schedule my BBL in the Fall. Hec No!!!

On another note: I am starting to pull away form my first choice, Dr. Salama bcuz his butts don't look proportionate to ones body, And I'm afraid my butt will look fake in the end. So, now my choice of doctors are Dr. J, Dr. Perry, and Dr. Salzhuer ( spelling is off). And they cost 4k more, in addition to travel expenses. That alone may push my surgery date towards the end of the summer and I would dread if that happens!

So, what should I do?... Does anyone else feel Dr. Salama butts are getting to wide? it seems as tho he molds his butts the same on all patients. No offense to anyone who is a patient of his. I'm just wondering if my eyes are deceiving me.

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You do have a good foundation. I wish I would've lost maybe 10 more lbs before I went in but either way I have lots of extra skin in my lower ab area and belly button. I do need a tt.. you don't look like u need one, your skin looks great. I love what Salama did to my booty. I went in with real expectations and he will tell you what's good for your body type. When he marked me up, he showed me the pics and said "I think if I do this and do that, then this won't look porportionate, so I'm gonna do this." I told him "You do what's best, you're the Dr, I havr Faith in you." Just talk and communicate with him and have faith. Good luck babe :)
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Thanks GueraBooty. See I'm afraid of lose skin too, that's y my hubby wants me to lose some weight first. Lord it's gonna b hard! I will start a weight loss journal next month. Cuz my legs and arms are Amess!! It won't look right with BBL surgery. But ur right about being clear to Dr. Salama. He does produce phat booties!!
i think yr foundation is good to start with!! and i think u will look great with lipo n bbl yr boobs r beautiful!! i do notice some of salamas booty are a lil wide but i think if u tell u dont want wide more bubble n projection i think he can do that. this was the only thing that shyed me away from salama was that all his butts kinda look the same BUT i had to keep in mind ALOT of grls want the salama projection butt. i think yr body will great n very lucky to have yr hubby telling u to get yr sx now. wink wink lucky girlie!! u really carry that 170 very i wont like yr pix looked like u were mayb 150 even less!!
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My question does NOT pertain to anyone's doctor...

My question does NOT pertain to anyone's doctor NOR any RS member. But I do wonder why some girls have more seroma problems then others, so I am trying to understand on an educated level, not by guessing.

Also, who else is getting stressed playing the BBL waiting game. I feel like I'm losing my mind that it is coming off offensive to others when it's not my intent. So, I may stop responding to blogs that aren't mine cuz clearly we can make a statement and people will mistakingly mis understand IN GENERAL that is. I mean, people aren't posting any more, afraid of their pics being stolen, or criticized....ect. DON'T get me wrong I understand how they may feel. However, It's going to happen no matter what. After all People don't have the same thoughts. And WOMEN IN GENERAL are known to be caddy creatures, we lash out over the littlest of things Unlike men. So my thought is, if everyone start removing their pics, which is a choice, what will real self BECOME!?

Because without Hardcore proof, it's just another here say ( he say, she say).

SOO MY QUESTION IS WHAT CAN ALL RS members do to make everyone on board feel comfortable to share their experience/ pics instead of Running after their procedure is done??

Cuz if this happens, REal Self won't be Real no more to newcomers/ Us

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THERE R MANY LADIES ON HERE I WANT TO THANK FOR...

THERE R MANY LADIES ON HERE I WANT TO THANK FOR BEING BOLD AND BEAUTYFUL, and I appreciate their in site on such a stressful journey towards getting a Dream BBL. Because of these Following women: FabNewMe, MadameEm, LittleBoyPink, Abettame, I'm sure there others but forgot their names sorry!

EVERY FRIDAY STARTING MAY 1st, I will log onto the board and post my weight-loss journey in detail with Pics. As I have mentioned, I am not happy with My weight and I noticed the less fat the better the results, and Healing process. Even my husband believe the more fit you are the better your end results will be. So, as difficult as it will be, I will be changing my eating habits, Drinking more water, no Soda/sugars ( I'm gonna cry), and exercise using my p90x, Turbo jam and weight lifting.

I gotta buy all my vitamins, post op workout drinks and protein mixers,. IM SERIOUS YALL!

My current weight is 177.4lbs, I just checked. My goal weight for surgery is 145-140LBS. I know that's about 32.4lbs

Now the parts of my body I want to improve before surgery is my BIG BAT arms ( I will post better pics so u guys can see what I'm Talkn about ), my cottage cheese legs, stomach ( its kinda saggy) ;( and a-little of my upper back, but not too much since its needed for my BBL. Hehee!!

If you have any suggestions ladies feel free to tell me. But please know, I'm doing all this the natural way as possible.

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Thank you for the shout out .Stay positive and don't let nasty minded people with issues change your mind in anyway. I wanted to curse out that certain person that kept pushing negativity but I decided to keep calm and move on and I'm glad I did. Ignore people like that and keep focusing on you because no matter what they say they never put even $1 towards your surgery, it's all you. Be confident with you are going with and remember you are going to leave there looking FAB !
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Good luck on your weight loss journey! I wanted to lose weight before surgery too but then I was able to switch to an earlier date and didn't have the chance... I'm still super happy with the results so far so don't worry if you don't lose as much as your goal!. Good luck with everything!!!
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u look waaay small enough to me for the surgery i'm lost
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Ok, so my husband doesn't feel positive that I...

Ok, so my husband doesn't feel positive that I will be able to lose 30 lbs prior to surgery date. Therefor he won't budge to make an additional payment on my surgery, very upsetting. And I'm kinda scared that I wont.

