Seeking Physical Perfection

I'm a married mom of a 6 yr old daughter. 5'7 126 pounds. I gained 80 pounds after getting married and giving birth as I was a housewife. For the first time since 16 I didn't have to work, cook, or run for taxies and trains being a former city girl. Fast forward, I've lost all that weight plus some. My poor bottom disappeared due to the massive weight loss. I would like to reduce my already tiny 24 inch waist to 21 inch and I'm hoping to have enough fat in my thighs and back to lend to my butt. I know that I won't end up with a traffic stopping bottom but any added volume would be a vast improvement.

I'm researching researching and trying to decide if I'm brave enough to travel oversees or stay here in the states. Also, I keep looking for a dramatic before and after pic with someone close to MY measurements. Again, I know that I won't achieve a huge butt but I want a noticeable chance in my rear waiste and thighs.
No offense but the DR docs appear to do great with big girls but my goodness they know how to snatch every bit of fat around the waist, tummy, and back! I've seen some decent work with Beverly Hills docs on thinner women and then there's miami docs. I've seen some pretty good work come out of there.

I have and have had the money to do any and all the procedures that I want but now it's a critical time for my company and I can't get enough time away to go through recovery and surgery. I'm starting to waste money doing mis. Procedures, hair removal, fillers, body facials. Things I don't really need but I'm restless! I really want to set a date for surgery and address several issues at once. I've now decided that I'd like to have a TT, thigh lift, and BBl all at once. The bbl is what I'm most nervous about because I don't have a great deal of fat. There are some places that I can pinch fat from but that would require the doc to try and source from back all the way down to knees! I've got skinny arms. No meat there. I really need something to fill out my bottom. It's completely deflated.
The TT I'm not worried about because it's really just a small amount of skin. The thigh lift, I'd like to stick with just a groin incision. Again, not much fat at all but certainly extra skin at the top. Having all three at once may not be ideal but it's better for me to just go through the healing process at once. I'd love to get bigger implants as well but it's only been 3 months since getting them done.
I'm still leaning towards DR for the sole purpose of the dramatic before and after! I have yet to see that with any US doctor. If there's one, please point him to me!
I'm aiming for a January date because I don't have the time now, summer wouldn't be ideal for the types of surgeries I want, school will be starting in September for my little one, followed by the holidays and for my industry (insurance) our busiest time of year! This leaves January as the best time. Don't know if I can wait that long!