Getting a BA is a huge step in all aspects including emotionally. This is where it's so crucial to have support from loved ones. Does anyone else feel "alone" after their surgery? My boyfriend is supposed to be my big supporter here and was the one who brought me to/from my BA, but I feel like he's having a rough time grasping that I changed something about myself and he's not looking at me the same. Just today I asked if he wanted to see them and he flat out said no even after I told him they're not scarred or anything. (I was actually admiring them today and how nice they looked)! Of course this made me really upset because (as I'm sure you all know) after surgery is rough despite my easy recovery. I haven't showered yet, no makeup, in the same clothes since yesterday and clearly don't feel like a hottie! Has anyone else gone through this and can offer some advice? I feel like plastic surgery is something that's SO difficult for people who haven't had it to understand. This whole time I've been feeling good about my decision but little things like this just make me really upset and feel awful.