49 Yo Mom of 3 - Full Tummy Tuck, Breast Lift W/ Aug Revision - Southern California

Hello everyone! It's been awhile so I thought I'd update. Overall, I feel great. At 15 weeks po, i look good in clothes and nothing keeps me down. I am having some problems. The problems don't affect my daily living, but since I can feel them, they do keep me aware of my surgeries at all times.
1) New prob - TT scar ends and hip bone area started to hurt. They are sore when they weren't before.
2) My PS said my BB will need in office fix. It closed up a bit and you can see circle scar that should be inside BB. He saidbit will be easy fix.
3) My tummy still very tight. I cannot bend at the waist normal without weird, feeling like I'll pop something feeling.
4) My chest...had lift/implants under muscle. Surprisingly, this area most bothersome. Boobs still in my armpits. I can squeeze them when doing massage, but if I jump or try to make them bounce, they won't. If I slightly flex, they become odd shaped and hard as rocks feeling in my chest. I feel like the muscle just won't relax. Left side dropped more than right.
I am still happy with my results despite these problems, but I do hope they get even better with more time.
Remember I shared that my husband of 23 years (together 27) left me for his highschool sweetheart 9 months ago? I can tell you, with certainty, that that has been the worst pain I have ever experienced and still experience. It came out of nowhere when I thought I was the love of his life. :( I decided to have my surgery while going through this so that I would be physically healed prior to someday moving forward in life, For now, I focus on caring for my kids, healing physically and emotionally, and serving God as I walk through this difficult trial. I cannot imagine ever being with someone again at this stage, but I also don't want to be alone the rest of my life. We'll see what God's plan is going to be for me. :)

I bought "Hi-Waist Boyshort" Self Expressions by Maidenform. $14 at Target. Pretty comfortable without seams that dig in. Like the tag says, "Light yet powerful"! :)

Hi, I am 49 yo and the mom of 3 kids ages 21, 19, & 15. I love the Lord and have been a faithful wife and mother for 23 years. 24 years ago I had a saline breast aug above the muscle. I breastfed all my children and delivered all without having to have c-sections. Throughout the years my breasts had rippled and sagged. The rippling could be felt and seen. My stomach has also been my troubled area. Even when thin, my tummy was big. My husband of 23 years left me for another woman in August. :( I was and am devestated, but the Lord is holding me up. I have lost 30 pounds so the breast rippling even worsened and my tummy with 3 tires turned
Into 1 tire with wrinkly skin. My muscles separated after childbirth. My breasts needed to be redone since they were so old and problematic. Stomach was optional in my mind but I was always in discomfort with it and now that my husband left, I thought it would be a good time to do it as I am not dating and home with kids. I did read that you could get emotional during such a procedure and I figured one could not get any more emotional than I already have been. I am a strong person when it comes to caring for my children and strong in my faith that I am a child of the living God! I know plastic surgery is controversial in the Christian community, therefore I chose to leave this between my family, myself and God. I know my motives and they are not to show off...I did it for myself since I'm the only one who will be seeing the results. (Well me and all of you if I go ahead and post my headless pics!) I had a full tummy tuck, breast lift, along with implant replacement from saline above muscle to silicone under muscle. I asked to go a bit smaller than my original implants. I thank you all for your support through this! :)