So who else is trying to lose weight within three months and what are you doing?

All I know is I want to have nice results and it seems the smaller I am the better the results/ or should I say the closes I am to my ideal weight which is 130-125lbs. Right now I'm 176lbs, and I need to get to 140lbs before surgery or my husband won't pay for my surgery. Such a downer¡

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Thanks Everyone for responding to my weight loss...

Thanks Everyone for responding to my weight loss dilemma. I guess there is a way if I work hard.

Unfortunately I have another one, although its not that bad, just disappointing. I just got off the phone with my hubby and he will not be able/ chose not to give me the entire amount $$ for my surgery. Meaning I have to find a way to come up with 3.5k Otherwise my surgery won't happen until Fall. Personally, I don't wanna wait, since i wanted to recover during summer months while my teen is out of school.

For those who are paying cash, how r u saving up. Like, I thought about selling my clothing( nice quality/New), etc...on Craigslist, esty, and EBay. I was going to sell my Apple Mac OX Gen3 that I've used in college but my bfriend said not too... Has anyone tried it with success?

I'm a stay at home my with no family nearby, so I'm limited. And my hubby won't let me work until my youngest is old enough to start pre-K.

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I wish I could take phentermine but I can't. It makes my heart race like crazy!! HCG diet I've heard of, but wouldn't know where to buy it.
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Try hcgdiet.com they have different bundles depending on how much u wanna loose
Im taking phentermine...but its not for everyone and can easily loose 30 in 3 months. I only take 1 month dose tho of diet pills...dr. s said it was fine for me to use to lose the weight.
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So, I went into the basement and fixed it up a bit...

So, I went into the basement and fixed it up a bit so I can exercise. I even pulled out my heavy desk top comp and set it up on a chair( no tv in basement) so I can play my exercise DVDs. I have weights, 5lb hula hoop, dum bells, medicine Ball, pull up bar,& stretchy bands. So that should be enuff to get started. Oh! I fixed up a spot for my two yr old to play while working out. Now I need to work on improving my eating habits.
Any who, I hope to get some pics up to show my starting point. Anywho Thanks for reading...

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I was 5'4 169lbs when I went in yesterday don't loose too much wait if you want a big booty
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@Hcgdiet.com Oh wow! Thanks I will check that out.
My friend did the hcg diet and lost 70lbs no BS I was shock she got hers from Walmart $20 but I use Phentermine I call them my scooby snacks

Ok, so I was on makemaeheal.com reading up on BA...

Ok, so I was on makemaeheal.com reading up on BA done by Yily, and I found a post which led to a site for Yily fans. Ok, I thought the girls site was nice but then on the left hand side, some Chica was posting Dr. Yily bank info like her bank acct# to transfer the money/bank name...., who does that. Very un safe and opens doors to HACKERS galore!!, & pay pal.....and although it may seem like a nice thing to do for those girls interested in dr.Yily, it may be putting her financial bank acct and those who are sending $$ to her in jeopardy. I think if you wana go to Dr Yily, just keep contacting her and be patient! Don't get desperate.. Anyway that's my two cent. And although I'm not going to Yily, I would hate for someone to steal my hard earn money due to personal info being shared to the world.

Be safe ladies!! I didn't wana post the website but for those who have paid, or are trying to pay be Aware!!

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MAKEMEHEAL.com. Sorry typo

MAKEMEHEAL.com. Sorry typo

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Not much going on. About to head out to create a...

Not much going on. About to head out to create a New Healthy Palette for myself and family. MY KIDS gonna b mad when they realize I threw out all the candy, and replaced it with fruits and veggies. Oh weLL! It will pay off. LATER girls

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@Mznewbooty I never thought of that, and your soo right. But not cool to post. I say private pm, but still they can steal either way. Just hope it doesn't happen.
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Honestly its not that hard to get her transfer information. If someone wanted to steal from her its too easy to make a fake quote request and get that information from her directly. Granted they would have to wait 2 weeks for a reply! lol But I understand where you are coming from mama. Just my two cents :-)
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Well, some people may think I'm being a Looney...

Well, some people may think I'm being a Looney tune, but I may be stepping down from getting BBL with Dr. Salama June 19th (nothing against doctor).


Why am I stepping down?
1. My body is not in great shape. And I know many women are concerned about having enough fat fo the grafting, but I don't wana have to try getting into shape after surgery and risk losing my new butt, Or complain about my results. Also, I wana take my time and do it Right! Cuz I'm struggling hard right now, so I don't believe I will be ready in time.

TRULY, My legs and Azz are Amess, like dimple cheese whipping!! My arms are fat ( bat wing projection) just keeping it real. So, there is no way I'm goin into surgery looking like that. Cuz when I come out, I will still have dimple cheese whipping just with a bigger butt! I mean my goal is to look good naked, not just in clothes.

2. I want a motorcycle bad! Last yr I brought a used 500 Ninja Kawasaki but I returned it to dealer ( purchased but never left the store due to adding on modifications) and used the money to take my hubby to Costa Rica. And Although we had a Lovely time on our trip, I think I would have enjoyed my motorcycle much More! I'm a Thrill seeker! Sky dive etc...

3. I am signing up for a Transformation contest on bodybuilding.com as a form of motivation. And I will have a chance to win some $$. Which could go towards my Future BBL.

So, I have a lot going on in my mind right now. And I wonder if I'm doing the right thing by stepping down. Now, that being said, I will stay to support other BBL sistas, and I will continue posting my weightloss journey until I'm ready to get BBL.

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Let me add I paid my deposit last summer of $750,...

