My experience with Thermage was terrible. The pain was unbelieveably bad, and I have a really high tolerance. Also, it literally dissolved all my facial fat layer, and, after a few months, I looked like my face had melted . It was...
I was wondering who you went to, and what setting they used. I had a really bad experience with Thermage, with facial fat loss, but hadn't heard this about Fraxel before. I am sorry you had that problem. It is very disheartening.