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16 Year Old 28H . No Life and No Hope :(
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It's been a while!!
Hi guys sorry it's been a while since I posted I've been sooo busy lately. Good news though and I thought I'd share it with you since you have all been so supportive and I can't thank you all enough for the comments and help I've got! I've even made a new friend through this page. Anyway I got a letter through with the 7th of September as my consultation date. still a long way to go but it's just that bit closer to where I want to be!!! Any comments are grateful I can't thank u all enough use really have helped me through this more than you all can imagine !! :) feeling a lot happier knowing something's getting done about this once and for all
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size 28H age 16 and a half . (still pouring out) this site has gave me a lot more confidence to post pictures like this because from all the others I've read they have made me realise I'm not the only one in this situation
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It saddens me to read how depressed you are about your body. I understand what a pain it is having large breast but although they are large they are still beautiful. There are much worse afflictions so please do not let this consume you and keep you from enjoying your life.
I also had HUGE breasts when I was your age, and they impacted my life in many negative ways, including constant unwanted attention from men. I would advise you not to wait - if insurance covers it then get it done now. I had mine done at 55 and only regret not having it done a long time ago. You deserve to be free of pain and the mental/emotional discomfort of your breasts. Good luck!!
I totally feel for you - I was much smaller, but my breasts came in so fast and all at once and it was such a shock. I only wish I had a BR much sooner. Two things you want to seriously consider before you get the surgery: 1) this may impact your ability to breastfeed. You are very young and so may have children in your future somewhere =). Hopefully, you can find a surgeon who will be very careful and take this into account. Many women are able to breastfeed after reductions, it's just a matter of understanding the risk. 2) As big as you are, don't get your hopes up to be a tiny cup size after. Set realistic goals for your "after" image so you will be happy with the results and not disappointed. You will still be much smaller than you are - and again, if you can, find a surgeon who is on board with getting you to the size you want. I had consults with doctors who said they couldn't remove what I wanted, and then realized that what they were really saying is that they didn't feel confident removing how much I wanted. Other consults with excellent surgeons showed me that doctors will state as a fact something that is just their personal and subjective choice. If you want to be smaller, find a (board certified plastic) surgeon who has done large breast reductions and is confident in getting you where you want to be. I was so depressed after one consult when the doctor told me I could only have 350g removed. Then I went to several other consults who thought I could go as high as 650g! So, just keep that in mind and don't settle for a surgeon who isn't going to try and get you the best results for YOU.
You are definitely not alone, there are so many girls just like you who had breasts in disproportionate size to their bodies. I had two friends (one from high school, one from grad school) who had the surgery in their late teens, early 20's and both were thrilled and relieved when it was done. Neither had any regrets. Good for you for getting support from your parents and this community. Hang in there - it may take a while to get the approvals, but in the grand scheme of your life, even a year of waiting won't seem like much when you come out the other end and are happier with your body and in less pain and discomfort. Best wishes to you!
You are definitely not alone, there are so many girls just like you who had breasts in disproportionate size to their bodies. I had two friends (one from high school, one from grad school) who had the surgery in their late teens, early 20's and both were thrilled and relieved when it was done. Neither had any regrets. Good for you for getting support from your parents and this community. Hang in there - it may take a while to get the approvals, but in the grand scheme of your life, even a year of waiting won't seem like much when you come out the other end and are happier with your body and in less pain and discomfort. Best wishes to you!
Brastop.com was the only website that I could find my size at and the most comfortable styles were the curvy Kate. They are expensive and shipped from the UK so it might take a while but it was worth it!!
I know exactly what you're going through! I'm 17 now but have been pursuing a breast reduction since I was 15. Then, no doctor would take me seriously and I was forced to wait. I became so embarrassed of my body and would hide it at all costs. But I never stopped trying to get the surgery and I found an incredible plastic surgeon who believed that I was just as good of a candidate as anyone else, despite my age. Much to my surprise I was even approved to have insurance cover my surgery (with my age & being overweight I thought it would never get approved). I'm a week post-op and I couldn't be happier! Please don't give up hope!
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Okay so I've been on this page for a while now, i...
Okay so I've been on this page for a while now, i read SO many reviews every time I wake up in the morning and whenever else I have a chance during the day , I'm 16 and currently a 28 H which I spill out of, I went to my doctor last year after been thinking of this surgery for forever , who of course said I was far too young and apparently over weight. I understand my age is a big concern but for something causing me such a bother I feel like I should still fit the criteria. All of the reviews on here have made me feel a lot more confident to post and ask ANYONE for any advice on how to cope. I went back to the doctors this year to be told I fit the criteria and they were referring me to a PS . This does not mean I am certain to get a breast reduction right now but I'm glad this time I was given a second opinion. So now I'm waiting to hear back to get a consultation meeting. These bags of hell have cost me my life I can't do ANYTHING people my age do whilst enjoying it. I don't fit into any bra so only sports bras for me n they're not the best fit either. This is seriously ruining my life when will I ever get my life back :-( any supportive messages would be greatly helpful to me right now
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I understand your pain but there is hope!! Don't give up and let yourself get down. I know it's hard and it can become an obsession when you want to change something about yourself. First of all, how much "overweight " are you? If you have a lot of weight to lose, you will probably lose weight in the boob area as well. Second, don't give up consulting doctors. If you are THAT sure of your decision, follow through with it. The worst you would have to wait is a couple years and that would give you time to really physically (and maybe mentally) prepare for a major body change. Remember, if you get a reduction and continue to gain weight, your breasts will grow. They also grow when you have kids which MAY be why they want you to wait. Just hang in there and keep pursuing it!!!! It will come :). Sending hugs!