Let me add I paid my deposit last summer of $750, so my balance is $6,700. So I don't wana lose my entire deposit.

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I agree with you, you should do it when everything's in order for you. It's not good to rush or not be prepared for anything. And it would be good if you won $ from that site, pay for your bbl- it's like losing weight & getting a bbl for free- winning :) good luck
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@ LilLatinaBigBooty, Thanks for saying that, it makes me feel better about my decision. Of course I may not win enuff $$ to pay for my entire BBL, but some $$ is better than none. I'll still be happy!

Ok, So I decided to post my sloppy pics again. Lol...

Ok, So I decided to post my sloppy pics again. Lol... I want u guys to see the amount of work I need to fix (GET N SHAPE) before having surgery. Sorry for the ashy ness, I was about to take a shower. Hahaa!

Like I said before, I won't leave RS, cuz I want to keep a fitness journal going on here since u guys are honest/ great supporters. And who knows, once I reach my fitness goal my BBL will b happening!! Yay!

I will try to find old pics of me so u can see what I look like before I gained all this weight.

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Thanks Everyone, I'm starting to feel good with my decision although its disappointing that I didn't prepare well in advance. Really don't wana go through the entire summer with no phat Booty! Hehee! Ugh! Decisions decisions...
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Try the sacredheart diet, Im starting Monday here is the link http://www.idiet4u.com/diets/sacredheart.html Also, I think you would look good, I have seen way bigger girls and they look awesome! However, like I said before I understand because I want to lose 15 to 20 lbs! Girl go get your butt done you will not regret it!
I think it is great you want to get in shape and are taking huge steps in order to do so. I can completely understand the whole coming out with a booty but an overall not good shape. This is exactly why I am losing weight for my procedure and have scheduled it in late August to do so. I was with Salama, thought about Yily, but ended up with Agustina Hilario Duran and am really confident and happy with my choice. I think it is very important to have a good pre-op body so recovery won't be as arduous, and your results will be optimal. Good luck on your weight loss! :D
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Ok, so I'm seeing chicas get there BA done with...

Ok, so I'm seeing chicas get there BA done with their BBLs, and I'm liking what Im seeing but I haven't seen enough. So for those out there who plan on getting their BBL and BA together who are you going to and why?

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I think dr.salama or his partner dr.ghani(bad spelling) Is who i am going with. I changed from yily because lately her booty's are lacking in volume. She's a good shaper though. Dr. jimmerson is my third pick. Only because his price is high and all his butts are bubble butts. I like more Kardashin butts than i do venus&serena butts. If you want a high round butt go jimmerson if you want kardasin/jlo butts go to salama imo. I think every doctor have a spefic technique so figure out what your ideal butt shape is is most importante. for me i haven't seen any other doctors as constent as these 3. campos is forth place but he not as constent.
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I agree with nomoredisgust.. U look better than a lot of the heavier rs members who r very confident . U are beautiful so please see what we do :) I agree that salama giving everyone same wide bootiesto so elongated him from my back up list (team jimerson as of now).. Congrats on ur weight loss n keep going!! I've lost almost 60 on dropping the refined carbs, exercising 6x a week at least 1 hr cardio a day.. Drinking lots of water n don't forget to sleep! Congrats again :)
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Okay so here my 2 cents, I think your trippin! I have seen much worse than you get a tt,lipo and butt lift and come out amazing even after a year later when they have been hitting the gym. The operation will shape you so even if you lose weight after you stay in the shape just getting toned. Believe it! lol, now i know you don't want a unrealitic booty but thats all about choosing the right doctor( i think dra.yily or dra.robles would suit you) You want to be the size you are for surgery because they will be able to take out your fat cells(use what they can) and dump them. That way it becomes harder for you to gain weight in the area lipo'd cause you don't have as many fat cells there. just like if you got it transfered to your butt you'll notice afterwards you gain weight in your hips and butt because thats where your fat cells are now. if you lose weight it'll be much harder for them to get the fat cells out of unwanted areas. But if your still determined you can always try juice fasting whether partial or full juicing is great for your health and weight loss. I lost and keep off 20 pounds this way in 22 days. all together i have lost 40 pounds so if need any advice just email me. you know my email( drama fan chick)
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I'm not ready to get a BBL since there are soo...

I'm not ready to get a BBL since there are soo many concerns and possibilities of needing retouches etc...although I would luv to have a bigger butt. I just plan build butt muscles...lol. That being said, I'm thinking of just getting a BA instead, knowing I will need that after losing weight.
So has any one used there deposit for another procedure? Plus I can't imagine doctor Salama saying no! When their not going to lose any money. I would find it unethical if they did, and would seek legal service if so...just saying

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hey, I cancelled my appt with Salama and they said i can use my deposit for another procedure if I'd like :)
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Niceshape, Thanks for the reply, soo good to know. Now my next concern is he good at doing breast implants.??
That is true about different doctors and differ techniques. I have been reconsidering dr. jimmerson. But when I read about everyone's results good and bad, I began to question is it all really worth it since there is no guarantee. So I may just wait it out longer, like a yr and see how everyone does. In the meantime I need my boobies done. Lol
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I will admit I've been neglecting my family/...

I will admit I've been neglecting my family/ husband every since I've started the BBL journey. So my husband getting tired of it. He told me out loud, that he wants me to pick Dr. Jimmerson and lock in my price and get off of Realself. I told him I gotta give my bbl sisters support and he said, "why Don't u give ur kids some support!" He even said, "I don't care wha the cost is just pick a doctor!" Lol.. I guess it's getting Bad Ladies!!

