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I did it!! 30 yo, 2c sections, 210Lbs. Dr. Arthur Turko
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Hello I am a 30 y.o. single mother of two and...
WORTH IT$8,500
Hello I am a 30 y.o. single mother of two and after two c-sections and weight loss, ITS TIME! I finally have enough money to get a full TT done in March. I am so nervous! I think my biggest guilt with going forward with the surgery is knowing if it is worth it. I am using all of my tax money on ME and i feel a little guilty. My life is at a good point, new car, new house, plenty of clothes and food and all bills are always paid on time. But why do i have this feeling inside that says no, don't spend the money on a surgery when you can just save the money and buy anything your little heart desires for the house and kids. The surgery will not leave me broke but I dont get why i feel this way ??? I will upload current pics tomorrow im at the office right now. Thank You all for your opinions!
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January 25, 2017
You sound like me. Just bought new house and feel guilty wanting tummy tuck instead of buying new things for my house. As women we always put everything before our personal needs.
January 27, 2017
Yes! With two kids I always find something they need, but it's OUR turn!! How can we feel good about people around us if were not happy with ourselves!
January 28, 2017
Im excited for you. I feel the same. I am in Bangor and just started researching. I am putting 1/2 of my tax money away for this. Do you have details on surgeon and cost?
January 30, 2017
Well the prices I have seen range from 8-9,000 in the portland, south portland area. It may be different where you are. I choose my doc because the consult was so lovely and he made me feel comfortable. Keep me updated!!
February 5, 2017
Because your worth it. You have done well to lose the weight on your own and now this is the reward. Sounds like you're a good provider so provide for yourself. Wishing you the best i'm going to be watching out for your review. This is my goal too.
February 10, 2017
Hi Reenajean, Thanks for writing your feelings, I can assure you that your not alone in how your feeling. I am having a full TT March 12th, then a breast lift to follow once healed & I am consumed with second thoughts & guilt about the money too. I am fortunate to have an extremely supportive husband that doesn't mind giving up our vacation money for me. He knows I have wanted this for 30 Yrs after 2 babies & a hysterectomy & both ovaries removed in 3 surgeries. I am left with a stubborn pouch. From what I have read your an amazing mom & provider so don't think twice. Good things happen to good people & remember when mom is happy everyone is happy. Take care & really look forward to see you on the flat side.
February 14, 2017
Thank you so much!! You are so right when mom is happy everyone is happy.... 20 days until surgery!!!!!!
February 15, 2017
Just curious...have you told anyone that your having tt surgery & how did they respond?
February 16, 2017
Oh yes!! I told everyone I know some of my closest friends stated they were "Jealous" my manager at work is totally against it and claims I am beautiful without it. My boyfriend has a "whatever you want" attitude but my mother was positive she said if it is what will make me happy "do it!" because if I dont now then I may regret not doing it for years to come.
February 17, 2017
I applaud your honesty. I have only told three close friends with mixed reviews. Thankfully my Mom is very supportive. However I'm extremely cautious about sharing my tt surgery since I don't want to open the door to negativity. I really don't want to have to explain my reasons to anyone. I think it's sad that women don't support each other better. I am so very grateful to be able to share, support & celebrate with all the lovely ladies on real self. I truly appreciate everyone's input. We are all part of a very group of strong beautiful ladies.
UPDATED FROM ReenaJean
2 months pre
This is the nonsense I have to deal with 5 weeks post op
Here are pictures of what I have to deal with now, I'm blessed to be able to afford this at this time in my life. I'm very excited to start the next chapter and enjoying my thirties to the fullest.
UPDATED FROM ReenaJean
2 months pre
5WKS Pre-OP
So I made my pre-op appointment and I requested that the surgeon be there so that I could talk with him and have my questions answered. I made a list of questions and concerns for him so i hope he is ready lol. I look at my belly everyday and feel like its a hopeless situation, what if my belly still looks big after tt? What if something goes wrong? Soooo many questions that have yet to be answered! My next goal is to quit these cigarettes so that the healing process will go alot smoother, guess my means of motivation is that I will be a sexy non-smoking mama after this!!! Cant wait!!!
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February 10, 2017
I am having my tt March 13 and even though my daughter is grown I still feel a little selfish. It is ok to pamper your self, you give so much to the family that we sometimes forget about ourselves. If you are happy your family will be happy and your confidence will be given a boost because if your anything like me spanx and cardigans are a part of your life you could do without. I hope you quit the cigarettes soon though because it will take longer to heal and can cause complications that you don't need. Keep in touch, I would love to see the after results.
Welcome to the community and thank you for joining us. You are feeling guilty because you are a mom that probably never does anything for herself. Yep, been there:) You deserve this so move forward with your head held high.
Get active in the Forums and make some connections with others going through the same process and thoughts.
I am glad that you are here with us and will watch for your updates.
I made that correction for you:)