You are 100% right. Priorities. Family first. I pray that one day you are rewarded with a little something for you. Don't loose sight of your dream but keep your eyes on the prize in front of you. You rock.
All the best. I think you will have a great result as you have a good body shape. Just the tummy. I am on day 8. Only advice. Stay ahead of the pain by taking the meds as instructed even if you don't feel pain at that moment. Also...
Im on day 7 of my tt recovery and also live in South Africa. Iam 45 and have waited 12 years to-ing and fro-ing (and saving) for this op. At the end of the day, your hate for the bulge/apron/fanny pack must exceed the fear and cost of...