Has this happen to any of you?

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As of today I'm stuck on Dr Salama and Dr...

As of today I'm stuck on Dr Salama and Dr Jimmerson. I have already paid a deposit with Dr. Salama and I was told I couldn't make a deposit until I have Consultation with Dr jimmerson in May that is. But I wanna make sure they won't go up on prices with me, since they already gave me my quote 2months ago. Yes ladies!! This is seriously no cool at all!

What's happening in GA!? Plus I'm sorry I don't like Tinys butt, so that was never my reason for flocking his way. What I like is he produce bubbles.

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I refuse to pay more at this point, so I will call...

I refuse to pay more at this point, so I will call Dr. Jimmerson office tomorrow. And see what they can do for me. Otherwise I guess A BBL ain't meant to be. Thanks Yall!

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Goodluck girly!
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I am in the same boat as you.. I am 5'2 and 158, I want to get my BBL in May no later than end of June and I want to be at 138-145 MAX... I keep telling everybody that I don't want to have these huge arms and thighs with a nice booty..if I'm spending my money I want to be happy!! I went to the store tonight and got stuff to put myself on a strict low carb until I can get my "life" together lol... Good luck to you!
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Ahh! I went through the same issue with Dr. J's office. And then I was attacked by women on this site for expressing my concerns. I agree with you about Tiny's butt. That's why I didn't chose him, actually. He has MANY positives with his technique, but I do not care for his overall shape he produces. Either way, you do what makes YOU happy! Pick the surgeon that you feel at peace with! Good luck, love!
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I've been online and I found soMe fully furnished...

I've been online and I found soMe fully furnished condos in DR but in the country side not to far from coastal area..I'm thinking of taking my kids with me on this vacation. But wonder about getting cosmetic surgery while there.
HAS ANYONE THOUGHT OF STAYING IN DR FOR A MONTH?

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Stay for a month? For what? You will get sick of that place after a week.
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sounds good but think about you cab fare back and forth because your american they might charge you a gripe.
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@searchingandsearching, I feel ya on that. I too wana look even all around. I mean who wants to have a bombing butt, waist for bat wings.. Lol. I gotta lose this weight before I get my bbl.

After conversing with my hubby, he said I can live...

After conversing with my hubby, he said I can live in DR for a few months. It'll be me and my 2 yr old. While there I wana check out the doctors and see who doing there thing with the BBLs...etc. I know a family in Bani, but I want to stay closer to the city of Santo Domingo area. Plus I won't have a car. More like a bicycle witha kids seat on it. Lol.... Thinking of staying for 3 to 6 months only.

This question are fir those who live there now, what areas are safest to live in? And do u know names of some condos to consider. I don't wana b too far from grocery stores/ shops/ parks for kids. What is like to use local transportation. And r there any fun activities available for toddlers?

Thanks u can PM me too.

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I hear yah, I think some people are a little confused on my request. I'm actually lookng for a vacation while there not really for the recovery. And I understand most wouldn't stay in DR long since many women here have jobs and so forth. But I'm looking to take my kids on a cultured vacation for entire summer. I just thought DR would b a place to consider especially if I'm getting surgery there. Just a thought. But I'm still researching...
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I don't think it is necessary to stay so long honestly. I think 13-14 nights MAX is more than sufficient if you are getting multiple procedures with a TT, and 10 days for lipo and a BBL. Of course everyone is different, and there is a chance you can have your drains in longer than another girl, but I don't think it warrants a month stay. I thought of staying a month briefly for recovery and also to get away for a bit, and a lot of condos have monthly prices that are good. But I don't think I will do so.
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Mayb I should stay in punta Cana instead of santo domingo
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Ok, I've been searching around like many of you,...

Ok, I've been searching around like many of you, and came across this plastic surgeon, his patients look natural nice and low TT. But more so he is board certified in DR and USA... Dr. Nelson Rubio. I'm not done researching him but wanted to pass on some info for those who may b interested. No I'm not Endorsing, nor do I know this doctor personally. Thanks

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Ok, so I called my dentist in Dominic Republic and...

Ok, so I called my dentist in Dominic Republic and he found me a 1 bedroom with full bathroom apartment, but it has no kitchen for $125 usd A MONTH!! I may have to buy a portable stove tho. ! Yes! A friend of his owns it ..in a small safe town outside of santo Domingo. He told me I should stay there until I find what Im looking for, if need be. So I'm grateful

Why am I staying for a month be cuz I want to explore DR, and hit the coastal areas later on. My kids are coming, just something to do with them before my oldest start high school. And I want to see how quick I can learn Spanish when forced. Lol I will keep u all posted since I'm not leaving until early June. And no I have not set a sx date yet. I will do that once I arrive! So if I need to stay in DR longer I will do so. Hopefully I will find another place to rent by then with furniture. But my family r simple folks, we don't need nothing fancy. Just clean and safe.

And while I'm there if anyone has questions about this and that, I can help you. I plan to visit Dr Yily and a few others while there.

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I'm going to vacation in Punta Cana get Fraxel for my face at Kur Spa in Naco and I want to get my teeth whitened, cleaned and some filing done the day before the surgery.. Can you hook me up w/your dentist or get a referral to one in santo domingo.. Oh, if you want your doctor changed pm Kirsty at Real Self and she will remove/replace your current doctor.. Glad you making it a family vacation.. LOL renting a stove.. I see you travel alot so you can adapt better in that kind of situation. Go Gurl....
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Wow a month! Thats amazing i wish i could stay a month. Santo domongo can be a lil rough especially if you dontknow the area so please be careful hun. DR is a beautiful country :) punta cana and la romana are mote touristy. I stayed in boca chica wich was very nice i enjoyed it very much and it was 30 mins or so from cipla or the downtown santo Domingo area
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I know I've pm a few on Dr. pantoja breast cost....

