Husband loves me the way I am...
By cantdecide on 23 Jan 2013
I'm 32, 5'3" tall, 132 pounds. I am married to a wonderful man, who loves me how I am, which is a 34AA (maybe less?). We have two healthy children, whom I breast fed for a year each. I take great care of myself -- I work out 6 days a week for about 45 minutes. I'm blessed in many ways. I have wanted a BA since I was 14. I have worn silicone inserts in my bras since I was about 18, which are supposed to add two cup sizes, but only make me a 34B (so would two cup sizes smaller be nothing!?!?).
My husband, who means the world to me, despises the mention of plastic surgery. He says it's superficial, shallow, etc. He wonders how I can even consider performing an unnecessary surgery, no matter how slight the risk, for vanity. On one hand, I am fortunate to have someone love me so unconditionally, just how I am. On the other, it's something I have wanted for 18 years. 18 years!
Like I said, I am a 34AA, and my wish is to go to a full B. Nothing extreme. I'm a 'girly' girl, loving fashion, pink, ruffles, etc., and always have been. I just want to look like the woman I see myself as. We are done having children, so I have no concerns about future 'wear and tear' on my breasts. I haven't researched anything here locally, I am pretty sure we can swing it financially. Honestly, his opinion of me is the ONLY reason I haven't gone for it. Has anyone else dealt with a situation like this? Thoughts from this community?