Thermage for the face —I don't recommend

I went in for a laser treatment and the nurse suggested thermage and said it would make me look ten years younger, but the results would always 6 months to really kick in. I do not look younger, I look older. After reading others reviews and looking at old pictures, I realize it is the thermage. Is there any fix to this? I'm tired of treatments not working, but actually making me look older after spending thousands is sad. How can this be?? My friend had good results under her eyes, so I wasn't skeptical and didn't do the research I normally would have. I don't wish there was a fix but I think the only fix now would be a facelift. BTW I am 44 and take great care of my skin.