I know I've pm a few on Dr. pantoja breast cost. But $4600 seems high just for his breast work. When his BBL is less. Also, has anyone reported losing nipple sensitivity?

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I went to Pantoja. I want to say it's $3000 or $3500. No I haven't lost any sensitivity at all.
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I'm still going to DR in June and plan to visit doctors while there. But as of now, I'm schedule with Dr. Salama since I pay deposit last June. I'm just curious about other doctors, such a hard decision
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Wait your going to fl or dr?
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Ok, so I've emailed dr Yily 2 months ago, and Dr...

Ok, so I've emailed dr Yily 2 months ago, and Dr Duran late last month. Both responded but Dr Duran suggested a TT, which I am against, mainly due to un-natural scarring. So, when a doctor suggest that soo soon I become questionable about.....anywho, I am leaning towards dr. Yily as a result but of course my husband thinks I should stick with Dr. Salama or Dr. Jimerson since I want a full projection sized booty!

I will keep working out prior to sx, cuz I don't want no TTs coming my way. Mayb a mini. But not a full TT.

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Would you say you are still on the fence about what doc to use? Did Duran say why exactly she would recommend a TT for you? I am worried about the scar too because it is huge, but I feel like for me the benefits outweigh the negatives, and I have actually found a doc in nyc that does scar treatment and said he could do the TT scar and my breast lift scars at once over the course of a few sessions :D I was really relieved at that, so I am all in it baby!
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Babe... thnx for keeping the upgrade on your post. I value soooo much all the info. Btw i know hot it feels stressing on the back fat. But heyy you got the being a mommy part to blame it on.. im like 25 with no kidss and i just cant see myself in the mirror.. (afther weight lost just being worsss)
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I can't with the back fat. I am just like, back fat would you kindly GTFO? Cause that would be great lol. I have no kids either and am not feeling my shape, or lack of shape at all.

This concern has nothing to with anyone in...

This concern has nothing to with anyone in particular, but I'm started to wonder if its truly worth all the hype and temporary fame one may receive. Cuz the fame like any thing else is only temporary. I mean these doctors are making a killing giving us gurls these BBLs, which aren't always perfect nor to our likings. Only a small few come out 87%happy.

I mean, I'm not hating on a patient, nor doctor for getting filthy rich off of this temporary fix. But really, is it truly worth all the pain, dis colored skin, indentations, permanent scarring, irregular shape, blood transfusion, infections..... Hell! This is a lot of freakin money to not be guaranteed results we desire. Now I'm not talking about unrealistic dreams, but the ones the doctor promises you before you sign the dotted line. And proudly take ur money with a smile!

Yeah, a good sales pitch means Good money. Why else would customer service be important. It's in business to make money!! After all what's a business without Money!!..... Well, I don't know if I want this surgery is what I'm saying. I don't want to give away my money for something that won't last me 6 years at most. Further more I feel like a Guinea pig or more like a LAB RAT being experimented on. Soon to be! Lol...

Maybe becuz I'm getting my butt done for the wrong reasons. I mean, I'm married to a man who loves me and my body. ( before I became a phaty pooh) and why do I need attention from other men/women sexually that is, hec they won't give a sh#t about me once another Chica makes his/her Entrance. Hell! It's a vicious cycle to be honest. And How come more men don't get cosmetic surgery to attract our attention. I'm just saying.

Any way don't come up in here trying to justify sh#t about y your getting a plumped butt! Cuz I'm just like the rest. Im insecure about my flat squared Azz too...Lol...

I just don't like being taking advantage off by these so called God creating doctors. Bottom line is I want something a bit more permanent with less complications. ( ya! in my dreams) & No I don't want no Damn butt implants.. So don't go there!

Let me add, When I do see men looking at a chicks Azz, it's usually be cuz it's round plump shape, not be cuz it's big..

Any-who, These are my inner thoughts ladies, I just felt like sharing that's all. So don't get all personal be cuz if you do, then that tells me You have an underlying issue that even a big butt won't fix.
Share ur thoughts Ladies but please b tasteful. ( my grammar sucks, I'm aware. Hehee!!)

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Some people may think I'm trying to steer others...

Some people may think I'm trying to steer others away! But who am I to do that! I ain't God, and only the weak follows the crowd. But I think my concerns are fairly reasonable. I mean, I b a fool to not question certain things. But I need to be clear before I jump off the bridge. And, well, I'm just not convinced/ clear enuff to take the leap. Again, these are my thoughts no one else's.

So please don't call me negative blah blah!! And I will continue given my BBL chicas some support. Shoot! I still want new tits and azz!! Lol... I'm just trying o figure out the best way to get it without all the major complications and $$$.

THANKS for listening yah! Happy Healings!!

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Well, I am back to square one again. But I do...

Well, I am back to square one again. But I do enjoy reading post of other ladies which I will continue to do, until my day comes. Unless I find another solution or just chickn out completely.

