Exceeded My Expectations - Should Have Done It Sooner! - West Orange, NJ
At around the age of 13, my nose began to take on...
At around the age of 13, my nose began to take on a life of its own. What was once cute in childhood took a drastic turn for the worse with puberty. I grew a large dorsal hump and the tip began to droop, leaving me with the feeling my unfeminine feature doomed me to a future of stirring large cauldrons of potion in the back woods.
As a young girl, I voiced my wish for rhinoplasty, but it was never more than a passing comment. The idea of “unnecessary” surgery left both my parents and me with just enough fear to push the idea aside - never mind the concern of how to find a really good doctor. At the risk of sounding very old, this was during the days when the internet was new and Google didn’t yet exist.
Thus, for two decades, I lived with my nose as it was, even as I felt inclined to give it its own name and introduce it as its own person wherever I went. I did what I could to shield my offensive profile from the eyes of the innocent and unsuspecting, knowing that once seen it could never be un-seen. Frankly, there was no conversation I could hold with a fellow human being where I was not conscious of the growth that made its happy home in the center of my face.
At long last, I had enough. At 33 years of age, after having found success in my professional life and being married the love of my life for nearly 8 years, I knew that any decision to change the appearance of my nose would be solely for my own personal psyche. I was fortunate to have the full blessing of my immediate family, and the fabulous support of Google.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience on RealSelf. We'd love to see your before and after photos! (You've got me really curious with your comment about introducing your nose as its own person :0) )