My bmi was just over average and had to loose only 3 pound and have now lost 1 and a half stone (which has made me really happy) I think this is why he has decided to now let me have a consultation with another doctor . I'm now 9 stone 1lb !!! Thank you for such a supportive comment people like you are the reason I'm not giving up hope!
I can see from your pics you are not overweight. Which probably makes it harder having large breasts :(
Keep up hope!! You are much too young to let them get you down. In the meantime try finding a good support bra to help you feel more confident. You will get through it!! :D
Keep up hope!! You are much too young to let them get you down. In the meantime try finding a good support bra to help you feel more confident. You will get through it!! :D
You will have the surgery! You will be fine!
Hun, I really feel for you. Before I had my breast reduction, I felt exactly how you do now. My breasts were ruining my life and held me back in so many ways. I was always in tears and so self-conscious. I had my reduction 2 months ago and now am a b cup and my life has totally changed. I really believe this will happen for you too! Hang in there hun :)
Hey, this is really a beautiful community of women here! I'm 19, and have been dying for this surgery the day I found little boobs blossoming on my chest. At my largest I was a 36 DDD. So never quite as big as you, but all the same a hell and torture so many seem to envy. I was on here for a year, just reading other people's stories and watching their transformations. Finally I got up the courage a month ago to get a consultation (never had before because I was too embarrassed to even show my little love sacks of joy to the surgeon!!) but boy oh boy, a month later, here I am 5 days post op with cute little b boobs that look too close to that of a Frankenstein creation. Whatever.
Anyways. I was so shocked. I didn't think my insurance would cover it, because I am overweight for someone my height (like 30 lbs overweight) and everything still went through. It's a weight, figuratively and literally, lifted off of my shoulders. You being a 28H, I have no doubt in my mind they'll cover you. Keep looking until you find someone that will. Plenty of surgeons are more than willing to do this surgery on young women. I've even heard the age 13 tossed around!! And I assume you'll try and go through your insurance?
Anyways. I'm 19 so I feel your pain. I had the largest chest of all the girls in my high school, and pictures of me make me want to gag. But even just days after my surgery I will literally put on a dress and not have to safety pin it. My favorite dress fits me and I cried when I put it on.
I cried the second I woke up from surgery I was so happy. I'm so emotional whatever. But you've seen so many amazing stories on here, and just know you absolutely WILL be contributing your story sooner than you know it.
Anyways. I was so shocked. I didn't think my insurance would cover it, because I am overweight for someone my height (like 30 lbs overweight) and everything still went through. It's a weight, figuratively and literally, lifted off of my shoulders. You being a 28H, I have no doubt in my mind they'll cover you. Keep looking until you find someone that will. Plenty of surgeons are more than willing to do this surgery on young women. I've even heard the age 13 tossed around!! And I assume you'll try and go through your insurance?
Anyways. I'm 19 so I feel your pain. I had the largest chest of all the girls in my high school, and pictures of me make me want to gag. But even just days after my surgery I will literally put on a dress and not have to safety pin it. My favorite dress fits me and I cried when I put it on.
I cried the second I woke up from surgery I was so happy. I'm so emotional whatever. But you've seen so many amazing stories on here, and just know you absolutely WILL be contributing your story sooner than you know it.
Ok, you need to get a plan together to get this to happen on the NHS as they are sooooooo slow hun. You need to be a pain and hassle you doctor as much as you can - make him/her aware of just how much pain and discomfort these big boobs are causing you, get them to prescribe strong pain killers (even if you don't take them, they'll be on your records that you need the) - you may even have to go down the route of having some physiotherapy. Can your Mum maybe go to the docs with you to back you up? To get anything done nowadays you need to be insistent. I had my reduction in April and I was a GG cup before so I know just how you feel my love. Hang on in there x x x
I have been to the doctors countless amounts of times about it honestly I break down every time :( my mum and even my dad have came in and I was finally told he would put me through for a consultation but even that can take up to 12 weeks to get an app, they have never once spoke to me about pain killers but I'm going to go back and convince them I need them, I've been for physio therapy for my posture as it is goosed because of my boobs :( !! I don't even care if they can tell me it's next year I just want to be a step closer to getting it done and know that it's going to happen. My auntie went to the nhs and they never ever gave her a consultation with a superior and she ended up going private with a man who was on the board to decide and he said if they had put her through he would have accepted her as a candidate . I just hope that doesn't happen to me ! Thank you for the supportive message this page is the only thing keeping me going right now!! [RS bleep]
It's so frustrating isn't it hun. For years I had to take strong pain killers before I went to bed as the back pain would wake me in the night and in the morning I'd wake up with pins and needles in my arms and no feelings my hands! I had 3 kgs in total removed from my boobs. I'm pleased you've got your families support x x



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