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Yeah, gurl you gotta a lot of things to consider and your on the right track for looking at your motives for having elective surgery. All things are temporary including life, everything that I like cost money and sometimes I'm disappointed. All of us here want to look better and 98% of us are fulfilling a life long wish and a attainable dream so its hard to measure the value by dollars. Being thick from da waist down is a birth right and highly valued in our community and culture. Not having a butt is like a black person without rhythm. Where I spend my time and money is what is most important to me. These doctors provide an invaluable service to people for which they should be compensated they've spent years in medical school and have mountains of debt to help me attain my dream.. They should be fairly compensated based on their experience, results, location and notoriety. And I am infinity proud that I'm spending my bf's coins on a sister of color instead of a man... People do various things to maintain their sexy and feel better about themselves (make up, clothing, shoes, peels, botox, plastic surgery, gyms, hand bags, traveling, trainers etc..) in the course of a year what I spend on my procedures in DR would be about the same money I spend on anything I really want or like vuitton, chanel and longchamp bags... I like them and that's what I spend most of my money on during the course of a year, beside traveling and eating out.... I'm very glad this opportunity to get a bbl came in my 40's because I was NOT mentally or emotionally prepared for this in my 20'-30's and would have been for the different reasons completely. You know the old saying it gets better with time, that would mean my thinking and perception of myself. I'm glad you able to identify some of things your struggling with, because only then can we get the help that we need to move forward. Its and inside job is what I've been told... My outside need to match my insides and if they don't I will always be wishy washy about my beliefs and my behavior...
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Ice Cream I don't think you are being negative, I think you have genuine concerns and opinions and there is nothing wrong with that. I don't think anyone should get something done they aren't 100% sure on. I think overall shape is superior to just a big ass and a bad overall shape. This is actually why I am going with Duran because I feel I will get both a great shape and curves, where as with other docs they made me feel like they could only do one or the other and I would end up needing more than one round of work. That is not something I want to do at all, and I don't feel like it should be treated as a "natural" thing for doctors to do because if that doctor shouldn't HAVE to do a round 2. I feel like this shows lack of skill or treating girls like cash cows and not worrying about quality but more about quantity.
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After reading this I am defintely doing it overseas, Why? Cause everyone has a different body and budget and well the American doctors i was considering are making video vixen butts and well i just a nice natural butt. A think once the lipo is done than it'll make all the difference to me and adding to the butt and hips is a bonus. At a price i can afford I can have a flat stomach and no love handles for sure, I not going get myself sucked into these doctors hype while they jack up the prices and treat us like a number.
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Some Will Miss me others will say Adios! Lol.. But...

Some Will Miss me others will say Adios! Lol.. But I just can't take this BBL thing no more! I've gotten soo damn addicted to this site regardless of the drama! I have been neglecting myself, my kids, my husband and my house!! That is definantly a Major Addiction like Crack!!

Plus every time I see a happier person I start questioning if I'm going the right doctor..lol.. Or the other way around. And that ain't right!! Too me it's just as bad as searching for tha best hair weave! Or next best skin line product!! Or bleachn cream...JUST KEEPN IT REAL, U FEEL!

So, what do I plan to do before Returning back to hang out wit ma crazy Azz BBL sistas....Well, work on getting healthier mentally and physically, exercising more, and giving my family attention. So When I come Back, it ain't gonna b no more Non sense!!!
I'm going to be ready than Ever!!
Ain't gonna lie, I'm going to miss you All for a bit! Loll ...but I'll b back. And YOU BETTA WATCH OUT TOO!

Later girls!! Keep Tha Luv Flowing!!!

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HELLO IS ANYONE HOME??? I SCREAM YOU SCREAM WE ALL SCREAM FOR ICE CREAM YAAAAY!!! WELL IT WAS WORTH A TRY HOPE ALL IS WELL AND HURRY BACK ;-)
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hey are you out of rs rehab yet lol?
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Psssh! She never left! I caught her on two other blogs! Straight busted! She's one comment away from me whopping out the belt! lol

Former model, Cristina Garcia, accused a doctor in...

Former model, Cristina Garcia, accused a doctor in Santa Ana of deforming her buttocks in January.


CCSS treating two more cases of buttocks infections

April 12th, 2013 (InsideCostaRica.com) Two more patients are being treated in CCSS hospitals for infections in their buttocks after undergoing cosmetic medical procedures.



The information comes according to the chief of surgery at the San Juan de Dios Hospital, Eliezer Jimenez, after the death of a special education teacher who died on Tuesday due to complications caused by a cosmetic procedure to her buttocks, after spending 76 days in the hospital.



The latest two patients are being treated at Hospital Mexico and Calderon Guardia Hospital. Jimenez did not provide additional details on these cases, but reiterated that the situations were very similar to the one that took the life of Maidury Granados, 33, on Tuesday.



Granados’ complications began on January 9th, after she underwent a procedure to enlarge her buttocks. The procedure was performed by a person who was not an experienced plastic surgeon, at a clinic without the minimum conditions for such a procedure, according to Jimenez.



Granados was admitted to the San Juan de Dios Hospital on January 23rd, where doctors found pints of pus in her left buttock. After attempting to control the infection through drainings and other methods, doctors resorted to amputating the woman’s left leg on April 8th in an attempt to control the infection and save the woman’s life.



Nevertheless, Granados passed away on Tuesday, due to multiple organ failure, after bacteria contaminated her blood.



Francisco Segura, director of the Judicial Police, said Granados’ death is being handled as a criminal investigation.



Meanwhile, prosecutors are currently investigating three other cases of cosmetic procedures gone awry, including that of former judge, Elizabeth Tosi Vega, who died on September 23rd, 2011 due to complications from a cosmetic procedure she had performed at a private clinic in Tibas.



