Does anyone have issues with feeling SELFISH?
- 1 year ago
I am new to this site. I am a mother of two beautiful children. Ever since they were born I have nothing for myself. I haven't even gotten a haircut since my daughter was born (3 years). My boobs are basically non-existent (barely AA cup). I feel ugly and unattractive. My husband does not look at me the same way anymore. He won't even look in my direction when I undress and has even said that he wants to "buy me some new boobs." I feel quite depressed about my appearance. I don't wear most of the tops that I own because they don't look right on me. I have just recently started playing with the idea of a BA. I don't want to go big, by any means I just want to have boobs again. Heck, I started out with A cup so I would be happy with just that again. I think the boost in self confidence would help me all around. Anyhow, I would feel VERY selfish if I were to get it done. It is so expensive. Has anyone else gone through this feeling of selfishness? Guilt? Any words of encouragement or advice? One more thing, I have yet to talk to my hubby about it. How can I get the conversation started? TIA