Help, my TT is Tomorrow and I'm Scared! - Virgin Islands
In less then 24 hours I will be recovering from...
In less then 24 hours I will be recovering from the procedure I have wanted for years. I have saved for it and changed my mind at least three times. I have been 250 lbs plus two seperate times and have the stretch marks and flabby belly to prove it... But I am so nervous; nervous about the hospital, the procedure, the recovery and the final outcome!
I am having my tubes tied and a hernia repaired along with my TT, so I have no idea what to expect. I am 32 years old with three kids (14, 11 and 5). I have struggled with my weight and self esteem for years, I eat well and exercise daily (or try) and still am not happy with my stomach. I am a firefighter and fear that my recovery will be hinder my job performance (I am taking 4 weeks off). My husband and my co-workers think I am nuts and tell me daily "you look fine for having three kids".
I have read the pros and cons and most of the posts about everyone's experiences and I am still on edge.
Any advice including things I should buy would be appreciated.. :)
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This is a great thing you are doing for yourself..and well deserved. You need to be happy with your body and only what you think matters.
It is a long recovery so that is wonderful you have a month off. Although it will take longer than a month to totally heal you will just need to see how you feel at that time. Everyone is different in the healing process but you do have a physical job. Maybe prepare yourself for some light duty for a while.
I am thinking about you and hope to hear from you soon with an update on your progress. You will do wonderful and also have a great support group out here on RealSelf.
Have a speedy recovery! Yeah for You!
Follow your doctor's instructions and let yourself heal. You will be much happier if you do.
Keep us posted.
Well it has been 2 months since my procedure and I...
This is one of the best things I have ever done for myself!
"You look fine for having three kids" isn't exactly what we want to hear, is it? Your nervousness is totally normal. And it's fine and good to read about everyone else's experiences, but when it's really YOU going through it, it's different.
Have you sifted through our tummy tuck forums at all? Kimmers wrote a great post called Tummy Tuck Survival Guide that you should check out.
Thinking of you today! Please let us know how it went and how you're feeling/healing.