In January, former model Cristina Garcia accused a surgeon in Santa Ana of deforming her buttocks after injecting it with a substance. The case against the surgeon, for negligent injury, is pending in the Pavas prosecutor’s office. The clinic involved in that case was not licensed to perform such procedures, and the doctor had no specialized training in cosmetic surgery.



A doctor in Liberia is also accused of deforming a woman’s abdomen after performing a procedure to remove a scar from a previous cesarean.

To see the butt image of this young model, take a look, soo sad.

Anyway, I'm not secretly talking about any particular doctor but again this surgery is soo serious that its important to know your doctor. Just don't rely on other people to make your decision. Good Luck BBL sistas!!
Can't wait to get my BBL!! Heehee!!

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This is soo crazy and scary!! one women goes in to...

This is soo crazy and scary!! one women goes in to get butt grafting/ injections of fat but got silicone crap instead...ladies be careful!! Just don't go by he say/ she say alone. This is something we need be constantly aware of. It can happen AnyWhere!!

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CCSS treating two more cases of buttocks infections

April 12th, 2013 (InsideCostaRica.com) Two more patients are being treated in CCSS hospitals for infections in their buttocks after undergoing cosmetic medical procedures.



The information comes according to the chief of surgery at the San Juan de Dios Hospital, Eliezer Jimenez, after the death of a special education teacher who died on Tuesday due to complications caused by a cosmetic procedure to her buttocks, after spending 76 days in the hospital.



The latest two patients are being treated at Hospital Mexico and Calderon Guardia Hospital. Jimenez did not provide additional details on these cases, but reiterated that the situations were very similar to the one that took the life of Maidury Granados, 33, on Tuesday.



Granados’ complications began on January 9th, after she underwent a procedure to enlarge her buttocks. The procedure was performed by a person who was not an experienced plastic surgeon, at a clinic without the minimum conditions for such a procedure, according to Jimenez.



Granados was admitted to the San Juan de Dios Hospital on January 23rd, where doctors found pints of pus in her left buttock. After attempting to control the infection through drainings and other methods, doctors resorted to amputating the woman’s left leg on April 8th in an attempt to control the infection and save the woman’s life.



Nevertheless, Granados passed away on Tuesday, due to multiple organ failure, after bacteria contaminated her blood.



Francisco Segura, director of the Judicial Police, said Granados’ death is being handled as a criminal investigation.



Meanwhile, prosecutors are currently investigating three other cases of cosmetic procedures gone awry, including that of former judge, Elizabeth Tosi Vega, who died on September 23rd, 2011 due to complications from a cosmetic procedure she had performed at a private clinic in Tibas.



In January, former model Cristina Garcia accused a surgeon in Santa Ana of deforming her buttocks after injecting it with a substance. The case against the surgeon, for negligent injury, is pending in the Pavas prosecutor’s office. The clinic involved in that case was not licensed to perform such procedures, and the doctor had no specialized training in cosmetic surgery.



A doctor in Liberia is also accused of deforming a woman’s abdomen after performing a procedure to remove a scar from a previous cesarean.

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Ok, so many have asked me how my losing weight...

Ok, so many have asked me how my losing weight progress is going. Well to be honest no soo well. LOL.. I'm cheating too much, and every time I buy snacks for my kids I whined up snacking right along with them. It's that's bad. But I do know What I need to do inorder to melt me Fat.

1. Avoid most sugars unless its from fruit
2. stay away from fast foods! Such a crime.
3.drink loads of water daily.
4.Eat healthy low fat protein ( lean meat) which I have.
Two weeks ago I visited Costco's and brought skinless chicken breast, salmon, and sweet chile mauhi fish. And then I cooked it on my George Forman grill. I used dry seasons, but sometimes I may add some wine to the mix.
5. Eat steam vegetables and sweet potatoes. Do not boil ur veggies!!
So as you can see I know how to eat healthy, I just can't avoid the extra snacking.

Oh, I'm not exercising as I should but I will start soon since I have a wonderful buddy "Nomoredisgust" helping me out. Heehee!



Anywho, Good luck girls and I will start posting my pics this summer.

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Hey lady! Are u still going with Salama? My date is December 2 and would love to get to know someone before I go! Btw I'm also 5'3 about 175. But Cynthia told me not to lose any weight when I told her I wanted to go down to 150
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Girllll I feel your pain! I WAS attempting to lose weight before SX as well. I am down to less than 2 weeks before and actually managed to gain 4lbs... All I can do at this point is switch to low carb because I am down to the wire and continue it after as I hear its good for recovery anyway. But I do the same thing buy snacks for my daughter and eat them right along with her.. I'm still going through with SX now then if I go to Yily for a ba later this year I will get additional lipo lol... Anyway sorry about my rambling good luck on your weight loss!
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Hey, how's your weight loss going? I'm 5.2.5' and weigh around 172 so we're in the same boat. I'm trying 2 have my surgery around 12/12 and I wanna get down to at the very least 155. Are you having any luck with the challenge?
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The desperation on this board Lately is Sickening...

The desperation on this board Lately is Sickening to say the least. I'm reading women are getting infections by the high numbers, and people are afraid to point a finger at a doctor or Facility! You guys are paying thousand of dollars that many of the DR employees won't see in a month or two, and you think it's not ok to re-evaluate...

God forbid someone contracts HIV, HEPATITUS, OR Deaf!! WILL Chics continue to go to Domininc Republic...etc I won't b surprised! Sadly

I'm just saying what does it take to Wake The F#ck Up! Instead of assuming ladies who go over there, are being careless with there recovery! I'm sure their not stupid enough to spend $$$$ to come back home with infections on purpose. You girls need to stop, and face the facts of reality!

