Incision trouble - 3 weeks PO

Like most people here, I need some perking up after 3 children and weight fluctuations. I am 47. I was originally scheduled for a breast reduction and tummy tuck last April (2011)... but decided to focus on getting the pounds off first. After losing 30+ lbs its now a breast lift and tummy tuck. I wanted to have my thighs done too and lipo of the upper arms, but both surgeons I interviewed would not do them at the same time. (although I see that many here had it done). So now I am one month away and its time to quit smoking! Egad! The surgeon is adament and says smokers risk worse scarring and having their nipples fall off (seriously). 2 weeks prior to surgery I am to stop all medications, vitamins, even hormone replacement. Even more curious, I am not to shave or pluck anywhere on my body for 2 weeks prior to surgery. Either this PS is incredibly thorough, incredibly paranoid, or both. Thanks to all of you brave ladies who post here! It has really helped me in trying to mentally prepare myself. I will join in and take before photos when the date gets closer.

Well, I took pictures...and...how depressing! Even I didn't think it was this bad! Yesterday I tried to do housework with just a sports bra...my neck hurt soooo badly within 1/2 hour, from carrying the weight of my chest...well, just convinces me that I need to do this (the TT is a bonus).

23 days to go...getting really nervous.

I don't have a recliner, but I have a sectional couch with a comfy corner, so I bought a mattress pad made for an RV and a memory foam topper for it, as well as sheets and have lots of pillows. The trick will be how to get up when I need to.

Had my pre-op checkup with my family doctor yesterday, and today paid the rest of the fee for surgery (e-gads!)....guess there is no turning back. 3 weeks today. I am beginning to get very very nervous and second guessing my decision.