No I have not had my sx yet, but I ain't desperate To ignore RED FLAGS!! Money or no money, creativity or no creativity! Just saying

If anyone has any sense, they would be REPORTING THIS CRAP TO BOARD OF PLASTIC SURGERY IN DOMINIC REPUBLIC right Now... INSTEAD of saying I didn't get infected so I'm good.

You can get angry AT me for expressing my views. I'm cool. But think smart ladies! Or you will pay the consequences 3x. No big butt or skinny waists is Worth this type of ordeal. TO ME THIS AIN'T NO DIFFERENT FROM HAVING UN-protected sex! Because you feel you should Trust the individual with ur life 100%. Only an idiot thinks like that!

I'm really not talking about any particular girl, but I did use a quote from a girls blog I read today.

Truly, I have been feeling edgy about this place sometime now and I got tired of being afraid to Speak Up. I don't care if some crazy chicks Come at me, acting Bipolar...Sending me threat mails...that I would find Hilarious any ways... But open ur hearts and think wisely! Don't let know one convence you that What's Happening more so In DR IS NORMAL!! Cuz it ain't!


I pray for you All!

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I will admit I haven't done the greatest job of...

I will admit I haven't done the greatest job of losing weight in a timely manner, so that's why my surgery keeps getting moved, and my hubby wont let me until i do. But if I move it one last time, then I may not get a BBL.. It's as though I have personally lost all the Excitement I onced had in the beginning.

Now, today I went to Target and I saw this white chic..lol.. With a plump booty, and I know she didn't have no bbl, she was young. That maybe realize that I need to stop bullsh# ting around and get my booty done soon.

While I'm waiting, I keep thinking a better /less expensive doctor will appear before my eyes when I least aspect it. I guess I'm waiting for the right moment. Haahaa! Either that or I'm hoping to one day wake up with a Big Azz Booty!

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most of these women are trying to rationalize a bad decision. Saying that you can get sick anywhere is like saying you would rather save your money and live in the hood because crime happens every where so no one is really safe. Lots of people get killed in Beverly Hills too. lol Seriously though, this topic is pretty well documented and a higher risk of infection in countries like D.R. is very real. Also, think about the fact that other countries are not bound to American laws. You could be giving up your right to sue or take any legal recourse for that matter should something go terribly wrong. I can understand taking this kind of risk for non-elective surgery, but for elective surgery like BBL giving up your rights like that is a bit crazy. Don't get me wrong, there are places abroad with world class medical facilities but D.R. is not one of them. Please care more about yourselves.
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CurvyFly, you are on point! Thank you, I couldn't have said it any better. Overall, I'm glad we all could talk about this, kindly.
agreed curvy

I Appologize BBL SISTAS, but this is my Very Last...

I Appologize BBL SISTAS, but this is my Very Last Chance to obtain My BBL Dreams! And I ain't joking around! YES I HAVE FAILED A FEW TIMES, And I STARTED TO HATE MYSLEF for being lazy. MEANWHILE OTHER BBL sisters are making things happen.

I know I told you guys I was taking a break..lol. I meant off my blog. Hahaa! But during that time, my husband and I had a long talk about what Want out of life. And I told him I want to be Healthy and Happy like when we first met. I want to be brave and I want to follow through on self promises.

1. GOAL IS TO LOSE WEIGHT, SO FAR I only lost a 3lbs, and I'm not happy about that
2. Want my BBL before this year is out. NOW I COULD HAVE HAD MY SX THIS MARCH, THEN N JUNE. BUT I FAILED! I was not ready nor focused like many of you Gurls.
3. CONTINUE STAYING HEALTHY AND being there for my Two Kids And hubby.

So, On JUNE 5th I will be headed to Costa Rica, no more DR. I will stay a month on the CARRIBEAN side near PUERTO VIEJO for one Month! With No CAR!! My Azz will be riding my son around on a bicycle, and local transportation. And of courses walking most of the time.

YES! I'm scared, I won't lie! NO I DON'T KNOW ANYONE THERE, PERSONALLY. NOR HAVE I BEEN TO THIS LOCATION BEFORE. and my Spanish suck!!

LET ME SAY THIS COSTA RICAN TICAS HAVE PLUMP ASSES over there, and small waist. If you looking at plump Azzes all day, every day. WOULDN'T THAT MOTIVATE UR AZZ! Lol... I know it will motivate me, although its torture in away. Hahaa! I ain't no Funny Bunny.

I will be documenting with pics when I'm able to get to wifi areas. Cuz I won't no wifi in my place nor a darn phone. So, I removed my pics to replace new ones. SO Follow me ladies.

LASTLY, HOW DID I PAY FOR THIS TRIP OR SHOULD I SAY, WEIGHT LOSS TRIP. I Tapped into my BBL$$$.

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I Love you review and I NEW to RS Too much Drama love your comments and review Much Props!! Ice Cream 4 months ago Quote: "Doctors should really make us all go through mental evaluations and speak with counselors before having this surgery, because a lot of people on this site are just mentally unstable or highly depressed", "If you want to fight every day just join the army!" LOVE IT AND SOO TRUE!!
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Thanks Gurl! That sounds like a Great plan that shouldn't be hard to do, eating lots of fresh fruit and water Thru out the day & 1 meal?
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Good luck sweetie! We are rooting for you! Over there eat lots of fresh tropical fruit eat it most of the day with lots of water and then have one hot meal a day, walk back and forth to the farmers market and around the city. girl that weight gonna drop off you!
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